Originally Posted by Md girl (Post 1408887)

This morning I went to Chula Vista Rec Center to participate in a class. This was not my first time there. I tried to go to the back so I would not be in anyone's way. I was told that was not a good place ,then the woman preceded to put her hands on my shoulders and push me into what she considered a suitable place for me. I kept quiet not wanting to start any trouble. As soon as there was a break in the last, she immediately started running her mouth to another participant about me. I walked over and picked up my things and left. I'm not sure who died and left this woman in charge, I hope she reads this. Because I want her to know she was lucky I did not press charges against her for putting her hands on me. As far as I know I have the same rights as anyone else. I pay my fees to use the facilities just like everyone. So who ever you are count your blessings that I did not have you arrested, perhaps you should think twice before putting your hands on anyone.

Originally Posted by pklein9747 (Post 1408961)

If this happens again, please go to the person in charge at the Rec Center and report it. You have every right to be in that exercise class and, within reason, stand where you want and not be manhandled or criticized by another person at the activity.

Recreation takes these complaints seriously. We had a problem several years ago with a woman at water volleyball. Several people complained, filed written complaints and she was banned from the pool for six months. It made playing so much nicer :)

Originally Posted by Mama C (Post 1410759)

Really people?! Arrest her!! She probably just thought she was being friendly and helping you get involved.... Geesh! just tell her politely to not touch you--I can't believe she was assaulting you.... Some people are just more physical than others and others are just too quick to judge

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Originally Posted by Gpsma (Post 1411044)

I can't believe so many people are saying call the police. This wasn't an assault. Why tie up police resources for small petty confrontations. I suspect the OP wasn't shoved into another spot but rather rudely guided by the Alpha Female.

The issue here is why the OP didn't firmly stand her ground. I suspect she is posting here because when she left she was ashamed of not sticking up for herself.

Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1411051)

This is very much a social-geographic thing. Some areas of the country talk back in public and some do not.

Each looks down on the other.

Originally Posted by marianne237 (Post 1408978)

Sadly, you find this at so many things happening in the Villages. I used to exercise at the pool, but was told more than once that I had to move because that space was saved "for my friend". And, you will also find this at Operation Shoebox, or any other of the charities. It's just rude and thoughtless people.... Consider the source and let it go. After 2 bouts of cancer, I've learned to "just let it go" and walk away.