Everybody seems to love The Villages, I would like to hear what you hate beside

[diskman]

I started this thread on August 20, 2007 and it is still going strong
109,337 views:loco::bigbow::eek:

[Russ_Boston]

I started this thread on August 20, 2007 and it is still going strong
109,337 views:loco::bigbow::eek:
Yes, true. But a well placed pseudo bump doesn't hurt either:)

[KCinBAMA]

I started this thread on August 20, 2007 and it is still going strong
109,337 views:loco::bigbow::eek:

Thank you for starting it and keeping it going, it is one of the few threads that I have subscribed to. I know several have posted that this thread is unnecessary and should be closed, however, I feel the opposite is true. For an outsider like me, reading all of the information published by The Villages is like reading a new car glossy pamphlet - sure there are a bunch of facts provided, however, I'd also like to know what the people who actually drive the car really think. Not everything/everyplace is perfect and this thread allows those non-perfections to be published so everyone can decide for themselves if the negatives outweigh the positives.

Thanks again for a wonderful thread.

KC

[renrod]

LEAVING THE VILLAGES :crap2:

[momesu]

LEAVING THE VILLAGES :crap2:

You leave The Villages???? WHY??????
:shrug: :D

Suzanne

[BobKat1]

Yes, true. But a well placed pseudo bump doesn't hurt either:)

Pseudo bump. Good description. I like it.

[jblum315]

Big bump

[graciegirl]

bumpity bump bump.

I hate the seat holders.

Well, maybe not HATE..........

[2BNTV]

bumpity bump bump.

I hate the seat holders.

Well, maybe not HATE..........

Hey Gracie:

I remember that thread, "one fanny in seat equals being reserved". :)

[Larry Wilson]

A couple of points.
Don't know who lives here and who chooses not to live here. The Villages were compared to a college campus. No one said anything about not being able to leave campus.
Look at the number of posts on this thread. If you read them all, some you will agree with, some you won't.

[Moderator]

This thread started to stray too far into politically charged territory, so, according to forum guidelines, the related posts were moved to the political forum where that discussion can continue in earnest.

https://www.talkofthevillages.com/forums/showthread.php?t=45694

The above link will take you to the new thread in the political forum. Remember, the political forum is an opt-in. You have to subscribe to it to see it.

Now...... back to the discussion on likes and dislikes about The Villages.

[shrnc88]

Lack of Privacy! Lack of Privacy! Lack of Privacy! We chose to build on a "lake" so we wouldn't have someone directly behind us, but we didn't take into consideration neighbors who make it their business to know everything that goes on around them and intrude whenever we attempt to entertain company on our own lanai. 10 ft or a little more away from neighbors with no fences means you and your neighbors can see each other inside your homes. One of our neighbors told us what she saw sitting on our dresser!

We built in The Villages many years ago, when it was a friendlier place before Harold passed away. The friendly hometown atmosphere that existed at that time is gone.

We also built in The Villages because we were sold the premise of a PRIVATE gated community. We traveled 1/2 the year, and wanted that kind of security for our home in our absence. It didn't take long to realize that the only "perk" from being residents with a gate pass, is that it takes us longer to get through the gates. Perhaps if it were a true gated community with all the security that entails, our home would not have been robbed.

If you and your spouse agree to move here, may I suggest that it is a totally mutual decision without pressure. If one person isn't sold on the idea it can lead to a lot of resentment. In all our years here, we've seen that lead to disaster many times.

Call us grumpy if you want, but we are no longer brainwashed by the advertisement. I would suggest renting for a while first.

[graciegirl]

Lack of Privacy! Lack of Privacy! Lack of Privacy! We chose to build on a "lake" so we wouldn't have someone directly behind us, but we didn't take into consideration neighbors who make it their business to know everything that goes on around them and intrude whenever we attempt to entertain company on our own lanai. 10 ft or a little more away from neighbors with no fences means you and your neighbors can see each other inside your homes. One of our neighbors told us what she saw sitting on our dresser!

We built in The Villages many years ago, when it was a friendlier place before Harold passed away. The friendly hometown atmosphere that existed at that time is gone.

We also built in The Villages because we were sold the premise of a PRIVATE gated community. We traveled 1/2 the year, and wanted that kind of security for our home in our absence. It didn't take long to realize that the only "perk" from being residents with a gate pass, is that it takes us longer to get through the gates. Perhaps if it were a true gated community with all the security that entails, our home would not have been robbed.

If you and your spouse agree to move here, may I suggest that it is a totally mutual decision without pressure. If one person isn't sold on the idea it can lead to a lot of resentment. In all our years here, we've seen that lead to disaster many times.

Call us grumpy if you want, but we are no longer brainwashed by the advertisement. I would suggest renting for a while first.

Welcome to the forum. I hope you enjoy the give and take and continue to share your opinions. Have you posted before under another name?

[ilovetv]

Lack of Privacy! Lack of Privacy! Lack of Privacy! We chose to build on a "lake" so we wouldn't have someone directly behind us, but we didn't take into consideration neighbors who make it their business to know everything that goes on around them and intrude whenever we attempt to entertain company on our own lanai. 10 ft or a little more away from neighbors with no fences means you and your neighbors can see each other inside your homes. One of our neighbors told us what she saw sitting on our dresser!

We built in The Villages many years ago, when it was a friendlier place before Harold passed away. The friendly hometown atmosphere that existed at that time is gone.

We also built in The Villages because we were sold the premise of a PRIVATE gated community. We traveled 1/2 the year, and wanted that kind of security for our home in our absence. It didn't take long to realize that the only "perk" from being residents with a gate pass, is that it takes us longer to get through the gates. Perhaps if it were a true gated community with all the security that entails, our home would not have been robbed.

If you and your spouse agree to move here, may I suggest that it is a totally mutual decision without pressure. If one person isn't sold on the idea it can lead to a lot of resentment. In all our years here, we've seen that lead to disaster many times.

Call us grumpy if you want, but we are no longer brainwashed by the advertisement. I would suggest renting for a while first.

Your negative is why the Courtyard Villa is so popular. We love our wall around 3 sides in back. Nobody looking in, and nobody sticking their nose in when we have visitors on the lanai.

As for snoopy neighbors, ours are not that way at all (old f*rts peeking thru the blinds, looking for gossip material because they have nothing better to do). They are so active and busy outside the house and neighborhood that they have OTHER INTERESTS to occupy themselves with.

As for the home break-in and theft described above, there are security systems and monitoring available for that.

[Challenger]

Your negative is why the Courtyard Villa is so popular. We love our wall around 3 sides in back. Nobody looking in, and nobody sticking their nose in when we have visitors on the lanai.

As for snoopy neighbors, ours are not that way at all (old f*rts peeking thru the blinds, looking for gossip material because they have nothing better to do). They are so active and busy outside the house and neighborhood that they have OTHER INTERESTS to occupy themselves with.

As for the home break-in and theft described above, there are security systems and monitoring available for that.

Same here- lack of privacy seems to be a choice not a mandate

[CarGuys]

I would agree moving from 1.5 acre distances between homes that are 10 feet apart is going to take some time.

Of course I don't have to drive 60 miles to a Lowes anymore either?

Maybe why rick at 48 hour blinds is doing so well with Plantation shutters.

All give and take

Herv

[buggyone]

If you had wanted a completely secure community, you could have picked from any one of many, many gated communities in the area. The Villages has never been touted as a secure, gated community - and one look at the gates and "open" buttons would be your first clue.

If the privacy is an issue of being too close to neighbors, you could have bought a home with side plantings that block out the neighbor's view into your home or even tinted windows. I ive on a golf course, have tinted windows, and complete privacy.

Renting to see if you like it here is a good idea. That will give you a good idea of winter time residents and/or the summer weather.

Finally, even though most like it here, the houses do sell quickly so you can always sell and move elsewhere if you do not like it here.

[graciegirl]

If you had wanted a completely secure community, you could have picked from any one of many, many gated communities in the area. The Villages has never been touted as a secure, gated community - and one look at the gates and "open" buttons would be your first clue.

If the privacy is an issue of being too close to neighbors, you could have bought a home with side plantings that block out the neighbor's view into your home or even tinted windows. I ive on a golf course, have tinted windows, and complete privacy.

Renting to see if you like it here is a good idea. That will give you a good idea of winter time residents and/or the summer weather.

Finally, even though most like it here, the houses do sell quickly so you can always sell and move elsewhere if you do not like it here.

That is just what I was gonna say. Good post Buggyone.

[Cynbod]

We are lucky, we have lived in a town home neighborhood of Brooklyn for years. When we were looking at homes the closeness of houses was never a consideration. Now we have back door neighbors (lanai neighbors?) and we love it.

[HelenLCSW]

:agree:If you had wanted a completely secure community, you could have picked from any one of many, many gated communities in the area. The Villages has never been touted as a secure, gated community - and one look at the gates and "open" buttons would be your first clue.

If the privacy is an issue of being too close to neighbors, you could have bought a home with side plantings that block out the neighbor's view into your home or even tinted windows. I ive on a golf course, have tinted windows, and complete privacy.

Renting to see if you like it here is a good idea. That will give you a good idea of winter time residents and/or the summer weather.

Finally, even though most like it here, the houses do sell quickly so you can always sell and move elsewhere if you do not like it here.

[Happinow]

One of the big reasons we bought on a cul de sac with only 5 or 6 homes on it was for privacy. we have no rear neighbors and our homes are a nice distance apart. With a pool, we knew we would need some privacy. After all, we are not spring chickens touting our bikini bodies any longer! Actually, we wanted to spare our neighbors from having to see our chicken legs and sagging skin up close! :laugh: Seriously, this worked for us and hope you can come up with ways to protect your privacy too!

[The Village Girl]

One of the big reasons we bought on a cul de sac with only 5 or 6 homes on it was for privacy. we have no rear neighbors and our homes are a nice distance apart. With a pool, we knew we would need some privacy. After all, we are not spring chickens touting our bikini bodies any longer! Actually, we wanted to spare our neighbors from having to see our chicken legs and sagging skin up close! :laugh: Seriously, this worked for us and hope you can come up with ways to protect your privacy too!

That's very nice dearie, but not everyone can afford to live on a golf course, on a large lot, and build a pool. Many people come here to enjoy the lifestyle and are just happy to be here regardless of what lot they are on or what they have or don't have.

But we appreciate your input and will be looking forward to continued postings of your fabulous home, pool, hot tub, golf course view, and lack of neighbors. Always a joy to read your posts! :)

[janmcn]

It seems that the developers are more interested in squeezing in as many new homes as possible than they are in building more commercial space and additional amenities. Where are the strip malls, grocery stores, restaurants, bowling alleys, softball fields? What's going on with Brownwood? Anybody know?

[Challenger]

It seems that the developers are more interested in squeezing in as many new homes as possible than they are in building more commercial space and additional amenities. Where are the strip malls, grocery stores, restaurants, bowling alleys, softball fields? What's going on with Brownwood? Anybody know?

When there is a market for commercial space and it is financially feasible, it WILL be built-

[English Ivy]

It seems that the developers are more interested in squeezing in as many new homes as possible than they are in building more commercial space and additional amenities. Where are the strip malls, grocery stores, restaurants, bowling alleys, softball fields? What's going on with Brownwood? Anybody know?

There are buildings going up at Brownwood right now ... have you taken a ride down there lately to look?

Where do you expect all these strip malls, grocery stores, restaurants, bowling alleys, softball fields, etc to be?

[Happinow]

That's very nice dearie, but not everyone can afford to live on a golf course, on a large lot, and build a pool. Many people come here to enjoy the lifestyle and are just happy to be here regardless of what lot they are on or what they have or don't have.

But we appreciate your input and will be looking forward to continued postings of your fabulous home, pool, hot tub, golf course view, and lack of neighbors. Always a joy to read your posts! :)

Um....you seem to be a little jealous???? I'll have you know that my husband and I have worked VERY hard to get what we have. The thread is about what we like and don't like about TV and I happen to love where my lot is and my home is going to be. I was voicing my opinion about what worked for us as far as noise and close neighbors. Yes, a larger lot and a bigger home may not be for everyone but to my husband and I it's our dream. We are proud of what ever home we choose to build as others are proud of their homes. Be it Cottage homes, designer homes or premier homes they are all what each individual has chosen. We can't wait to join our neighbors and become part of TV. Our excitement has made us like kids! Sounds like you don't really like hearing about what other people are doing. I suggest with your attitude, you lay low because nobody is going to want to be around you. Hope your not my neighbor! We are happy people and enjoy hearing about what everyone else has built and their ideas. This is a once in a lifetime opportunity for us and we are happy to tell everyone about it! I'm not going to apologize for what I can afford.....

