[chachacha]

i personally am on that site and have met some very nice people...the down side is that it is very time consuming going through profiles of hundreds of men in undershirts before you find one in a tuxedo! i think it is better than hoping to meet a nice man at city fire...although i do love to dance there! for a few months i just hid my profile and only wrote to men whom i had selected, rather than answering letters from too many i did not have any attraction for...that is a good strategy...since posting my attitudes about celibacy for singles in my profile, that has weeded out a lot of the players!