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jimkerr 12-02-2021 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by joelfmi (Post 2035620)
Drive,or be on top of your neighbors home, very high monthly frees, don't play golf, cannot stand the heat, very far from malls, alot of traffic in season, renter, not gated communities, restrictions,. Otherwise go their. These are things that you will never here but are very impotant when you buy and home.

What? Our fees are very low here. All of your complaints are ridiculous.

DAVES 12-02-2021 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by joelfmi (Post 2035620)
Drive,or be on top of your neighbors home, very high monthly frees, don't play golf, cannot stand the heat, very far from malls, alot of traffic in season, renter, not gated communities, restrictions,. Otherwise go their. These are things that you will never here but are very impotant when you buy and home.

I wonder why people post this kind of stuff. If, the villages it is not right for you, I truly hope you will find something more suited to your needs are happy.

If, you don't drive and don't like the heat. There are many places you might like better.
A city will offer more public transit. New York City is great for that. New York City does get hot in the summer and there is snow.

Assuming you are retired, The world is your oyster. Be happy in it where ever you choose.

DAVES 12-02-2021 08:24 PM

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Originally Posted by KAM+6 (Post 2035880)
Yesterday I had a chance to read previous posts of the OP. It seem s that he does not live in TV. He lives in a condo in the NY and paying$550 condo fees. Does not drive and is looking for a woman, one that can drive. Said he would never buy in TV

I do not doubt what you say. I placed a post that they might like New York City that has a fine public transportation, probably one of the best in the world. Sadly he/she/it is a miserable person who needs to leave a post, for what purpose?

I truly wish them well. Well, away from me.

OrangeBlossomBaby 12-02-2021 08:48 PM

So we have a really badly written, very negative post. Followed by how many pages of dogpiling on the person who posted it?

"Florida's Friendliest Hometown" my left butt-cheek.

Bellavita 12-02-2021 09:03 PM

who are you
 
First I am sorry you are impotant, and remember if things are free it us a good thing, I live here but never get on top of my neighbors home. Perhaps you got tipsy one night or two.My father in law used to say if you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen, but were you in the kitchen when you wrote this? I totally misunderstood go their , like to their house or what? Thank God you wrote this eloquent letter to warn the world about the issues as it relates to home ownership in The Villages. You sound like quite the expert.


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Originally Posted by joelfmi (Post 2035620)
Drive,or be on top of your neighbors home, very high monthly frees, don't play golf, cannot stand the heat, very far from malls, alot of traffic in season, renter, not gated communities, restrictions,. Otherwise go their. These are things that you will never here but are very impotant when you buy and home.


Pachine58 12-02-2021 09:19 PM

I have a car but never drive it. Everything I need is available via my golf cart. Maybe you live in wrong area.

DrBrutyle109 12-03-2021 06:34 AM

Judge Judy
 
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Originally Posted by joelfmi (Post 2035620)
Drive,or be on top of your neighbors home, very high monthly frees, don't play golf, cannot stand the heat, very far from malls, alot of traffic in season, renter, not gated communities, restrictions,. Otherwise go their. These are things that you will never here but are very impotant when you buy and home.

I’m gonna answer with a famous Judge Judy quote
Your an adult, if you don’t like where you are

MOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CODYCAT 12-03-2021 06:59 AM

Did you visit the wrong place ?
 
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Originally Posted by joelfmi (Post 2035620)
Drive,or be on top of your neighbors home, very high monthly frees, don't play golf, cannot stand the heat, very far from malls, alot of traffic in season, renter, not gated communities, restrictions,. Otherwise go their. These are things that you will never here but are very impotant when you buy and home.

All those things you can see when you visit. If you don't want that why would you think about moving here????????

nick demis 12-03-2021 07:24 AM

If you hate everything about The Villages, why are you wasting your time on this site?

Sunflower1 12-03-2021 08:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Bjeanj (Post 2035622)
First of all, spellcheck is your friend. Secondly, you’re right. The Villages is not for everyone. Third, yes, it’s hot and humid. That’s what Florida weather is like.

I hope you find someplace that suits you.

I think this might be a case of the original poster drinking and typing. 😀

Villages Kahuna 12-03-2021 08:26 AM

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Originally Posted by joelfmi (Post 2035620)
Drive,or be on top of your neighbors home, very high monthly frees, don't play golf, cannot stand the heat, very far from malls, alot of traffic in season, renter, not gated communities, restrictions,. Otherwise go their. These are things that you will never here but are very impotant when you buy and home.

Great you identified your complaints and unhappiness before you bought a house here. Now you can search for a place that will make you happy. Hopefully it’s a long way from The Villages so you don’t suffer even a twang of unhappiness… a long, long way away!

merrymini 12-03-2021 09:04 AM

Sometimes I do not think this stuff is worth reading but, today, it was good for a laugh.

