[CoachKandSportsguy]

Listening to a lot of olympic athletes' back stories, I am struck by the number of athletes who knew by age 9 that is what they were born to do. The high jumper from Louisiana was the best, jumping with a stick by age 5. .

How many non athlete's readers here knew what they wanted to do the rest of their life as a pursuit by the age of 9?

for me I was trying to figure out how to get ready for school on time by the age of 9, never mind see a sport on television or elsewhere and want to do that the rest of my life, or be in the olympics.

anyone have this type of work/sports epiphany?

[tophcfa]

Originally Posted by CoachKandSportsguy

Listening to a lot of olympic athletes' back stories, I am struck by the number of athletes who knew by age 9 that is what they were born to do. The high jumper from Louisiana was the best, jumping with a stick by age 5. .

How many non athlete's readers here knew what they wanted to do the rest of their life as a pursuit by the age of 9?

for me I was trying to figure out how to get ready for school on time by the age of 9, never mind see a sport on television or elsewhere and want to do that the rest of my life, or be in the olympics.

anyone have this type of work/sports epiphany?

When I was a young teenager I was the state champion in backstroke and swam in the nationals (Junior Olympics), and came in third. Despite lots of pressure to continue swimming competitively, I gave it up because my passion was skiing. The first time I pointed my skies down a mogul field I was hooked. Never made it to the Olympics, but I did ski for a couple days with the USA Olympic team while they were training on Outer Limits and Devils Fiddle at Killington and held my own with them. Unfortunately, skiing all those bumps for many years trashed my knees. I should have stuck with swimming. Life goes full circle, now that I am old, and my knees are trashed, swimming is my passion and golf fills in the spare time.

[Stu from NYC]

Life unfolded for me in ways I am at a loss to figure out how it happened.

However I could not be happier as to how life has brought me to this point.

[manaboutown]

I had a general idea very early on, not the particulars of course. It all worked out in the long run.

[asianthree]

My Granddaughter visited the office, asked senior orthopedist if she could watch what he did. He smiled, said I am going to put this really big needle in her knee and draw out fluid. Thinking she would run back to the front desk, at the site of the needle. Nope she took his hand and said let’s go.

Patient agreed, after a few minutes granddaughter asked the patient if it hurts, because we are almost done, with her best smile. Nope the big needle didn’t bother her at all.

She walked out of the room looked up and said I want to fix bones just like you.
She was 3. Within the week she had old X-rays in her windows learning bone structure, and finding fractures.

At 5 she fell playing soccer, hurting her arm, looking at her X-ray on the screen, she informed the ED doctor that wasn’t just a growth plate, it was definitely a fracture, “ I am really bad playing soccer, it’s a good thing I want to be a doctor.” Pink cast please.

She was correct, it definitely was fractured.

Yep some know exactly that sports are not for them, but want to fix those who play.

[fdpaq0580]

At 7, I wanted to be captain of a clipper ship. Later that same year they discovered I was blind as a bat, almost. My near blindness had left me very shy and with little self confidence. Add to that the teasing for my Coke bottle glasses, my increased insecurity and the lack of clipper ships, I became the dork I am today.
Sometimes I hope for reincarnation. Other times, things could have been much worse. End result, not too bad, really. 🤓🤓🤓

[xcaligirl]

Originally Posted by CoachKandSportsguy

Listening to a lot of olympic athletes' back stories, I am struck by the number of athletes who knew by age 9 that is what they were born to do. The high jumper from Louisiana was the best, jumping with a stick by age 5. .

How many non athlete's readers here knew what they wanted to do the rest of their life as a pursuit by the age of 9?

for me I was trying to figure out how to get ready for school on time by the age of 9, never mind see a sport on television or elsewhere and want to do that the rest of my life, or be in the olympics.

anyone have this type of work/sports epiphany?

LOL!! I was pretty much the same as you. I remember it was about getting to school on time, I always stressed over being late and having to walk into a classroom when class already started (still have to be on time today), made sure I did all my homework before getting to go outside and play and what was for dinner! Thanks for getting my morning off to the right start with a good laugh!!! I also think that when a child says he wants to be a XXXX, parents should take them seriously and, if they keep saying it, guide them in the right direction. Don't just laugh at them, encourage them!!!

[Papa_lecki]

Originally Posted by CoachKandSportsguy

Listening to a lot of olympic athletes' back stories, I am struck by the number of athletes who knew by age 9 that is what they were born to do. The high jumper from Louisiana was the best, jumping with a stick by age 5. .

How many non athlete's readers here knew what they wanted to do the rest of their life as a pursuit by the age of 9?

for me I was trying to figure out how to get ready for school on time by the age of 9, never mind see a sport on television or elsewhere and want to do that the rest of my life, or be in the olympics.

anyone have this type of work/sports epiphany?

That was actually NBC marketing hype. 70% of athletes quit their sport by 13 (according to American Academy of Pediatricians).
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Most athletes who are the best in their sport at 9, just mature early and are mediocre by 15.
There are exceptions, but most great 9 year old athletes just can’t sustain it. Phelps is an exception, but he was physiologically built to be a swimmer (long arms and tremendous lung capacity).

[Stu from NYC]

Originally Posted by asianthree

My Granddaughter visited the office, asked senior orthopedist if she could watch what he did. He smiled, said I am going to put this really big needle in her knee and draw out fluid. Thinking she would run back to the front desk, at the site of the needle. Nope she took his hand and said let’s go.