[Posh 08]

Um....you seem to be a little jealous???? I'll have you know that my husband and I have worked VERY hard to get what we have. The thread is about what we like and don't like about TV and I happen to love where my lot is and my home is going to be. I was voicing my opinion about what worked for us as far as noise and close neighbors. Yes, a larger lot and a bigger home may not be for everyone but to my husband and I it's our dream. We are proud of what ever home we choose to build as others are proud of their homes. Be it Cottage homes, designer homes or premier homes they are all what each individual has chosen. We can't wait to join our neighbors and become part of TV. Our excitement has made us like kids! Sounds like you don't really like hearing about what other people are doing. I suggest with your attitude, you lay low because nobody is going to want to be around you. Hope your not my neighbor! We are happy people and enjoy hearing about what everyone else has built and their ideas. This is a once in a lifetime opportunity for us and we are happy to tell everyone about it! I'm not going to apologize for what I can afford.....

I think you are OK with your post. Myself, I'm a little suspicious of the other poster. The "dearie" thing was, well kinda weird. A little too Mrs. Doubtfireish.

[Trish Crocker]

Happinow, I agree with you, you have a right to be proud and happy with your home. The other poster seemed mean spirited and, as you said, jealous. Enjoy your home..I can't wait until I get to pick ours out (ooops...did I say 'I'...I meant 'we'...we get to pick our new home..I keep telling Steve how much we love the Lily...and how 'we' need the stretching...as long as he gets either a golf cart or third car garage he'll be happy!

[Happinow]

Happinow, I agree with you, you have a right to be proud and happy with your home. The other poster seemed mean spirited and, as you said, jealous. Enjoy your home..I can't wait until I get to pick ours out (ooops...did I say 'I'...I meant 'we'...we get to pick our new home..I keep telling Steve how much we love the Lily...and how 'we' need the stretching...as long as he gets either a golf cart or third car garage he'll be happy!

Thanks Trish. We are not "braggy" people at all, just proud of what we have accomplished. It's a rough world out there! And the "Dearie" was condescending. I think we feel like you...can't wait to get there. We really like the Lilly too and will retour to make sure we pick which one is right for us. We will be living the best times of our lives!! Good luck with your new home build!

:):)

[pooh]

Honestly, it's easier to list what I like....but the question was about what I don't like. Hate is too strong a word for a community I PICKED to live in.... ;) What I wish I had and we are getting along quite well without one, is a golf cart garage. I have a large lot behind my house, but side wise, not enough room for one.

Having lived here for over 5 years, I can honestly say every house I've been welcomed in to is lovely. People have different requirements and desires when it comes to picking out a new home...you make a list of priorities and do what you can to meet your needs and desires.

The Villages isn't perfect, it's in actuality, a city and an active and thriving community. It's getting crowded some feel...well, there's more people here than in the past, but with this growth, more and more businesses are setting up shop, making it easier and easier to find just what we need...we don't always have to drive a distance for an item or a service.

It's a lovely place to live and frankly, I still am having a tough time coming up with something I'm not too happy about.
I'm stepping off my soapbox now...:)

[The Village Girl]

Um....you seem to be a little jealous???? I'll have you know that my husband and I have worked VERY hard to get what we have. The thread is about what we like and don't like about TV and I happen to love where my lot is and my home is going to be. I was voicing my opinion about what worked for us as far as noise and close neighbors. Yes, a larger lot and a bigger home may not be for everyone but to my husband and I it's our dream. We are proud of what ever home we choose to build as others are proud of their homes. Be it Cottage homes, designer homes or premier homes they are all what each individual has chosen. We can't wait to join our neighbors and become part of TV. Our excitement has made us like kids! Sounds like you don't really like hearing about what other people are doing. I suggest with your attitude, you lay low because nobody is going to want to be around you. Hope your not my neighbor! We are happy people and enjoy hearing about what everyone else has built and their ideas. This is a once in a lifetime opportunity for us and we are happy to tell everyone about it! I'm not going to apologize for what I can afford.....

I meant no offense, at my age, everyone is a "Dearie".

The thread is about what people don't like about The Villages. From your posts I understand that you do not live here now. The comments were about the "small" lots. I thought maybe you didn't understand that for some people that's what they can afford.

My apologies if I offended you.

[Happinow]

I meant no offense, at my age, everyone is a "Dearie".

The thread is about what people don't like about The Villages. From your posts I understand that you do not live here now. The comments were about the "small" lots. I thought maybe you didn't understand that for some people that's what they can afford.

My apologies if I offended you.

Apology accepted. I did take offense to Dearie! My grandma didn't even call me that! Anyway, onward and upward. For the record, I think many lots in Florida, in general, are very small. The state is such an attraction to so many people that they have to put homes close together so we may enjoy the weather, the palms, the ocean and all of the things Florida has to offer! In Upstate NY we have very large lots. I was unsure if I could live such a close proximity to my neighbors anywhere because we have grown up with much larger lots. I guess it's something I'll get use to. Afterall, we love TV for all it has to offer! Appreciate your response. Enjoy your home and have a Merry Christmas!

[mbikowski]

I agree with Happinow. We should all be proud of what we accomplished and where we are going to be. TV is a planned choice for us and I believe for others in TV. We will all have precious memories of where we lived and what is left behind. Haven't come across anything I dislike yet and if I do so what.
Vera and I are looking forward to another chapter in our lives and are anxious to do so.

Mike

[The Village Girl]

That's very nice dearie, but not everyone can afford to live on a golf course, on a large lot, and build a pool. Many people come here to enjoy the lifestyle and are just happy to be here regardless of what lot they are on or what they have or don't have.

But we appreciate your input and will be looking forward to continued postings of your fabulous home, pool, hot tub, golf course view, and lack of neighbors. Always a joy to read your posts! :)

Dears, I appreciate everyone's input but I fail to see where I said anything about being happy with what you have or being proud of what you earned in life. In fact it appears to me that I stated just the opposite.

I was simply pointing out the reason many people don't live on a golf course lot in a cul de sac is because they can't afford it. I thought maybe the poster wasn't aware of that. The topic was about living on a small lot. Maybe there was some confusion about "what I hate about TV" and "what I have".

I have found that many people believe that everyone who lives here is loaded with money and can afford anything and that the villas are simply "winter homes" and that simply is not true.

But let the crucifixion continue. :popcorn:

[mbikowski]

Please accept my apology this was not directed at anyone. Just how I as an individual feel. I respect everyone's opinion. I look forward to meeting all and sharing the excitement.

[Bogie Shooter]

Dears, I appreciate everyone's input but I fail to see where I said anything about being happy with what you have or being proud of what you earned in life. In fact it appears to me that I stated just the opposite.

I was simply pointing out the reason many people don't live on a golf course lot in a cul de sac is because they can't afford it. I thought maybe the poster wasn't aware of that. The topic was about living on a small lot. Maybe there was some confusion about "what I hate about TV" and "what I have".

I have found that many people believe that everyone who lives here is loaded with money and can afford anything and that the villas are simply "winter homes" and that simply is not true.

But let the crucifixion continue. :popcorn:

Time to let it rest, you apologized.........................

[The Village Girl]

NO, YOU let it rest!

[The Village Girl]

....when someone posts to drop something thereby bringing it to the top again? :icon_wink:

[CarGuys]

:icon_hungry:

Ok guys! I'm hungry!

How about no more Buffalo Hot Chicken Wings, No OutBack near Colony, No Heides HotDogs, No Quaker Steak and Lube.

I am going to miss my local hangouts when I move.

I hope to find some local rib joints. Hate is a bad word but I am dissapointed after three visits in not finding a Wing Hang Out!

All my Harley Riders may help us out!

[tippyclubb]

:icon_hungry:

Ok guys! I'm hungry!

How about no more Buffalo Hot Chicken Wings, No OutBack near Colony, No Heides HotDogs, No Quaker Steak and Lube.

I am going to miss my local hangouts when I move.

I hope to find some local rib joints. Hate is a bad word but I am dissapointed after three visits in not finding a Wing Hang Out!

All my Harley Riders may help us out!


All my Harley Riders may help us out![/QUOTE]

I'm sure the Village Nomads would know some good rib and chicken joints. You know us Harley people know how to eat good and have fun. When we get to TV the first group we will join is the Nomads.

" Get your motor running headed for the highway, looking for adventure in whatever comes our way "

[graciegirl]

:icon_hungry:

Ok guys! I'm hungry!

How about no more Buffalo Hot Chicken Wings, No OutBack near Colony, No Heides HotDogs, No Quaker Steak and Lube.

I am going to miss my local hangouts when I move.

I hope to find some local rib joints. Hate is a bad word but I am dissapointed after three visits in not finding a Wing Hang Out!

All my Harley Riders may help us out!

What are wings? They must be local to your area up there near Buffalo.;)

[2BNTV]

What are wings? They must be local to your area up there near Buffalo.;)


Here you go Gracie.

I believe this started in Buffalo, hence Buffalo Wild Wings.

Wing is a chicken wing section (drumette or flat) that is traditionally fried unbreaded and then coated in sauce. A lot of places, especially sports bars offer this type of meal.

[graciegirl]

Here you go Gracie.

I believe this started in Buffalo, hence Buffalo Wild Wings.

Wing is a chicken wing section (drumette or flat) that is traditionally fried unbreaded and then coated in sauce. A lot of places, especially sports bars offer this type of meal.


ummm 2B? I was just a funnin' a bit to Car and to SwimDawg.

and to you.

Gotcha!

[joanofarctv]

I hate the lines at the restaurants....but love just about everything else!

:22yikes:

[archerlc]

What I dislike about the forum: If you post something that is of concern to you, within 5 minutes you will have someone jump down your throat. It seems that some people can't wait to lash out at whatever you posted. If you have nothing to add that can be helpful why not just move on to a post where you can help?

[graciegirl]

What I dislike about the forum: If you post something that is of concern to you, within 5 minutes you will have someone jump down your throat. It seems that some people can't wait to lash out at whatever you posted. If you have nothing to add that can be helpful why not just move on to a post where you can help?

Archeric,

I understand your feelings about this, but remember, it is a place for people to post their opinions, which may differ from yours. Almost certainly someone will not agree with how you feel. That doesn't mean you are wrong or they are right. It doesn't mean that most don't agree with you. It does mean that many are not diplomatic and a few are just mean and contankerous.

I find that the anonymity seems to be a catalyst for speaking out without any consideration for others ....sometimes. And yet many people who don't give us a clue to who they really are, (a picture of themselves or part of their name) are very kind and logical and considered in their posts.

It is a new way to communicate, an internet forum and it has a little different rules than speaking face to face. I hope you will continue posting.

Kindest wishes,

Gracie. who sometimes disagrees and who is frequently wrong.

[momesu]

I hate the lines at the restaurants....but love just about everything else!

:22yikes:

From what I hear, give it another month or so and lines will all disappear as many folks who are here now retreat to the north once again.

Suzanne

[Barefoot]

From what I hear, give it another month or so and lines will all disappear as many folks who are here now retreat to the north once again. Suzanne

And the FROGS say:

:mmmm: Grrrrr I hate lineups
:beer3: Grrrr I hate lineups
:gc: Grrrr I hate lineups

Some year soon, all the Seasonal Residents (who own houses in TV and disappear up north for the summer) may form a Club. The SR Club may decide that all SRs should band together and stay all summer long! Can you imagine the consternation on the part of the FROGS?

No rotten tomatoes necessary, just kiddin. :mornincoffee:

[graciegirl]

And the British and some of the Canadians say.

I hate quews...How do you spell that??? queues? Cues?

[uujudy]

Re: the lines, queues, whateveryoucallthem... it's really no different than a beach community in the summer, or Park City in the winter, or a University town from September to June. The local residents learn to deal with it... usually. :wave: Heck, I've even been known to cook during snowbird season! It's true!

[anlashokna]

I love you guys...

I just posted the only negative post I have ever put on this site but someone wrote something negative about TV. He wanted to have his bass boat in the driveway, "tasteful art" in his yard and a fence around his property and is rethinking his wanting to move here because how dare TV not allow any of that. Anyway...got my dander up and I posted a negative comment! Then I came in here and read Kahunas post and now everything is back to being right with my world!!

And this is exactly why we want to move to the villages....convenances...we have em here supposedly but they are not enforced and the neighborhood has slid so far downhill its not funny. Month and a half...farewell crappy neighborhood!!

