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Bogie Shooter 06-01-2020 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by lorilorilori (Post 1774888)
the next generation ... Will not be "born white and priviledged."
many/most government jobs going to minorities
social security going to minorities and lots of whites being turned down. (yes, its true)
scholorships available for minorities and less for white kids
minorities are banding together against whites.
Ok for a black to be a racist - not ok for a white.
If you think your grandkids are going to have it ez - u r asleep in the real world.

wow!

Two Bills 06-01-2020 11:35 AM

I don't think I have seen so much hypocritical, sanctimonious, bigoted, you name it, BS posted on this subject and in similar threads on TOTV since the old political section days!:ohdear:

Bogie Shooter 06-01-2020 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Two Bills (Post 1775099)
I don't think I have seen so much hypocritical, sanctimonious, bigoted, you name it, BS posted on this subject and in similar threads on TOTV since the old political section days!:ohdear:

:thumbup:

Bellavita 06-01-2020 11:52 AM

I think you really missed the point.
Black people have all the things you have as well, they pray they love they have Mothers and Fathers who love them, they are children and jobs.
What you fail to understand is what it feels like to be a black person, in our white world.

When you are stopped by the police you are white, so they don't assume you are a criminal

When you are birdwatching and you ask a woman to put her dog on a leash ..you are white, so you don't have someone call the police to say you were harassing her.

When you are out for a jog, you are white so people think your out for a jog, they don't hunt you down like an animal and shoot you in the street.

I hope these examples will help you because the racism in this country is real and making silly remarks don't help. Get in and be part of the solution.

You are either racist or you are against racists there is no middle ground. Not now.

Oh yeah I am white too.

PugMom 06-01-2020 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Jerry101 (Post 1774653)
I keep hearing from others that because I am a white man ... I am a person of privilege. I always bristled at that suggestion. How can anyone who’s never walked a step in my shoes suggest that? ... and then I realized they were right after all! I had the privilege of having a loving mom and dad! They loved their four kids unconditionally! We ended every night with prayer! We said a prayer of thanks at every meal. We started every Sunday morning at Sunday school and then worshiped together in church. All four of us kids were there when we buried our parents. Today the four of us are nothing special ... but we know ... by faith... that Jesus is Lord! I’m sorry ... you are right... I am a person of privilege! Amen!

that remark was baiting you, imo. is prob best to leave it alone

Bellbrookgal@gmail.com 06-01-2020 11:59 AM

It sounds like a Racism 101 course is badly needed here.

PugMom 06-01-2020 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by OrangeBlossomBaby (Post 1774868)
The riots were led by, or manipulated by White Nationalists. That's been discovered and reported and confirmed. They've been doing tracing.

:1rotfl::1rotfl: i don't think so

Miguel 1952 06-01-2020 12:18 PM

Also born in Cuba and came to USA in 1962
 
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Originally Posted by Pedrocarrasco01@yahoo.com (Post 1774779)
I am sorry, but I have to disagree with that post totally, I am a Hispanic male, came over from Cuba In 1962, landed in Miami, did not speak English, had to work since there was no welfare back then, worked as many as 3 jobs to be able to eat, bought a car on payments and moved to Virginia. I saw and felt discrimination, I saw the signs saying “Cubans not allowed” I was called every bad name in the book, I got over it and are now retired with no debt, no pension, but very stable and I buy what I want when I want. It’s what you make of yourself what counts. If you live with a chip on your shoulder it will be there FOREVER. GET OVER IT, work hard, worship hard live a clean life, EVERYONE CAN MAKE IT. AMERICA IS THE LAND OF OPPORTUNITIES, IF YOU ARE WILLING AND ABLE TO EARN IT. GOD BLESS AMERICA!!!!!!!

We didn't sit back and feel sorry for ourselves. In my family my parents worked and the kids to school. By the way all three kids went to medical school. Stop with the white guilt, I as a Hispanic don't ask for it or want it. Work hard for many years and you will succeed here in the US. Act like a thug and prison or death is your future.

