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dotti105 08-16-2014 04:29 PM

Mischief at the mailboxes
 
I realize that we are all here to enjoy ourselves and some perhaps to relive our youth. But seriously, it's pretty immature; sadly immature; to mess with a "neighbor's" mailbox!

We put a sticker for a family owned restaurant we enjoy in NC on our mailbox to help us locate it quickly.

Some idiot tore it off! All the others around ours have stickers, they all seem to be intact. Our was not off color, political or in any way offensive. So what's the deal? Just some jerk showing his true colors?

I'm sure the intent was to pi$$ someone off. And they were successful. It's just so juvenile that I certainly didn't see that coming in America's Friendliest Hometown.

What happened to respecting the rights of others??

Topspinmo 08-16-2014 04:46 PM

:agree: Sorry for you grief. Some people just can't leave stuff alone even if it is no business to them.

asianthree 08-16-2014 04:49 PM

It's not the first Time, sadly not the last

CFrance 08-16-2014 04:56 PM

Wasn't this happening to someone else recently, like beginning of the summer?

MikeV 08-16-2014 04:58 PM

Some people are just idiots.

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Wandatime 08-16-2014 05:28 PM

I wish they'd get mad enough to pick up cigarette butts!

perrjojo 08-16-2014 06:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dotti105 (Post 924206)
I realize that we are all here to enjoy ourselves and some perhaps to relive our youth. But seriously, it's pretty immature; sadly immature; to mess with a "neighbor's" mailbox!

We put a sticker for a family owned restaurant we enjoy in NC on our mailbox to help us locate it quickly.

Some idiot tore it off! All the others around ours have stickers, they all seem to be intact. Our was not off color, political or in any way offensive. So what's the deal? Just some jerk showing his true colors?

I'm sure the intent was to pi$$ someone off. And they were successful. It's just so juvenile that I certainly didn't see that coming in America's Friendliest Hometown.

What happened to respecting the rights of others??

I would never remove anyone's sticker but I have to admit I think they junk up our mail stations. No one should remove your sticker but it's really not that hard to find your mail box. Sorry someone took your sticker. I guess they think they are the mail box police.

Christine G 08-16-2014 06:55 PM

Pity these folks are the "poop" police!

nkrifats 08-16-2014 06:59 PM

Not really something to get excited about. Memorize your mailbox number

nicoletta 08-16-2014 07:02 PM

oh no!! maybe it was a lawyer or ex-postal employee going postal !!

It is against the law to" willfully deface", damage or destroy a mailbox. Doing so could incur a fine and/or a 3-year prison sentence

Read more : Home Mailbox Laws | eHow

Included in these standards are the fact that mailboxes are not permitted to carry " any type of advertising" whatsoever nor any artwork that could be deemed offensive

Read more : Home Mailbox Laws | eHow

nicoletta 08-16-2014 07:04 PM

I Love all the references to America's friendliest hometown!!
I fall out of my chair EVERY TIME !!!

perrjojo 08-16-2014 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by nicoletta (Post 924259)
I Love all the references to America's friendliest hometown!!
I fall out of my chair EVERY TIME !!!

Actually it's Floridas friendliest home town. Who knows? Maybe it is. I haven't lived in them all.

Wandatime 08-16-2014 07:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nicoletta (Post 924258)
oh no!! maybe it was a lawyer or ex-postal employee going postal !!

It is against the law to" willfully deface", damage or destroy a mailbox. Doing so could incur a fine and/or a 3-year prison sentence

Read more : Home Mailbox Laws | eHow

Included in these standards are the fact that mailboxes are not permitted to carry " any type of advertising" whatsoever nor any artwork that could be deemed offensive

Read more : Home Mailbox Laws | eHow

Which is why you should always put the sticker on the mailbox right above yours. :laugh:

seacoastbargain 08-16-2014 07:10 PM

We have lived in Polo Ridge for only 5 months and had our various stickers removed every time. Neighboring boxes have also had their stickers removed. The only ones that this guy/gal doesn't remove are US Flags.
It has really bothered me. I have no idea why anyone would be doing this, or even care.

perrjojo 08-16-2014 07:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by seacoastbargain (Post 924265)
We have lived in Polo Ridge for only 5 months and had our various stickers removed every time. Neighboring boxes have also had their stickers removed. The only ones that this guy/gal doesn't remove are US Flags.
It has really bothered me. I have no idea why anyone would be doing this, or even care.

