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Dr Winston O Boogie jr 07-09-2015 07:14 AM

Pet Peeves
 
Several people, over the years, have created posts about annoying incidents. I thought, "Why not get them all out in one place?" So I'm starting this thread.

I probably have a lot of them and I think that it helps to share them. I think that it makes us feel better to get them off our chest and have other people agree with us.

I'm trying to get to a point where when something happens that really annoys me, I try to put i into perspective, let it go and calm down. It's not easy, but I'm trying. Really.

So yesterday we went and picked up a few things at Sam's Club. My first pet peeve is that Sam's treats all of their customers as theft suspects. I hate that I have to wait in line for an employee to pretend to check the amount of items in my basket against my receipt. One of these days, I am just going to go around the line and not show my receipt and see what happens. I believe that they have no recourse except to come out to the parking lot and accuse me of stealing something, in which case I could tell them to call the police. Since they have no probable cause to stop me, I don't believe that they would even bother to stop me. I don't believe that the would call the police nor do I believe that the police would respond.

The second thing is a huge pet peeve of mine. Once we finally get "frisked" by the employee, we are about to go through the door to go on with our day and a guy in front of the person in front of us has stopped dead in his tracks just outside the door and is checking his receipt, making it impossible for the people behind him to get through the door.
People seem to have no idea of their surroundings. This guy was clueless that there were people behind him.
This is really dangerous when people do it at the bottom or top of an escalator. I've had it happen to me many times.
Are people really this dense?

So there's my rant for today. I'm now chilling out. Thanks for listening.

Jima64 07-09-2015 07:21 AM

Another store pet peeve. I waited for,the doors to open and they did not. Eceryone went in the exit door and started shopping. The person manning the door stopped me and told me I had to wait till the store was open. It was now 10 minutes past door opening time. Come to find out the lady did not even know what time of day the store opened to regular customers on a saturday. I explained she needed to call the manager or store sexurity up front. Guess what, it was also Sam's club. My last visit there ever. The shopprs thatblock the door checking something, along with the charity seekers are also a,peeve,of mine.

Love2cruise 07-09-2015 07:22 AM

My biggest pet peeve is people that leave their grocery cart in a parking space. I understand some people have a handicap and it is an effort to walk it to a place for carts, but I have seen many able body people just leave it next to their car. How would they like it if that cart went flying & put a dent in their car?

Jima64 07-09-2015 07:28 AM

So true
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Love2cruise (Post 1084374)
My biggest pet peeve is people that leave their grocery cart in a parking space. I understand some people have a handicap and it is an effort to walk it to a place for carts, but I have seen many able body people just leave it next to their car. How would they like it if that cart went flying & put a dent in their car?

Too bad they don't yhink of returning the cart as exercise. Walking for most able people is an excellent and free exercise.

cms36 07-09-2015 07:31 AM

Mine is people driving cars with dogs in their laps

graciegirl 07-09-2015 07:31 AM

Mine is people who park and leave their car at the entrance to the front door of rec centers.

I looked. No handicap stickers either.

Am I missing something or am I just too critical?

hulahips 07-09-2015 07:35 AM

Going into a ladies room, no place to hang your coat, purse, bags, etc while using bathroom. Gross. Put your stuff on a floor loaded with germs?? Yuk. Easier for a man. Should always be hooks or small table for personal items to set down

dewilson58 07-09-2015 07:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hulahips (Post 1084390)
Going into a ladies room, no place to hang your coat, purse, bags, etc while using bathroom. Gross. Put your stuff on a floor loaded with germs?? Yuk. Easier for a man. Should always be hooks or small table for personal items to set down

And we boys don't have to sit or hover...........life is easier for us.

:smiley:

kcrazorbackfan 07-09-2015 08:08 AM

Unrepaired ball marks on greens, unrepaired divots on tee boxes and fairways, half-ass attempts at raking bunkers, testosterone filled males who think that have to play from the tips, people that are just starting to play golf and use the courses as practice facilities instead of going to a driving range to learn how to hit a golf ball, slow play, people who walk the sidewalk behind my home on St. Charles and throw their cigarette butts in my yard, the guy down the street that has had a construction project going on for about a year now, people sprinkling their yards during a rainstorm - really not much bothers me.

Polar Bear 07-09-2015 09:30 AM

Use of the word(?) "irregardless".

N44125 07-09-2015 09:33 AM

Re the construction project on St. Charles that has been going on for over a year....and looks like it won't be done soon...what gives with that? I thought that construction duration in TV had to be completed within 1 year or is that just for new homes?

graciegirl 07-09-2015 09:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hulahips (Post 1084390)
Going into a ladies room, no place to hang your coat, purse, bags, etc while using bathroom. Gross. Put your stuff on a floor loaded with germs?? Yuk. Easier for a man. Should always be hooks or small table for personal items to set down



I make Sweetie hold my purse. He is so good looking and I think a man holding a purse slows down the gorgeous women who might try to chat him up.

kcrazorbackfan 07-09-2015 09:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by N44125 (Post 1084459)
Re the construction project on St. Charles that has been going on for over a year....and looks like it won't be done soon...what gives with that? I thought that construction duration in TV had to be completed within 1 year or is that just for new homes?

