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coconutmama 06-16-2022 06:47 AM

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Originally Posted by joelfmi (Post 2106732)
Thank you for having the courage to talk about The Villages your transparency is greatly appreciated. From what I have read what they advertised about it is a lot of smoke and mirrors. That is why before are buy there I will do a lot of Due Diligence and not believe what management are saying about life there.

“People are people wherever you go” as the song says, so I would not judge our community on this incident.

Personally we have our own pool, but do occasionally enjoy going to our nearby family pool for the atmosphere of younger people. All have been well behaved.

debjtm4@brmemc.net 06-16-2022 07:24 AM

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Originally Posted by rrtjp (Post 2106744)
Exactly, kids will be kids but that doesn’t mean they should go unsupervised and doing anything they want. Two sides to every story. I like going to the family pools, I like kids especially when the adult that is with them is not ignoring them.


Thanks for your reply. I was in the pool with ALL of them to make sure they stayed on same side of pool as me. Kids are kids and are noisy when having fun.

Bilyclub 06-16-2022 07:36 AM

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Originally Posted by coconutmama (Post 2106752)
“People are people wherever you go” as the song says, so I would not judge our community on this incident.

Personally we have our own pool, but do occasionally enjoy going to our nearby family pool for the atmosphere of younger people. All have been well behaved.

Don't waste your time on that poster. Just hangs out here to rip on TV.

debjtm4@brmemc.net 06-16-2022 07:42 AM

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Originally Posted by kendi (Post 2106699)
One side of the story. What’s the other? Oh, and it’s really nobody’s business but yours. Why put this on social media?

Yes it's MY side of the story and I did contemplate putting it on social media. The main reason I did was because I kept thinking that maybe I was to blame for this woman's reaction. But after I reported it to Andy, the regional manager of this pool, I realized that I was at the right pool and did nothing wrong. And according to several posts, I'm not the only one who has experienced such rudeness at Cattail.

lmsintx@gmail.com 06-16-2022 07:43 AM

You're right - this is the land of the grumps. They are everywhere. They all forgot that they were once fun- loving children. Welcome to God's waiting room.

tallmanf 06-16-2022 07:47 AM

Same with pool walkers.

debjtm4@brmemc.net 06-16-2022 07:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Worldseries27 (Post 2106705)
Perhaps we need to resort to our id's being scanned at pool entrances. This way law and order might prevail at these sites where apparently bullies thrive because of their anonymity. Same principle used at our gates. Time-outs for offenders might work village wide.

I agree with you about scanning your ID card at pool. This will make people responsible for their uncalled for behavior.

Veiragirl 06-16-2022 07:52 AM

Give me traffic any then a bunch of screaming kids. BUT I do agree with going to an adult only pool if you don't want to hear someones elses irchins

Gulfcoast 06-16-2022 07:55 AM

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Originally Posted by debjtm4@brmemc.net (Post 2106780)
Yes it's MY side of the story and I did contemplate putting it on social media. The main reason I did was because I kept thinking that maybe I was to blame for this woman's reaction. But after I reported it to Andy, the regional manager of this pool, I realized that I was at the right pool and did nothing wrong. And according to several posts, I'm not the only one who has experienced such rudeness at Cattail.

Since you reported it to the regional manager did you find out whether or not they would look into the matter and possibly send a letter to the person reminding her of family pool policies and, if necessary, even temporarily suspending her pool privileges for a week or whatever? I'm just wondering what, if anything, can be done to discourage that type of unpleasant encounter in the future?

TGRANNYT 06-16-2022 08:00 AM

Family pools
 
I agree with 100% regarding the family pools. If you don't like children, go to an adult pool where it is quiet.

Linnberg 06-16-2022 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by yamma3 (Post 2106372)
We have two rather loud grandchilden - I think I know which pool we will go to when they visit!:icon_wink:

Go for it!!! 👏👍

Sharon654321 06-16-2022 08:21 AM

Please encourage Adult Swimmers to take frequent Potty Breaks instead of peeing in the pool!

ThirdOfFive 06-16-2022 09:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Topspinmo (Post 2106407)
So sorry you and you’re grandkids had to experience that. What you experienced use to be very low percentage of villages. Now seems % has gone way up?

I've always maintained that the reason the jerks stand out is because there are so few of them here.

Travelhunter123 06-16-2022 09:14 AM

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Originally Posted by me4vt (Post 2106310)
Kids aren’t Welcome in a Retirement community, that’s why we move here!!

For those of us that have grandchildren, we hope you wear your “Americas Friendliest Home Town” tee shirt and act accordingly

Spikearoni 06-16-2022 09:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Worldseries27 (Post 2106270)
m havn wat u hvn
brp

Now that’s funny👏🏻


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