Patient agreed, after a few minutes granddaughter asked the patient if it hurts, because we are almost done, with her best smile. Nope the big needle didn’t bother her at all.

She walked out of the room looked up and said I want to fix bones just like you.
She was 3. Within the week she had old X-rays in her windows learning bone structure, and finding fractures.

At 5 she fell playing soccer, hurting her arm, looking at her X-ray on the screen, she informed the ED doctor that wasn’t just a growth plate, it was definitely a fracture, “ I am really bad playing soccer, it’s a good thing I want to be a doctor.” Pink cast please.

She was correct, it definitely was fractured.

Yep some know exactly that sports are not for them, but want to fix those who play.

Wow

[ThirdOfFive]

Originally Posted by CoachKandSportsguy

Listening to a lot of olympic athletes' back stories, I am struck by the number of athletes who knew by age 9 that is what they were born to do. The high jumper from Louisiana was the best, jumping with a stick by age 5. .

How many non athlete's readers here knew what they wanted to do the rest of their life as a pursuit by the age of 9?

for me I was trying to figure out how to get ready for school on time by the age of 9, never mind see a sport on television or elsewhere and want to do that the rest of my life, or be in the olympics.

anyone have this type of work/sports epiphany?

Undoubtedly there are kids who are "naturals" in whatever sport. Unfortunately though there are also parents who, for whatever reason, push their children into whatever sport the parent thinks the child should excel in. There are many articles and studies that address this and the psychological danger it can pose not only to the child (and very often the parent) but to other family members as well.

cpa-counseling dot com has a great article on this; "Are You Living Vicariously Through Your Child?": a short article that nevertheless goes into some detail about parents who (often even without knowing it) are living vicariously through their child(ren) and the harm it can cause. In many cases we see and marvel at the end result as some barely-adolescent kid achieves national acclaim for super-achievement in whatever sport, but are not aware of (or choose to ignore) what may have happened along the way: family relationships damaged, financial hardships on the part of the family as they pour their resources into assuring that l'il Jennifer makes the big stage, and kids who suffer and are traumatized as they are forced into excellence. It exists. And it can be a scary thing.

[Stu from NYC]

Great thread

[CoachKandSportsguy]

Originally Posted by fdpaq0580

At 7, I wanted to be captain of a clipper ship. Later that same year they discovered I was blind as a bat, almost. My near blindness had left me very shy and with little self confidence. Add to that the teasing for my Coke bottle glasses, my increased insecurity and the lack of clipper ships, I became the dork I am today.
Sometimes I hope for reincarnation. Other times, things could have been much worse. End result, not too bad, really. 🤓🤓🤓

LOL! I was a captain of a coastwise oil tanker and deck officer on ocean going tankers. . don't worry, its alot more boring watching the ocean go by than the glory of the title!

I know that certain events in our childhood shape our lives with/without our consciousness. For me it was being exposed and programming an old Digital Equipment computer at age 13, in 1972, and spending Saturday nights either playing sports or programming the computer with binary finger switches. Through high school playing with that computer, I learned the very basics of how a computer worked, so I naturally loved it when PCs were born, and had a macintosh from 1982 onward, and my first Multiplan (the MS predecessor to excel) spreadsheet was tracking lottery ticket numbers to win money so I didn't have to work

That was my journey to geekdom!

as far as sports, my parents didn't believe in a sports career, but learning a trade to fall back upon in hard times. They were depression era traditionalists.

[CoachKandSportsguy]

Originally Posted by tophcfa

When I was a young teenager I was the state champion in backstroke and swam in the nationals (Junior Olympics), and came in third. Despite lots of pressure to continue swimming competitively, I gave it up because my passion was skiing. The first time I pointed my skies down a mogul field I was hooked. Never made it to the Olympics, but I did ski for a couple days with the USA Olympic team while they were training on Outer Limits and Devils Fiddle at Killington and held my own with them. Unfortunately, skiing all those bumps for many years trashed my knees. I should have stuck with swimming. Life goes full circle, now that I am old, and my knees are trashed, swimming is my passion and golf fills in the spare time.

Ding Ding ding!

The best amateur almost made it to the olympics story in TV, ,
That must have been a blast skiing with the best in the country. .

I will be contacting the Sun for the exclusive rights!

[CoachKandSportsguy]

Originally Posted by asianthree

My Granddaughter visited the office, asked senior orthopedist if she could watch what he did. He smiled, said I am going to put this really big needle in her knee and draw out fluid. Thinking she would run back to the front desk, at the site of the needle. Nope she took his hand and said let’s go.

Patient agreed, after a few minutes granddaughter asked the patient if it hurts, because we are almost done, with her best smile. Nope the big needle didn’t bother her at all.

She walked out of the room looked up and said I want to fix bones just like you.
She was 3. Within the week she had old X-rays in her windows learning bone structure, and finding fractures.

At 5 she fell playing soccer, hurting her arm, looking at her X-ray on the screen, she informed the ED doctor that wasn’t just a growth plate, it was definitely a fracture, “ I am really bad playing soccer, it’s a good thing I want to be a doctor.” Pink cast please.

She was correct, it definitely was fractured.

Yep some know exactly that sports are not for them, but want to fix those who play.

I assume that she is an orthopedist now?

Ding! Ding! Ding! the best story about career lightning striking at a very young age.
I will also be contacting the Sun for exclusive rights. .

it does happen. .

[Rainger99]

Originally Posted by CoachKandSportsguy

The high jumper from Louisiana was the best, jumping with a stick by age 5.

I think you are referring to the pole vaulter?