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graciegirl 11-08-2012 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Russ_Boston (Post 578284)
I guess that's what I meant.

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Originally Posted by mulligan (Post 578282)
I do believe this horse is dead

Enough is enough.

We can't do any better on this subject than politics.

Least said, soonest mended.

Cedwards38 11-08-2012 09:59 AM

Would those of you who are offended by someone knocking on your door with a cause be equally offended if the visitor were the minister from the local Baptist church inviting you to a revival, a candidate for local office seeking your vote, the chairman of the local _________ political party (insert your own choice in the blank) trying to invite you to a political rally, someone collecting for the March of Dimes, a neighbor collecting for the American Heart Association? Would you call the Community Watch if the visitor were someone distributing a petition for signatures about a local issue, someone selling raffle tickets for their grandson's elementary school fund raiser, or someone trying to promote a local blood drive at the hospital? If the religion being promoted by the visitor were Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, Buddhist, Hindu, or other would it make a difference? If someone was hungry and came to your door seeking food, of if someone was rich and came to your door to give part of her fortune to you would it matter?
I'm just curious!

JoeC1947 11-08-2012 10:00 AM

I guess the tribal council has spoken. Some people say things they cannot or will not defend then they want to close down the thread.

billethkid 11-08-2012 10:02 AM

TV is a "no solicitation" community. The boundaries of which are tested/abused almost daily. Enforcement as usual is the issue and all the peddlars know it.

I put up a no solicitors sign at the door bell.....works about 90% of the time the other 10% get a hello...no thanx...goodbye with a closed door quickly following.

It is refreshing to participate in a thread where differing opinions are presented....without the bell being rung!

btk

Taltarzac725 11-08-2012 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Cedwards38 (Post 578312)
Would those of you who are offended by someone knocking on your door with a cause be equally offended if the visitor were the minister from the local Baptist church inviting you to a revival, a candidate for local office seeking your vote, the chairman of the local _________ political party (insert your own choice in the blank) trying to invite you to a political rally, someone collecting for the March of Dimes, a neighbor collecting for the American Heart Association? Would you call the Community Watch if the visitor were someone distributing a petition for signatures about a local issue, someone selling raffle tickets for their grandson's elementary school fund raiser, or someone trying to promote a local blood drive at the hospital? If the religion being promoted by the visitor were Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, Buddhist, Hindu, or other would it make a difference? If someone was hungry and came to your door seeking food, of if someone was rich and came to your door to give part of her fortune to you would it matter?
I'm just curious!

There are all kinds of channels to make requests like this in the Villages. TOTV is a prime example. Friends' groups. Neighborhood groups. Virginia Trace's web-site. The Villages Daily Sun ads.

Not sure why groups need to solicit for funds of any kind door-to-door in the Villages. Or, for souls as with the Baptists, Lutherans, Mormons, or Jehovah's Witnesses.

senior citizen 11-08-2012 12:08 PM

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graciegirl 11-08-2012 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by JoeC1947 (Post 578313)
I guess the tribal council has spoken. Some people say things they cannot or will not defend then they want to close down the thread.


Back in Ohio, the kids on my block would say, Wanna fight? Join the army.

Here is how I defend what I just typed (IF you meant me.) Some see no reason to get our knickers in a twist over something that is NOT dangerous, only annoying. Being rude to a church person just doesn't seem right and you don't have to answer the door and you do NOT have to say anything. Or just no thank you or thank you for the info.

OR...you can call the authorities. This is a value thing. We react to this issue as to how we were raised. There isn't any right or wrong answer.

Continue on. Ad infinitum.

senior citizen 11-08-2012 01:54 PM

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JoeC1947 11-08-2012 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 578390)
Back in Ohio, the kids on my block would say, Wanna fight? Join the army.

Here is how I defend what I just typed (IF you meant me.) Some see no reason to get our knickers in a twist over something that is NOT dangerous, only annoying. Being rude to a church person just doesn't seem right and you don't have to answer the door and you do NOT have to say anything. Or just no thank you or thank you for the info.

OR...you can call the authorities. This is a value thing. We react to this issue as to how we were raised. There isn't any right or wrong answer.

Continue on. Ad infinitum.

GG, I didn't mean you. I believe the person that was directed to knows I meant him. I'll give you a hint, his name begins with R and I already asked him outright why he called some of the posts ignorant.

graciegirl 11-08-2012 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by senior citizen (Post 578441)
I didn't see the responses the way it's mentioned above.
The ones upset found the "callers" to be the rude ones; not the other way around.