[anlashokna]

From what I hear, give it another month or so and lines will all disappear as many folks who are here now retreat to the north once again.

Suzanne

Ahaha...thats what it was...snowbirds! We visited 4 feb weekend to check out the villages for our upcoming move and could not believe how packed restaurants were!!! So this really is a winter month thing and not a whole year thing. Very good to know.

[kentucky blue]

I started this thread on August 20, 2007 and it is still going strong
109,337 views:loco::bigbow::eek:

When you started this thread,it seems it was sooooooooooooooooo long ago, that the "Dead Sea was only sick,your school had no history classes, and the key on Ben Franklin's kite was to your house."I might be exaggerating just a little,but it sure seems that long ago.:shrug:

[momesu]

Heck, I've even been known to cook during snowbird season! It's true!


:22yikes:

[gg]

I can not believe this post has been going for so long....I can not read 81 pages so I will reply to a few that I have read.

What do I like about the villages....everything

I did note that people commented about the restaurants and road being crowded in snowbird season but that is why we are able to have so many restaurants here...they make their money those 4 months and we get to enjoy them all year long. And compare the prices of drinks and dinner where you use to live...we have great bargains. The roads have been expanded because of all the traffic and again it is better for all. I love the villages and can't wait to be here all year long.

[bsliny]

We encourage people to be honest here. Honesty is not negativity. Although some people think it is. "Hate" is a strong word. It has been made even stronger since "hate" is now a federal crime when it comes to actions against people.

What i think is wrong and i don't like is when people come down to the squares
2 and 3 hours before an event And tie off chairs and put cushions on them And go off and then showup when the music or whatever starts WHY IS THIS ALLOWED :shrug::shrug::shrug::shrug::cus::cus::cus:

[Gat0r]

I moved here from Tampa Bay to get out of the "Rat race" Seems to me that some people are still in a hurry to get anywhere.I think speeding here (cars and carts) is annoying. A lot of people have brought their bad driving habits from other states and cities.We move here to slow down and enjoy ourselves.Everything is close by 10 miles more or less no need to speed.

[rp001]

The fact that the golf suppliers keep coming out with new and "better" equipment, and the pro shops are sooooo accomadating in having them in stock and able to fit you right now.A boy and his toys..LOL

This place is paradise, literally..I don't think ther is another setup anywhere near the size and magnitude as this is, anywhere in the world..I looked too..

relax and enjoy... you can't go wrong here..

[Golf-Tinker]

I think it's run its course. Shuffle it off to Buffalo?

[jgbama]

I moved here from Tampa Bay to get out of the "Rat race" Seems to me that some people are still in a hurry to get anywhere.I think speeding here (cars and carts) is annoying. A lot of people have brought their bad driving habits from other states and cities.We move here to slow down and enjoy ourselves.Everything is close by 10 miles more or less no need to speed.

I think you hit the "nail on the head"! TV is a lifestyle change, smaller yards, smaller homes, etc. It's time folks "change" their driving habits and also remember although TV is what DW calls it "DisneyWorld for Adults", it doesn't mean act as though you are at DisneyWorld, (i.e. stop in the middle of the row when the staff tells you move all the way to the end). So, stop saving all those seats at the square; slow down to the speed limit; extend your life by slowing down everything. Enjoy the paradise you live in or visit.

[diskman]

Our host should go through the 81 pages and scrap the stuff that doesn't belong would probably leave us with a good 30 to 40 pages maybe less.
Meanwhile everybody seems to love the tittle:beer3::spoken::eclipsee_gold_cup::pepper2:

[PaPaLarry]

Our host should go through the 81 pages and scrap the stuff that doesn't belong would probably leave us with a good 30 to 40 pages maybe less.
Meanwhile everybody seems to love the tittle:beer3::spoken::eclipsee_gold_cup::pepper2:
I agree about scrapping!!!!!!

[Cedwards38]

Here's what I don't like about The Villages.......................................... ..................uhhhhhhhh, lemme think........................................:-)

[The Villager II]

Here's what I don't like about The Villages.......................................... ..................uhhhhhhhh, lemme think........................................:-)

We agree. If ya don't love it here, you may never find Paradise.

[Carmpat]

The only thing I don't like in The Villages is the round abouts circles. Sorry if this was already mentioned but I didn't feel like reading 82 pages of comments. One more thing why can't we put wreaths or deocrations on our outside doors or some lawn ornaments in our gardens?

[Barefoot]

One more thing why can't we put wreaths or deocrations on our outside doors or some lawn ornaments in our gardens?

While I find my stuffed Buffalo charming and unique, neighbours might not agree.

[Bogie Shooter]

The only thing I don't like in The Villages is the round abouts circles. Sorry if this was already mentioned but I didn't feel like reading 82 pages of comments. One more thing why can't we put wreaths or deocrations on our outside doors or some lawn ornaments in our gardens?

I don't think there are any rules about putting wreaths or other decorations on your door. As to lawn ornaments that is in the covenants you signed and they are not allowed. Some may think plywood cut outs of snow white and the dwarfs is cute.....many others would not.

[keithwand]

You mean Snow White and 7 short people?

[fromct]

KW, You mean Snow White and the 7 'vertically challenged' people...........

[graciegirl]

KW, You mean Snow White and the 7 'vertically challenged' people...........


I am not Happy.........;)

Waiting........................................... ................................:wave:

[2BNTV]

As a wannabee, having to leave after a visit.... :sad:

[skyguy79]

I don't think there are any rules about putting wreaths or other decorations on your door. As to lawn ornaments that is in the covenants you signed and they are not allowed. Some may think plywood cut outs of snow white and the dwarfs is cute.....many others would not.In my declaration, seasonal lawn ornaments would be permitted for a period not to exceed 30 days of duration. It's under 2.15. You restrictions might have the same clause.

If anyone wants to check their declaration and not sure how to find it, you can start at the following address, then select your county, district then the S number found on you resident's card!

Village Community Development Districts - Declaration of Restrictions (http://www.districtgov.org/departments/community-standards/download.aspx)

[Schaumburger]

As a wannabee, having to leave after a visit.... :sad:

I feel your pain...went through that this past Sunday night. Counting the days until mid-October when I will be coming back to TV for a visit.

[Bill-n-Brillo]

I am not Happy.........;)

Waiting........................................... ................................:wave:

Bashful, perhaps?

Bill :)

[2BNTV]

Okay, I'll volunteer to be dopey because someone has to. :jester:

[ajbrown]

I don't think there are any rules about putting wreaths or other decorations on your door. As to lawn ornaments that is in the covenants you signed and they are not allowed. Some may think plywood cut outs of snow white and the dwarfs is cute.....many others would not.

How about bears?

You have to admit, the cutout of the dog came out great. :D

http://i1002.photobucket.com/albums/af146/ajbrown2007/totv/P1030737.jpg

[Pturner]

KW, You mean Snow White and the 7 'vertically challenged' people...........

Personally, I think it's tall people who are vertically challenged. They're the ones who have to stoop in short spaces.:girlneener:

Besides... I hear they got no reason.

[jgbama]

And this is exactly why we want to move to the villages....convenances...we have em here supposedly but they are not enforced and the neighborhood has slid so far downhill its not funny. Month and a half...farewell crappy neighborhood!!

Same here! If I wanted to see everyone's privacy fence, or bass boat in the drive, yard or street. . . heck, I could save a lot of money and stay in Montgomery! It amazes me why someone would move to TV thinking they could change or ignore the rules and covenants they signed to adhere to.

[Posh 08]

I don't think there are any rules about putting wreaths or other decorations on your door. As to lawn ornaments that is in the covenants you signed and they are not allowed. Some may think plywood cut outs of snow white and the dwarfs is cute.....many others would not.

That's good to know about wreaths on the door. My Miss Sam always has a seasonal wreath there.

[Midge538]

Although I am leaving ... 'if you bring your own joys, your mate, your intellectual/artistic/sports/climate/physiological and dining interests there is absolutely not much you will regret coming to TV. "OK, I do miss the cold, the snow, the traffic, the state taxes, the prices of things and ...... 'but that's just me.'

[createquilts]

What i think is wrong and i don't like is when people come down to the squares
2 and 3 hours before an event And tie off chairs and put cushions on them And go off and then showup when the music or whatever starts WHY IS THIS ALLOWED :shrug::shrug::shrug::shrug::cus::cus::cus:

why don't you do something to change it?

Can you have signs put up saying something like "no saving chairs" and when people come down early like that just move their stuff neatly to the side. What would you have to do to have signs like that put up. Or notices in the paper. If it is a problem that makes many unhappy what recourse do you have to change it?

[graciegirl]

why don't you do something to change it?

Can you have signs put up saying something like "no saving chairs" and when people come down early like that just move their stuff neatly to the side. What would you have to do to have signs like that put up. Or notices in the paper. If it is a problem that makes many unhappy what recourse do you have to change it?

This is a CDD form of government. We don't vote here about things of this nature.. The people in charge must think that they cannot address all of these things, there are thousands of little things and big things that people here disagree on because we are old and opinonated.

This is sad because many of us were taught that to confront someone is very rude and many of us were taught that to throw your weight around was great. So we get the weight throwers up against the polite people and the people who were taught to win through intimidation almost always win.

This is hard for people to believe and I am danged tired of people thinking I am a wuss when all I am doing is acting respectfully. There is NO easy answer.

And even if there were signs NO SAVING CHAIRS...some people would save chairs. Makes me want to smack 'em.

[hotrodgirl]

Gracie, you don't seem to have any problem getting your point across! You just temper it with kindness and respect for others opinions! Wuss, I don't think so. Can't somehow see you as much of a pushover. Bet your kids don't think you are one either.... A girl after my own heart! :thumbup:

[uujudy]

. . . And even if there were signs NO SAVING CHAIRS...some people would save chairs. Makes me want to smack 'em.

And that's a slippery slope! My folks' (now my mother-in-law's) 55+ place in St. Pete has turned into the land of "NO". There are "NO" signs everywhere. NO horseplay in the pool. NO dogs on the grass. NO feeding the birds. NO this and NO that. Everywhere you look there's a NO sign about something.

One little NO sign can lead to 100 big NO signs. I've seen it happen. The place in St. Pete is still lovely, but now it seems to be populated by a band/herd/flock/coven of grumps who spend all day dreaming up excuses for new NO signs. It gives the impression they can't get along with anybody, and it would certainly make me think twice about moving there.

GG, forget the signs and just go ahead and smack 'em. :angel:

[Pturner]

And that's a slippery slope! My folks' (now my mother-in-law's) 55+ place in St. Pete has turned into the land of "NO". There are "NO" signs everywhere. NO horseplay in the pool. NO dogs on the grass. NO feeding the birds. NO this and NO that. Everywhere you look there's a NO sign about something.

One little NO sign can lead to 100 big NO signs. I've seen it happen. The place in St. Pete is still lovely, but now it seems to be populated by a band/herd/flock/coven of grumps who spend all day dreaming up excuses for new NO signs. It gives the impression they can't get along with anybody, and it would certainly make me think twice about moving there.

GG, forget the signs and just go ahead and smack 'em. :angel:

Hmmm, that got me thinking. Ya know how it's always 5:00 somewhere? Well, there's always a grand opening somewhere too. Soooo, in honor of the Grand Openings Somewhere, girl's posse could organize ribbon cuttings on the square. :024:

[Joaniesmom]

The only thing I hate about the Villages is that I don't live there yet! But I'm workin' on it!

[FranS]

How can anyone hate TV? Even the surrounding communities love it. If you look at other retirement communities many list in first sentence... 15 min's from The Villages. or across from The Villages, or 3.5 miles from The Villages.

TV offers more ammenities for less money, and the others offer The Villages as reason to buy in their community. I just search TV now for places, since its the top selling point for other communities!!


Can't wait to get there !!

[TomOB]

One way to find out what you like is to rent for a while and see what type house and what village you want.

[Posh 08]

Having started golfing again and seeing the prices of golfing here in Virginia, there ain't a darn thing wrong with TV. Springdale here we come.

[graciegirl]

Having started golfing again and seeing the prices of golfing here in Virginia, there ain't a darn thing wrong with TV. Springdale here we come.

Now Poshie...THAT's MORE LIKE IT. YES!!!!!:eclipsee_gold_cup:

[Posh 08]

Now Poshie...THAT's MORE LIKE IT. YES!!!!!:eclipsee_gold_cup:

You know where my heart is GG. :beer3:

[Opulence]

Posh, don't mean to highjack this thread, but I see you are in Virginia. So am I - where are you?

Betty

[Posh 08]

Posh, don't mean to highjack this thread, but I see you are in Virginia. So am I - where are you?

