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Old 03-24-2012, 10:23 AM
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Originally Posted by Pathel View Post
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Advice from Dutchgirl: If you think you need help, go to a counselor.
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Response from Happinow: I'm not a basket case (yet). Just wondered if others felt more anxious as the move got closer. Want to make sure I'm "normal".
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Sometimes, dear Hap, your posts are not exactly "happy" and perhaps it is time to get some therapy. You could ask the therapist the questions you obviously are struggling with - having children and such.

We all want you to be happy - now and in the future. Your posts often don't come across as sounding too happy. A therapist could help you - and you could find out from a professional if you are "normal".

We are older, some of us. We have found out that money and material things don't bring happiness. We all wish you happiness...now and in the future.
Ummmm. Never been told to get therapy. I am a happy person it's just sometimes the goings on in the world frustrate me. Perhaps that's why I'm moving to TV, to be sheltered from all of the outside stuff. Based on what others are experiencing when making a move of this magnitude, I am coming to the conclusion that I am completely normal. Second guessing ones self is a normal reaction. As for children?? I love my daughter to death and wouldn't change a thing. If you'll read my followup on OP you may be better to see where I was coming from. Perhaps I didn't word it correctly. I was mostly talking about how the world has changed and our kids are taking the brunt of it. Now, I think I'll go take that Xanax so I can be calm and happy for the day!