I just have to respond to Count'n the days, you're making me cry. We have 3 boys, sounds like about the same age as yours. We know the memorys. Our beautiful daughters adoption was just final last week! We only want the best for her. Coincidentally, I'm touched that you gave your heart felt parental advise. I've researched, and am confident, that she can be provided a wonderful life there. Where we live in central Ohio, is not nice in my opinion, I'm thinking, that there must be sports, and activities for my daughter to be involved in there too. . As far as amentities go, we don't golf. Ill have a pool, and how close is the nearest beach? A lot closer than here. I plan to be busy doing hair. If I joined a club, it would be a hair club. LOL.