Betty

PMed ya.

[Dancing Queen]

Hello everyone, I just spent a large part of my day reading all 85 pages of this thread.
Thank you Larry (Diskman) for origionally starting it, as I have found it to be quite informative.
My dh is the pesimist, and swears there has to be something amiss somewhere. I can now reassure him that TV is what others told us was when we visited in May.
I am suprised that my dh's pet peeve was only glossed over once, and that is the bond.
We are hopefully looking to buy CYV with the bond paid, or low bond.
I was glad to hear a few others support my only concern is that there is no sun shield on any of the pools, my dermatologist was not happy that I swam laps for 9 days outside.

I would like to post what I just agreed to as a new poster, as I felt this wasn't the friendliest forum at times. Just a gental reminder to smile, and relax.t

"The main thing that makes a board a friendly place to come to is to show respect for each other. You don't have to agree with all the members, heck you don't even have to like all the members here but please show some respect for their differences, and take it easy on the new guys and gals. You were a new member at one time too.."

Thank you everyone for your frank honest appraisals of the small amount of downsides to TV.
Hope to be a home owner by next year, if the house here sells.

[2BNTV]

Hello everyone, I just spent a large part of my day reading all 85 pages of this thread.
Thank you Larry (Diskman) for origionally starting it, as I have found it to be quite informative.
My dh is the pesimist, and swears there has to be something amiss somewhere. I can now reassure him that TV is what others told us was when we visited in May.
I am suprised that my dh's pet peeve was only glossed over once, and that is the bond.
We are hopefully looking to buy CYV with the bond paid, or low bond.
I was glad to hear a few others support my only concern is that there is no sun shield on any of the pools, my dermatologist was not happy that I swam laps for 9 days outside.

I would like to post what I just agreed to as a new poster, as I felt this wasn't the friendliest forum at times. Just a gental reminder to smile, and relax.t

"The main thing that makes a board a friendly place to come to is to show respect for each other. You don't have to agree with all the members, heck you don't even have to like all the members here but please show some respect for their differences, and take it easy on the new guys and gals. You were a new member at one time too.."

Thank you everyone for your frank honest appraisals of the small amount of downsides to TV.
Hope to be a home owner by next year, if the house here sells.

Hello Dancing Queen. Excellent first post.

:welcome: to TOTV. I think you'll find there are many nice people who are willing to help new people and very smart too. TV just seems too good to be true so it's understandable for someone to be skeptical. It's not perfect but darn close to paradise.

Keep on posting. :smiley:

[Dancing Queen]

Thank you 2BTNTV.
While in TV I was in my element, I really felt I found where I belonged after all these years with the offerings of Swimming, Dancing, Clubs, and Friendly People.
I am looking forward to downsizing, and being in a close neighborhood.

[graciegirl]

Hello everyone, I just spent a large part of my day reading all 85 pages of this thread.
Thank you Larry (Diskman) for origionally starting it, as I have found it to be quite informative.
My dh is the pesimist, and swears there has to be something amiss somewhere. I can now reassure him that TV is what others told us was when we visited in May.
I am suprised that my dh's pet peeve was only glossed over once, and that is the bond.
We are hopefully looking to buy CYV with the bond paid, or low bond.
I was glad to hear a few others support my only concern is that there is no sun shield on any of the pools, my dermatologist was not happy that I swam laps for 9 days outside.

I would like to post what I just agreed to as a new poster, as I felt this wasn't the friendliest forum at times. Just a gental reminder to smile, and relax.t

"The main thing that makes a board a friendly place to come to is to show respect for each other. You don't have to agree with all the members, heck you don't even have to like all the members here but please show some respect for their differences, and take it easy on the new guys and gals. You were a new member at one time too.."

Thank you everyone for your frank honest appraisals of the small amount of downsides to TV.
Hope to be a home owner by next year, if the house here sells.

We would love to have another Cincinnatian here. I personally would fix us all some Cincinnati Chili in case we get homesick.

This is such a wonderful place, not like the wonderful place we came from but WONDERFUL in a different way and the nicest thing is that it is like a college campus without going to class...it is great to be with your peers and to enjoy meeting so many interesting people with at least five decades of interesting life experiences.

You are right, if you are a lap swimmer there isn't an indoor pool.
.

Welcome to you Dancing Queen. Do you just like to dance or were you on stage at the Aronoff?

Kindest wishes.

Gracie.(From West Chester, Ohio)

[Dancing Queen]

Graciegirl,
Thank you, we can't wait to get there.
Hee hee no the only stage I have danced on was at a performance by The Coasters, while they sang Charlie Brown after I won a dance contest. I love 50's and 60's music and Love to dance started dancing at record hops when I was 2. I danced every night I was in TV. Can't wait to get back and put on my boogie shoes.
I takes 50 minutes to get to Jim and Jacks on the River to dance, so I rarely can get dh to agree to go. Most of my friend are disabled in some way, or don't like to dance.
So obviously, that is my Favorite thing about TV.

[CaptJohn]

:welcome: to the TOTV forum DQ.
I have a cousin in Cincy and visit friends in Waynesville about once a year. I've thought of getting a summer place there to be cool but today it's 98 degrees there. Cooler down here. Go figure! :laugh:

[Dancing Queen]

Hi CaptJohn,
Thank you for the nice welcome.
It is lovely up here, but it is currently 103 degrees ambient temperature, at almost 9 pm.
The past 4 years, it just keeps getting hotter and hotter.

[firewalkerb3]

I don't live in the villages, but just being a member of this form should tell you something about how i think about the villages. I have watched Summer County grow, as the villages expand. Sure we were woods an cow pastures before. Growth came to us via The Villages, and has and always will meet resistant from some. The Villages used a very controlled growth program, not housing project's to build a very great place to visit and enjoy. My wife and I get as much enjoyment out of the Villages as anyone. I can take my wife to the movies and you know what? It's clean, and I don't end up in an arguments with some nasty mouth punk with a chain attached from his noise to his ear. Could have went to jail that night for snatching him up by the collar and back handing his nasty mouth with my wife haven to hear that. We can eat at restaurants that offer great food. And 98% or Villages are great people, very friendly. The ones that are not so nice I meet when working in the Villages. I'm a Alligator Wrapper for the State..And some people get upset when I have to remove a Alligator from a pond. But when I talk to the an explain why,they calm down and offer me a glass of water or coke. lol. I'm stopping now, God Bless

[Pturner]

Hello everyone, I just spent a large part of my day reading all 85 pages of this thread.
Thank you Larry (Diskman) for origionally starting it, as I have found it to be quite informative.
My dh is the pesimist, and swears there has to be something amiss somewhere. I can now reassure him that TV is what others told us was when we visited in May.
I am suprised that my dh's pet peeve was only glossed over once, and that is the bond.
We are hopefully looking to buy CYV with the bond paid, or low bond.
I was glad to hear a few others support my only concern is that there is no sun shield on any of the pools, my dermatologist was not happy that I swam laps for 9 days outside.

I would like to post what I just agreed to as a new poster, as I felt this wasn't the friendliest forum at times. Just a gental reminder to smile, and relax.t

"The main thing that makes a board a friendly place to come to is to show respect for each other. You don't have to agree with all the members, heck you don't even have to like all the members here but please show some respect for their differences, and take it easy on the new guys and gals. You were a new member at one time too.."

Thank you everyone for your frank honest appraisals of the small amount of downsides to TV.
Hope to be a home owner by next year, if the house here sells.

Welcome Dancing Queen,
What a lovely post. Yes we were all new members once and equally of note, the constant influx of positive new members is one of this forum's greatest attributes.

:beer3:

[Pturner]

I don't live in the villages, but just being a member of this form should tell you something about how i think about the villages. I have watched Summer County grow, as the villages expand. Sure we were woods an cow pastures before. Growth came to us via The Villages, and has and always will meet resistant from some. The Villages used a very controlled growth program, not housing project's to build a very great place to visit and enjoy. My wife and I get as much enjoyment out of the Villages as anyone. I can take my wife to the movies and you know what? It's clean, and I don't end up in an arguments with some nasty mouth punk with a chain attached from his noise to his ear. Could have went to jail that night for snatching him up by the collar and back handing his nasty mouth with my wife haven to hear that. We can eat at restaurants that offer great food. And 98% or Villages are great people, very friendly. The ones that are not so nice I meet when working in the Villages. I'm a Alligator Wrapper for the State..And some people get upset when I have to remove a Alligator from a pond. But when I talk to the an explain why,they calm down and offer me a glass of water or coke. lol. I'm stopping now, God Bless

Thank you Firewalker, both for appreciating TV and for the important service you provide.

Oh, and welcome to TOTV!
:beer3:

[Dancing Queen]

Welcome Dancing Queen,
What a lovely post. Yes we were all new members once and equally of note, the constant influx of positive new members is one of this forum's greatest attributes.

:beer3:

I am touched, thank you.

[Kitria]

I have always said that The Villages provides everything; even things to complain about..if you so choose. I choose not to find things to complain about. Life in The Villages is like no other place in the world. You can describe it to friends, and until they come and see it for themselves, they just don't have a clue what it is like. The opportunities here are endless. And hey guys, there are some young 'uns in the hills of the hysterical..err oldest side. Just because the trees are old doesn't mean we are all old. *grins* Have a great, safe holiday week.

[graciegirl]

I have always said that The Villages provides everything; even things to complain about..if you so choose. I choose not to find things to complain about. Life in The Villages is like no other place in the world. You can describe it to friends, and until they come and see it for themselves, they just don't have a clue what it is like. The opportunities here are endless. And hey guys, there are some young 'uns in the hills of the hysterical..err oldest side. Just because the trees are old doesn't mean we are all old. *grins* Have a great, safe holiday week.

There are young'uns everywhere in The Villages. We reverse the process when we move here.

[su2009]

In general, I love The Villages, but here is what I miss from living in a big city:
1. In The Villages, there's no big malls with big upper-end chain retailers like Macys, Nordstrom, Sports Authority. Ocala has a tiny Macys and a small Dick's Sporting Goods, but you really have to go to Atlanta or Miami if you want to find the big upper-end retailers with good sales.
2. No Trader Joes
3. There are good doctors, but no Kaiser. I loved Kaiser and really miss it.
4. No high-end prosthodontic practices. If you are a working professional and want perfect teeth built with perfect, lifelike zironia crowns with zirconia gum, you have to go to Atlanta or the Miami area. Here, there are decent dentists, but only a few prosthodontists, and no one with an in-office lab making zirconia crowns & bridges with zirconia gum. (There are, however, some dentists offering in-office denture labs, but that is not the same thing.)
5. For dealer service on a car like a Toyota or Nissan, you have to go to Leesburg. However, there are good general maintenance and body shops, and they are much more affordable than their counterparts in a big city.
6. No international airport; you have to go to Orlando or Tampa to fly out on most airlines.
----
I should note that most of what I miss is just stuff that is available only in a very large city. On the other hand, and a central reason I wanted to move here, the stores & services you use frequently are much, much, easier to get to - you can take a golf cart or drive uncrowded surface streets and go everywhere easily. There is no rush hour. The people are much nicer; if you leave an umbrella in a theater, you will likely get it back here. You also don't need an expensive security system with 24-hour monitoring, like you do in a big city; thefts and burglaries are rare in The Villages. I would never voluntarily move away from The Villages; I just wish some of the big-city conveniences would come here!

[senior citizen]

In general, I love The Villages, but here is what I miss from living in a big city:
1. In The Villages, there's no big malls with big upper-end chain retailers like Macys, Nordstrom, Sports Authority. Ocala has a tiny Macys and a small Dick's Sporting Goods, but you really have to go to Atlanta or Miami if you want to find the big upper-end retailers with good sales.
2. No Trader Joes
3. There are good doctors, but no Kaiser. I loved Kaiser and really miss it.
4. No high-end prosthodontic practices. If you are a working professional and want perfect teeth built with perfect, lifelike zironia crowns with zirconia gum, you have to go to Atlanta or the Miami area. Here, there are decent dentists, but only a few prosthodontists, and no one with an in-office lab making zirconia crowns & bridges with zirconia gum. (There are, however, some dentists offering in-office denture labs, but that is not the same thing.)
5. For dealer service on a car like a Toyota or Nissan, you have to go to Leesburg. However, there are good general maintenance and body shops, and they are much more affordable than their counterparts in a big city.
6. No international airport; you have to go to Orlando or Tampa to fly out on most airlines.
----
I should note that most of what I miss is just stuff that is available only in a very large city. On the other hand, and a central reason I wanted to move here, the stores & services you use frequently are much, much, easier to get to - you can take a golf cart or drive uncrowded surface streets and go everywhere easily. There is no rush hour. The people are much nicer; if you leave an umbrella in a theater, you will likely get it back here. You also don't need an expensive security system with 24-hour monitoring, like you do in a big city; thefts and burglaries are rare in The Villages. I would never voluntarily move away from The Villages; I just wish some of the big-city conveniences would come here!

