Compassion
 

Perhaps we should end this discussion and offer a quiet prayer from our hearts for both unfortunate souls.

No..let's not end the discussion. I haven't posted publicly, and I feel that it needs to be talked about. Domestic crap is like a BIG ELEPHANT in a room. Let people talk!

Ok ?????

Say what?
 

What is your first-hand knowledge of their "sex and inappropriate behavior?"
Do you know these people or are you just being judgmental?
He's wounded and in the hospital and she's in jail.
Butt out until the facts are known!

I agree .... no one here really knows either of these people. I have interacted with them in the past and both were enjoyable to be with. What has changed in their lives we really have no knowledge of. Both were in law enforcement before moving here and retired law enforcement officers still might have weapons...and permits to have such. Have a retired state police officer as a family member...and he still has his pistol.

Something went wrong between two individuals and judgment should be reserved. Maybe he was controlling, maybe he wasn't...we really don't know, and we might never know.

Domestic violence is something so many don't talk about...it really is difficult to deal with and for many people, ignored. Those abused, can become the abuser as they get older. It's up to parents to help their children, male and female, realize that abuse is not the way to gain power or respect.

Don't mean to get to preaching, it's just painful to realize that two people I've interacted with and enjoyed being around now have lives that are forever changed.

I totally agree that we should wait for the facts.. BUT IMHO... calling them both unfortunate souls, or suggesting it is ok to shoot your spouse if they are "controlling" is not a good idea. It is not ok to shoot your spouse unless you are acting in immediate self defense. The person who shoots their spouse whether it be the man or the woman, is not an unfortunate soul, unless they are acting in immediate self defense.

We must be mariied to the same man!

Does anyone know what happened to Denise Textor? I read she tried to commit suicide but that is the last of any news.

Is that the shooter? What happened to her husband? And to the neighbors? Can you imagine opening your front door to find a naked bleeding man with holes in him?

Goodness when I saw the title of the thread, I didn't immediately recognize that it was from a prior event....and you have to realize an ambulance had just gone by on Morse behind my house when I saw the post was very, very recent. Immediately changed the tv to WESH!

Someone gave me some info on Dennis and Denise, but honestly, I'm not sure if they had their facts correct either so I'll say nothing about it.

The entire situation was sad...and we may never really know what and why.

try google.

This is why guns are not good to have around.

They get into the hands of people that don't know how to use them and thus
harm innocent people.

If this lady tried suicide, she had the weapon pointing the wrong way.

Google news had nothing as far as we saw

Fortunately this is old history not news and few outside were affected.

Lights out, Villagers.
It's 10 PM
Sun's up in 8 hours and the tees, courts, and bike paths are waiting for you!

L and L

I did and found out about her attempted suicide. The info I got was from earlier this year, before that particular incident and I have no idea if it's true.

I don't know how this thread got revived. Must be a slow Sunday night over at TH's.

A few short years ago in my home town a couple were found dead with zip ties around their necks. It was determined to be a murder suicide. I guess zip ties are not good to have around?