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MorTech 01-08-2018 08:41 AM

33% of Millenials live with their parents
 
Bad tax slaves! Get out there and work! I need your money!

A Third of American Millennials Live with Their Parents! - YouTube

Dr Winston O Boogie jr 01-08-2018 08:46 AM

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Bad tax slaves! Get out there and work! I need your money!

A Third of American Millennials Live with Their Parents! - YouTube

Just because they live with their parents doesn't mean that they don't work and pay taxes.

I'm sure that percentage don't but unemployment is now at an all-time low so I don't know how it's possible that 33% of these people are not working and paying taxes.

Allegiance 01-08-2018 08:50 AM

Nothing worse than a lazy Millennium, oh wait there is one thing much worse, Taltarzac725, 58 years old with so many degrees, banned in his "field" and too lazy to ever have worked anywhere else.

Will beg his mommy for money this week to buy a book. You might ask if he can read books and post continuously on the internet....why can't he work?


If I can quote a smart man..... "Tal is a POS bust out loser."

Don Baldwin 01-08-2018 09:31 AM

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Just because they live with their parents doesn't mean that they don't work and pay taxes.

I'm sure that percentage don't but unemployment is now at an all-time low so I don't know how it's possible that 33% of these people are not working and paying taxes.

Part time jobs don't pay enough to pay taxes.

The whites don't have jobs because 20% of jobs are reserved for minorities via quotas.

Wiotte 01-08-2018 09:43 AM

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Just because they live with their parents doesn't mean that they don't work and pay taxes.



I'm sure that percentage don't but unemployment is now at an all-time low so I don't know how it's possible that 33% of these people are not working and paying taxes.



I left home at 18 not knowing if I would get a job or not. What I knew was I needed to stake my own claim. This new generation have no sense of adventure.


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Taltarzac725 01-08-2018 09:48 AM

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Good for you wiotte. I was busy earning degrees in the hope that I would be treated fairly by the powers that be. I was not. It is a lot more complicated than that. When you fight city hall though you face consequences and with enough friends you can eventually win by changing City Hall but you do need to eat while that is happening. And if you run into someone who wants to take credit for your hard work of years due to his famous name and people's quick assumptions and cognitive dissonance, that is a problem. I mean Gene Coppola and his "offer" to get 50% of all the grants that the Palm Harbor Library could get from my 224 613 Project as it was in July or so of 2000. This was a few minutes into my first sit down with Coppola. I knew NOTHING about this person. And, librarians, like regular people have bad eggs as well as good ones.

And people like Allegiance, dirtbanker, affald, and their ilk sure not have helped all that much on here with the progress of this Project.

Allegiance 01-08-2018 09:55 AM

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Good for you wiotte. I was busy earning degrees in the hope that I would be treated fairly by the powers that be. I was not. It is a lot more complicated than that. When you fight city hall though you face consequences and with enough friends you can eventually win by changing City Hall but you do need to eat while that is happening. And if you run into someone who wants to take credit for your hard work of years due to his famous name and people's quick assumptions and cognitive dissonance, that is a problem. I mean Gene Coppola and his "offer" to get 50% of all the grants that the Palm Harbor Library could get from my 224 613 Project as it was in July or so of 2000. This was a few minutes into my first sit down with Coppola. I knew NOTHING about this person. And, librarians, like regular people have bad eggs as well as good ones.

And people like Allegiance, dirtbanker, affald, and their ilk sure not have helped all that much on here with the progress of this Project.

You have still produced zero proof of a project. Zero.

Even W... RickeyD. Et al. Think you are a POS bust out loser

Taltarzac725 01-08-2018 10:02 AM

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You have still produced zero proof of a project. Zero.

Even W... RickeyD. Et al. Think you are a POS bust out loser

I do wish that the cops would take action against you Allegiance for months of unwanted CRIMINAL harassment of me. Statutes & Constitution
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I am not sure what is happening with the moderator and the complaints I made about your long term harassment of me. And the shut down of this Political Forum. Maybe the police want more evidence on me or you. But they could see that I am telling the truth at least as much as I can get at with my very limited resources. Hell the Trump Administration might even be helping. That would be ironic. I am pretty sure that Ivanka Trump can see the value of this work as could Donald John Trump.

