Unortunately, there are no set of words, that will comfort you and Leila.
No parent or grandparent will have to know the pain of losing a child.
Hoping the good times, will put distance between you, and the tragedy of losing Quentin.
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"It doesn't cost "nuttin", to be nice". 
MOM
I just want to do the right thing! Uncle Joe, (my hero).