I shop at Macy's all the time ONLINE.....Nordstrom's and Bloomingdales as well.

They all gift wrap and ship gifts to those living "away".

Unless you actually miss that mall experience of walking from store to store.........online shopping is the way to go.........L.L. BEAN in Maine, etc. amazon.com.........many high end stores and bargain type stores as well. Of course, you can't get the teeth online.......

Your last paragraph says it well and is the reason we moved from congested NEW JERSEY and all its malls to tiny rural Vermont 42 years ago. We learned to do without all the big city and suburban type shopping experiences and managed quite well with our small town auto dealers, etc. Do you remember trying to get out of a mall, or into it for that matter, at HOLIDAY TIME??? That's when we decided to relocate.
The traffic and congestion just got to us. Have never looked back.

Later, we'd have new neighbors who would lament that they couldn't get Philadelphia Cream Cheese at the small A&P supermarket in town.
Imagine? Now we have two huge chains, Price Chopper and Hannaford.

The Villages has much more than we do up here........so no problem for us and there is always online shopping at Macy's. They even will give you your discounts online.

[Schaumburger]

From a female TV wannabee's perspective...I live near Woodfield Mall which for those of you on TOTV who are familiar with Chicago is a very large mall -- Sears, Penneys, Nordstroms, Macys, plus about 190 smaller stores. For as close as I live to Woodfield Mall, I probably only shop there 3 or 4 times a year, and never from mid-November to Dec. 24 -- too darn crowded and parking is a nightmare. For example, this is early August, and the last time I shopped in Woodfield was in early April right before Easter. So if I had to drive 15-20 miles to the nearest mall in Ocala it would not be a serious inconvenience for me. Love the online shopping and shopping via HSN and QVC. If/When I do move to TV, I would miss having an Apple store and IKEA close by.

During my visits to TV, I have found the shopping situation to be quite adequate. As far as outlet shopping goes, I think Orlando has better (more convenient) outlet shopping than Chicago does. Just my 2 cents.

[Russ_Boston]

Really wouldn't call Sport's authority an upper end chain store (I see no difference between Dicks and Sport's). But there is one on route 200 in Ocala almost next to Dick's.

[Dr Winston O Boogie jr]

I wouldn't say I hate, but I don't like the golf cart bridge. It's a nice landmark and advertisement for TV, but it's too narrow and too steep. The tunnels that are around the rest of the Tv are a much better idea.
I live in Silver Lake and I'd also like to see another way to cross over 441/27 in my golf cart. I live almost across the street from the CVS but I have to go almost a mile out of my way to go there. A tunnel would be nice, but I don't understand why we can't cross at the lights like bicycles and pedestrians do.
I'd also like to be able to take my golf cart to the Lowe's / Sam's Club area and across 441/27 to the Best Buy Plaza.

But these are small things. I really love it here and don't "hate" any part of it.

[Taltarzac725]

I wouldn't say I hate, but I don't like the golf cart bridge. It's a nice landmark and advertisement for TV, but it's too narrow and too steep. The tunnels that are around the rest of the Tv are a much better idea.
I live in Silver Lake and I'd also like to see another way to cross over 441/27 in my golf cart. I live almost across the street from the CVS but I have to go almost a mile out of my way to go there. A tunnel would be nice, but I don't understand why we can't cross at the lights like bicycles and pedestrians do.
I'd also like to be able to take my golf cart to the Lowe's / Sam's Club area and across 441/27 to the Best Buy Plaza.

But these are small things. I really love it here and don't "hate" any part of it.

They do need to widen that golf cart bridge. You kind of take your life in your hands if you decide to walk across it while there are a lot of golf carts using it. Seems to have some blind spots to when you are coming up it.

[janmcn]

I wouldn't say I hate, but I don't like the golf cart bridge. It's a nice landmark and advertisement for TV, but it's too narrow and too steep. The tunnels that are around the rest of the Tv are a much better idea.
I live in Silver Lake and I'd also like to see another way to cross over 441/27 in my golf cart. I live almost across the street from the CVS but I have to go almost a mile out of my way to go there. A tunnel would be nice, but I don't understand why we can't cross at the lights like bicycles and pedestrians do.
I'd also like to be able to take my golf cart to the Lowe's / Sam's Club area and across 441/27 to the Best Buy Plaza.

But these are small things. I really love it here and don't "hate" any part of it.

I agree. There should be a tunnel under 441/27 in addition to the bridge, and how about golf cart paths on Morse Blvd north of 466 and Rio Grande with some tunnels?

[GatorFan]

At the recent VHA golf cart safety meeting, the Marion County Deputy Sheriff said that as of January 1, 2013, golf carts can cross a State highway at lighted intersection. That means carts can cross 441 at lighted intersections. Please remember that this only applies to State Highways and not County Roads.

[rubicon]

In general, I love The Villages, but here is what I miss from living in a big city:
1. In The Villages, there's no big malls with big upper-end chain retailers like Macys, Nordstrom, Sports Authority. Ocala has a tiny Macys and a small Dick's Sporting Goods, but you really have to go to Atlanta or Miami if you want to find the big upper-end retailers with good sales.
2. No Trader Joes
3. There are good doctors, but no Kaiser. I loved Kaiser and really miss it.
4. No high-end prosthodontic practices. If you are a working professional and want perfect teeth built with perfect, lifelike zironia crowns with zirconia gum, you have to go to Atlanta or the Miami area. Here, there are decent dentists, but only a few prosthodontists, and no one with an in-office lab making zirconia crowns & bridges with zirconia gum. (There are, however, some dentists offering in-office denture labs, but that is not the same thing.)
5. For dealer service on a car like a Toyota or Nissan, you have to go to Leesburg. However, there are good general maintenance and body shops, and they are much more affordable than their counterparts in a big city.
6. No international airport; you have to go to Orlando or Tampa to fly out on most airlines.
----
I should note that most of what I miss is just stuff that is available only in a very large city. On the other hand, and a central reason I wanted to move here, the stores & services you use frequently are much, much, easier to get to - you can take a golf cart or drive uncrowded surface streets and go everywhere easily. There is no rush hour. The people are much nicer; if you leave an umbrella in a theater, you will likely get it back here. You also don't need an expensive security system with 24-hour monitoring, like you do in a big city; thefts and burglaries are rare in The Villages. I would never voluntarily move away from The Villages; I just wish some of the big-city conveniences would come here!

Ditto I much of what you have said. I moved down from Minneapolis area and miss the great malls there, the quality medical care, the events in downtown Minneapolis the professional sports ( several of the Vikings lived in our subdivision) the great restaurants and frankly big city living

[Wi11iam]

I am wondering if anyone will answer this one since it's probably considered a "negative" and politically incorrect. If anyone really hated something, they' have likely left. Several people to post with a "tell it like it is attitude" and I think that's important. Those considering purchase need to make an informed decision.

Leaving to go back to the place I want to leave...:(:cry:

[travelguy]

1. narrow political opinions in the daily sun.
2. dog owners who think that everyone else's lawn is a giant dog toilet.
3. unsafe golf cart drivers (really, do you have to hold your dog/grandchild on your lap?)
4. smokers in the town squares; they should be relegated to across the street areas. not within the squares themselves.
5. cigar smoking.......totally prohibited...everywhere!
6. lack of interesting non-chain restaurants.
7. minimal public parks within the villages.
8. exercise trails....only one in the villages....really!
9. more control over ugly lawn ornaments, and hideous oranments attached to the house....have you seen the eagle on nash loop in hemingway?
and that's it for today.
:posting:

[Whalen]

1. narrow political opinions in the daily sun.
2. dog owners who think that everyone else's lawn is a giant dog toilet.
3. unsafe golf cart drivers (really, do you have to hold your dog/grandchild on your lap?)
4. smokers in the town squares; they should be relegated to across the street areas. not within the squares themselves.
5. cigar smoking.......totally prohibited...everywhere!
6. lack of interesting non-chain restaurants.
7. minimal public parks within the villages.
8. exercise trails....only one in the villages....really!
9. more control over ugly lawn ornaments, and hideous oranments attached to the house....have you seen the eagle on nash loop in hemingway?
and that's it for today.
:posting:

LOLOLOL

You speak heresy! Feathers & tar are in your future...

[Patty55]

1. narrow political opinions in the daily sun.
2. dog owners who think that everyone else's lawn is a giant dog toilet.
3. unsafe golf cart drivers (really, do you have to hold your dog/grandchild on your lap?)
4. smokers in the town squares; they should be relegated to across the street areas. not within the squares themselves.
5. cigar smoking.......totally prohibited...everywhere!
6. lack of interesting non-chain restaurants.
7. minimal public parks within the villages.
8. exercise trails....only one in the villages....really!
9. more control over ugly lawn ornaments, and hideous oranments attached to the house....have you seen the eagle on nash loop in hemingway?
and that's it for today.
:posting:

Whoa, can't wait till tomorrow.

[army one]

Why is there so many people (some who actually live here) that can find the time to nitpick but can't find the time for a fix for their complaints. I would think finding the time to enjoy the lifestyle here in the Villages should be a higher priority than finding fault with every little thing they don't agree with.

[graciegirl]

1. narrow political opinions in the daily sun.
2. dog owners who think that everyone else's lawn is a giant dog toilet.
3. unsafe golf cart drivers (really, do you have to hold your dog/grandchild on your lap?)
4. smokers in the town squares; they should be relegated to across the street areas. not within the squares themselves.
5. cigar smoking.......totally prohibited...everywhere!
6. lack of interesting non-chain restaurants.
7. minimal public parks within the villages.
8. exercise trails....only one in the villages....really!
9. more control over ugly lawn ornaments, and hideous oranments attached to the house....have you seen the eagle on nash loop in hemingway?
and that's it for today.
:posting:
My goodness. You have offended half of the citizenry. But that's o.k. You are anonymous. I hope everyone who is reading this who is offended by the same stuff and thinking to move here will have second thoughts.

Or find that the great things outweigh the negatives and most of all..if they move here are happy.

[gerryann]

I feel bad for the few who find very little to like here. I'm sure that if I felt this way, I would move on. I'm sure it's hard to be here feeling as you do. I do hope however that you are a snowbird and can at least get somewhere during certain months for a little happiness in your life. Do you take part in activities here in TV? Do you have friends with similar interests? If you do get out, it has to be difficult to be around so many happy, life loving people.

Life is short...try to find happiness. Homes are selling here so I'm certain you won't have a problem if you choose to leave. I think for every home on the market, there are many, many who would like to be here...unfortunately, some aren't retired, not old enough, can't afford it.....or many, many reasons.

If you seek out contented, happy folks....you may turn into one.......

[mike_enship]

could they change the gate passes? otherwise TV is really great!

[quirky3]

I totally agree that there have been a lot of negative and whiny posts lately.
On the other hand, if there is one thread where these belong, it would be this one. After all, the title of the thread is "Everybody seems to love The Villages, I would like to hear what you hate besides the train noise".
Then people complain when the responses stick to the posted topic.
It's always a beautiful day in TV. People do have opinions, and this is one of the threads where they are asked to express them. We can all lighten up and be happy that people are respecting the topic at hand!;)

[John_W]

In general, I love The Villages, but here is what I miss from living in a big city:
1. In The Villages, there's no big malls with big upper-end chain retailers like Macys, Nordstrom, Sports Authority. Ocala has a tiny Macys and a small Dick's Sporting Goods, but you really have to go to Atlanta or Miami if you want to find the big upper-end retailers with good sales.

6. No international airport; you have to go to Orlando or Tampa to fly out on most airlines.----

We just got back from the Florida Mall in Orlando, I measured the drive and it was exactly 55 miles to our house. They have Nordstrom, Dillards, Macys, Pennys, Sears and Saks Fifth Avenue. I also found the Dick's in Ocala is bigger and better than the Dick's by Millennium Mall in Orlando.

The Airport is in Orlando, that's not that far. I think in most large metropolitan cities you have to go a ways to get to an airport. In Baltimore we lived in the north suburbs and it was an hours drive for us to BWI.