Wiotte 01-08-2018 10:02 AM

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You have still produced zero proof of a project. Zero.

Even W... RickeyD. Et al. Think you are a POS bust out loser



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Allegiance 01-08-2018 10:04 AM

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I do wish that the cops would take action against you Allegiance for months of unwanted CRIMINAL harassment of me. Statutes & Constitution
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Soon you will be 99% banned from totv. 224613 bye bye. Thanks to me.

Allegiance 01-08-2018 10:05 AM

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You do not deny you think he is a POS bust out loser

Taltarzac725 01-08-2018 10:08 AM

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You do not deny you think he is a POS bust out loser

Recording this. More criminal harassment for Allegiance. Statutes & Constitution
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Wiotte 01-08-2018 10:13 AM

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You do not deny you think he is a POS bust out loser



I don’t know Tal personally and he’s done me no harm. I think you’re projecting a piece of yourself or someone or something close to you. All these negative feelings are unhealthy for both of you.

“1 Judge not, that ye be not judged. 2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. 3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?”


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Taltarzac725 01-08-2018 10:17 AM

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I don’t know Tal personally and he’s done me no harm. I think you’re projecting a piece of yourself or someone or something close to you. All these negative feelings are unhealthy for both of you.

“1 Judge not, that ye be not judged. 2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. 3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?”


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Allegiance enjoys the criminal harassment of me on this Political Forum and in the NFL Yahoo Pick-Em and the NFL Survivor League with the use of the names Gene Coppola, Michelle, Mitchell, and Cathy Woods L8. Gene Coppola OSHA is also used. Killing Time: DNA evidence turns up heat on cold case

I do not understand why the Moderators have not banned Allegiance. They seem to be giving him the weapon to torment me for months and months.

I know the IGNORE feature and this is a site that people come on voluntarily and at their risk. But if you have some one hitting someone else in the nuts in the private room at the Nancy Lopez Country Club, the police would be called.

Allegiance 01-08-2018 10:18 AM

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I don’t know Tal personally and he’s done me no harm. I think you’re projecting a piece of yourself or someone or something close to you. All these negative feelings are unhealthy for both of you.

“1 Judge not, that ye be not judged. 2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. 3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?”


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All might be true. But why won't he say a little word. ... TRUCE

Answer...He secretly, not very secretly, loves the attention I give him. No one else does.

Why has he been caught in so many lies, yet falsely calls others a liar?

Answer... he is truly evil with no sense of right or wrong and zero work ethic.

Taltarzac725 01-08-2018 10:24 AM

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All might be true. But why won't he say a little word. ... TRUCE

Answer...He secretly, not very secretly, loves the attention I give him. No one else does.

Why has he been caught in so many lies, yet falsely calls others a liar?

Answer... he is truly evil with no sense of right or wrong and zero work ethic.

Recording this. Bull****. Statutes & Constitution
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Contact the Sumter County Sheriff's Department if you want to see who is lying and who is not.

Welcome to the Sumter County Sheriff's Office Website

I am sick of this person's bullying.

Wiotte 01-08-2018 10:43 AM

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Recording this. Bull****. Statutes & Constitution
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Contact the Sumter County Sheriff's Department if you want to see who is lying and who is not.

Welcome to the Sumter County Sheriff's Office Website

I am sick of this person's bullying.


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Allegiance 01-08-2018 10:55 AM

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Recording this. Bull****. Statutes & Constitution
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Contact the Sumter County Sheriff's Department if you want to see who is lying and who is not.

Welcome to the Sumter County Sheriff's Office Website

I am sick of this person's bullying.

What is untrue buddy? What is your work history? What is your projected social security based on earnings? What did you Get On your SAT and LAST?

GIVE us concrete evidence that what I say is BULLSHlT, come on answer these simple questions.

