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refeik 11-11-2021 10:12 AM

Veterans Day Flags
 
I had to make a short drive thru the Villages this morning. I was saddened to see that less than one in ten homes were displaying the American Flag honoring our Veterans, especially those who died in war. Why is this? Are the flags at $1.50 each too expensive, is it too much work to stick a half dozen curb flags in the ground or is it simply people don't care anymore ?

dewilson58 11-11-2021 10:18 AM

Stop and ask the houses without flags.

Haven't seen a mind-reader on ToTV yet.

:shrug:


:coolsmiley:

fdpaq0580 11-11-2021 11:03 AM

Lots of reasons.
 
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Originally Posted by refeik (Post 2028047)
I had to make a short drive thru the Villages this morning. I was saddened to see that less than one in ten homes were displaying the American Flag honoring our Veterans, especially those who died in war. Why is this? Are the flags at $1.50 each too expensive, is it too much work to stick a half dozen curb flags in the ground or is it simply people don't care anymore ?

First, people still care, while a few never did.
Still a lot of snowbirds yet to arrive equals no flags?
Lots of renters not in the loop equals no flags.
Lots of full timers, many who are veterans themselves, on vacation and away from home equals no flags.
Some prefer to keep their appreciation, patriotism and prayers personal and private, equals no flags.
Some appreciate the thought but resent the Chinese made flags used most often to demonstrate that American patriotism, like Chinese made lapel pins worn to show how patriotic one is. Again, no flags.
So, just because a house is not ringed in flags, don't assume the owners don't care. There are many reasons that might not be apparent why flags are not displayed by some. My service time, like all my military brothers and sisters, was about keeping America safe and free and one of those freedoms was the right to decide for themselves how to honor those who served or died for our country.
Refeik, your question is appreciated for it shows you care. Thank you.

May God bless America! May God bless all who served, are serving now, or those service men and women yet to come.

asianthree 11-11-2021 11:05 AM

Are you sure the homes are in residence?

tc1963 11-11-2021 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by refeik (Post 2028047)
I had to make a short drive thru the Villages this morning. I was saddened to see that less than one in ten homes were displaying the American Flag honoring our Veterans, especially those who died in war. Why is this? Are the flags at $1.50 each too expensive, is it too much work to stick a half dozen curb flags in the ground or is it simply people don't care anymore ?

Plenty in Sunset Pointe. We have 15-20 along driveway and curb, plus 30ft. pole.

Dotneko 11-11-2021 01:29 PM

Well, 200 on our little cul-des-sac on Shaune Lane in St. Cats

MDLNB 11-11-2021 01:45 PM

The possibility of rain might have been a factor. I put mine out after the rain but it appears like it still might shower again.

davem4616 11-11-2021 05:53 PM

flags are always nice...what's even better IMHO... on Veterans Day go up to a vet and thank them for their service

I'm proud of my DD-214...and maybe one of these days I'll get around to buying a baseball cap to wear on Veterans Day

EdFNJ 11-11-2021 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by refeik (Post 2028047)
I had to make a short drive thru the Villages this morning. I was saddened to see that less than one in ten homes were displaying the American Flag honoring our Veterans, especially those who died in war. Why is this? Are the flags at $1.50 each too expensive, is it too much work to stick a half dozen curb flags in the ground or is it simply people don't care anymore ?

There is absolutely no correlation between one NOT showing a flag (for ANY reason or at ANY time) and one not caring for America, soldiers or mom's apple pie. Do you also believe not wearing a religious symbol makes one an atheist? I have a folded flag from my father's military funeral on my wall but don't have 50 all around my property? SO WHAT ? Don't judge others when you have no idea what is on their mind or in their heart.

Joe V. 11-11-2021 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by EdFNJ (Post 2028234)
There is absolutely no correlation between one NOT showing a flag (for ANY reason or at ANY time) and one not caring for America, soldiers or mom's apple pie. Do you also believe not wearing a religious symbol makes one an atheist? I have a folded flag from my father's military funeral on my wall but don't have 50 all around my property? SO WHAT ? Don't judge others when you have no idea what is on their mind or in their heart.

Pfft.

Chi-Town 11-11-2021 06:21 PM

Many gates decorated.

JSR22 11-11-2021 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by EdFNJ (Post 2028234)
There is absolutely no correlation between one NOT showing a flag (for ANY reason or at ANY time) and one not caring for America, soldiers or mom's apple pie. Do you also believe not wearing a religious symbol makes one an atheist? I have a folded flag from my father's military funeral on my wall but don't have 50 all around my property? SO WHAT ? Don't judge others when you have no idea what is on their mind or in their heart.