Originally Posted by travelguy
1. narrow political opinions in the daily sun.
2. dog owners who think that everyone else's lawn is a giant dog toilet.
3. unsafe golf cart drivers (really, do you have to hold your dog/grandchild on your lap?)
4. smokers in the town squares; they should be relegated to across the street areas. not within the squares themselves.
5. cigar smoking.......totally prohibited...everywhere!
6. lack of interesting non-chain restaurants.
7. minimal public parks within the villages.
8. exercise trails....only one in the villages....really!
9. more control over ugly lawn ornaments, and hideous oranments attached to the house....have you seen the eagle on nash loop in hemingway?
and that's it for today.

#1 unless you belong to the tea party, I would have to agree.
#2 we live in a CYV so we really don't have that problem
#3 that's true, especially when grandkids drive and people don't realize how much harm could come to their pet if they had to stop quickly.
#4 I agree completely
#5 same as #4
#6 I agree again
#7 doesn't effect me too much
#8 I walk and ride my bike on my neighborhood side streets, so doesn't effect me
#9 haven't see the eagle, but we have a CYV at the entrance of our villa section that in the garden instead of a professional retaining wall, they use large rocks they must of found in a field to line their gravel, looks like something a 12 year old would of made. Then they removed their live shrubs and replaced with potted artificial plants.

[mickey100]

I agree. I love many things about The Villages, and overall am happy with our lifestyle here. But there are always things that could be better. I agree with most of travelguy's comments. Just because you don't like certain things about this place, doesn't mean you are "unhappy". The post specifically asked about what things do you hate. People are voicing their critiques and sticking to topic.

[CaptJohn]

My complaint is that I'm not there to find something to complain about! :laugh:

[jgbama]

Well, we should be there before college football kicks off and we'll give you Notre Dame, Michigan, and Ohio State fans plenty to complain about! ROLL TIDE ROLL! :laugh::boxing2:

This is why they are called the Crimson Tide!

[Barefoot]

1. narrow political opinions in the daily sun.
2. dog owners who think that everyone else's lawn is a giant dog toilet.
3. unsafe golf cart drivers (really, do you have to hold your dog/grandchild on your lap?)
4. smokers in the town squares; they should be relegated to across the street areas. not within the squares themselves.
5. cigar smoking.......totally prohibited...everywhere!
6. lack of interesting non-chain restaurants.
7. minimal public parks within the villages.
8. exercise trails....only one in the villages....really!
9. more control over ugly lawn ornaments, and hideous oranments attached to the house....have you seen the eagle on nash loop in hemingway?
and that's it for today.
:posting:

Bravely stated. I don't agree with most of your points, but I do applaud you for sticking to the topic. :bowdown:

And now "off with his head"! :boom:

[goodgrief]

We keep hearing from the village lovers(people who are happy with their choice. Other than Jan and the people dealing with the train noise (Chatham) Are there any other villages we should stay away from and why? :dontknow:
Larry & Bev!

Construction...besides the noise..construction traffic who drive wherever they feel, speed, drive in golf lanes and try to pass you on the right in golf cart lanes. (which I've learned to edge over far enough where golf carts are fine but a vehicle is not getting by me :) and boy howdy that must irritate them...payback :) Hah! )

[goodgrief]

Oh wait entirely forgot...solicitors! So much for a gated community. I know the gates are an illusion but solicitors can be slowed down by actually asking what a persons business is instead of waving em on in, turn them around instead. I had one guy selling trees out of the back of his truck, stop as I pulled in. I put the garage door down before I even got out of the car. You think he would take the hint. Nooooo...came all the way up to the front door and then saw the NO Soliciting sign I've been forced to put up. Only then did he back peddle. Go away..I don't buy door to door. You would think the groups here in the villages that want to stop senior crime would have an active interest in stopping these soliciters...because a lot of the ripoff scams are a result of the door to door activity.

[gerryann]

Are there a lot of solicitors in TV? Is it mostly home repair, landscape? I'm not there yet full time, so am not aware of it....guess I have a lot of negative's to experience. Do the solicitors seem to target the newer areas?

[duffysmom]

I've lived here 4 years and had two solicitors come to my door. Hardly a problem for me.:shrug: Perhaps it's got to do with location.

[Mikeod]

Oh wait entirely forgot...solicitors! So much for a gated community. I know the gates are an illusion but solicitors can be slowed down by actually asking what a persons business is instead of waving em on in, turn them around instead. I had one guy selling trees out of the back of his truck, stop as I pulled in. I put the garage door down before I even got out of the car. You think he would take the hint. Nooooo...came all the way up to the front door and then saw the NO Soliciting sign I've been forced to put up. Only then did he back peddle. Go away..I don't buy door to door. You would think the groups here in the villages that want to stop senior crime would have an active interest in stopping these soliciters...because a lot of the ripoff scams are a result of the door to door activity.

Don't forget the roads in TV except for the villa streets are public streets and the gate attendants cannot turn away traffic. What they can do is note the make/model in case there is a problem.

[Wayne_TN]

Don't forget the roads in TV except for the villa streets are public streets and the gate attendants cannot turn away traffic. What they can do is note the make/model in case there is a problem.

Interesting - haven't heard that before. What's special about the Villa Streets?

[Challenger]

I've lived here 4 years and had two solicitors come to my door. Hardly a problem for me.:shrug: Perhaps it's got to do with location.

Same here- guess some people dont like the Fuller Brush man

[gerryann]

I've lived here 4 years and had two solicitors come to my door. Hardly a problem for me.:shrug: Perhaps it's got to do with location.

Good, makes me feel better. I was thinking I was gonna be deluged. I can be polite and turn away a few.....and the few times that Jehovah Wittness's come by doesn't bother me....a polite "no thank you" works for me....

[travelguy]

i don't like people who have such disregard for the abundance of wildlife that we have here in the villages. i was driving on o'dell just before the hemingway gate and noticed a large turtle crossing the street. i stopped my car to help it get across and perhaps take it to one of the ponds. the poor thing had a large crack in his shell and a hole in the shell oozing blood. it was obvious that a vehicle had run over it. he was alive and another driver came and scooped him up to see what he could do. a turtle crossing the street is pretty obvious. why would anyone run over it? really, is anyone in such a hurry?

[gerryann]

I'll bet running over it was an accident...poor thing. I hope he makes it and isn't in pain.

[gomoho]

i don't like people who have such disregard for the abundance of wildlife that we have here in the villages. i was driving on o'dell just before the hemingway gate and noticed a large turtle crossing the street. i stopped my car to help it get across and perhaps take it to one of the ponds. the poor thing had a large crack in his shell and a hole in the shell oozing blood. it was obvious that a vehicle had run over it. he was alive and another driver came and scooped him up to see what he could do. a turtle crossing the street is pretty obvious. why would anyone run over it? really, is anyone in such a hurry?

Did you know when you rescue a turtle you should put him on the side of the road he was headed - not where he came from? Otherwise he will just try it again. Hope the turtle heals.

[Xaribe]

I have been looking for negative issues, but thus far have not seen or heard anything of any significance. I am not in TV, I have been lurking and still have to work at least until they clean house and get rid of us older employees, i.e. grey beards/boomers.

We have visited numerous times, and I expect we will rent or stay for a more extended period, then make a decision. My brother has been in Tampa for many years and for some reason does not have much of an opinion on TV. I will also note that I find property outside the villages much less expensive, but you will not have the same ambiance.

I think you can find positives and negatives no matter where, or what you decide.

[Schaumburger]

I have been looking for negative issues, but thus far have not seen or heard anything of any significance. I am not in TV, I have been lurking and still have to work at least until they clean house and get rid of us older employees, i.e. grey beards/boomers.

We have visited numerous times, and I expect we will rent or stay for a more extended period, then make a decision. My brother has been in Tampa for many years and for some reason does not have much of an opinion on TV. I will also note that I find property outside the villages much less expensive, but you will not have the same ambiance.

I think you can find positives and negatives no matter where, or what you decide.

That quote describes my office to a T. Anyone over 50 who has been with my company 15 or more years is an "old timer", and I'm sure the upper management would love to put most of us old timers out to pasture.

Good luck with your decision. I would move to TV tomorrow if I could...

[perrjojo]

That quote describes my office to a T. Anyone over 50 who has been with my company 15 or more years is an "old timer", and I'm sure the upper management would love to put most of us old timers out to pasture.

Good luck with your decision. I would move to TV tomorrow if I could...

I am now 69 and when I was in my 50s all of you young folks wanted to get rid of me. :pepper2: when I was in my 30s I wondered why those OLD people wouldn't get out of my way. I guess that is part of the circle of life. :clap2:

[gingersnap]

Hmmm...after reading through many pages of this thread, I'm thinking that if lawn ornaments were allowed, some of these posters should have the garden flag in their front lawn that states:
"WINE A BIT, YOU'LL FEEL BETTER"

I'm just sayin..........

[SABRMnLgs]

All areas of the Villages are not treated equally. What is allowed in one area is not allowed in another. Awnings in one development are okay but not in another development. Lawn chachkis are okay here but not there. Pulllllll ez!

Jerry Jackson

[asianthree]

with over 145,000 looking and less then 1,000 answers, most just don't comment

[Bogie Shooter]

This thread should be closed.........who is going to read 90 pages?

[scottiee]

Well said Boogie
:thumbup::thumbup:

[diskman]

This thread should be closed.........who is going to read 90 pages?

Those that want the answers to other peoples frustrations before making the jump:oops::pray::undecided::spoken:

[Posh 08]

This thread should be closed.........who is going to read 90 pages?

Me.

[Ecuadog]

Me too.

[Bogie Shooter]

Those that want the answers to other peoples frustrations before making the jump:oops::pray::undecided::spoken:

At what point in reading 900 posts do you think they will have their answer??

[quirky3]

At what point in reading 900 posts do you think they will have their answer??

I think different/new people come into TOTV at different times and ask the same question, so it's very helpful to have it there to read.

[Posh 08]

I really wonder why it bothers some folks about the age or length of a thread. It may be helping some folks and is there as a reference for the forgetful.

[sjdjmd]

There is absolutely nothing we hate about t.v. My husband and I have traveled so much in our nearly 40 years together, and The Villages is the only place I've ever been that I wanted to move to. Always loved wherever we were living...but 1 visit here was all it took for me to say, "This is it!" And we weren't even considering retiring anywhere! We're coming up on our 1 year anniversary of t.v. living, and we comment everyday how blessed we are to live here. As one fellow said to me at the pool one day, "Why are we the lucky ones (to live here)?" I don't know, but I know we're grateful every day for this fantastic lifestyle. So, get on down here, and join us! You won't be sorry! Good Luck!

[TimeForChange]

We don't have a Costco store.

[CaptJohn]

I really wonder why it bothers some folks about the age or length of a thread. It may be helping some folks and is there as a reference for the forgetful.

:agree:

[jtdraig]

:) :) :) :)Thank you all for voicing an opinion, hopefully now my wife will accept that I have found paradise!!! :bigthumbsup: Larry

You really did. I came here reluctantly but this is where my wife wanted to live and believe me she earned it! It didn't take long for me to wake up and realize what we have here so I became a convert.

The few people that we know or who have met who left The Villages seemed to go primarily to be near family back "home"; one who thought the weather was too hot (wonder how that worked out for them?); and, one who said that they needed to live in a smaller place. That's just our experience and it amounts to five couples in seven years.

Odds are you will be very happy here!

[mickey100]

I was wondering too why it bothers some people so if someone mentions something about The Villages that is less than perfect. They take it so personally.

[graciegirl]

I was wondering too why it bothers some people so if someone mentions something about The Villages that is less than perfect. They take it so personally.


I just can't help it. I love this town. This town is the closest to something I could have created for myself that is perfect. I never even knew I wanted it. The people who live here are so much like me and so many of them I have grown to love. I feel so connected to this beautiful place.

It hurts me personally when someone criticizes it UNFAIRLY. I don't mind the few little things that aren't great but when someone comes here and focuses on the miniscule and gets negative because THEY are negative in every way, I just want to BITE.

I wish that letter in response to the article from the Tampa paper could have stayed. There was so much in it that I believed in.

[linandvin]

Sinkholes, lightening capital, 2 years of blowing dirt, traffic and unsafe golf carts (drivers), middle of Florida is way too hot, too large a complex yet too congested, squares and most other activities open to public, too much of a bubble, crime is comparable to other areas, restaurants too crowded and lack of ocean.

[Bogie Shooter]

Sinkholes, lightening capital, 2 years of blowing dirt, traffic and unsafe golf carts (drivers), middle of Florida is way too hot, too large a complex yet too congested, squares and most other activities open to public, too much of a bubble, crime is comparable to other areas, restaurants too crowded and lack of ocean.

