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If she is alone - without family assist or neighbors willing to help now is the time to look into independent or assisted living. She has new friends and activities
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There is no doubt she needs assistance... not sure some strange knocking on a 70something's door to offer to buy the house to then rent back is the answer....seems like someone taking advantage of a bad situation. if there were enough people really interested in helping they should organize a team to assess the whole situation. First and most importantly, talking to her.... what does she want, what opinions does she have, does she even want to stay here. Just blindly looking most likely is sell the house, take the proceeds and get a place on historic side with no bond. With all this said....yes covid us probably the biggest obstacle here, but maybe just a friendly knock to start. And yes, I would do it if I could, but because of covid I can't comfortably get down to my place and we'll ride out this pending Nor -easter while my home in warm Fl calls my name. Fingers crossed. |
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I highly recommend she sell and downsize to something she can afford before she loses any remaining equity and finds herself in 8A housing. I would gladly help her move and help her sell this house voluntarily and free of any charge, but I would not give a penny for someone to keep a home with a pool and a golf course view that they cannot afford.
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I think this whole situation is sad. Posters offering unsolicited advice, speculating on her financial situation, virtue signaling.
This all amounts to a gross violation of her privacy. Her name and other personal information should never have been made public. I hope she doesn’t read this board. |
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She may or MAY NOT have a pension coming in. Military members opt for survivor benefits or NOT while they are active duty. If they opt for survivor benefits, they get less take-home pay. Some choose for the higher paycheck and forego the survivor benefits.
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I expect there are missing details. Borrow money to have the screens done? Doesn't sound like she can possibly pay it back. Contractor can't do her screens for 12-14 weeks. Sounds like it is more than just replacing the screens. I would think as far as management they are not out to get people. I would hope that if she can show that she has an agreement to have the screens they would grant her an extension. I also expect the management did not look to catch her neighbors have complained. I am not a financial advisor. She might explore one of those home equity deals. They are expensive but she could raise the money she needs and keep living in her home. Perhaps, a relative would agree to a similar deal where she could stay in the home? It is a sad situation-truly sad. |
What about a reverse mortgage? There is probably a lot of equity in the home.
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Since members of her church are helping her pull weeds, as the original story stated, it is curious the church membership isn’t more involved in helping find a reasonable solution.
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