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coffeebean 09-17-2017 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Bambi (Post 1449367)
I am a single woman living on a golf course. Apparently there are many golfers who cannot tell the difference between a fairway and private property. .............

I had no idea living on a golf course could be this bad. I never did want to live on a golf course and I'm so glad I don't. I value my privacy and it seems a golf course view lot is not the way to achieve that.

In south Florida, we lived on a beautiful lake. At times, people would come by the back of our home on a paddle boat. I didn't care for that but thank goodness, that didn't happen all that often. I would go out of my mind if I had to deal with what Bambi has said about golfers in her back (and front) yards.

coffeebean 09-17-2017 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by DigitalGranny (Post 1449369)
There is a man who lives on a cul-de-sac that backs up to our lot. He is here full-time, we are part time. Everyday, he chooses to walk his dogs through the entire depth of my yard to get to wherever he walks his dogs -and back again.

How long have you put up with this? I am speechless! How rude. Why haven't you told him you do not want him walking on your property? I would have approached him about that the first time I saw him take the trek with his dogs.

coffeebean 09-17-2017 10:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Henryk (Post 1449377)
Gracie dear, perhaps I'm a bit uncouth, but if I knew it belonged to the neighbor, I would have returned it to the neighbor. I was taught not to keep what is not mine. What nerve some people have!

:shocked:

Are you assuming the clod did not curb the dog? The poop was left on Gracie's property? Nah.....couldn't be so.

coffeebean 09-17-2017 11:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Gpsma (Post 1449434)
This is hysterical...private property at TV...the houses are so close that the concept of private property is a joke.

Yes, annoying when strangers think they can walk around. But i have had neighbors cutting through houses on my cull de sac to go see others on the street behind. Whats the big deal? Wave at me, say hello, and smile...walking on my grass doesnt upset me.

Maybee some of you come from an area where you have to post no tresspassing signs to keep the poachers away.

Sorry.....this is just wrong on every level. Yes the properties are postage stamp size. A property line is just that. It is a border of private property. Mindful people do not cross property lines.

Our mail center is directly behind our cul-de-sac. I would never think of walking on my neighbor's property to access the street behind their home to make a quick stroll to the mail center. In fact, now that I know them very well, I would not even consider asking them if it were OK to walk on their property to get to the mail center. That is just rude with a capital R. As you can see, I value my privacy and I respect other's privacy.

manaboutown 09-17-2017 11:02 PM

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Originally Posted by coffeebean (Post 1449585)
Sorry.....this is just wrong on every level. Yes the properties are postage stamp size. A property line is just that. It is a border of private property. Mindful people do not cross property lines.

Our mail center is directly behind our cul-de-sac. I would never think of walking on my neighbor's property to access the street behind their home to make a quick stroll to the mail center. In fact, now that I know them very well, I would not even consider asking them if it were OK to walk on their property to get to the mail center. That is just rude with a capital R. As you can see, I value my privacy and I respect other's privacy.

:BigApplause:

coffeebean 09-17-2017 11:02 PM

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Originally Posted by rubicon (Post 1449442)
Bambi:

I believe what you say but I am curious to know

do you live on a championship course or an executive course? If a championship I would not ask you which of the 9 hole course you live on but only if its Palmer's Havana, etc. if you live on an executive course I would not also be so bold as to ask which one but is the course on the north side or the south side?

I asked because you describe an abuse of privacy that I have never heard in 11 years being here.

I live on a championship course and only 3 times in 11 years has anyone entered onto my property

Personal Best Regards:

That you are aware of.

Sandtrap328 09-17-2017 11:04 PM

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Originally Posted by jsw14 (Post 1449514)
Naw, I don't need cameras.. How about a Letter that she wrote & put on the car windshield back in May of this year say'in the radio is to loud & the neighbors can't even sit on their front porch to read a book... I have talked to all the people on the street & they say NO, I can't hear the radio........ BTW> Nobody I can see on the street sit's on there front porch (not even Her) to read a book in the heat of day....:popcorn:

Since your neighbor did put a note on your car saying the radio was too loud for her, why didn't you do the neighborly thing and lower the volume to you hearing it yourself and not two doors away from that day forward?

