Hi Janet What a great post. It will probably benefit alot of people. I would just say never give up on love; and you can't control when you will find it. I met my wonderful husband less than a month after filing for divorce,at a time when I just wanted to focus on friends, business and my children, and a man was the last thing I had on my mind.
From what I've heard from some of the best thinkers on the subject, wait three months before intimacy. After 3 months you start finding out a person's true self; and becoming intimate before then limits your objectivity. Anyone can be wonderful for three months
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