None of us would go out of our way to be rude to a "church person".
I'm sure we are all raised just fine.

The "authorities" have better things to do than respond to disgruntled folks having their doorbells constantly rung.

What I've said is that we live in a pretty big house and are not always by our front door........we could be on any of the three levels ....or we could be out on the back screened in porch or on the deck or in the backyard.
Every time the doorbell rings to an "uninvited guest" is a hassle as you get older. We don't run as fast as we used to.

I think this is boiling down to who likes to go around and ring people's doorbells to who prefers their uninterrupted privacy.........and the J.W. we get up here are a bit offputting........maybe not as nice as the ones you get at your place in TV.

Also, if you didn't answer the door, how would you know it wasn't someone you might like to see????

We're talking "uninvited annoying solicitors"..............soliciting something we are not interested in.

Just last night we were discussing how THIS IS THE FIRST YEAR we haven't got any local candidates coming to our door on Sunday afternoons...........strange but true. They came for years, handing out fliers or hanging them on front doors........

I wasn't responding to YOUR posts senior. I have to agree with almost anything you have to say. You think things through and are very nice and considerate of others.

Sigh. We don't have much in the way of solictors period here...No Jehovah Witnesses have come to my door here in The Villages EVER...in the last year here or the first four in Hadley...so for me it is a non issue BUT I do miss the Girl Scouts...We occasionally have someone knocking on the door of our relatively new neighborhood trying to sell a palm tree or two.

I guess to me this isn't a problem. I remember reading on this forum before we moved here five years ago that someone cut through someone's back yard and people were ready to get their guns.

It takes all kinds to make a world. I am the boring kind.

JOE C. I am so glad you didn't mean me. Whew.

mulligan 11-08-2012 02:25 PM

Not only did we beat the poor horse to death, but now the guns are coming out. Quick!! Someone get a shovel!!

Mack184 11-08-2012 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Ripcord13 (Post 578210)
I have asked them to come to my door? No I haven't where do you come up with that? What ever you've been smoking I want some.

If you are receiving something from the Post Office (not junk) or a package from Federal Express or UPS you most likely ordered it, bought it, getting billed for it or asked for it. So tacitly you have asked them to come to your door.

gerryann 11-08-2012 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Mack184 (Post 578466)
If you are receiving something from the Post Office (not junk) or a package from Federal Express or UPS you most likely ordered it, bought it, getting billed for it or asked for it. So tacitly you have asked them to come to your door.

You guys crack me up.....I'm assuming your guys.....

USSGompers 11-08-2012 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Geewiz (Post 577958)
OK - joking aside....religious/philosophical outlooks are exceedingly personal. You want to leave a brochure with information - fine. You knock on my door and expect me to engage you in debate - no matter how "well meaning" you are, expect to be called out for engaging in arrogant colonialism. I'm not very tolerant of folks pushing their ideology on me especially when that ideology is based neither in science nor historical fact. Faith is great. It lets people exceed their self-imposed limitations..but, the intellectual bottom line is the faith argument is "this is the truth because I believe it's the truth though I can't prove it." I'm not saying you are wrong - but, it is a poor substitute for more measurable observations.

Thank you so much. I totally agree. Faith is great but we all seem to follow a different road. Which one is right? We won't know until we are dead. John Lennon told his wife that if he would ever die-

before that assho** shot him dead-

He would come back- if he could- and Let her know that he was okay-

Poor guy never did. So believe what you may. hell, heaven, reincarnation, whatever-

truth is- we won't know til we are dead-

then it's too late.

Just sayin'!!

:pray:

USSGompers 11-08-2012 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Russ_Boston (Post 578018)
As a friendly neighbor who lives in a very friendly neighborhood - If I had to call first before knocking on your door I don't think I'd be calling very much. Just saying.

Here in Florida with all the home Invasions- we do NOT open the door to strangers. I don't care what you look like- you are not coming in. If I open the door- I am inviting crime-

Don't do it-

You will be very sorry.

If I want info on different religions- I will Google it!

Thank you
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senior citizen 11-08-2012 04:36 PM

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Bogie Shooter 11-08-2012 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by USSGompers (Post 578497)
Here in Florida with all the home Invasions- we do NOT open the door to strangers. I don't care what you look like- you are not coming in. If I open the door- I am inviting crime-

Don't do it-

You will be very sorry.

If I want info on different religions- I will Google it!

