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Escape Artist 08-06-2021 06:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Madelaine Amee (Post 1984735)
I live in one of the villages where the roads are being resurfaced. This morning the crew re-surfaced with tar our road, it looks great and the job they did is excellent. I was in my garage when I heard a woman screaming at someone, so being slightly nosey I got up to look. A woman in a car was giving a young man hell because he would not let her through, she sat there yelling and screaming at him for some time and then finally took off and drove through to wherever she was headed.

I have lived here long enough to know that people are rude and I should be used to it, but I never get used to the ignorance often shown here in TV.

What is it within us that allows us to feel we can speak to people in this way, I will never understand it.:ohdear:

I experienced an odd instance when I came to TV for a lifestyle visit. I was driving my golf cart according to the GPS info from The Villages app when a woman in another golf cart was crazily waving and screaming at me in a rude and hostile manner. Maybe she thought I was going to get on the turnpike or perhaps another busy road with no golf cart lane but she was gesticulating frantically. However, not with the furrowed brow of concern but with an angry face. I think she may have even flipped me off at the end!

By the way, that app isn't always correct, nor is Google maps so you have to just learn by experience and mistakes sometimes. I had discovered my error and was ready to turn around even before she started her little performance.

JMintzer 08-06-2021 07:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Ben Franklin (Post 1984802)
Sometimes rudeness is a perceived or personal condition. I have had two people, in this forum, apologize for being rude to me, but I never perceived what they said to me as being rude. Or, maybe rudeness is a condition of where one was raised. I was raised in a big, northeast city, not NYC though. When we first came to Florida in 1979, most of the people on the west side of the state were from the middle of the country. My wife and I were so taken aback, by how nice people were, we thought we had left the states for another country.

The people who apologized were probably Canadian...

They apologize for EVERYTHING! :1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

(And I love them for it!)

JMintzer 08-06-2021 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by OrangeBlossomBaby (Post 1984967)
And what states produce people who don't know that New York isn't a New England state?

Yeah! New England wouldn't have them... :icon_wink:

John41 08-06-2021 10:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Madelaine Amee (Post 1984735)
I live in one of the villages where the roads are being resurfaced. This morning the crew re-surfaced with tar our road, it looks great and the job they did is excellent. I was in my garage when I heard a woman screaming at someone, so being slightly nosey I got up to look. A woman in a car was giving a young man hell because he would not let her through, she sat there yelling and screaming at him for some time and then finally took off and drove through to wherever she was headed.

I have lived here long enough to know that people are rude and I should be used to it, but I never get used to the ignorance often shown here in TV.

What is it within us that allows us to feel we can speak to people in this way, I will never understand it.:ohdear:

I can’t get over the slightly nosy people who jump to conclusions.

Nucky 08-06-2021 10:11 PM

Yea it was someone from the Tri-State area. What are you gonna do about it? Try living there and not be the way we can be sometimes. You would have never survived to get to The Villages. We all can't be from Walnut Grove.

Shake it off. Keep moving. Lifes too short to fuss.

Maybe the lady needed to get to a bathroom. Maybe the man was saving her from getting hit by a steamroller. Construction people can be rough. Maybe he just got ripped by another Villager, who knows.

If it was that important maybe you should have gone to help. Good point but you'll NEVER acknowledge it, EVER.

Topspinmo 08-06-2021 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Gpsma (Post 1984946)
Lots of Karens here.

Most come from Midwestern states

O please, the northeast out number them 10 to 1. :popcorn:

chenault55 08-07-2021 04:56 AM

Rude
 
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Originally Posted by Madelaine Amee (Post 1984735)
I live in one of the villages where the roads are being resurfaced. This morning the crew re-surfaced with tar our road, it looks great and the job they did is excellent. I was in my garage when I heard a woman screaming at someone, so being slightly nosey I got up to look. A woman in a car was giving a young man hell because he would not let her through, she sat there yelling and screaming at him for some time and then finally took off and drove through to wherever she was headed.

I have lived here long enough to know that people are rude and I should be used to it, but I never get used to the ignorance often shown here in TV.

What is it within us that allows us to feel we can speak to people in this way, I will never understand it.:ohdear:

It’s just a little satisfying to know she’s probably got big problems with the tar on her tires and automobile, not fun to get off of various surfaces. So, there’s that.😜

Nannyof3 08-07-2021 05:13 AM

I've been here 12+ years and have only witnessed that type of behavior once or maybe twice. My experience is 95% of the people here are very nice, kind and generous .

Girlcopper 08-07-2021 05:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Madelaine Amee (Post 1984735)
I live in one of the villages where the roads are being resurfaced. This morning the crew re-surfaced with tar our road, it looks great and the job they did is excellent. I was in my garage when I heard a woman screaming at someone, so being slightly nosey I got up to look. A woman in a car was giving a young man hell because he would not let her through, she sat there yelling and screaming at him for some time and then finally took off and drove through to wherever she was headed.

I have lived here long enough to know that people are rude and I should be used to it, but I never get used to the ignorance often shown here in TV.

What is it within us that allows us to feel we can speak to people in this way, I will never understand it.:ohdear:

Thats just the typical ignorant people who feel the world should kiss their feet. Most have few friends since no one wants to tolerate the entitled crap attitude. The day will come when they will scream at the wrong person and find themselves spitting teeth. I sure hope Im there to witness it too.

Annie66 08-07-2021 05:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Michael G. (Post 1984801)
Sooo What city in the New England states can you guess where this rude person is from......LOL

Oh please ..... why would you go there?

graciegirl 08-07-2021 05:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Nannyof3 (Post 1985058)
I've been here 12+ years and have only witnessed that type of behavior once or maybe twice. My experience is 95% of the people here are very nice, kind and generous .

Me too!

George Page 08-07-2021 05:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Michael G. (Post 1984812)
Boston

Love that dirty water…………

George Page 08-07-2021 05:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Hape2Bhr (Post 1984808)
New York...LOL :blahblahblah:

Sometimes the educated, sophisticated, and intelligent New Englanders lose patience with the Village idiots here and we come across as being rude.
I am fighting the urge.
But, I’m wondering …..
Do they teach 5th grade Geography where you come from?

NEW YORK is not a NEW ENGLAND state!!!

jack.hunter00@yahoo.com 08-07-2021 06:10 AM

You are correct, full of rude people that feel more privileged and above others.
It's best to ignore and laugh.

Hape2Bhr 08-07-2021 06:13 AM

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Originally Posted by George Page (Post 1985077)
Sometimes the educated, sophisticated, and intelligent New Englanders lose patience with the Village idiots here and we come across as being rude.
I am fighting the urge.
But, I’m wondering …..
Do they teach 5th grade Geography where you come from?

NEW YORK is not a NEW ENGLAND state!!!

WOW, WOW, WOW...so many people who do not understand sarcasm. :1rotfl:


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