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Warren Kiefer 07-11-2013 08:56 PM

We All Need to Vent
 
I would like to start a vent list. Those of you who have a pet peeve are asked to add yours to my posting. I will begin with a couple of my favorites.

The cost of razor blades; I find the cost of good razor blades to be
outragous !!!! For less money than I pay for a pack of two razor blades, I can go to the Marion Market and purchase a watch that will give me the time, day of the week and date. Also the watch will last three years and the blades only a month.

A second peeve of mine is trying to find the phone number in the Villages phone book for Lowes, Home Depot and hardest of all The Post Offices. I tried for an hour to find the listing of the local post office. I did not find any US government listings. When I did the number get via another resource, no one would answer the phone.

Thats enough fun for tonight !!!

DougB 07-11-2013 09:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Warren Kiefer (Post 706733)
I would like to start a vent list. Those of you who have a pet peeve are asked to add yours to my posting. I will begin with a couple of my favorites.

The cost of razor blades; I find the cost of good razor blades to be
outragous !!!! For less money than I pay for a pack of two razor blades, I can go to the Marion Market and purchase a watch that will give me the time, day of the week and date. Also the watch will last three years and the blades only a month.

A second peeve of mine is trying to find the phone number in the Villages phone book for Lowes, Home Depot and hardest of all The Post Offices. I tried for an hour to find the listing of the local post office. I did not find any US government listings. When I did the number get via another resource, no one would answer the phone.

Thats enough fun for tonight !!!

Pet peeve of mine is those that come on here and vent

Serenoa 07-11-2013 09:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Warren Kiefer (Post 706733)
I would like to start a vent list. Those of you who have a pet peeve are asked to add yours to my posting. I will begin with a couple of my favorites.

A second peeve of mine is trying to find the phone number in the Villages phone book for Lowes, Home Depot and hardest of all The Post Offices. I tried for an hour to find the listing of the local post office. I did not find any US government listings. When I did the number get via another resource, no one would answer the phone.

Thats enough fun for tonight !!!

Warren, who uses phone books these days when you have the WWW at your fingertips? All major chain stores have store locator features on their website with addresses, phone numbers & sometimes even maps.

For the Post office go to USPS.com, click on "Find USPS locations", enter the city & state for the branch you're looking for & then when the list of branches comes up click on the name of the branch & the next page will give you the contact info for that particular branch.

hope this helps.

bkcunningham1 07-11-2013 09:42 PM

I have many pet peeves. I'll start with the first one that came to my mind. It frustrates me when I get change back from a business and the person giving me my change doesn't count it back to me.

Another pet peeve of mine is when drivers try to skip line by pulling ahead of the end of the backed up traffic line and try to push their way into the lane. But of course they are more important than the rest of us who merged and are waiting our turns.

Shhuwee. Thanks. I feel better.

KittyKat 07-11-2013 10:08 PM

Bad grammar--esp by males--esp by law enforcement when they are giving TV interviews. :throwtomatoes:

rubicon 07-12-2013 06:04 AM

My grandmother told me if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all. The outcome is people comment that they believe I had taken the vow of silence, that or I am a lousy conversationalist:D

Dr Winston O Boogie jr 07-12-2013 06:48 AM

I'm sick and tired of people venting all the time.

jblum315 07-12-2013 06:51 AM

Vent to your friends so they can tell you to shut up, or walk away from you

KARENNN 07-12-2013 06:52 AM

OK, Mr. Costanza, are we celebrating Festivus in July this year? Is it time for the airing of grievances already?

Seinfeld Fan :D

redwitch 07-12-2013 07:18 AM

Spitting. Hate, hate, hate it!!! I don't want to see your body excrements and I don't care if they come from your mouth or another orifice.

Gum chewing. I don't care how "politely" you chew, you look like a cow chewing cud.

I smoke. I'll do my very best to not send my smoke into your area. Be polite enough to stop the rude grimacing, waving of hands, etc. when you enter MY space.

kittygilchrist 07-12-2013 07:41 AM

aaaaah. A place to vent.
"A 17-year old is dead".....the prosecution says in the GZ trial.
As if we were not recruiting 18 year olds to go get blown up in the military.
The brain is not fully developed until about age 25 for males.
Youth are not known for using good judgment, and in my cynical opinion (IMCO), 18 may be military eligibility age for that very reason.

Patty55 07-12-2013 08:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jblum315 (Post 706816)
Vent to your friends so they can tell you to shut up, or walk away from you

After your friends tire of it (and they will-lol)hire a shrink and pay them to listen to the BS, it's their job.

