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Kwenner 05-05-2020 10:52 AM

She obviously doesn’t need a mask ,she’d kill the Rona with her nasty disposition.

coffeebean 05-05-2020 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by robinrodriguez (Post 1759292)
Wash your glasses eoth shave cream, no more fog!

I heard that washing the lenses with any soap and water will prevent fogging. I use lens wipes that have some alcohol in them and I've never had a problem with fogging. The packaging of the lens wipes claims they can be used on lenses that are anti glare.

I make sure my mask is pinched at the bridge of my nose for a proper fit so air does not escape onto my glasses. So.....between the lens wipes and the proper fit of the mask on the bridge of my nose, I have no fogging at all of my glasses.

cookies 05-05-2020 11:17 AM

ALDI clearly has signs up at registers stating that customers are to stay behind the blue line at entrance to checkout aisle until previous customer leaves register. There is also a sign saying only one customer order on the belt at all times. I was there today and it is a great shopping experience when everyone follows the rules, it’s not that difficult.

mrf6969 05-05-2020 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by missypie (Post 1758947)
So my daughter and I are in Aldi's today. Going up and down the isles in the correct direction. A woman staunchly told me my mask was not on properly. I thought it was but I thanked her. We went to put the groceries on the belt and she yelled that her things need to be off the belt before ours go on. When she had 3 items left I started to load on the belt and
She pointed her finger and said apparently you dont know how to listen. Wow, how rude. We are so concise of all things. I ha e never been spoken to that way. So, please be nice to one another. Shopping used to be a joy for me, but not so much now

Wife and I shopping at Aldi's (441) and we started to put items on the belt too soon and the cashier yelled back to us to wait till he had checked out the shopper in front of us. We did not know that rule but we do now. Aldi's is doing a nice job with the baskets and traffic flow in the stores. Felt very comfortable there.

OhioBuckeye 05-05-2020 11:21 AM

Ohiobuckeye
 
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Originally Posted by missypie (Post 1758947)
So my daughter and I are in Aldi's today. Going up and down the isles in the correct direction. A woman staunchly told me my mask was not on properly. I thought it was but I thanked her. We went to put the groceries on the belt and she yelled that her things need to be off the belt before ours go on. When she had 3 items left I started to load on the belt and
She pointed her finger and said apparently you dont know how to listen. Wow, how rude. We are so concise of all things. I ha e never been spoken to that way. So, please be nice to one another. Shopping used to be a joy for me, but not so much now

Yes I agree, no need to get nasty. Don't think this person learned here manners in school do you? So there's only one place left, huh!

Nucky 05-05-2020 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by missypie (Post 1758947)
So my daughter and I are in Aldi's today. Going up and down the isles in the correct direction. A woman staunchly told me my mask was not on properly. I thought it was but I thanked her. We went to put the groceries on the belt and she yelled that her things need to be off the belt before ours go on. When she had 3 items left I started to load on the belt and
She pointed her finger and said apparently you dont know how to listen. Wow, how rude. We are so concise of all things. I ha e never been spoken to that way. So, please be nice to one another. Shopping used to be a joy for me, but not so much now

So everybody is on Pins & Needles nowadays. Extraordinary times we are trying to get through together. The lady had no jurisdiction to direct you in any way. That's why they have a Store Manager. If it is a Store Directive why wasn't there a SIGN clearly stating the policy?

Getting out of the house for a bit to food shop is a treat to some and to others it is terrifying. Different people make determinations on how they perceive the rules. I would think that it wasn't missypie's groceries on the belt that freaked the other shopper out it was the proximity to the other people at the checkout. She just lashed out. I don't think somebody else's groceries on the belt can transfer much of anything in terms of germs.

The remarks in the previous posts about New Yorkers are cute. There is an excellent way to tell nobody involved in this stir up was from dear old N.Y. :boxing2: Don't criticize any New Yorker unless you have walked in their shoes! :)

DeafDeaf 05-05-2020 11:42 AM

A simple answer!
 
I just told the cashier about one behind me. She took care of alerting her to move back and to wait for her turn. :bigbow:

Also, some shoppers were in a hurry! I just ignored them and also pointed my hand pointing back when they saw me.:a040:

At the bottom line, let the employees handle the disrespectful consumers!:MOJE_whot:

Nucky 05-05-2020 11:45 AM

Which Aldi's are we speaking about?

Curtisbwp 05-05-2020 11:52 AM

I agree with your assessment of the RUDE lady. But PLEASE tell me just where you hail from. You have never been talked to in that manner ? You come from a disney world.

mcwood4d 05-05-2020 12:01 PM

Masks can hide non-verbal communication cues. I admire your kindness. I would have likely clarified my feelings for her feedback with a clear hand signal... Best choice, not something I'm often accused of.

Be well and continue being kind, we all need people that are tolerant in our lives.

Marty94 05-05-2020 12:32 PM

Criticism
 
Criticism can be constructive (that which is to help us improve ourselves or keep us safe) or destructive (often unsolicited and hurtful). I think it’s important to take the time in these circumstances to differentiate the two. Was the woman trying to be helpful, just nasty or a little of both? Sometimes we are quick to judge without understanding the context in which the criticism is made and perhaps not everyone can provide constructive criticism with diplomacy and grace. It happens. What is most important though is how we perceive criticism, filter out that which is destructive from constructive and move on.

I like this quote from Psychology Today: “We are all on separate journeys. We just need to stay in our own lanes. Trust in yourself, trust that you are doing the best you can, and never let another’s lack of security steal your own.”

Alto2548 05-05-2020 12:34 PM

And she probably has a COEXIST sticker on her car

Marty94 05-05-2020 12:36 PM

New posts
 
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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1759235)
I agree. I posted to him too, but it's gone.

We have a lot of new faces on the forum again. Really unusual during the time of year that we usually have fewer new faces. But it does add interest and keeps the post numbers up.

Don't anyone let this white hair fool ya.

I am new to posting and new to the Villages. I find these threads entertaining especially since so many activities have been canceled.

donassaid 05-05-2020 01:17 PM

No excuse. Should have told her to mind her own business. I guess she would want the whole store empty while she shops. Nothing but unhinged fear and paranoia.

coffeebean 05-05-2020 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by cookies (Post 1759306)
ALDI clearly has signs up at registers stating that customers are to stay behind the blue line at entrance to checkout aisle until previous customer leaves register. There is also a sign saying only one customer order on the belt at all times. I was there today and it is a great shopping experience when everyone follows the rules, it’s not that difficult.

Well, there you go. The OP was in err for loading her groceries on the belt before the previous customer's order was completed. Many posters before this post have claimed there are no signs. Wonder why that is.


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