Is your house for sale??

[duffysmom]

Sinkholes, lightening capital, 2 years of blowing dirt, traffic and unsafe golf carts (drivers), middle of Florida is way too hot, too large a complex yet too congested, squares and most other activities open to public, too much of a bubble, crime is comparable to other areas, restaurants too crowded and lack of ocean.

Wow!! Crime is comparable to other areas? Where are you from in NY Hells Kitchen?

[mickey100]

I just can't help it. I love this town. This town is the closest to something I could have created for myself that is perfect. I never even knew I wanted it. The people who live here are so much like me and so many of them I have grown to love. I feel so connected to this beautiful place.

It hurts me personally when someone criticizes it UNFAIRLY. I don't mind the few little things that aren't great but when someone comes here and focuses on the miniscule and gets negative because THEY are negative in every way, I just want to BITE.

I wish that letter in response to the article from the Tampa paper could have stayed. There was so much in it that I believed in.

I understand when someone gets angry when others disagree with one's opinion, but I don't understand your comment "someone comes here and focuses on the miniscule and gets negative because THEY are negative in every way". What makes you say they are negative in every way? Are you referring to the rest of their life? I just don't understand your comment. And I really don't know why criticisms would bother you personally? I see a lot of complaints about various issues, some I feel are warranted, others I could care less about. We all are different, come from different environments and have different expectations.

[ilovetv]

Sinkholes, lightening capital, 2 years of blowing dirt, traffic and unsafe golf carts (drivers), middle of Florida is way too hot, too large a complex yet too congested, squares and most other activities open to public, too much of a bubble, crime is comparable to other areas, restaurants too crowded and lack of ocean.

Buying your own island, maybe in the Keys, would solve all of that.

[duffysmom]

linandvin, I was sad to read your note about all the things you feel are wrong about TV because it sounded as though you were sorry you lived here. I also know that you have been a part of TOTV for many years and I always enjoy your comments and hopefullly my previous note about crime wasn't offensive cause when I reread the note it sounded bratty.:shrug: Anyway hope all is well.

[graciegirl]

I understand when someone gets angry when others disagree with one's opinion, but I don't understand your comment "someone comes here and focuses on the miniscule and gets negative because THEY are negative in every way". What makes you say they are negative in every way? Are you referring to the rest of their life? I just don't understand your comment. And I really don't know why criticisms would bother you personally? I see a lot of complaints about various issues, some I feel are warranted, others I could care less about. We all are different, come from different environments and have different expectations.

This is MY home town now. UNFAIR criticisms bother me. I became a frog about a year ago. I feel the ownership and pride of this town.

On the negativity issue...Some people, time after time, even year after year, on this forum, never, ever say anything positive. It is like our parents generation in the thirties, it was somehow wrong to praise. It was only when you were doing something wrong, you heard about it.

It is their personality, the ALWAYS negative folks, and thank heavens there aren't too many of them. They find some kind of satisfaction is pointing out things that are wrong. Somehow there are some people who just miss the whole pleasant thing going on around here.

[perrjojo]

Sinkholes, lightening capital, 2 years of blowing dirt, traffic and unsafe golf carts (drivers), middle of Florida is way too hot, too large a complex yet too congested, squares and most other activities open to public, too much of a bubble, crime is comparable to other areas, restaurants too crowded and lack of ocean.

Too much crime, congestion, squares open to the public, etc.; how can this be a bubble? I'm sorry you are not happy here or maybe you are happy? Oh, and did you not know there was no ocean here?

[Dancing Queen]

Let us all remember this origional Thread asks, What one hates about the villages.

The origional poster was trying to see through the bubble long ago.

So it is an educational on going thread for those of us wishing to live in TV, but wanting all the facts up front, I read the entire thread a ways back because my husband was skepticle. I on the other hand see TV as my personal utopia.

I only strongly dislike that I am not living in TV yet.

[Bogie Shooter]

Let us all remember this origional Thread asks, What one hates about the villages.

The origional poster was trying to see through the bubble long ago.

So it is an educational on going thread for those of us wishing to live in TV, but wanting all the facts up front, I read the entire thread a ways back because my husband was skepticle. I on the other hand see TV as my personal utopia.

I only strongly dislike that I am not living in TV yet.

You should get an award for doing that! 900+ posts

[Hank N Judy]

I think linandvin are just trying to get a rise out of everyone.
NY humor maybe?

[Patty55]

This is MY home town now. UNFAIR criticisms bother me. I became a frog about a year ago. I feel the ownership and pride of this town.

On the negativity issue...Some people, time after time, even year after year, on this forum, never, ever say anything positive. It is like our parents generation in the thirties, it was somehow wrong to praise. It was only when you were doing something wrong, you heard about it.

It is their personality, the ALWAYS negative folks, and thank heavens there aren't too many of them. They find some kind of satisfaction is pointing out things that are wrong. Somehow there are some people who just miss the whole pleasant thing going on around here.

I totally Agree, and what peeves me off even more is when THEY DON'T EVEN LIVE HERE!!

How about the one a few months ago who was here ON VACATION and rode around looking for violations because she might move here in five years. So, she (or he) posted the address of the home that she/he deemed a mess. EXCUSE ME, if you're still around, I'd like to ask "How's the view from the cheap seats?"

The most annoying part of these "cheap seat dwellers" is that people listen to them. I think that the builder should charge to file these busybody complaints.

[Dancing Queen]

You should get an award for doing that! 900+ posts

900 points, Cool, you mean like the points Drew Carey awarded on Whose Line is it Anyway?

[Bogie Shooter]

900 points, Cool, you mean like the points Drew Carey awarded on Whose Line is it Anyway?

For reading 900+ Posts.

[Dancing Queen]

Posts.

Brain malfunction, oopsie.

[Bogie Shooter]

Brain malfunction, oopsie.

It comes with age!:D

[perrjojo]

I think linandvin are just trying to get a rise out of everyone.
NY humor maybe?

It worked.:pepper2: but he forgot to mention the Love Bugs!

[linandvin]

Duffysmom...no offense intended. Just some observations. Especially after passing the house that put cardboard over their nameplate and renamed it Mr and Mrs Sinkhole. We are surely in the minority because the Villages works so well for so many people, and that's what it is all about. Being happy where you are. You can't direct the wind but you can adjust the sails. Enjoy your ride.

[Cisco Kid]

Sinkholes, lightening capital, 2 years of blowing dirt,

My 1st post
I am a lurking want-a-bee- frog
I love to fix things
A lighting struck home in a sink hole, full of dirt maybe for me.:pepper2::pepper2:

[linandvin]

see? there IS something for everyone!

[graciegirl]

see? there IS something for everyone!

Your post made me sad. I hope you don't leave us.

[linandvin]

I DO want to meet YOU one day! I enjoy your posts.

[Bogie Shooter]

I DO want to meet YOU one day! I enjoy your posts.

See, there is something for everyone!

[Russ_Boston]

The one thing (maybe only) thing I don't like about TV is that my 8 foot putts don't drop any more. Unless they're for bogey! :)

[graciegirl]

The one thing (maybe only) thing I don't like about TV is that my 8 foot putts don't drop any more. Unless they're for bogey! :)

Heck Russ, Bogey is great. Three over par is looking better every day! (on a hole) :(

[paulandjean]

The one thing I do not like,On talk of the villages to many companies trying to sell you something.....................

[Eve2278]

that I have to choose between all the fun things to do in The Villages ON ONE GIVEN DAY and then I realize how blessed I am...

Seriously!

[Barefoot]

The one thing I do not like,On talk of the villages, to many companies trying to sell you something.....................

I realize this thread is about "What don't you like about TV", and it's not about TOTV at all. But still, I have to ask Paulandjean the question .....

Would you prefer to pay a membership fee for use of TOTV? :ohdear:

[duffysmom]

I realize this thread is about "What don't you like about TV", and it's not about TOTV at all. But still, I have to ask Paulandjean the question .....

Would you prefer to pay a membership fee for use of TOTV? :ohdear:

My wish is that all the advertisers prosper; I've gotton so much good from reading TOTV, they have provided a great service and I want the owners to posper as well. :ho:

[Challenger]

Dislike;
1)The very poor conditions of traps and Greens on Execs because people don't rake and repair.
2)People who refuse to take the right away when appropriate. Causes confusion and potential danger.
3)People who walk in golf cart lanes when sidewalks are provided.
Like:
1)Strong Deed restrictions and covenants
2)Genius of Developer in almost every aspect of this beautiful, well designed place.
3)Enormous number of clubs and activities
My favorite= Rotary Club of the Villages-morning)
4)Reasonable living costs
5)Beautiful Neighborhoods
6) Generally very friendly residents(an exception or two maybe)

Dislikes =limited. Likes = unlimited

[Russ_Boston]

Dislike;

2)People who refuse to take the right away when appropriate. Causes confusion and potential danger.
3)People who walk in golf cart lanes when sidewalks are provided.



Two great points!!

Also don't like that some people use the exact same hand signal (arm straight out) whether they are taking a right or a left in their cart. What gives with that? I saw two of them yesterday.

[Taltarzac725]

Kneers-- those golf cart drivers (usually men) who leave their foot sticking out while driving their golf carts.

Footers- same as Kneers but just with foot.

I often feel I have to get way over to avoid these cart drivers who have various appendages sticking out of their golf carts.

[Bosoxfan]

I haven't had time to read all the posts here so I don't know if this has been discussed . I'm a relatively healthy 55 year old man but the fumes put out by gas golf cars are making me sick. I presently have the start of a cold & I can't stop hacking when I'm behind one.
Going thru the tunnels there doesn't even have to be another cart in with me but the walls are saturated with these fumes. I know a lot of you out there own these carts but this just can't be healthy!

[graciegirl]

I haven't had time to read all the posts here so I don't know if this has been discussed . I'm a relatively healthy 55 year old man but the fumes put out by gas golf cars are making me sick. I presently have the start of a cold & I can't stop hacking when I'm behind one.
Going thru the tunnels there doesn't even have to be another cart in with me but the walls are saturated with these fumes. I know a lot of you out there own these carts but this just can't be healthy!

Bosox...I am guessing that you too are suffering from the same seasonal allergies that are affecting a lot of us right now. Mine started about a week ago and I cough, daughter Helene sneezes and her nose drips, friends have watery and itchy eyes. I have heard it blamed on the Bottle Brush blossoms and it could be the liveoaks, but whatever it is is not good for the upper respiratory.

I know the fumes don't help it. Nurse Nelly...here diagnosing from afar. That will be five cents please.;)

[skyguy79]

Nurse Nelly...here diagnosing from afar. That will be five cents please.;)You take wooden nickles? :duck:

[John_W]

...don't like that some people use the exact same hand signal (arm straight out) whether they are taking a right or a left in their cart. What gives with that? I saw two of them yesterday.

My favorite is the golf cart driver in his cart lane on the rightside of the road going on forever with his left turn signal on. It's usually a Yamaha because they don't have a warning sound and the left indicator light is blocked from your vision below the steering wheel.

I went to the LSL Yamaha dealer and had them install two LED turn signal indicator lights on the windshield sideposts. They are eye level and you can't miss them. I wish they made those standard equipment on Yamaha. If anyone is interested it was $50 parts and labor, and while he was at it he lowered my big sideview mirrows at no charge, which at eye leval had created blind spots when making a turn.

[Bosoxfan]

Bosox...I am guessing that you too are suffering from the same seasonal allergies that are affecting a lot of us right now. Mine started about a week ago and I cough, daughter Helene sneezes and her nose drips, friends have watery and itchy eyes. I have heard it blamed on the Bottle Brush blossoms and it could be the liveoaks, but whatever it is is not good for the upper respiratory.

I know the fumes don't help it. Nurse Nelly...here diagnosing from afar. That will be five cents please.;)

Mine started with that dreadful post nasal drip & has developed into a horrendous cough.

[buggyone]

Mine started with that dreadful post nasal drip & has developed into a horrendous cough.

I had that last year. I got a prescription for "Z-Pack" which is a 5 day dose of an anti-biotic and it worked great. Another good treatment before it develops into the horrendous cough is Saline Solution (from Publix pharmacy for about $2.50) sprayed into each nostril several times a day.

[Madelaine Amee]

Mine started with that dreadful post nasal drip & has developed into a horrendous cough.

I picked that virus up in Europe this year. I thought it was allergies, but it developed into a dreadful hacking cough and I am sure it was a virus. Mine finally cleared up after about six weeks, but the other half was deathly sick with it and needed antibiotics for a sinus infection!