The big question and the police will ask, why do you not just say TRUCE?

dirtbanker 01-09-2018 08:14 AM

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I am not sure what is happening with the moderator and the complaints I made about your long term harassment of me. And the shut down of this Political Forum. Maybe the police want more evidence on me or you. But they could see that I am telling the truth at least as much as I can get at with my very limited resources. Hell the Trump Administration might even be helping. That would be ironic. I am pretty sure that Ivanka Trump can see the value of this work as could Donald John Trump.

The moderators, nor the police, give a RATS a ss about your complaints. NOBODY likes you!

Trump and Ivanka, will not be helping you watch movies looking for numbers...


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dirtbanker 01-09-2018 08:16 AM

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You do not deny you think he is a POS bust out loser

Nobody can deny that he is a LAZY POS BUST OUT LOSER!

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dirtbanker 01-09-2018 08:22 AM

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Bad tax slaves! Get out there and work! I need your money!

A Third of American Millennials Live with Their Parents! - YouTube

My 25 year old son owns his own house...my 23 year old daughter just graduated UM with a BSN this past spring, has a job in Trauma ward, and is looking at homes (she worked while going to school and has $ saved up for down payment). I guess they are the 66%...

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dirtbanker 01-09-2018 08:29 AM

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I left home at 18 not knowing if I would get a job or not. What I knew was I needed to stake my own claim. This new generation have no sense of adventure.


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In talking with the millenials, I noticed a lot of them did not have "toys" on their mind. I seldom heard about desires to have fast cars, boats, motorcycles, and the such. I know when I was young, those desires motivated me to work for the money to buy the "toys" I hoped for.
They just seem happy enough with less.

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Allegiance 01-09-2018 08:31 AM

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In talking with the millenials, I noticed a lot of them did not have "toys" on their mind. I seldom heard about desires to have fast cars, boats, motorcycles, and the such. I know when I was young, those desires motivated me to work for the money to buy the "toys" I hoped for.
They just seem happy enough with less.

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Like Talt, they are happy with 3 hots and cot, also, mommy must pay for his internet so he can live out his fantasy project and so many imaginary friends.

dirtbanker 01-09-2018 08:36 AM

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Like Talt, they are happy with 3 hots and cot, also, mommy must pay for his internet so he can live out his fantasy project and so many imaginary friends.

Somebody has to look for numbers in movies...well actually not.

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Don Baldwin 01-09-2018 08:54 AM

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My 25 year old son owns his own house...my 23 year old daughter just graduated UM with a BSN this past spring, has a job in Trauma ward, and is looking at homes (she worked while going to school and has $ saved up for down payment). I guess they are the 66%...

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They are the typical "white debt slaves". They will have one child and work forever.

Negros and Hispanics go the other route...total dependence on government...making up to $60,000 a year in total government benefits. Popping out kids with reckless abandon.

They are the majority now...51%...and growing...minorities have most of the children now.

You SHOULD tell your kids to have LOTS of kids themselves...take back America...make it white again.

Abby10 01-09-2018 08:56 AM

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I left home at 18 not knowing if I would get a job or not. What I knew was I needed to stake my own claim. This new generation have no sense of adventure.


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I think you hit the nail on the head with your last statement. Too many young people today are afraid to venture outside their comfort zone to seek opportunities. I did it, and thankfully my son did it when he lost his first job near home after a departmental lay-off. Ironically, he is back here due to a job transfer, but wouldn't hesitate to leave again if need be. In comparing him to many others around here his age, it is amazing how much more he has accumulated both in terms of wealth and experience because he wasn't afraid to take the necessary steps. And now, if need be, he wouldn't hesitate to pack up and go again if he had to.

dirtbanker 01-09-2018 09:04 AM

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They are the typical "white debt slaves". They will have one child and work forever.

You SHOULD tell your kids to have LOTS of kids themselves...take back America...make it white again.

I was thinking they might retire early like me, but maybe your right.

A lot of my son's older friends (28 or so) have been having kids. We attended a first birthday for one of them and there had to be 6 newborns in attendance. The parents of the kid that was celebrating the first birthday are expecting again.