100% correct!

charlieo1126@gmail.com 11-11-2021 07:27 PM

I’m a multi tour combat wounded veteran , calling out people for not waving a flag is as bogus as a used car dealer showing what a patriot he is with a 100 flags on the lot, I don’t wear a hat or a t shirt with my veterans I D on but if it makes people happy that’s fine . I put a couple of flags out for all the holidays but I don’t have a flag pole my choice. I didn’t need a parade or a pat on the back and the only people I sought respect from were the guys who fought with me ,because there RESPECT WAS ALL THAT MATTERED getting it from strangers may make you feel good but I could care less FYI I go the day before Veterans Day to cemetery and put some flowers on a vets grave , I don’t need to be in some photo op and just like praying in private many of us are maybe more private in our patriotism OUR CHOICE

OrangeBlossomBaby 11-11-2021 09:08 PM

My uncle, my grandfather, and several of my great-uncles and (now long dead) cousins fought for my right to NOT display the flag if I don't want to. If you have a problem with that, then just drive right on past my house and don't look.

b0bd0herty 11-12-2021 05:46 AM

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Originally Posted by refeik (Post 2028047)
I had to make a short drive thru the Villages this morning. I was saddened to see that less than one in ten homes were displaying the American Flag honoring our Veterans, especially those who died in war. Why is this? Are the flags at $1.50 each too expensive, is it too much work to stick a half dozen curb flags in the ground or is it simply people don't care anymore ?

Now my question is how do these patriotic folks take care of those flags?
I've seen so many touching the ground, fallen over, torn and stained and not displayed with honor.

I've also seen bundles of those $1.50 dollar flags sitting on top of people's garbage waiting for pickup. What might their excuse be?

Don't be so quick to judge.

DaleDivine 11-12-2021 06:14 AM

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Originally Posted by dewilson58 (Post 2028048)
Stop and ask the houses without flags.

Haven't seen a mind-reader on ToTV yet.

:shrug:


:coolsmiley:

I knew you were gonna say that... LOL
:a040::a040:

DaleDivine 11-12-2021 06:19 AM

My flag was flying proudly as were many others in the Village of Charlotte.

:bigbow::bigbow:

nativetex 11-12-2021 06:34 AM

My husband served in the Marines and he is proud to have done so. Just because we did not put a flag in our yard does not mean he loves this country or Marines any less. It is his choice whether or not to put a flag in the yard.

Gigglesjq 11-12-2021 06:39 AM

American Flag
 
Not sure where you drove, but many homes have there backyards facing many roads that non residents use to cut thru our towns.
Most people display there flags in the front of there homes. People where walking thru our neighborhoods putting flags in our front yards. This is why I live here, we care,we appreciate, we honor in our own way.
God Bless our Veterans, God Bless our villages, and God Bless you.

PugMom 11-12-2021 07:14 AM

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Originally Posted by EdFNJ (Post 2028234)
There is absolutely no correlation between one NOT showing a flag (for ANY reason or at ANY time) and one not caring for America, soldiers or mom's apple pie. Do you also believe not wearing a religious symbol makes one an atheist? I have a folded flag from my father's military funeral on my wall but don't have 50 all around my property? SO WHAT ? Don't judge others when you have no idea what is on their mind or in their heart.

thank you, Ed. i wonder exactly where the driver was where he/she made this conclusion. brownwood sq's veterans celebration was so overpacked last nite, we couldnt get in :ho:

Jdburns11 11-12-2021 07:25 AM

+1 - 100% just because there are no flags don’t mean that people aren’t patriotic or don’t care.

Respectfully, Also a veteran of 30 years.

Jdburns11 11-12-2021 07:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Jdburns11 (Post 2028368)
+1 - 100% just because there are no flags don’t mean that people aren’t patriotic or don’t care.

Respectfully, Also a veteran of 30 years.

This was in response to CharlieO1126 - Combat Wounded Veteran.

Joe C. 11-12-2021 08:12 AM

Too often, I see those flags touching the ground, so I don't display them. Having a flag touch the ground is a terrible thing.

ThirdOfFive 11-12-2021 08:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EdFNJ (Post 2028234)
There is absolutely no correlation between one NOT showing a flag (for ANY reason or at ANY time) and one not caring for America, soldiers or mom's apple pie. Do you also believe not wearing a religious symbol makes one an atheist? I have a folded flag from my father's military funeral on my wall but don't have 50 all around my property? SO WHAT ? Don't judge others when you have no idea what is on their mind or in their heart.

Bingo!

