One thing to be mindful of... Where I come from in MI, the pastors really wanted you to be committed to their church if you wanted them to perform a ceremony. They did not want to become known as "the marrying pastor," and some of them felt "used" when asked to perform ceremony for strangers, or even members' relatives who were visiting.
I'm not saying don't ask, but just be aware, or think about how you will ask.
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