Warren Kiefer 07-12-2013 09:06 AM

Humor
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Dr Winston O Boogie jr (Post 706813)
I'm sick and tired of people venting all the time.

Why is it that some people are so tensed up all the time they fail to see the humor in most things. Sometimes I find it feels so good to just "relax" and smile at a posting meant to do just that to the readers.

Love2cruise 07-12-2013 09:22 AM

I'm with Redwitch, hate gum chewing. And especially when they spit it out on the street, & I walk in it.

My all time peeve is leaving a grocery cart in the parking lot. Really, how long does it take to return it to the proper place.

kagney123 07-12-2013 09:28 AM

I am really surprised how much this is bothering me and I know its a losing battleand it is happening all across the service industry but I will vent anyway...

What happened to the reply "You're Welcome" when I say "Thank You"

For instance...asking a waiter for another napkin... He brings it, I say "Thank You"
He says " No Problem" No problem??? Why would it have been a problem?

Rented a car after all paper work done and I get the keys, I say "Thank You Very Much"
and they reply "No Problem"

Really miss hearing..."You're welcome" "My pleasure" etc.

Thank for listening

ljarnold 07-12-2013 11:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kagney123 (Post 706915)
I am really surprised how much this is bothering me and I know its a losing battleand it is happening all across the service industry but I will vent anyway...

What happened to the reply "You're Welcome" when I say "Thank You"

For instance...asking a waiter for another napkin... He brings it, I say "Thank You"
He says " No Problem" No problem??? Why would it have been a problem?

Rented a car after all paper work done and I get the keys, I say "Thank You Very Much"
and they reply "No Problem"

Really miss hearing..."You're welcome" "My pleasure" etc.

Thank for listening

I am one of those people that say no problem. Your post just made me think about it and I am going to try and remember to say your welcome again. I guess it is a bad habit I got myself into and I agree with your post.

DougB 07-12-2013 12:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kagney123 (Post 706915)
I am really surprised how much this is bothering me and I know its a losing battleand it is happening all across the service industry but I will vent anyway...

What happened to the reply "You're Welcome" when I say "Thank You"

For instance...asking a waiter for another napkin... He brings it, I say "Thank You"
He says " No Problem" No problem??? Why would it have been a problem?

Rented a car after all paper work done and I get the keys, I say "Thank You Very Much"
and they reply "No Problem"

Really miss hearing..."You're welcome" "My pleasure" etc.

Thank for listening

You're welcome

cybrgeezer 07-12-2013 12:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kagney123 (Post 706915)
I am really surprised how much this is bothering me and I know its a losing battleand it is happening all across the service industry but I will vent anyway...

What happened to the reply "You're Welcome" when I say "Thank You"

For instance...asking a waiter for another napkin... He brings it, I say "Thank You"
He says " No Problem" No problem??? Why would it have been a problem?

Rented a car after all paper work done and I get the keys, I say "Thank You Very Much"
and they reply "No Problem"

Really miss hearing..."You're welcome" "My pleasure" etc.

Thank for listening


At all (in my experience, at least) Chick-fil-As, the response is, "my pleasure."

Warren Kiefer 07-12-2013 01:14 PM

Good Ones
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Warren Kiefer (Post 706733)
I would like to start a vent list. Those of you who have a pet peeve are asked to add yours to my posting. I will begin with a couple of my favorites.

The cost of razor blades; I find the cost of good razor blades to be
outragous !!!! For less money than I pay for a pack of two razor blades, I can go to the Marion Market and purchase a watch that will give me the time, day of the week and date. Also the watch will last three years and the blades only a month.

A second peeve of mine is trying to find the phone number in the Villages phone book for Lowes, Home Depot and hardest of all The Post Offices. I tried for an hour to find the listing of the local post office. I did not find any US government listings. When I did the number get via another resource, no one would answer the phone.

Thats enough fun for tonight !!!

I am proud of you, there have been some good pet peeves, some that also bother me but I had forgotten about. I would like to add the ease with how often young people use the "F" word in public settings and without regard for those around them. Oh Gosh, I would like to add another, how about those drivers who stay in the left lane of multi lane highways and cause traffic to back up and cause other drivers to take chances by passing on the right.

msfooter 07-12-2013 02:04 PM

Bravo, Warren, I subscribe to both of those vents.
The F-bomb is common verbalization for the new genre and it's way too common.
Driving in the left lane is usually a matter of situational awareness and "me first" attitude.
Thanks for your vent. Jimmie

janieb 07-12-2013 02:10 PM

I also need to be aware of how often I say "NO PROBLEM" or THAT"S ALL RIGHT"

Patty55 07-12-2013 02:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kagney123 (Post 706915)
I am really surprised how much this is bothering me and I know its a losing battleand it is happening all across the service industry but I will vent anyway...