Not being judgmental,just curious. Your box has a number; why do you need a sticker?

perrjojo 08-16-2014 07:15 PM

If you go to the US post office and have a box there, would you put a sticker on it? Have you ever seen stickers on boxes at a US Post Office?

Hancle704 08-16-2014 07:17 PM

Our mailstop was stripped of stickers and writing after it started to look like graffiti and included writing with magic markers. Most folks have not objected to the clean look and have found it not too difficult to remember 4 numbers or 2nd row 5th box from the end, etc. Been told we don't own the box so it is not appropriate to deface someone else's property.

Villager Joyce 08-16-2014 09:20 PM

What if someone decides it isn't necessary to paint your driveway or add personality to your name on your lamp post? Just because you don't care to have a sticker on your mailbox doesn't or shouldn't mean someone else can't.

Barefoot 08-16-2014 10:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Villager Joyce (Post 924313)
What if someone decides it isn't necessary to paint your driveway or add personality to your name on your lamp post? Just because you don't care to have a sticker on your mailbox doesn't or shouldn't mean someone else can't.

I agree with Joyce.
I'm not sure why anyone would find stickers on mailboxes offensive.
The postal workers are fine with it.
It only takes a few seconds each day to pick up mail.
Live and let live.

Polar Bear 08-16-2014 11:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Villager Joyce (Post 924313)
What if someone decides it isn't necessary to paint your driveway or add personality to your name on your lamp post...

I don't have a dog in this race, but this is a bit of an apples and oranges comparison. You own your driveway and your lamp post. You don't own the mailbox.

Miles42 08-16-2014 11:12 PM

Age does not always come with maturity as a sure thing. There is no cure for stupid.

tippyclubb 08-16-2014 11:39 PM

Dotti go to the $ store and buy a lot of bright colored stickers. Every time someone removes your sticker replace it with another one.

Better yet spray paint a small pink dot on your box that can't be peeled off. I'd like to see that on video, surprise, it doesn't come off that easy.

redwitch 08-17-2014 01:00 AM

It could be it was removed by a postal employee because it would be considered an advertisement for a restaurant rather than just a sticker and advertising on government property is very much against the law. Other possibilities: someone was going to be driving through that area and wanted to remember the name of the restaurant or was from there and wanted the memory or it was cute and a child removed it. I would bet on the postal employee, though.

mixsonci 08-17-2014 04:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Barefoot (Post 924341)
I agree with Joyce.
I'm not sure why anyone would find stickers on mailboxes offensive.
The postal workers are fine with it.
It only takes a few seconds each day to pick up mail.
Live and let live.

I agree, too many mailbox police! Is there not enough to do in TV, that you have to worry about a sticker?

ron122049 08-17-2014 04:51 AM

I could be wrong, wouldn't be the first time but I suspect it's a postal worker or sub for the regular worker. We had this arise up in Michigan when our local football team was in the state playoffs. Dudley Do-Right lives on!

graciegirl 08-17-2014 05:05 AM

Dotti
 
As Redwitch and Indydealmaker pointed out, it was probably removed because it was advertising.

Just find a butterfly sticker and you're back in the game.

That's handled.

Next? ;)

PaPaLarry 08-17-2014 05:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Barefoot (Post 924341)
I agree with Joyce.
I'm not sure why anyone would find stickers on mailboxes offensive.
The postal workers are fine with it.
It only takes a few seconds each day to pick up mail.
Live and let live.

Actually, Postal Workers don't see your sticker. They are on the other side of box. Wish people would leave well alone. (not harming anyone, or anything) Instead, lets greet our neighbors when we are at the mailboxes. Let's act like a "smiley sticker"

Walter123 08-17-2014 06:09 AM

I doubt if the postal worker gives a rats behind about stickers. Let's put our pictures on the mailboxes!

nitehawk 08-17-2014 07:01 AM

I have put a "Pro Life" sticker on my mailbox -- it is sometimes removed - but not to worry -- I have hundreds of them

Ruthtomnorma3 08-17-2014 07:15 AM

Doesn't this happen more when the grandchildren are visiting during the holidays and summer?
There are sticker collection books so they "find one " they don't have yet.
Grandparents should step up,if this is the case....opportunity to teach ...respect other people's property...attitude..."oh,it's just a sticker"

memason 08-17-2014 07:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ruthtomnorma3 (Post 924387)
Doesn't this happen more when the grandchildren are visiting during the holidays and summer?
There are sticker collection books so they "find one " they don't have yet.
Grandparents should step up,if this is the case....opportunity to teach ...respect other people's property...attitude..."oh,it's just a sticker"

ha ha....it IS just a sticker....