Maybe you old single guys could knock a few gals up, instead of just giving them an STD?? jk



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Don Baldwin 01-09-2018 09:05 AM

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I think you hit the nail on the head with your last statement. Too many young people today are afraid to venture outside their comfort zone to seek opportunities. I did it, and thankfully my son did it when he lost his first job near home after a departmental lay-off. Ironically, he is back here due to a job transfer, but wouldn't hesitate to leave again if need be. In comparing him to many others around here his age, it is amazing how much more he has accumulated both in terms of wealth and experience because he wasn't afraid to take the necessary steps. And now, if need be, he wouldn't hesitate to pack up and go again if he had to.

His LIFE is his work...instead of the other way around...working to live.

His choice...others choose to have roots and find employment where they can.

dirtbanker 01-09-2018 09:06 AM

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And now, if need be, he wouldn't hesitate to pack up and go again if he had to.

Am I reading that correct, did he move back in with you and he has a job?

IF So, why doesn't your adult son have to pack up and move out?

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Wiotte 01-09-2018 09:12 AM

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I think you hit the nail on the head with your last statement. Too many young people today are afraid to venture outside their comfort zone to seek opportunities. I did it, and thankfully my son did it when he lost his first job near home after a departmental lay-off. Ironically, he is back here due to a job transfer, but wouldn't hesitate to leave again if need be. In comparing him to many others around here his age, it is amazing how much more he has accumulated both in terms of wealth and experience because he wasn't afraid to take the necessary steps. And now, if need be, he wouldn't hesitate to pack up and go again if he had to.



You raised him well.


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Allegiance 01-09-2018 09:15 AM

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You raised him well.


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Let's all brag.

Two with doctorates
One in Peace Corp

Abby10 01-09-2018 09:16 AM

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His LIFE is his work...instead of the other way around...working to live.

His choice...others choose to have roots and find employment where they can.

You're right.....my husband and I probably taught him that by example and it has it's consequences. The only thing about staying around here is so few jobs and a lot of competition. As a result, many of his peers are having to do the part-time and/or $10/hour gig and you can't afford to live on your own around here on that amount.

Allegiance 01-09-2018 09:16 AM

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Let's all brag.

Two with doctorates
One in Peace Corp

O... and all three very independent.

I forgot Talt proves educmacation and independence are different animals

Allegiance 01-09-2018 09:23 AM

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O... and all three very independent.

I forgot Talt proves educmacation and independence are different animals

Talt failed the bar multiple times and never disclosed what he got on his SAT and LSAT. Most likely he never belonged in college and should have went straight to McDonald's.

Trouble with schools, they will take anyone's money, yours or the taxpayers.

Today idiots have too much self esteem

Abby10 01-09-2018 09:35 AM

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Am I reading that correct, did he move back in with you and he has a job?

IF So, why doesn't your adult son have to pack up and move out?

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So that's where it gets complicated and there are various reasons. His move happened very recently. One is that as soon as he got the job transfer and relocated, he recognized that the position may not be long lasting and he might be moving again, sooner rather than later. We are waiting too, to see if he does end up staying as it could facilitate our being able to retire and move to our TV home a lot sooner. We have been unable to sell our house up here for the past 4 years - not that it's not salable from the standpoint of being desirable, but to make a long story short let's just say the EPA standards have gotten ridiculous over the last 5+ years and our township is being a PIA. So essentially, as my husband says, we are prisoners in our own house until something gives. NOW, if my son ends up staying here, the cost to carry this house and stay in it is about 30% less than what he would pay for a studio apartment near where he works. He is not looking to buy right now (and would not want this big house anyway) because he has his money tied up in the rental market elsewhere. When he left, he moved to a very up and coming area that has a very low cost of living. While there he bought multiple properties and now has them all on the rental market, so essentially he was working 2 full-time jobs out there building a financial future for himself. So now here we all are, biding time to see what the next best move is for all of us.

Sorry for the long story, but you asked.