What happened to the reply "You're Welcome" when I say "Thank You"

For instance...asking a waiter for another napkin... He brings it, I say "Thank You"
He says " No Problem" No problem??? Why would it have been a problem?

Rented a car after all paper work done and I get the keys, I say "Thank You Very Much"
and they reply "No Problem"

Really miss hearing..."You're welcome" "My pleasure" etc.

Thank for listening

I usually go with "Whatever".

Parker 07-12-2013 02:55 PM

Cars that "piggyback" through the security gates. Just seems so lazy, and pushy.

Villages PL 07-12-2013 04:40 PM

I hate it when people vent their hatred toward those who feel the need to vent.

JP 07-12-2013 05:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Warren Kiefer (Post 707006)
I am proud of you, there have been some good pet peeves, some that also bother me but I had forgotten about. I would like to add the ease with how often young people use the "F" word in public settings and without regard for those around them. Oh Gosh, I would like to add another, how about those drivers who stay in the left lane of multi lane highways and cause traffic to back up and cause other drivers to take chances by passing on the right.

Just a note about people who drive in the left lane which really bugs me especially if they are just "putting" along. I believe the Fla Governor just signed a law making it illegal. Yeah!

rubicon 07-12-2013 06:38 PM

We All Need To Vent--Maybe?
 


As the story goes a guy needs solitude so he goes to a monastery high on a mountain. The Abbot informs him that he has to take the vow of silence. However on every one year anniversary he can speak two words to the Abbot.

The man is escorted to his room. He finds many faults with the room. On his 1st anniversary he says to the Abbot while pointing up to the ceiling "bed wet". The Abbot goes about making sure the hole in the roof above the man's bed is repaired.

On the 2nd anniversary the man appears before the Abbot and says "room cold". Again the Abbot responds and repairs a broken window which had been allowing the cold mountain winds to overtake this man's room.

On his 3rd anniversary the man addresses the Abbot again and says "bed hard" whereupon the Abbot responds b----that's all you do is b----

So much for venting.

Halibut 07-12-2013 06:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Parker (Post 707051)
Cars that "piggyback" through the security gates. Just seems so lazy, and pushy.

Me! Too lazy to roll down my window. And it's kind of a game to see if I'll make it. :laugh:

gpirate 07-12-2013 07:08 PM

[QUOTE=Warren Kiefer;707006]I am proud of you, there have been some good pet peeves, some that also bother me but I had forgotten about. I would like to add the ease with how often young people use the "F" word in public settings and without regard for those around them. Oh Gosh, I would like to add another, how about those drivers who stay in the left lane of multi lane highways and cause traffic to back up and cause other drivers to take chances by passing on the right.[/QUOTE

100% agree on both counts. Cannot understand why people cannot drive in the correct lane and why 4 letter words are so necessary in converstations. Maybe just not well educated, as there needs to be an excuse.

redwitch 07-12-2013 07:52 PM

Um, it's not only young people. I was eating at Athen's yesterday. Next to me was a table of six "gentlemen." All obviously Villagers, retired and had just finished playing golf. About every third word was a curse word and the "F" word was flying fast and loose (and it was too early to be drinking -- around 10:00 am).

I curse. Heck, I can make a sailor blush (you should have heard my first words in English), but certainly not around people who might be uncomfortable hearing it (unless seriously angry).

Oh, and you should hear me when someone is in the fast lane and I have to move over to pass them.

ssmith 07-12-2013 07:54 PM

guess I didn't realize how many things bothered me...
 
Agree about the F word and other Krass sounding words like that really SUCKS! esp from women or young ladies. I guess I don't like it from young men either but my daughter has used it...grates on my nerves.

Also wish younger women tried harder to be feminine. Of course this is not the case for all young women. I know this may strike a chord with you but I have heard from many a young man who wished the same.

The disrespect by the younger ones....kids, teens and 20 yo. esp toward those older, maybe a little slower than they are.

Older or mature adults who let the cursing flow with no regard for those that hear it.

Those who don't pick up litter after themselves and don't seem to care that the place they are leaving needs picked up.