I'm just thankful I still have the where with all to find my mailbox without the need for identifying markings. Mine is easy to find though...it's about the only one without a sticker :shocked:

Just for the record...the mailboxes are not your private property

mrsanborn 08-17-2014 09:16 AM

Why is it so difficult to follow a rule or law? How many visits to pick up your mail does it take before you know which mailbox is yours?

Barefoot 08-17-2014 09:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mrsanborn (Post 924416)
Why is it so difficult to follow a rule or law? How many visits to pick up your mail does it take before you know which mailbox is yours?

Possibly because some mailboxes are located on the bottom couple of rows, and can be difficult to identify by number. :popcorn:

dbussone 08-17-2014 10:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nitehawk (Post 924386)
I have put a "Pro Life" sticker on my mailbox -- it is sometimes removed - but not to worry -- I have hundreds of them


Well prepared! What a hoot.

Phanatic Luvr 08-17-2014 10:13 AM

I visit numerous postal stations to collect mail for clients. I'm sorry, but I find the postal stations with stickers all over them, look trashy, like graffiti.
There are a few postal stations I visit that have no stickers whatsoever. I don't see anyone at those stations trying their key in several boxes before they find their own. I would never remove someone's stickers, but as I said, in my opinion, its defacing a piece of property that is not your own.
Just my opinion, but then again, I'm a neat-nick.
With all that said, I agree with Gracie, your sticker was most likely seen as an advertisement, and that is why it was removed. If one advertisement goes on a mailbox, then who's to say everyone who has a small business wouldn't start advertising at the postal stations. As someone said, try a butterfly.

dotti105 08-17-2014 10:31 AM

I do wish I had a stack of the stickers so I could simply replace it again and again.
I don't think it was deemed "advertising" it is for a BBQ place in NC called 12 Bones. The sticker is simply a large number 12 with the word "bones" under that.

We have close family ties there. Seeing the "12 Bones" sticker just made us smile. Simple as that.

Just surprised at the juvenile behavior by a "friendly neighbor". I guess it's amazing what people will do when no one is watching!! (it wasn't a postal worker, I asked before we put the sticker up. And it wasn't a kid. The mailbox is above my head!)

Hmmm, President Obama did eat there once. Does that make it a target for a political zealot? Who knows??

Madelaine Amee 08-17-2014 10:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dotti105 (Post 924438)
I do wish I had a stack of the stickers so I could simply replace it again and again.
I don't think it was deemed "advertising" it is for a BBQ place in NC called 12 Bones. The sticker is simply a large number 12 with the word "bones" under that.

We have close family ties there. Seeing the "12 Bones" sticker just made us smile. Simple as that.

Just surprised at the juvenile behavior by a "friendly neighbor". I guess it's amazing what people will do when no one is watching!! (it wasn't a postal worker, I asked before we put the sticker up. And it wasn't a kid. The mailbox is above my head!)

Hmmm, President Obama did eat there once. Does that make it a target for a political zealot? Who knows??

Dotti - people just cannot mind their own business and TV has a lot of people with time on their hands!

CFrance 08-17-2014 10:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dotti105 (Post 924438)
I do wish I had a stack of the stickers so I could simply replace it again and again.
I don't think it was deemed "advertising" it is for a BBQ place in NC called 12 Bones. The sticker is simply a large number 12 with the word "bones" under that.

We have close family ties there. Seeing the "12 Bones" sticker just made us smile. Simple as that.

Just surprised at the juvenile behavior by a "friendly neighbor". I guess it's amazing what people will do when no one is watching!! (it wasn't a postal worker, I asked before we put the sticker up. And it wasn't a kid. The mailbox is above my head!)

Hmmm, President Obama did eat there once. Does that make it a target for a political zealot? Who knows??

Methinks you have hit upon the reason, dotti. I googled it, and they were visited twice by the you-know-who and his wife. Probably some neighbor from down that Asheville area.

Serenoa 08-17-2014 10:39 AM

I'm sure the wide variety of new stickers, old stickers, partially torn stickers, faded stickers, dirty left-over adhesive residue from stickers removed, etc, etc, make the mail boxes really, really attractive.
I see little difference between this and cigarette butts & other litter on the ground, yet I'm surprised at how many folks that seem to think defacing property that isn't theirs with silly stickers is just 100% ok. Others do it, so why can't I? Following that line of reasoning let's all just trash the grounds, too.

Can't wait to move there so I can help beautify TV by peeling a few stickers.:boom:

I'll probably pick up some trash & butts, too.:o


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