Abby10 01-09-2018 09:45 AM

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They are the typical "white debt slaves". They will have one child and work forever.

Negros and Hispanics go the other route...total dependence on government...making up to $60,000 a year in total government benefits. Popping out kids with reckless abandon.

They are the majority now...51%...and growing...minorities have most of the children now.

You SHOULD tell your kids to have LOTS of kids themselves...take back America...make it white again.

I agree with you, Don, about the points you make about our kids. It frightens me sometimes how driven my son is about work and financial independence. I wish that he had more balance in his life. I fear how not having that will affect his future happiness.

Don Baldwin 01-09-2018 09:58 AM

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Let's all brag.

Two with doctorates
One in Peace Corp

I hope they bring LOTS of birth control. Helping minorities who have overpopulated their own lands...to have more kids and come here...isn't a smart thing in my book.

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Talt failed the bar multiple times and never disclosed what he got on his SAT and LSAT. Most likely he never belonged in college and should have went straight to McDonald's.

Trouble with schools, they will take anyone's money, yours or the taxpayers.

Today idiots have too much self esteem

Yes they will...there are 100,000 graduates for 10,000 jobs...with 20% going to minority and women quotas...it's slim pickings for a white guy.

YOU taught them they were great! YOU did it with "everyone's a winner" bullsh!t. Everyone get's a trophy. WOMEN did this...because women NEVER get a trophy unless the deck is stacked...either with decreased standards, their own leagues...SOMETHING to give them an edge over men.

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I agree with you, Don, about the points you make about our kids. It frightens me sometimes how driven my son is about work and financial independence. I wish that he had more balance in his life. I fear how not having that will affect his future happiness.

The thing is...the whole "financial system" is a corrupt ponzi. I think it WILL come crashing down. As America's demographics change...so will America.

America IS bankrupt...$30 trillion ($20,000,000,000,000) in debt and going deeper more than $1 trillion every year. Trump WILL add to it...a LOT. How high CAN it go? We already spend $500,000,000,000 a year in INTEREST and the rates are HISTORICALLY and artificially low.

I wish him luck...I truly do.

p.s. Tell him to NEVER marry without an ironclad prenup. Otherwise he WILL lose it all. MOST marriages end in divorce and women these days get windfall paydays.

Abby10 01-09-2018 10:03 AM

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I hope they bring LOTS of birth control. Helping minorities who have overpopulated their own lands...to have more kids and come here...isn't a smart thing in my book.



Yes they will...there are 100,000 graduates for 10,000 jobs...with 20% going to minority and women quotas...it's slim pickings for a white guy.

YOU taught them they were great! YOU did it with "everyone's a winner" bullsh!t. Everyone get's a trophy. WOMEN did this...because women NEVER get a trophy unless the deck is stacked...either with decreased standards, their own leagues...SOMETHING to give them an edge over men.



The thing is...the whole "financial system" is a corrupt ponzi. I think it WILL come crashing down. As America's demographics change...so will America.

America IS bankrupt...$30 trillion ($20,000,000,000,000) in debt and going deeper more than $1 trillion every year. Trump WILL add to it...a LOT. How high CAN it go? We already spend $500,000,000,000 a year in INTEREST and the rates are HISTORICALLY and artificially low.

I wish him luck...I truly do.

p.s. Tell him to NEVER marry without an ironclad prenup. Otherwise he WILL lose it all. MOST marriages end in divorce and women these days get windfall paydays.

Thank you. Yes, he is well aware - in fact, I think that has been the reason for dragging his feet on that one. It's not like the opportunity has not been there. As much as I would love for him to have a mate, I know there is nothing worse than the wrong one.