Virtual Geezer 07-12-2013 08:27 PM

People when talking say "ya know" after every third or forth word. Other repeated words are "right" and "like" being used over and over in every sentence.

When still working I sat through a managerial presentation where a director used the word "right" 138 times in a 30 minute presentation and did not even know he was doing it. We knew going into these presentations they were going to be boring so the group I was in would have a pool to see who would guess how many times the word "right" was said.

VG

marianne237 07-12-2013 08:35 PM

Enjoying reading this post. My pet peeve is the drivers who feel they must speed and are so inconsiderate.....what has happened to being retired and enjoying the time of day?

lovsthosebigdogs 07-12-2013 08:52 PM

I hate litter also. And I don't like seeing a lot witten as one word (alot). As a teacher it always bothered me when students wrote it that way, but more so if I saw adults do it. And on the subject of teaching, all the teacher bashing these days REALLY is a pet peeve of mine. It is NOT ok to bash the entire teaching profession. Most of us are dedicated and we we work very hard and just simply don't deserve it. People are speaking from an outsiders viewpoint and they don't really know the realities in teaching unless they are there. (Oh, I can feel the hate posts coming and my feelings being hurt.)

Warren Kiefer 07-12-2013 09:42 PM

This is a good one
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Virtual Geezer (Post 707175)
People when talking say "ya know" after every third or forth word. Other repeated words are "right" and "like" being used over and over in every sentence.

When still working I sat through a managerial presentation where a director used the word "right" 138 times in a 30 minute presentation and did not even know he was doing it. We knew going into these presentations they were going to be boring so the group I was in would have a pool to see who would guess how many times the word "right" was said.

VG

May I expand on your post ??? I hear so many in their conversations add in between nearly every sentence, "you know what I'm saying ".

Warren Kiefer 07-12-2013 09:50 PM

Another one
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by rubicon (Post 707143)

As the story goes a guy needs solitude so he goes to a monastery high on a mountain. The Abbot informs him that he has to take the vow of silence. However on every one year anniversary he can speak two words to the Abbot.

The man is escorted to his room. He finds many faults with the room. On his 1st anniversary he says to the Abbot while pointing up to the ceiling "bed wet". The Abbot goes about making sure the hole in the roof above the man's bed is repaired.

On the 2nd anniversary the man appears before the Abbot and says "room cold". Again the Abbot responds and repairs a broken window which had been allowing the cold mountain winds to overtake this man's room.

On his 3rd anniversary the man addresses the Abbot again and says "bed hard" whereupon the Abbot responds b----that's all you do is b----

So much for venting.

How about those people, especially business employees or doctors staff employees, when asked a question will give an answer, any answer, a wrong answer even when they have no clue as to what the correct answer should be. It is my belief that they do this so the questioner won't think them stupid. Why is it so difficult to say "I don't know" but I will find out and let you know ?? I couldn't even guess how many times I have been given the wrong answer to a simple question.

Happinow 07-12-2013 10:01 PM

I agree
 
I have to agree with some of you......dropping the "F bomb", even on TV is disturbing. I can remember where one would never even think of saying that word. Now it has become part of a lot of people's every day language. It's so sad. Also, spitting. Nothing like walking and seeing a big goober drawn deep from the nasal passages to the throat on the ground while you are walking. Maybe the guilty should carry a handkerchief in their pockets or carry some tissues with them.

bkcunningham1 07-12-2013 10:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KARENNN (Post 706818)
OK, Mr. Costanza, are we celebrating Festivus in July this year? Is it time for the airing of grievances already?

Seinfeld Fan :D

Festivus for the restivus! Love it.

Microcodeboy 07-13-2013 04:51 AM

I'm in.
I'll bring the soup.

kittygilchrist 07-13-2013 04:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by marianne237 (Post 707181)
Enjoying reading this post. My pet peeve is the drivers who feel they must speed and are so inconsiderate.....what has happened to being retired and enjoying the time of day?

wouldn't you know it? my pet peeve is people driving in the left lane as if they have all day while I'm trying to speed.
Bad Kitty:police:

kittygilchrist 07-13-2013 05:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KittyKat (Post 706763)
Bad grammar--esp by males--esp by law enforcement when they are giving TV interviews. :throwtomatoes:

I was once the Redpen Queen of Grammar Grievances, Southeastern District. Then Peter Jennings said "snuck" during the Iraq attack which led to "snuck" and probably "collectAbles" being endorsed by the Oxford American Dictionary.

sigh...:read: Don't believe anything you read in the dictionary; they keep changing it, just like so-called science. I can't stand it.


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