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Geewiz
05-21-2013, 09:46 PM
Ennui has kicked in.
I miss laying in a girl's lap and having her bend over for a deep kiss, I miss chocolate malts after swimming (I can't drink them due to a bypass). I miss seeing important art for the first time....Picasso - Miro - and Mondrian ...with those color squares I stared at for hours. Laying on the beach in winter with Evelyn ---under a hundred blankets. I miss waking up with the expectation of new adventures...wondering what the day will bring. I miss not hurting. I miss holding my son and giving him his bottle and singing to him. I miss playing before a large crowd with a guitar so amped it was the sound of the gods. I miss coming home to family. I miss being young with all its mystery.
What do you miss?
glgene
05-21-2013, 10:03 PM
I miss not being able to smell (lost that sense [100%] 30 years ago).
Yes, I can still taste. Chocolate ice cream still tastes like chocolate!
Gene
graciegirl
05-21-2013, 10:32 PM
I miss the wolf whistles.
I miss not being seen by younger strangers. They look right through you sometimes.
I miss not hitting the golf ball as well as I used to.
I miss being able to run for miles like I used to.
kittygilchrist
05-21-2013, 11:33 PM
I miss the notion that everyone is loving and believing in somewhere over the rainbow.
redwitch
05-22-2013, 05:24 AM
I miss packing a lunch, grabbing a book and my transistor, taking off on my bike and just going for the day -- especially to any surrounding woods. I miss silence.
And I'm with Gracie, I miss being acknowledged as a person because I'm over 60.
tainsley
05-22-2013, 06:29 AM
I have accepted who I am right now at this stage of my life...not wanting to go back to my past...life is good for me because I am happy. The only thing I do miss are hugs from my kids.
De Lis
05-22-2013, 07:07 AM
I miss my children (terribly).
asianthree
05-22-2013, 07:11 AM
I miss that my husband can no longer do the things he loves because of his heart
stuckinparadise
05-22-2013, 07:20 AM
I miss being able to eat whatever I wanted and never gaining a pound.
DianeM
05-22-2013, 08:27 AM
I miss some of "what was" and am not yet used to "what is". This too shall pass.
I miss not being able to be as active as before (dang arthritis), but I relish the knowledge that I have from my lifetime of great experiences and the people whom I have met and lost. I look forward to more great experiences and more great people that I will meet, and, unfortunately, will lose.
BobnBev
05-22-2013, 12:51 PM
:cryin2: I miss that hole in the ground where the little white ball is supposed to go. Don't know what I'm doing wrong.:faint::MOJE_whot::1rotfl:
rubicon
05-22-2013, 12:57 PM
I do not miss anything because thankfully I am still here so that I am not missing anything:clap2: Yea!
Cantwaittoarrive
05-22-2013, 02:05 PM
I don't miss a darn thing. I embrace every step and every change life brings and do my absolute best to live in the moment with my eyes on the prize of life ever lasting. I'm grateful and thankful for all of life's experiences: past, present and future!
Mack184
05-22-2013, 02:08 PM
Andy Griffith..The Beverly Hillbillies..Fibber McGee & Molly. Back when radio & TV wasn't a filth-fest.
Happinow
05-22-2013, 02:36 PM
Not living within a mile of my mom and bringing her dinner or just popping in to see her. I miss breakfast at our little home town airport with my husband and my mom watching the single engine planes take off and land. I miss my daughter and being able to hug my little grand baby. Luckily, life here keeps me busy so I don't have a ton of time thinking about the things I miss. I enjoy making memories here. Life is good.
queasy27
05-22-2013, 02:42 PM
Boy, I had to give this some thought! I miss friends, relatives and pets who have passed on, but that's about it. I can't even say I miss my good health and youthful vigor, because it seems pointless to dwell on that. Nobody gets out of this life alive.
I try to live my life without three things: worry, envy, and regret. The first two are easier for me but I sometimes struggle with the third.
I'm no doubt idealizing, but I spent most of my elementary school years in San Diego and my memories are of warm, hazy days, my sister and I tearing around on our bikes with other neighborhood kids. To the park, to the playground, to the corner store. We'd pick prickly pears in the canyons and slide down the grassy hills on old pieces of cardboard. Go exploring in the runoff ditch behind our house, which we were forbidden to do. We'd be free and sweaty until twilight when everyone's mothers would start to stand on their front porches and shout that dinner was ready.