ColdNoMore 06-01-2020 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Bellavita (Post 1775105)
I think you really missed the point.
Black people have all the things you have as well, they pray they love they have Mothers and Fathers who love them, they are children and jobs.
What you fail to understand is what it feels like to be a black person, in our white world.

When you are stopped by the police you are white, so they don't assume you are a criminal

When you are birdwatching and you ask a woman to put her dog on a leash ..you are white, so you don't have someone call the police to say you were harassing her.

When you are out for a jog, you are white so people think your out for a jog, they don't hunt you down like an animal and shoot you in the street.

I hope these examples will help you because the racism in this country is real and making silly remarks don't help. Get in and be part of the solution.

You are either racist or you are against racists there is no middle ground. Not now.

Oh yeah I am white too.


BRAVO!! :bigbow:

B767drvr 06-01-2020 12:22 PM

vir·tue sig·nal·ing(British virtue signalling)

noun

the action or practice of publicly expressing opinions or sentiments intended to demonstrate one's good character or the moral correctness of one's position on a particular issue: it's noticeable how often virtue signaling consists of saying you hate things | standing on the sidelines saying how awful the situation is does nothing except massage your ego by virtue signaling.

jimhurtt@twc.com 06-01-2020 12:34 PM

I hate to say this but historically black people, by their attitudes, culture, mannerisms, dress, and disdain for authority, historically have clashed with other races. Not all certainly. But enough to rub people the wrong way. I don't consider myself racist, but I am very uncomfortable in presence of any people, be they white, black or other, that "act out" with disregard.

ColdNoMore 06-01-2020 12:38 PM

Slowly, but surely, more & more keep oozing out of the woodwork proving me (and a few other decent people willing to speak out)...correct. :ohdear:

sallybowron 06-01-2020 12:40 PM

Very true Jerry. Additionally, you probably had a job which supported you to the level in life that you lived.

ColdNoMore 06-01-2020 12:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Jayhawk (Post 1774947)
Yes, but I also don't hear you or anyone else saying they wish they were born White Trash. Do you have a chance to see the online news source that can't be linked and see some of the trash that is busted on an almost daily basis? Way more white than any other. Did they miss the Privilege Train or was it just bad luck in the DNA Lottery?

Yes, there are plenty of examples of white's squandering...that head-start they were given.

It doesn't change the fact though...that they had that head-start to begin with.

Velvet 06-01-2020 12:52 PM

I see racism as similar to sexism. Whenever there are arbitrary differences used to put down or hurt people, we all lose. I believe that people should be judged by their behavior which they choose, and not by physical attributes which they didn’t.

Antique lady 06-01-2020 12:58 PM

Privilege/Equal Treatment
 
Just want to add that none of what we are seeing had to happen. Once the officers were fired they should have been detained by law enforcement to convey that this killing was being addressed.

Inaction fueled protest and protest served as cover for looters and as cover
for hate groups wanting to further incite violence. These killings by police
can not continue without accountability...…..This protest is now global
people in Germany, the UK and Canada have taken to the streets....

"The world is watching."

DrBrutyle109 06-01-2020 01:07 PM

The things describe are the people who are ignorant. Nothing is perfect and nothing is a 100% either way.

mydavid 06-01-2020 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Slapnut (Post 1774719)
We will never be able to get over these racial barriers because of people ( both black and white) not being able to get over the past. Forget the skin color and look at that person as an individual. There are certain people that make it rough on their race by doing terrible things that reflect on them as a race whether they are black or white. We can't base our opinions on these few but we do. We need to look at the big picture and look at one race (the human race). Until we can get skin color and just the few people who set the bad examples out of our head then maybe we can get over this problem. I seriously doubt that it will ever happen because of living in the past

"Well said"

Sheldon5663 06-01-2020 01:20 PM

Balderdash
 
I don’t listen to others generalizations.
I’m white and “VERY DARN PROUD” of it!!
I grew up in a very loving modest earning parent household in the ‘70,s and my sister and I lacked for NOTHING!!
White privilege. What a sweeping and INCORRECT over generalization!!!🧐🧐 essential [/QUOTE]

Antique lady 06-01-2020 01:41 PM

Privilege
 
Thank you. I am a person of color and equally proud of that. Diversity of ethnic and racial groups is what makes this country work...

