MandoMan |
03-20-2021 06:16 AM |
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Originally Posted by kcwhel
(Post 1918170)
We are a 74yrs healthy married couple wondering whether it is too late to move to TV.
Our friends have passed or moved and we need a new circle of friends. Is it too late at 74 to find a new group of friends. Are most of TV residents going to be much younger?
Advice please---
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At 74, there may be some sports that don’t interest you much, but there are still plenty you might enjoy. There are lots of groups to try out and join if you like them. This is the easiest place to make friends that I’ve ever seen, but you have to be friendly to make friends. It’s entirely possible to keep to yourself and be lonely and alone in your neighborhood. It’s up to you. It’s also possible to walk the dog or go for neighborhood walks and greet lots of people and perhaps know there names, yet do no socializing with anyone. It’s all up to you. It’s also possible to go to some club and know everyone’s name, yet never see them outside the club and not really know them. It takes effort, but it can be fun. ( I’m talking to myself here.)
I bought a lovely home fully furnished (much better furnished than where I came from) just north of 466 and not far from Morse Blvd. It’s close to halfway between Spanish Springs and Lake Sumter Landing. I can be at either town square in about ten minutes. It’s about ten minutes by car from nearly every recreation center where I have meetings and from most of the places where I shop. I love my home and love my neighborhood and area. I have one weekly meeting at Aviary Recreation Center, all the way south, and that takes about 25 minutes by car! If I lived way down there, it would be much farther to the places I shop, like Sam’s Club, Total Wine, Home Depot, Lowe’s, Walmart, or my favorite restaurants. In a golf cart, I’d have to double that time.
I used to live in a 200 year old log cabin, and my girlfriend lives in a 250 year old stone home, so my current 22 year old home in The Villages in excellent repair with perfect gardening done by someone else doesn’t seem “old” to me. I don’t get the desire folks have to keep buying “new” homes, but they can if they want to. Maybe it’s like the old days when the early settlers kept moving west as things got crowded.
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