[SALYBOW]

Chacha,
Good for you for having the courage to broach this subject. We as a generation were called the free love generation. Some of what our generation did was not healthy, but at least they still kept love in it. Many people today forget that sex is supposed to be about love. Very few people fall in love on their first date.
I have a very good friend here who does not "put out" and she has managed to meet a very nice gentleman who respects her wishes. They are so cute together and I believe that they are both enjoying their relationship.
Keep honest to your beliefs. You are so attractive and such a fyn person many men would be happy to just have a platonic relationship with you I am sure.