[quirky3]

Vicks is everyone's "old family favorite" - to help you breathe when you have allergies or a virus, you can try the Vicks inhaler (or the generic brand). It works really well, and doesn't have a rebound effect.

[Bogie Shooter]

Thread has been hijacked once again.

[looneycat]

My favorite is the golf cart driver in his cart lane on the rightside of the road going on forever with his left turn signal on. It's usually a Yamaha because they don't have a warning sound and the left indicator light is blocked from your vision below the steering wheel.

I went to the LSL Yamaha dealer and had them install two LED turn signal indicator lights on the windshield sideposts. They are eye level and you can't miss them. I wish they made those standard equipment on Yamaha. If anyone is interested it was $50 parts and labor, and while he was at it he lowered my big sideview mirrows at no charge, which at eye leval had created blind spots when making a turn.

what, they shouldn't do the same thing they do when driving their car???
:a040:

[robertj1954]

I cannot think of anything to hate about The Villages. I do however wish people would use more care when driving both their motor vehicles and golf carts. I have had a few close calls because of either distracted or confused motorists. It can be very scary and it certainly does not help my blood pressure level, which is already too high.

[quirky3]

I don't "hate" it, but there is a serious lack of public and private transportation options for residents

[DonH57]

That's the only thing I hated about the rental golf car I used a few weeks ago. The turn signal switch had no warning light or noise and ususally being in a car where they turn off automatically I tooled around with a turn signal on. Thankfully a few villagers were kind enough to let me know. I felt like such an ass. Well, lesson learned.

[buzzy]

No place to make a U-turn when you miss your destination by car.

[lovesports]

No place to make a U-turn when you miss your destination by car.

Also, no place to pull over if you are new and need to read a map or answer a cell phone etc.

[babyjayne]

The only problem in The Villages is the people speeding! Why are they in such a hurry?

[Billyg]

The only problem in TV is the Sick Care System
.

[Bogie Shooter]

I think its all been said before.:ohdear:

[senior citizen]

DISKMAN
I DON'T KNOW WHERE YOU GOT THE IDEA TO AVOID CHATHAM. TO DO SO YOU ARE MISSING PROBABLY THE MOST BEAUTIFUL NIEGHBORHOOD IN THE VILLAGES..THE HOMES HERE BY AMBERWOOD GOLF COURSE ARE GEORGEOUS ,THE NEIGHBORS ARE WONDERFUL, I LIVED IN ANOTHER VILLAGE FOR TWO YEARS THEN MOVED HERE FOR ANOTHER TWO YEARS AND NOW I WOULDN'T LIVE ANYWHERE ELSE..AFTER A MONTH YOU DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT THE TRAINS..HAVING SAID THAT , I WILL ADMIT THAT I'M A LITTLE HARD OF HEARING .... ;D

THE ONLY DOWNSIDE IS IF YOU ARE A LOW HANDICAP GOLFER YOU WOULDN'T LIKE IT HERE, THESE PEOPLE IN CHATHAM ARE LOUSY GOLFERS. ;D

This is really really an old thread..........but we agree with above poster.
That entire area of Chatham, including Calumet Grove and others is one of the nicest quadrants of The Villages..........I think my husband heard the train once at a distance. It was not annoying or anything like that. It did not take very long, by automobile, to get to Lake Sumter Landing or any other place in The Villages..........plus was close to the polo grounds and other things........

[Cedwards38]

I hate when I have to leave.

[senior citizen]

I hate when I have to leave.

Really good answer. We felt the same way.

[2BNTV]

I hate it because I'm not there yet! :cryin2:

[graciegirl]

I hate it because I'm not there yet! :cryin2:

And lots of US, hate it too.

[NotGolfer]

"Hate" is a really strong word! Besides that---this thread is bordering on ancient...oops I mean old!! Well worn I would say!

[PaPaLarry]

"Hate" is a really strong word! Besides that---this thread is boardering on ancient...oops I mean old!! Well worn I would say!
I agree!!!!!

[cquick]

this thread is too old.....it should be closed. If someone wants to start a new one on the same subject, fine.

[beachman46]

TV is great except during happy hour. People will do anything to sit at the bar at the CC. Over the past 5 yrs, I've seen pushing, pulling, shoving etc. to get a seat at the bar.
TV is the friendliest home town except during happy hour.

[SALYBOW]

I hate the fact that the dentists here charge twice what the do in Ohio. I am thinking of going back to have my dental work done.

[carol_piirto]

The villages is HEAVEN ON EARTH. There is absolutely nothing to "hate".

BUT if you"hate" things where you are, you will probably find something to "hate" here too.

[DDoug]

It's teeeeerrrrrraffic you thought I was going to say terrific didn't you

[Bogie Shooter]

Don't you just love the title of this thread?

[Russ_Boston]

For some reason people take exception to the word 'hate'. Not sure why. I referenced Merriam Webster dictionary in another thread and the definition of hate is "a strong dislike for something or someone". What's wrong with that? I hate love bugs - I hate double bogies or three putts - I hate people who cut me off in roundabouts or posters who mention roundabouts (whoops I guess I hate myself) :)

[simpkinp]

Only thing I hate is the traffic jams lately. Anybody else out today and see the traffic mess going to the Strawberry Festival at the American Legion? Cars backed up on 466 for 1/2 mile. Never thought I would see that. I know it will smooth out, but for some crazy reason I was the only one in the Neighborhood Pool today. Guess everyone was on the road...

[sharonga]

Coming from New York, we are automatically skeptical. Paradise is here. There is no bad. Medical care is a little wierd. I miss my mom and my sister and her family. My kids followed us here, not such a great thing!!!! This place is like another country and a wonderful one at that.

[Happinow]

I can't say I hate anything here. But, there are a few things I don't like. I don't like that there is only one grocery store close to me and I really don't like that my friends who are snowbirds will be leaving next month! I will really miss them. This is a beautiful place live.

[simpkinp]

Hey Russ- Boston, some days I would be happy with a three putt. A four is a total embarrassment... Hate the game and keep going back...

[Bay Kid]

We keep hearing from the village lovers(people who are happy with their choice. Other than Jan and the people dealing with the train noise (Chatham) Are there any other villages we should stay away from and why? :dontknow:
Larry & Bev!

I HATE that I am stuck in VA. in the cold spring and not in TV...for now....

[ilovetv]

I hate it when people who've never been here decide and proclaim that 90,000 people got it all wrong.

[Golf-Tinker]

People continue to resurrect this thread. The
shelf life has expired. Return to the dump, someone. Please.

[Heartnsoul]

We encourage people to be honest here. Honesty is not negativity. Although some people think it is. "Hate" is a strong word. It has been made even stronger since "hate" is now a federal crime when it comes to actions against people.

Honesty on the downside of the villages would be it is getting very crowded, lots of traffic, waiting to get into classes, clubs are closing because they are filled to capacity, homes are very close, not enough gyms, need more softball fields. Restaurants have long waits when snowbirds here. Being as honest as I can here without sounding critical.

the people are wonderful, come from all walks of life and the opportunity to participate in so many different activities is what sells the villages. It's a wonderful lifestyle but I can see why some would prefer a smaller more intimate community. Sometimes when communities get TOO large you lose that intimate getting to know everyone feeling. but overall it's a beautiful fun community filled with many activities.

[Cisco Kid]

:popcorn::popcorn::popcorn::popcorn::popcorn:

[Bogie Shooter]

People continue to resurrect this thread. The
shelf life has expired. Return to the dump, someone. Please.

I agree!

[harleyhall]

INTERSECTIONS!INTERSECTIONS! There are so many blind spots, and not enough stop signs/lights where golf carts and cars cross certain streets. A lot of this problem lies in the Spanish Springs side of TV. I must say, that the landscaping has improved, esp by Wal-Mart, but some areas are difficult to navigate. COLONY BLVD and the golf cart path intersection is a dread. When winter birds are here, the line to turn on Colony or cross can reach 1/4 mile for golf carts on the north side :( ... I'm one of the youngest people in TV driving a GC everyday, touching every path for my business! Other than that, Hate should not be used, because this place is wonderful!

[mickey100]

Honesty on the downside of the villages would be it is getting very crowded, lots of traffic, waiting to get into classes, clubs are closing because they are filled to capacity, homes are very close, not enough gyms, need more softball fields. Restaurants have long waits when snowbirds here. Being as honest as I can here without sounding critical.

the people are wonderful, come from all walks of life and the opportunity to participate in so many different activities is what sells the villages. It's a wonderful lifestyle but I can see why some would prefer a smaller more intimate community. Sometimes when communities get TOO large you lose that intimate getting to know everyone feeling. but overall it's a beautiful fun community filled with many activities.

Very nicely worded, and brave of you to post. Hopefully you won't get attacked for expressing your thoughts.

[ilovetv]

How about a replacement, new thread called "Every town has its Pluses and Minuses...Do the Pluses Outweigh the Minuses?"

[rp001]

medical care is not what it should be for a population this size.

[Uptown Girl]

People continue to resurrect this thread. The
shelf life has expired. Return to the dump, someone. Please.

Yes, please. It's like deja vu all over again. :mornincoffee:

This thread originated in 2007 and the original poster lives in California, not TV.
Please, if you have a gripe, start a new thread. Otherwise we'll have to pummel you with a wet noodle.

[Russ_Boston]

Otherwise we'll have to pummel you with a wet noodle.

Thanks, you just reminded me to call China Gourmet:)

[Barefoot]

People continue to resurrect this thread. The
shelf life has expired. Return to the dump, someone. Please.

Each time you post, you bump this thread to the top. :mornincoffee:

[Villageshooter]

The one that upsets me is smokers in the restaurant outdoor bars ,,, and the "comfort" dogs" in the resuarants..i was in katie bells dowstairs ,,,a lady was feeding a dog from her plate,,,, folks we are headed for real issue with this dog mess!!

[Barefoot]

...... folks we are headed for real issue with this dog mess!!

My dogs are wondering if they should pack their bags and get out of Dodge.

[graciegirl]

My dogs are wondering if they should pack their bags and get out of Dodge.

Don't worry. :boxing2:The girls posse will protect you and Biggins and I forgot your other furry childs name. Brain flatulence.

[mickey100]

The one that upsets me is smokers in the restaurant outdoor bars ,,, and the "comfort" dogs" in the resuarants..i was in katie bells dowstairs ,,,a lady was feeding a dog from her plate,,,, folks we are headed for real issue with this dog mess!!

Eeeeew! Remind me not to eat at Katie Bells.

[Patty55]

The one that upsets me is smokers in the restaurant outdoor bars ,,, and the "comfort" dogs" in the resuarants..i was in katie bells dowstairs ,,,a lady was feeding a dog from her plate,,,, folks we are headed for real issue with this dog mess!!

How could anyone allow their poor sweet dog to eat that dreck?

[senior citizen]

Hate is a very strong word and as I always tell my husband, I truthfully cannot say I hate anything. I always can see both sides to any story....or at least understand where the other person is coming from.....or what made them the way they are.

I always taught my own children to be kind and not to hurt anyone's feelings.
I know they would NOT be among the bullying crowd in the schools today.

That said, the majority of TV TOTV folks are super intelligent, ultra NICE, genuinely caring folks....but a small faction are so ready to jump onto any opinion they don't agree with.....and respond with cruel or negative comments.

Not everyone has to like the same thing. Not everyone should have to be politically correct all the time. I've watched how people almost have to apologize for their words....or their original thoughts. It's a little weird......if truth be told.

Maybe that's what some mean by the Kool-Aid or Stepford attributes.........????
Who really knows? Not me.

Guess we've lived with the YANKEES too long up in New England.
People pride themselves on freedom of thought and speech up here.

I'm sure someone will now say that I should stay up north with the Yankees.....
There are a few Floridians we have met over the past almost 50 years that remind us of our native Vermonters............one old guy with a fishing pole walking up a dirt road on Sanibel Island, in particular...........we had gotten "off the beaten path" with our two teenagers in the back seat of our car..........hubby rolls down the window in what looked like a scene from "Children of the Corn" movie.........and asked this crusty old guy, "Could you please tell me how to get out of here?".........

"Same way you got in"........was his reply. Made us feel right at home, like an oldtime Vermont native. Few words and to the point.

[Villageshooter]

Eeeeew! Remind me not to eat at Katie Bells.

I thought that was something we long timers knew!
Ah mans best friends teaches us again!!
We NEVER eat a meal there, the place has gone to the dogs! FIlTHY!

[Moderator]

This thread has run its course and is now closed.

Feel free to start new threads with specific fresh topics.

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