Complaining is part of human beings nature beginning as when infants only means of communicating was to cry and whine in order to let people know how they were feeling. People complain for various reasons and I suspect even if they found themselves in Heaven they would find something to complain about.
Also as nature intended people are very different. as such they view situations differently and they expressed themselves differently. Likewise people on the receiving end interpret people's complaints differently. Depending on temperment from the sending/receiving the resultsrange from I feel your pain to some people are never satisfied.
Personally in most situations I have found it beneficial to hear out complaints even if I interprete them not legitimate because I either learned something new about the person or I learned something new.
I opine you decide
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