dirtbanker 01-09-2018 10:35 AM

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So that's where it gets complicated and there are various reasons. His move happened very recently. One is that as soon as he got the job transfer and relocated, he recognized that the position may not be long lasting and he might be moving again, sooner rather than later. We are waiting too, to see if he does end up staying as it could facilitate our being able to retire and move to our TV home a lot sooner. We have been unable to sell our house up here for the past 4 years - not that it's not salable from the standpoint of being desirable, but to make a long story short let's just say the EPA standards have gotten ridiculous over the last 5+ years and our township is being a PIA. So essentially, as my husband says, we are prisoners in our own house until something gives. NOW, if my son ends up staying here, the cost to carry this house and stay in it is about 30% less than what he would pay for a studio apartment near where he works. He is not looking to buy right now (and would not want this big house anyway) because he has his money tied up in the rental market elsewhere. When he left, he moved to a very up and coming area that has a very low cost of living. While there he bought multiple properties and now has them all on the rental market, so essentially he was working 2 full-time jobs out there building a financial future for himself. So now here we all are, biding time to see what the next best move is for all of us.

Sorry for the long story, but you asked.

I understand how life can become difficult with our children. I also understand the rental market as well.

My son went out of state to college, earned an associates degree and decided college was not for him (we were not thrilled), and he returned back home.

That was supposed to be till he got a job and made enough money to get his own place, so we charged him $200 a month to live in our house. A few months later one of our tenants in an apartment moved out and our son expressed a desire to move to that $800 a month apartment, but said he did not think he could afford $800 a month with his other expenses (auto insurance, health insurance, fuel)

We told him that we were not going to take a cut in pay and he would pay us $500 a month and give us 16 hours labor a month (lawn care, snow removal, etc). He agreed and lived there for about 3 years and worked 4 hours a week on the maintenance of properties (most time Saturday mornings).

A few months into the arrangement my mother in law complains to me about charging my son for the rent. She states I don't need the money...I pointed out that it was $500 and 16 hours less a month that he could pi$$ away with his buddies that live with their parents and pay nothing. She asked would he do that? I said anyone, including me, would do that if they could.

I also pointed out that she of all people should not be giving parenting advise (she has a 60 year old son living with her that has not had a job in 30 some years - the original wackadoodle in my life- and he has never paid her a dime for anything...she even pays for his cigarettes!).

My actions might sound mean to some, but it did reinforce responsibility and commitment. Our son bought his first home last spring and he had no concerns with paying a mortgage, I believe he had enough experience with managing his money at that point (and making sure money for the roof over his head was set aside) that he was comfortable with monthly expenses that had to be paid.

I am not sure if any of that has anything to do with your circumstances, I just wanted to share something that worked well for us.



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Don Baldwin 01-09-2018 10:45 AM

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Thank you. Yes, he is well aware - in fact, I think that has been the reason for dragging his feet on that one. It's not like the opportunity has not been there. As much as I would love for him to have a mate, I know there is nothing worse than the wrong one.

The thing is...it's happening now 30-40 years into a marriage...people in their 60s, 70s getting divorced. You just NEVER know. And what kind of a marriage IS IT...when it becomes a business transaction with lawyers.

It's sad what America has become Abby.

I know as a woman you won't agree...but white men create and run the best societies. We're NOT all the "same", there ARE square pegs and round holes. Round pegs belong in round holes. We should as a society encourage greatness...not treat mediocrity as greatness.

Abby...I know you think I'm a misogynist, you think I'm a racist.

I'm a realist. I've seen this all before. The history books are littered with failed civilizations...and we're making the SAME f@cking mistakes. We're PAYING them to breed us out. An 80% brown/black "America" will NOT be "America". And THAT IS what it WILL be in 30 years.

There is NOT ONE place that went from a white majority to a brown/black majority...and LIVED. When the blacks/browns move in...it ALWAYS turns to sh!t...the black/browns ARE "moving in" and taking over the country. MOST of the children born for the last 8 years are brown/black.

THIS is America's MOST pressing problem and THE most important.

Nothing else matters if America becomes 3rd world full of 3rd worlders.

Look at our cities...80% minority and they SUCK.,,away from the business/tourist centers. Look at the border states...they SUCK now that they're becoming 80% minorities.

You are losing your country...your culture...western civilization. Because the SAME thing is happening in Europe with the Muslim invasion. Paris streets homeless at DuckDuckGo The mostly Muslim homeless in Paris.


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