Thank you
:rant-rave:

Have there been a lot of "home invasions" in The Villages??

senior citizen 11-08-2012 04:47 PM

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Cantwaittoarrive 11-08-2012 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by USSGompers (Post 578497)
Here in Florida with all the home Invasions- we do NOT open the door to strangers. I don't care what you look like- you are not coming in. If I open the door- I am inviting crime-

Don't do it-

You will be very sorry.

If I want info on different religions- I will Google it!

Thank you
:rant-rave:

:agree::agree::agree:exactly why I dont answer the doorbell

jflynn1 11-08-2012 05:54 PM

Beware of Jehovah Witnesses
 
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Originally Posted by Carmpat (Post 577398)
Beware of Jehovah Witnesses and unwanted solicitations going through Sanibel neighborhood on the south side of Avondale.

This morning my doorbell rang and I went to answer the door only to find a Jehovah's Witness couple trying to get me to change my religion. I told them I was not interested and also said they were not allowed to solicitate.

Patti

Beware of Jehovah Witnesses ? OH My god. I guess thre next statement will be "Beware of Mexicans, Puerto Ricans, or Blacks, Catholics, Christians , Irish or Italain"
How Sad.

graciegirl 11-08-2012 06:17 PM

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Originally Posted by senior citizen (Post 578523)
Probably not........but would they print it?

However, we saw a heck of a lot of workers, probably most just trying to do their daily jobs.........who looked like aliens (not the outer space type).

We've read that it's often the service people or cleaning people that are allowed entry to the property , that "might be tempted"....

We know our landscapers up here and our plumbers, carpenters, etc. as they all were born and raised in this town, but there is another element moving into our state to collect welfare.

Also, people on drugs don't care whose home they invade.
People who need money for drugs, ditto.

Anyone can drive through TV......as we've seen all the work trucks using the roads to get to the other side.........

Many times, the elderly are perceived as easy targets.

Hopefully, it will NEVER EVER HAPPEN........but BETTER SAFE THAN SORRY.

We live in a safe state....probably one of the safest...and yet we all know not to let any strangers in.......times have changed, sadly.

Up here it's mostly small time thieves wanting to steal home safes and jewelry to re sell for scrap.........or lots of thieves are stealing copper wire right from homes.....plumbing parts, etc. They know the seasonal homes and sometimes are breaking into non seasonal homes when the owners are away at work or school.............it is scary but times are hard and people need $$$$$$$$$$$

43 years ago we thought nothing of leaving our doors open and the keys in our cars..........not any more. Most Vermonters never locked their doors. Those times have changed, unfortunately.

Our police are on the ball up here and give out regular warnings on what to look for. I can honestly say that our daily newspaper prints all the news, good and bad.
People need to be aware..........and they sure let us know. Glad my kids are grown up and on their own, with families of their own. Society has changed.

Again, we live in an extremely safe town and state, compared to the rest of the U.S..........but none of us have our heads in the sand.

They would print it. I get the paper every day here and the Police blotter is printed.

We live in an extremely safe town here. There are those who do not like the Sun for reasons I suspect are political...And they are very vocal on this forum.

That does not mean we should drop our guard but this place is far safer than most places in the U.S. And The Sun is a decent paper. But no place is completely safe. This is every bit as safe as the town we left in Ohio. There are people who will be overly fearful no matter how safe their surroundings are... because of a million reasons.

MSG@TV 11-08-2012 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by senior citizen (Post 578441)
I didn't see the responses the way it's mentioned above.
The ones upset found the "callers" to be the rude ones; not the other way around.

None of us would go out of our way to be rude to a "church person".
I'm sure we are all raised just fine.

The "authorities" have better things to do than respond to disgruntled folks having their doorbells constantly rung.

What I've said is that we live in a pretty big house and are not always by our front door........we could be on any of the three levels ....or we could be out on the back screened in porch or on the deck or in the backyard.
Every time the doorbell rings to an "uninvited guest" is a hassle as you get older. We don't run as fast as we used to.

I think this is boiling down to who likes to go around and ring people's doorbells to who prefers their uninterrupted privacy.........and the J.W. we get up here are a bit offputting........maybe not as nice as the ones you get at your place in TV.

Also, if you didn't answer the door, how would you know it wasn't someone you might like to see????

We're talking "uninvited annoying solicitors"..............soliciting something we are not interested in.

Just last night we were discussing how THIS IS THE FIRST YEAR we haven't got any local candidates coming to our door on Sunday afternoons...........strange but true. They came for years, handing out fliers or hanging them on front doors........

