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Madelaine Amee 06-15-2022 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by debjtm4@brmemc.net (Post 2106551)
I believe that I was. I made sure that I took the kids to a family pool and adhered to the rules. Children will be children and I never let them get near her side of the pool where she was playing her radio.

If this happens to you and your Grandchildren again, I think you have to be more aggressive in your handling of the problem. If it were me I would suggest in a loud and very forceful voice that they control their foul language, pick up their loud radio and make their way to an adult pool where they belong. Make sure you say it in a voice loud enough to be heard by other pool attendees. You might add "this is a FAMILY" pool for children and relatives."

I am sure you will get a mouthful, but you will be in the right.

Stu from NYC 06-15-2022 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Madelaine Amee (Post 2106590)
If this happens to you and your Grandchildren again, I think you have to be more aggressive in your handling of the problem. If it were me I would suggest in a loud and very forceful voice that they control their foul language, pick up their loud radio and make their way to an adult pool where they belong. Make sure you say it in a voice loud enough to be heard by other pool attendees. You might add "this is a FAMILY" pool for children and relatives."

I am sure you will get a mouthful, but you will be in the right.

Totally agree with you

coffeebean 06-15-2022 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Bogie Shooter (Post 2106587)
Just some suggestions to avoid the gibberish…………
Did it enter jibberish?

No, that was me. I must have misspelled gibberish. My bad!

flflowers 06-15-2022 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by tsmall22204 (Post 2106272)
You make it sound as if you were wronged, now i would like to hear the other side of that story.

Doesn't matter....FAMILY POOL . End of story

Marathon Man 06-15-2022 07:40 PM

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Originally Posted by DAVES (Post 2106199)
We who were not there can only voice an OPINION. FOUR GRANDKIDS I expect grandma is far more tolerant of them than people not related to them.

Doesn't matter. It's a family pool.

Marathon Man 06-15-2022 07:43 PM

This is not the first time that someone has reported rudeness at the Cattail pool. Others have talked about some of the regulars there attempting to chase people away by claiming that Cattail is for residents in the immediate area only.

OrangeBlossomBaby 06-15-2022 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Marathon Man (Post 2106648)
This is not the first time that someone has reported rudeness at the Cattail pool. Others have talked about some of the regulars there attempting to chase people away by claiming that Cattail is for residents in the immediate area only.

We should totally organize a get-together at the Cattail pool soon.

Happydaz 06-15-2022 07:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Marathon Man (Post 2106648)
This is not the first time that someone has reported rudeness at the Cattail pool. Others have talked about some of the regulars there attempting to chase people away by claiming that Cattail is for residents in the immediate area only.

Cattail pool needs to be monitored more closely by recreation center employees to make sure no one is using a loud radio or harassing families with children. The guilty parties should be on notice that their days of ascendancy are over.

Gulfcoast 06-15-2022 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by GOLFER54 (Post 2106557)
When I go to a Family pool, I expect the kids to make noise and rough house. When I go to an Adult pool, I usually witness the same.

Haha, so the adults at the adult pool can get rowdy, too? What exactly are they doing?

All of this has been interesting information. I suppose I'm used to the controlled chaos at a family pool. I assumed the adult pools were rather calm and sedate but maybe not?

Gulfcoast 06-15-2022 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Marathon Man (Post 2106648)
This is not the first time that someone has reported rudeness at the Cattail pool. Others have talked about some of the regulars there attempting to chase people away by claiming that Cattail is for residents in the immediate area only.

Perhaps consider renaming it the Cat Fight pool?

debem1@aol.com 06-15-2022 08:03 PM

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Originally Posted by debjtm4@brmemc.net (Post 2106100)
i have owned a home in the villages for 2 years now and have never felt so unwelcome here as last sunday at cattail family rec pool. Had my 4 grandkids with me in the pool and keeping them on one side of it away from others. Apparently a woman thought this was her private pool and that we were too loud and unruly. She aggressively accosted me in front of kids and used foul language so i could not respond like i wanted due to my kids being close by. Then a old man decided to walk in front of me and put in his 2 cents. I made a call to andy the regional manager of pool to make sure i was at appropriate pool for families and that what my kids were doing was ok. He agreed that i did nothing wrong and if happened again, to get a name and call him. My point: If you want a quiet pool, then you need to visit an adult pool..there are over 20 of them!! Family pools are for families with children and they are loud and splash-don't ruin it for them just because you're old and grumpy..

amen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

debjtm4@brmemc.net 06-15-2022 08:08 PM

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Originally Posted by OrangeBlossomBaby (Post 2106649)
We should totally organize a get-together at the Cattail pool soon.


That would be wonderful 😊
My husband and I love to meet new people in our area!!!

debjtm4@brmemc.net 06-15-2022 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Madelaine Amee (Post 2106590)
If this happens to you and your Grandchildren again, I think you have to be more aggressive in your handling of the problem. If it were me I would suggest in a loud and very forceful voice that they control their foul language, pick up their loud radio and make their way to an adult pool where they belong. Make sure you say it in a voice loud enough to be heard by other pool attendees. You might add "this is a FAMILY" pool for children and relatives."

I am sure you will get a mouthful, but you will be in the right.

Thank you for your comments. I was so caught off guard by her rudeness and language and that my grandkids were near by. I will be more forceful next time, I promise you. And by the way, I did tell her this was a family pool but that landed on deaf ears.

debjtm4@brmemc.net 06-15-2022 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Stu from NYC (Post 2106592)
Totally agree with you


Thanks for agreeing. If it happens again, I will be more forceful in my response as I and kids did nothing wrong.

NewtoFL 06-15-2022 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by GOLFER54 (Post 2106557)
When I go to a Family pool, I expect the kids to make noise and rough house. When I go to an Adult pool, I usually witness the same.

I have seen adults act pretty awful at the pools and many times had to put up with the boorish resident who thinks that everyone wants to listen to their music. Some people are just arrogant.

We are lucky that there is the option of the adult or family pool. In many communities there is no choice. My cousin was telling me about an old lady at her pool who had a fit because some kids accidentally splashed her. My cousin’s husband said in a loud voice “don’t you hate it when you get wet in the pool”. I’m still laughing. Some people are just miserable.


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