They did plant some palm trees yesterday; still a lot of work to do, though.

Justus 07-09-2015 10:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Polar Bear (Post 1084457)
Use of the word(?) "irregardless".

Amen!

Justus 07-09-2015 10:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jima64 (Post 1084373)
Another store pet peeve. I waited for,the doors to open and they did not. Eceryone went in the exit door and started shopping. The person manning the door stopped me and told me I had to wait till the store was open. It was now 10 minutes past door opening time. Come to find out the lady did not even know what time of day the store opened to regular customers on a saturday. I explained she needed to call the manager or store sexurity up front. Guess what, it was also Sam's club. My last visit there ever. The shopprs thatblock the door checking something, along with the charity seekers are also a,peeve,of mine.

Ditto! We joined Sam's Club four years ago, quit two months later, and never looked back. No "deals" are worth putting up with their abysmal customer service. And yes, we, too, are tired of being accosted for a donation at the checkout stand, lobby or front door of every retail outlet we visit. Charity is a very personal choice, and the reactions of some store personnel when you say "no" are downright insulting.

TheVillageChicken 07-09-2015 10:56 AM

Restaurants that only have unsweetened tea. You can't add sugar or sweetener to iced tea and turn it into sweet tea.

Roadside beggars with expensive tattoos, cell phones, cigarettes, etc.

People that think "N'awlins" is the way locals pronounce "New Orleans".

mixsonci 07-09-2015 10:57 AM

I cringe when I hear people use "ex" in a word when it should be "es" as in especially, or espresso

virgind 07-09-2015 11:01 AM

My pet has peeves but the vet said thats normal ( just a little humor not making fun of any one)

Justus 07-09-2015 11:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheVillageChicken (Post 1084510)
Restaurants that only have unsweetened tea. You can't add sugar or sweetener to iced tea and turn it into sweet tea.

Roadside beggars with expensive tattoos, cell phones, cigarettes, etc.

People that think "N'awlins" is the way locals pronounce "New Orleans".

:BigApplause:Ditto about the tats, cell phones and cigarettes...and they always have a big dog!!! How much are we paying to feed that dog?!!

theorem painter 07-09-2015 11:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dr Winston O Boogie jr (Post 1084367)
My first pet peeve is that Sam's treats all of their customers as theft suspects. I hate that I have to wait in line for an employee to pretend to check the amount of items in my basket against my receipt. One of these days, I am just going to go around the line and not show my receipt and see what happens. I believe that they have no recourse except to come out to the parking lot and accuse me of stealing something, in which case I could tell them to call the police. Since they have no probable cause to stop me, I don't believe that they would even bother to stop me. I don't believe that the would call the police nor do I believe that the police would respond.

Having worked in retail security in another life I can tell you that the purpose of Sam's Club checking receipts is not to catch the customer stealing merchandise. The purpose is to catch (or prevent) the cashiers from under ringing merchandise. The scam is the cashier has a friend go thru the line and he or she does not ring all the merchandise. However, with self scanners they are checking for customers not scanning all their purchases. Yes, they do prosecute for this.

BTW my pet peeve is people talking on cell phones in the grocery store.

dewilson58 07-09-2015 11:35 AM

Only getting one pickle on my cheeseburger.

:cryin2:

DianeM 07-09-2015 11:39 AM

A pet peeve is people with a "cause" who try to shove their "cause" down my throat.

justjim 07-09-2015 12:19 PM

Loudmouth person in a group (4 or more) --especially in a restaurant setting. We had this experence recently while trying to visit with friends in a restaurant here in Central Illinois. This has happen more than once in TV.

Villager Joyce 07-09-2015 01:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DianeM (Post 1084536)
A pet peeve is people with a "cause" who try to shove their "cause" down my throat.

Mine, too:BigApplause:

hulahips 07-09-2015 03:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1084462)
I make Sweetie hold my purse. He is so good looking and I think a man holding a purse slows down the gorgeous women who might try to chat him up.

Sweetie would never hold my purse. What if the softball guys came by while he is holding a purse? Lol. Also not everyone has a sweetie so that's no excuse for restaurants/stores not putting hooks up. It's a little to ask for especially when I'm patronizing a business

dbussone 07-09-2015 03:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hulahips (Post 1084660)
Sweetie would never hold my purse. What if the softball guys came by while he is holding a purse? Lol. Also not everyone has a sweetie so that's no excuse for restaurants/stores not putting hooks up. It's a little to ask for especially when I'm patronizing a business

"Irregardless" of what others may think, I frequently am caught holding my wife's (aka Honey) purse which seldom matches my outfit. It may beautifully "accessorize" the statement she always makes, but it seldom comes near the color palate I wish to express.