Waving a flag does not a patriot make.

chappy 11-12-2021 08:15 AM

I fly “THE COLORS” with PRIDE. I personally chose to do one at HALF MAST with extra HONERS going out to all who died but were never found. I placed a sign along this that reads “MIA”. I simply want to honor all in PRAYER. Hope this doesn’t offend anyone

Chi-Town 11-12-2021 08:26 AM

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Originally Posted by refeik (Post 2028047)
I had to make a short drive thru the Villages this morning. I was saddened to see that less than one in ten homes were displaying the American Flag honoring our Veterans, especially those who died in war. Why is this? Are the flags at $1.50 each too expensive, is it too much work to stick a half dozen curb flags in the ground or is it simply people don't care anymore ?

Must have been a really short drive.

chappy 11-12-2021 09:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dewilson58 (Post 2028048)
Stop and ask the houses without flags.

Haven't seen a mind-reader on ToTV yet.

:shrug:


:coolsmiley:

Would you please read page “2” posted by Chappy and advise me of your thought, thank you.

Red Rose 11-12-2021 09:08 AM

I think it's very uplifting to see flags in many front yards for all the patriotic holidays, especially Veterans Day, Memorial Day and the 4th of July if possible. I also think that if one person in the neighborhood puts them out, the rest will follow. It's catching!!

bp243 11-12-2021 09:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by refeik (Post 2028047)
I had to make a short drive thru the Villages this morning. I was saddened to see that less than one in ten homes were displaying the American Flag honoring our Veterans, especially those who died in war. Why is this? Are the flags at $1.50 each too expensive, is it too much work to stick a half dozen curb flags in the ground or is it simply people don't care anymore ?

How wonderful that so many people added flags to their yards! Many people chose other ways to celebrate our service men and women. We are truly blessed to live in America and to honor those who protect our freedom.

charlieo1126@gmail.com 11-12-2021 09:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chappy (Post 2028425)
I fly “THE COLORS” with PRIDE. I personally chose to do one at HALF MAST with extra HONERS going out to all who died but were never found. I placed a sign along this that reads “MIA”. I simply want to honor all in PRAYER. Hope this doesn’t offend anyone

why would anyone be offended it’s YOUR CHOICE

chappy 11-12-2021 09:17 AM

Would you please look on page Two the Chappy response an advise your thought!

VM32162 11-12-2021 09:30 AM

You should have driven through Caroline Village. The streets were lined soon as you come in the gate; plus, in personal neighborhoods.

chappy 11-12-2021 09:45 AM

The term “the Colors” refers to the flag.

COLTempleton 11-12-2021 09:54 AM

Thousands in Pennecamp. Almost every house in the 'Lakesiders' area.

Indydealmaker 11-12-2021 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by refeik (Post 2028047)
I had to make a short drive thru the Villages this morning. I was saddened to see that less than one in ten homes were displaying the American Flag honoring our Veterans, especially those who died in war. Why is this? Are the flags at $1.50 each too expensive, is it too much work to stick a half dozen curb flags in the ground or is it simply people don't care anymore ?

You must not have driven through Bonita. Most homes display flags. On our street, neighbors make sure to place flags on behalf of out of town owners.

dhmundy 11-12-2021 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by refeik (Post 2028047)
I had to make a short drive thru the Villages this morning. I was saddened to see that less than one in ten homes were displaying the American Flag honoring our Veterans, especially those who died in war. Why is this? Are the flags at $1.50 each too expensive, is it too much work to stick a half dozen curb flags in the ground or is it simply people don't care anymore ?

I don’t figure flags make a patriot. I f you want to impress me with your patriotism, show me your DD 214!

dougawhite 11-12-2021 11:16 AM

Florida flag etiquette and protocols, in case you're interested:
Flag Protocols and Display - Florida Department of State

LindaH$ 11-12-2021 02:11 PM

I am a veteran who doesn't feel the need to display my patriotism. The indiscriminate displays of American flags in people's yards actually gets on my nerves. What does having a dozen little flags lining your yard have to do with supporting the vets? I usually just lurk in the forum and keep my opinions to myself, but for some reason this particular post rankled me.

Kenswing 11-12-2021 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by LindaH$ (Post 2028667)
I am a veteran who doesn't feel the need to display my patriotism. The indiscriminate displays of American flags in people's yards actually gets on my nerves. What does having a dozen little flags lining your yard have to do with supporting the vets? I usually just lurk in the forum and keep my opinions to myself, but for some reason this particular post rankled me.

I love to rankle people. Stop by my house anytime and you’d probably get downright p!ssed off. :1rotfl:

LindaH$ 11-12-2021 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Kenswing (Post 2028670)
I love to rankle people. Stop by my house anytime and you’d probably get downright p!ssed off. :1rotfl:

Hey, I'm always up for a spirited discussion with anyone who can take criticism as well as they dish it out. I'm not much into pi--ing contests, though. Both people just get wet.


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