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Originally Posted by senior citizen
I was also confused by that statement as she had just posted in answer to my post that her original opinion was trying to be non judgemental but then she changed her opinion.........so all very confusing indeed.
The more we try to be "people pleasers" we simply lose ourselves.......
Everyone is entitled to their own opinions as far as I'm concerned.
Sometimes, we just can't decide.........or sometimes we can literally see and understand both sides.........that is a gift for sure.
Up here we are more plain spoken and don't try to embellish the truth of how we actually feel. Phoniness is one of my pet peeves.......so I try to just say it like it is at the moment.
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OH Boy.
Neither of you got it or get me. I was suggesting that neither statement was likely, and that George Zimmerman was unlikely to kill again and that Trayvon Martin had some bad things happening to him including his choice of girlfriends and being thrown out of school.
And the rest just kinda hurts. Being phony and people pleasing. I try to be honest and diplomatic. But I am from the middle of the country. Sometimes regionalism gets in the way of good communication.
Using more words doesn't always get the job done and it does help to read to the end.
And since I live here and have friends here and know their views and those views may differ from mine I try not to say things in a challenging or hateful way.