Hard work coupled with equal opportunity is the key....

nututv 06-01-2020 01:52 PM

Ever had bones broken because of your color? Ever been bloodied (too many times to count) because of your color? Ever been given an F on a project in High School because of your color when you knew it was A or B material? Ever been thrown against a locker (too many times to count) because of your color and the fact you were half their size? Ever been shipped to the black school because that's just where you happened to live when busing came about? Ever been looked over in a promotion because they needed more minorities before they hired any whites?
I was raised in an Air Force family my entire childhood and joined myself as soon as I could. If you wanted to get knocked down to size, mention a racial slur knocking any race. It simply wasn't said in our house by anyone. Even during my weekly beatings/bullying in school.
Ever been called a racist because you couldn't stand Obama (half black) when at the same time you were calling the offices of Allen West (both parents black) begging him to run for President?
Ever been schooled on white male privilege by a woman (black and white) lol It's like me describing what childbirth is like.
Man of privilege my arse!
PS. I won't mention the times my blond haired brother 10 years older than myself was ganged up on by the locals in High School when we were stationed in Hawaii. Yeah, we were Haole's and in the late 50's, early 60's, it wasn't something you wanted to be 'in paradise'. Isn't white privilege great!

Stu from NYC 06-01-2020 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Antique lady (Post 1775203)
Thank you. I am a person of color and equally proud of that. Diversity of ethnic and racial groups is what makes this country work...

Hard work coupled with equal opportunity is the key....

Your last sentence tell us what a wonderful lady you are.

OlifOlif 06-01-2020 02:06 PM

Yes, yes, and YES!!!

JP 06-01-2020 02:27 PM

All races have racism.

nututv 06-01-2020 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by JP (Post 1775224)
All races have racism.

Bingo! Every 'us', has a 'them'. And there are just too many people in every group trying to keep that unchanged.

LG999 06-01-2020 02:34 PM

I too dislike being classified as “privileged” just bcs I am white. I have had to work very hard for everything in my life. My family came to the US via Ellis Island with nothing but the clothes they had on & spoke only Italian. So they had to work even harder than me. Although I am white I have been mistaken for American Indian. I grew up in a time when women were not as equal as they are today. I could go on. My point is I am white but definitely not privileged. It is wrong to make generalizations about any race or any person you dont know. I resent it.

fdpaq0580 06-01-2020 02:41 PM

Not at all.
 
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Originally Posted by blueash (Post 1774876)
If only those blacks weren't so uppity! Am I hearing you correctly?

No, you are not. What I think you refer to in my post is the use of the previous poster use of the expression "chip on the shoulder". I will try to make this clear.
I was trying to point out, and I obviously failed, that anyone, regardless of ethnicity, faith, national origin, etc who approaches a situation with a"chip on the shoulder" attitude seems like they are looking for a fight rather than trying to find rational peaceful solutions to that situation in a way in which all parties benefit. It has been my experience that if I go looking for a fight there are always plenty of folks willing to oblige.
I recall an old movie where, I believe, a couple of Hispanics were talking about race relations. One said something to the effect if we all interbred we would all be multi-ethic and our excuses for racial battles would disappear.
So, everyone, put away the knives, guns and attitude, sit down at the table and be prepared to listen and understand as well as talk.
Does this make more sense to you, blueash?

nututv 06-01-2020 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by fdpaq0580 (Post 1775235)
if we all interbred we would all be multi-ethic and our excuses for racial battles would disappear.

Sounds like a lot of fun but then the Mulatto's would be at war with the half breeds... and versa visa.
Like the old Star Trek "Let That Be Your Last Battlefield" it was quite good and ahead of its time.
Let That Be Your Last Battlefield - Wikipedia

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