Also, as this is an "aging neighborhood now".........with all the little ones grown up and moved away..........we don't even get Girl Scouts selling their cookies anymore..........nor the little baseball players selling their raffle tickets...............we always enjoyed them..................that is a big difference from J.W.

I also live in an "aging neighborhood" and do resent when the doorbell rings and interrupts me-it's not for my kids cause they either live elsewhere or admit/meet friends via cell phone contacts. I used to screen callers through an intercom, but that isn't working(another thing I need to fix before putting the house on the market). Anyway, I do get annoyed, but they are usually so polite that I respond in the same manner by saying thanks, but no thanks.

Taltarzac725 11-09-2012 01:07 PM

Here's a link to the official English JW website.
 
Jehovah?s Witnesses?Official Website: jw.org

Cannot say I have been ever really interested in what visiting JW missionaries have to say. Above is a link that spells out their believes according to them.

I might have opened the door to missionaries if one of them were an attractive woman. Usually in Palm Harbor it was two 20 something men who would come to the door. And, you could here them coming from a few houses down as the neighbor's dogs would start barking.

gustavo 11-09-2012 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Cantwaittoarrive (Post 578009)
I don't answer a knock on my door or the doorbell ringing unless I'm expecting someone. If someone rings or knocks and I don't know or expect that they were coming over it means they are trying to sell me something. All the neighbors know my policy on this so they always call in advance. Just because someone decides to come to my door doesn't mean I need to answer

I agree wholeheartedly. My wife is always wanting to stop in on our friends and neighbors and I tell her we need to call first. I actually take this philosophy one step further, in that I will not answer the phone unless I know someone is going to call me. My friends and neighbors all know this and don't call unless they stop over to let me know in advance.

quirky3 11-09-2012 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by gustavo (Post 578994)
I agree wholeheartedly. My wife is always wanting to stop in on our friends and neighbors and I tell her we need to call first. I actually take this philosophy one step further, in that I will not answer the phone unless I know someone is going to call me. My friends and neighbors all know this and don't call unless they stop over to let me know in advance.

Sounds like a Catch-22 to me. People can't stop by if they don't call first, but you won't answer anyone's call unless they stopped by first to let you know they would call....?

mrfixit 11-09-2012 10:49 PM

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Originally Posted by gustavo (Post 578994)
I agree wholeheartedly. My wife is always wanting to stop in on our friends and neighbors and I tell her we need to call first. I actually take this philosophy one step further, in that I will not answer the phone unless I know someone is going to call me. My friends and neighbors all know this and don't call unless they stop over to let me know in advance.

...:icon_twisted:...ROTFLMAO...:highfive:...

mickey100 11-10-2012 05:55 AM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 578565)
They would print it. I get the paper every day here and the Police blotter is printed.

We live in an extremely safe town here. There are those who do not like the Sun for reasons I suspect are political...And they are very vocal on this forum.....

I have to shake my head over that one Gracie. Perhaps people like myself don't like the Daily Sun because it just doesn't do a very good job of reporting the news! Time and time again the Sun has not reported on events of importance or they have only reported about half the story. The Sun is an excellent advertising vehicle for the Developer, which is fine, but as far as news, many don't find it to be a good newspaper.

senior citizen 11-10-2012 08:07 AM

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Matt and Gail 11-10-2012 08:27 AM

Solicitation and CW
 
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Originally Posted by Number 6 (Post 577448)
Oh, this gets better. A couple of weeks ago we called Community Watch to get them out of our neighborhood. We were told that CW could do nothing about it as they were not "soliticing". CW said that they could get in trouble if they said anything to them. Go figure.

That is exactly right. They are not selling anything so no solicitation there. Now if they refuse to leave your property, then that is trespassing and the police will handle that! Everyone beats up CW, but for people who make minimum wage they do a great job watching our community and the are NOT law enforcement! JMHO

Patty55 11-10-2012 09:46 AM

I honestly don't know much about the JW beliefs, my only knowledge is that people find them annoying and that they don't celebrate holidays. They've never come to my home trying to suck me in.

As a Cafeteria Catholic I'm a bit intrigued by the level of commitment these people have.

senior citizen 11-10-2012 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Patty55 (Post 579159)
I honestly don't know much about the JW beliefs, my only knowledge is that people find them annoying and that they don't celebrate holidays. They've never come to my home trying to suck me in.

As a Cafeteria Catholic I'm a bit intrigued by the level of commitment these people have.