I miss kids today not having that. Play dates, really?
gomoho
05-22-2013, 02:50 PM
I miss the mother I am slowly losing to dementia.
DaleMN
05-23-2013, 09:01 AM
I miss the point. :doh:
CFrance
05-23-2013, 09:15 AM
I miss being the weight I was before five years of Tamoxifen.
Parker
05-23-2013, 09:55 AM
I miss not being seen by younger strangers. They look right through you sometimes.
I hadn't noticed this, but yes, yes...
kittygilchrist
05-23-2013, 10:14 AM
Missing you Gary...sup today??
Kitty
George Bieniaszek
05-23-2013, 11:24 AM
Of all the things I've lost;
I miss my mind the most :) HA HA
Seriously, I miss getting out of bed in the morning and not having all the aches and pains.
duffysmom
05-23-2013, 02:58 PM
I miss my Duffy.
lovsthosebigdogs
05-23-2013, 05:07 PM
I miss my Duffy.
I hear you on that one, Duffysmom. I miss those dogs that are waiting at the Rainbow Bridge and more than that, I miss my parents every moment of every day with all my heart and soul. Will I ever lose the empty place where that ache is? Sounds immature doesn't it? But I used to talk to my parents every day, even as an adult, and I can't get used to not having them around to share all aspects of my life with them. They were such great people. The nice thing is my husband and kids say they feel the same way, even after all these years.
CFrance
05-23-2013, 05:19 PM
I hear you on that one, Duffysmom. I miss those dogs that are waiting at the Rainbow Bridge and more than that, I miss my parents every moment of every day with all my heart and soul. Will I ever lose the empty place where that ache is? Sounds immature doesn't it? But I used to talk to my parents every day, even as an adult, and I can't get used to not having them around to share all aspects of my life with them. They were such great people. The nice thing is my husband and kids say they feel the same way, even after all these years.
LTBD, I'm afraid you can't loose that empty place. When they die, they take a piece of your soul with them. Still miss my dad who died (too early) in 1968, when I was 20.
chuckinca
05-23-2013, 09:43 PM
I miss Jan and Tony.
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Barefoot
05-23-2013, 11:16 PM
I miss the Political Forum. :duck: Just kidding Admins.
Schaumburger
05-23-2013, 11:44 PM
LTBD, I'm afraid you can't loose that empty place. When they die, they take a piece of your soul with them. Still miss my dad who died (too early) in 1968, when I was 20.
Agree with you CFrance and LTBD, I miss my mom who died 16 years ago at the all too young age of 67.
renielarson
05-24-2013, 05:42 AM
I miss a lot of things.
...I miss my daughter and family in Michigan and the house we built and lived in for 23 years.
...I miss my family, friends, and pets who have passed on.
...I miss the spryness, agility, and endless energy I used to have. I miss not being able to do cartwheels anymore and not being as fearless as I once was.
...I miss the corner drugstore and Five and Ten where I would sit at the counter on a stool and drink chocolate cokes, cherry cokes, or vanilla cokes and eat salisbury steak with my mom.
...I miss riding the bus downtown to meet teenage girlfriends and eat lunch in the Macy's Tearoom.
...I miss our Sundays at Grandpa and Grandma's farm 20 miles away where I would help Grandma harvest her garden, collect eggs from the coop, visit the hatchery, swim in the big round cow trough and sit on the tractor seat Grandpa had mounted on a stump and "drive" for what seemed like hours. I miss the smell of Grandma's house, her fried chicken dinners, cherry pie, homemade pickles, and getting water from the pump in the front yard. I don't miss watching her chop off the chicken's head.
Dang nostalgia!
CFrance
05-24-2013, 07:31 AM
I miss the Political Forum. :duck: Just kidding Admins.
I will miss Barefoot after Admin kicks her off...:cus:
BarryRX
05-24-2013, 08:04 AM
I miss the wolf whistles.
I miss not being seen by younger strangers. They look right through you sometimes.
I miss not hitting the golf ball as well as I used to.
I miss being able to run for miles like I used to.
Gracie, just so you can cross #1 off your list.........(please read in the voice of Joey from Friends).....How you doin?
skyguy79
05-24-2013, 08:43 AM
Of all the things I've lost;
I miss my mind the most :) HA HA
Seriously, I miss getting out of bed in the morning and not having all the aches and pains.I'm glad I went and checked past posts because I was about to post the same thing. Anyway, if I run across your mind, I'll be sure to get it back to you. Please do the same for me! :icon_wink:
Mindless in Hadley!
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