Even IF the other neighbors were not bothered, she was. Be kind and lower the volume.

IF she had asked you on the day in question to please lower the radio volume (in person) would you have done it? Or would you have ignored her?

coffeebean 09-17-2017 11:06 PM

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Originally Posted by rubicon (Post 1449444)
GG if you are correct and the house is up for sale does trespassing still apply? Are the people who want a peek at here home now invitees?

Is it in her best interest to scare off potential buyers?
suppose a person wanting to move to TV gets a call from a friend living here and says I believe there is a house for sale that will fit your need. And the prospective buyer says can you go by the house and take a look, perhaps even some photos....just saying

How about ringing the door bell and asking if it is OK to go on their property to take photos? Yup.....common sense and common courtesy.

coffeebean 09-17-2017 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by jsw14 (Post 1449461)
Trespassing HUMMM, How about what happen too me today... My neighbor (two doors down) came over when I was in my house (in the bathroom) & turned down my radio in the garage cause it was toooo loud..... It had to be her, cause I asked my wife if she turned it down when she came back from her friends house. The wife said NO she didn't touch the radio... We have had Run-in's with this neighbor before............ Trespassing!!!!

My eyes are bleeding after reading this. You are joking. Right?

CWGUY 09-17-2017 11:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Barefoot (Post 1449541)
:agree:


:agree:


I don't think that golf etiquette has anything to do with trespassing on private property.

:read:Golf The Villages

"Please never play a ball from the yard of a resident. It is also appropriate to report any damage of private property to the homeowner. We ask that you never retrieve your ball from a resident’s property."

rubicon 09-18-2017 05:18 AM

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Originally Posted by coffeebean (Post 1449587)
That you are aware of.

if a tree falls in a forest and one is not there does the tree make a sound?

rubicon 09-18-2017 05:34 AM

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Originally Posted by coffeebean (Post 1449589)
How about ringing the door bell and asking if it is OK to go on their property to take photos? Yup.....common sense and common courtesy.

Ah here we can revert to the discussion of we have a communications problem or the EXPECTATIONS
VIS A VIS INTENT DILEMMA .

I contend that the wide spread advertisements and selling of this home changes the status of people coming onto this property from trespassers to invitees and as such unless the homeowner in her advisement made clear that no one was allowed on the premises without a prior appointment creates a dilemma.

While I understand your meaning of call ahead, it would appear to be "common sense" by some people to deduce that since the property is for sale it is open for inspection.

Actually I would welcome people to come take a look kick the tires because I want to sell my house and I want to sell it quickly
..but that's another topic.

For homeowners who have lawn service, pest control etc you have what is referred to as licensee, allowing them to come onto your property to provide the service you pay for.

People are over reacting and applying a dichotomy to this issue and in some respects its puzzling to me.

The house is for sale "for sale" begs take a look, the expectation would be some people would not want to contact the owner with any kind of commitment until they had a look, a sincere interest in the property.

If this intrusion was happening to the homeowner and the house was not for sale well that's a horse of a different color

Personal Best Regards:

jsw14 09-18-2017 06:49 AM

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Originally Posted by coffeebean (Post 1449591)
My eyes are bleeding after reading this. You are joking. Right?

Nope, think what U want, I don't joke around with people walk'in into my garage when I'm not out there. Yes I happen to have a door bell on my front door. Thank U very much...

graciegirl 09-18-2017 07:38 AM

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Originally Posted by jsw14 (Post 1449643)
Nope, think what U want, I don't joke around with people walk'in into my garage when I'm not out there. Yes I happen to have a door bell on my front door. Thank U very much...

If someone would have come in my garage and turned my radio down, I would have been ...first annoyed, and then I would think that maybe I was playing it too loud. If I lived near you and it was too loud, I wouldn't say a thing, but think maybe it was time for a hearing test.

Wiotte 09-18-2017 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by jsw14 (Post 1449643)
Nope, think what U want, I don't joke around with people walk'in into my garage when I'm not out there. Yes I happen to have a door bell on my front door. Thank U very much...



Ironically, if this same person had a trip and fall in your garage she would have the right to sue.


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