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Tweety Bird 11-18-2012 05:54 PM

Ok, so here's the story. I used to be neighbors to Jehovah's Witnesses and they were the nicest people. If you really want to know what they believe, their official website is www.jw.org. So, the question is WHY do they come to the door? Because they are footstep followers of Christ. "And this good news of the kingdom shall be preached in all the inhabited earth for a witness to ALL the nations, and then the end will come." - (bible quote). They are not solicitors. They LOVE others and teach others the bible with in-home bible studies. They don't force anything on anyone. They are looking for sheep, not goats. There are many people interested in being comforted by the bible and want answers to things that are happening on the earth. If you are not interested, politeness is a kind thing. As a matter of fact, their magazines are pretty superb with up to date information about things that are happening. These are hard-working people who have jobs and are honest and use their personal time to care about people. To be sarcastic about them and mean is not virtuous and is not funny.

loonlovers 11-18-2012 06:06 PM

Nice post, Tweety Bird. Agree completely with your sentiments. Say no politely and close the door.

gerryann 11-18-2012 06:15 PM

I also agree. I know quite a few Witness's including my brother and family. They are all good people. Yes, they do go door to door. No, I don't like that they do that, but its their belief and not mine. As long as they are not hurting anyone...so be it.

tucson 11-18-2012 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Tweety Bird (Post 582677)
Ok, so here's the story. I used to be neighbors to Jehovah's Witnesses and they were the nicest people. If you really want to know what they believe, their official website is www.jw.org. So, the question is WHY do they come to the door? Because they are footstep followers of Christ. "And this good news of the kingdom shall be preached in all the inhabited earth for a witness to ALL the nations, and then the end will come." - (bible quote). They are not solicitors. They LOVE others and teach others the bible with in-home bible studies. They don't force anything on anyone. They are looking for sheep, not goats. There are many people interested in being comforted by the bible and want answers to things that are happening on the earth. If you are not interested, politeness is a kind thing. As a matter of fact, their magazines are pretty superb with up to date information about things that are happening. These are hard-working people who have jobs and are honest and use their personal time to care about people. To be sarcastic about them and mean is not virtuous and is not funny.

Excellent post!!!

MSG@TV 11-18-2012 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Tweety Bird (Post 582677)
Ok, so here's the story. I used to be neighbors to Jehovah's Witnesses and they were the nicest people. If you really want to know what they believe, their official website is www.jw.org. So, the question is WHY do they come to the door? Because they are footstep followers of Christ. "And this good news of the kingdom shall be preached in all the inhabited earth for a witness to ALL the nations, and then the end will come." - (bible quote). They are not solicitors. They LOVE others and teach others the bible with in-home bible studies. They don't force anything on anyone. They are looking for sheep, not goats. There are many people interested in being comforted by the bible and want answers to things that are happening on the earth. If you are not interested, politeness is a kind thing. As a matter of fact, their magazines are pretty superb with up to date information about things that are happening. These are hard-working people who have jobs and are honest and use their personal time to care about people. To be sarcastic about them and mean is not virtuous and is not funny.

I agree; they are so nice that I just say thanks and no thanks.

Cedwards38 11-18-2012 09:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tweety Bird (Post 582677)
Ok, so here's the story. I used to be neighbors to Jehovah's Witnesses and they were the nicest people. If you really want to know what they believe, their official website is www.jw.org. So, the question is WHY do they come to the door? Because they are footstep followers of Christ. "And this good news of the kingdom shall be preached in all the inhabited earth for a witness to ALL the nations, and then the end will come." - (bible quote). They are not solicitors. They LOVE others and teach others the bible with in-home bible studies. They don't force anything on anyone. They are looking for sheep, not goats. There are many people interested in being comforted by the bible and want answers to things that are happening on the earth. If you are not interested, politeness is a kind thing. As a matter of fact, their magazines are pretty superb with up to date information about things that are happening. These are hard-working people who have jobs and are honest and use their personal time to care about people. To be sarcastic about them and mean is not virtuous and is not funny.

Outstanding! If the JW's came to his door, WWJD?

gerryann 11-18-2012 09:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Cedwards38 (Post 582736)
Outstanding! If the JW's came to his door, WWJD?

Good one :)

gamby 11-19-2012 02:37 AM

TWEETY BIRD ;

I could not have said it any better !!

jflynn1 11-19-2012 10:46 AM

Soliciting in the Villages
 
Just because we feel we live in a bubble and are somtimes isolated from the outsde world we still have to abide by the laws of the sate and the fedeal government. Certain laws
allow for solicitation. Just tell the solicitor in a friendly manner you are not interested. What is the big deal ?


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