I like this thread. Keep it going

dbussone 07-09-2015 03:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mixsonci (Post 1084512)
I cringe when I hear people use "ex" in a word when it should be "es" as in especially, or espresso

And expecially when they say Xavier as Exavier rather than Zavier!

Madelaine Amee 07-09-2015 03:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mixsonci (Post 1084512)
I cringe when I hear people use "ex" in a word when it should be "es" as in especially, or espresso

......... or aksed, instead of asked ...............

Madelaine Amee 07-09-2015 04:02 PM

My really really pet peeve is someone pushing a shopping cart and browsing through "stuff" while holding a conversation on their phone. Second to that is the "husband" who has been sent to Publix and is on the phone with his wife saying "they have it in a blue can, but I don't see a red can", all the while his shopping cart has been left crosswise in the aisle effectively blocking everyone coming in or out! Oh, and one more - really dislike the people who go through the 10 only cash register with a full basket and then say "you don't mind do you?" .......... yes, damn it I do mind, and if I could spare it, I would give you a piece of my mind!:(:mad:

...... and just one more, my sweet very deaf neighbor who uses his cell phone on his lanai, and he is three doors down and I hear every word ..................... I do believe I have a problem with "phones".

dbussone 07-09-2015 04:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Madelaine Amee (Post 1084669)
My really really pet peeve is someone pushing a shopping cart and browsing through "stuff" while holding a conversation on their phone. Second to that is the "husband" who has been sent to Publix and is on the phone with his wife saying "they have it in a blue can, but I don't see a red can", all the while his shopping cart has been left crosswise in the aisle effectively blocking everyone coming in or out! Oh, and one more - really dislike the people who go through the 10 only cash register with a full basket and then say "you don't mind do you?" .......... yes, damn it I do mind, and if I could spare it, I would give you a piece of my mind!:(:mad:

...... and just one more, my sweet very deaf neighbor who uses his cell phone on his lanai, and he is three doors down and I hear every word ..................... I do believe I have a problem with "phones".

This is the best post yet. Two points: 1) please don't get upset with me if you see me holding my cell phone in a market - my phone has my shopping list on it. 2) you may wish to invest in some ear plugs. Love your post though.

hulahips 07-09-2015 04:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dbussone (Post 1084665)
"Irregardless" of what others may think, I frequently am caught holding my wife's (aka Honey) purse which seldom matches my outfit. It may beautifully "accessorize" the statement she always makes, but it seldom comes near the color palate I wish to express.

I like this thread. Keep it going

Oh I really have to keep my eyes open for you! Lol

Happinow 07-09-2015 04:42 PM

It's a me society
 
People who blow their nose at the table in public.....really? I'm not hungry any more. Not using directionals both in the car or cart. Give us a clue already!

Doro22 07-09-2015 06:49 PM

People who tailgate. Unbelievable! I truly want to invent a device that scrolls a message in my back window: "Am I towing you or what?" ⁉️

Polar Bear 07-09-2015 07:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doro22 (Post 1084733)
People who tailgate...

Oh yeah!

Polar Bear 07-09-2015 07:29 PM

Pet Peeves
 
Saying "nucular" instead of "nuclear", especially when the offender is a high level government official. [emoji33]

dbussone 07-09-2015 07:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hulahips (Post 1084683)
Oh I really have to keep my eyes open for you! Lol


You'll easily recognize me. I usually wear Bermuda shorts.

queasy27 07-09-2015 08:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Polar Bear (Post 1084457)
Use of the word(?) "irregardless".

The phrases VIN number and PIN number.

Which makes them the vehicle identification number number and personal identification number number.

dbussone 07-09-2015 08:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by queasy27 (Post 1084757)
The phrases VIN number and PIN number.



Which makes them the vehicle identification number number and personal identification number number.


Except when I try to use the tee time system it won't accept my VIN (car) number for my VID number. I hate when that happens.

CFrance 07-09-2015 08:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1084386)
Mine is people who park and leave their car at the entrance to the front door of rec centers.

I looked. No handicap stickers either.

Am I missing something or am I just too critical?

I used to park my car at the entrance to Colony and run my lottery money into the gym to my bookie. Once a month. Sorry!!!!!!!! It only took a minute.:cryin2:
You'll be happy to know that our lottery club is defunct and I am no longer blocking the entrance to Colony on a monthly basis. Didn't win anything either.

My pet peeve is people who hold up a long line at the grocery store picking the exact change, to the penny, out of their change purses.

dbussone 07-09-2015 08:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CFrance (Post 1084762)
I used to park my car at the entrance to Colony and run my lottery money into the gym to my bookie. Once a month. Sorry!!!!!!!! It only took a minute.:cryin2:
You'll be happy to know that our lottery club is defunct and I am no longer blocking the entrance to Colony on a monthly basis. Didn't win anything either.

My pet peeve is people who hold up a long line at the grocery store picking the exact change, to the penny, out of their change purses.


You should post the name of your worthless bookie who never won a Pennie for you. This must have been a scam of some sort. [emoji26]


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