Papa_lecki 12-03-2021 09:07 AM

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Originally Posted by merrymini (Post 2036207)
Sometimes I do not think this stuff is worth reading but, today, it was good for a laugh.

I’m with you. You know reading the thread will be a train wreck, but you laugh the whole time, then take time to respond to the thread.

daveczo 12-03-2021 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by joelfmi (Post 2035620)
Drive,or be on top of your neighbors home, very high monthly frees, don't play golf, cannot stand the heat, very far from malls, alot of traffic in season, renter, not gated communities, restrictions,. Otherwise go their. These are things that you will never here but are very impotant when you buy and home.

Don't let the door hit you in your butt on your way out, Buh bye!

amexsbow 12-03-2021 09:19 AM

If you don't like the villages " Lets go Joe"

DAVES 12-03-2021 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by patfla06 (Post 2035748)
I think it’s ironic you complain about traffic coming from Long Island. :ohdear:

Been there, done that. They finally took down the temporary ten cent toll on the Southern State years after it was supposed to end. It was not only slowing traffic but it cost more to collect it than it brought in. That connects to the Belt Parkway, they have been repairing it for the past 50 years. Hope of them finishing it-zero. Traffic? How about taxes?

Real Estate? Prices are sky rocketing in Florida. People in NY are running from the crime.
You can get some great deals in Upstate NY.

DAVES 12-03-2021 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by villageuser (Post 2035757)
I moved here because my parents lived here and i wanted to be close to them physically to help them out. My dad passed away and my mother is at a local nursing home so i continue to live here. I love my home but other than that, I am in complete agreement with what the initial writer posted. I dream of the day I can get out of here. The posters who say this place is not an HOA crack me up. Call it amenity fees or HOA fees it’s the same thing. You have rules and regulations everywhere. For all practical purposes, it’s an HOA. And selling your home and making money. That’s funny, too. Maybe at the present time because home prices have gone up. But the focus here is in selling new homes and not your older home. However, i am happy for the people who love it here. Good for you! You found your spot. Someday i hope to find mine, too.

Reality, we can chose to be happy or miserable anywhere. It is a choice. Re: Older home vs new home. Assuming you have an older home, it is worth far more than you paid for it. I'm no cockeyed optimist but some look at a lawn and see the weeds others see the flowers-it is a choice. It is the same lawn.

DAVES 12-03-2021 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by skyking (Post 2036014)
?????
"villiages" vs. Villages
"frees" vs. fees
"Alot" vs. a lot
"their" vs. there
"here" vs. hear
"impotent" vs. important
"and home" vs. a home

It is very hard to take your criticism seriously when you have less than a third grade education.

Whatever happens to the class nerd, as they age?

DAVES 12-03-2021 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by ThirdOfFive (Post 2035927)
Well, as Mom used to say when we complained; "you'd b_tch if you were hung with a new rope". Never really did figure out what that meant. But to each his own, I guess.

I've never heard that one before. But, it is a good one. Rope used to be made from natural fiber. Usually hemp, same as marijuana. In any case when, new it is hard and scratchy.
A well used rope would be far softer. With either you would end up dead from a hanging but, at least a used rope would not irritate your neck as much. Do not antagonize the hangman is also sage advice. Perhaps, delivered before a good discussion before an application of a belt. We did not have cell phones or child protection services and there was far less crime.

rockyhyder 12-03-2021 10:04 AM

You’re right TV is not for everyone. Seems like you miss Long Island, if that’s where you’re happiest go there. The rest of us will stay here and enjoy all those things you don’t like 👍.

charlieo1126@gmail.com 12-03-2021 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by dadspet (Post 2035741)
Poster forgot to mention "Above all don't drink the water" It not even a secret > The Villages puts something in the water that makes "almost" everyone living here thinking its the best place on earth, why didn't we move here sooner. I've heard its something called H20 and they offer you a free bottle if you visit one of the many information centers. Don't even think about accepting one and trying it. Believe me it turns out to be very expensive, but most agree worth it. :icon_wink::icon_wink:

they offered me lots of water ,so much that I’ve bought and sold 6 houses here and no complaints about anything

DAVES 12-03-2021 10:09 AM

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Originally Posted by golfing eagles (Post 2035779)
Some people have difficulty with reality testing.

PS: January 1st 2010 saw 40,627 new laws on the books in the USA
40,000 Laws going into effect on one New Year’s Day, makes you wonder how many laws there are on the books in this country. Good luck avoiding the "rules", might I suggest the "Village of Anarchy"?:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

I've read our federal tax law is 86,000 pages.

Rules, years ago I got a printed copy of the New York ticket code. I don't recall why I requested it. Likely fighting yet another ticket. Some that I remember, not sure if it is also true in Florida but I expect it is. You cannot leave your car in the same place for 24 hours, that is storing your car on the street. If, you look hard enough, you will likely have a mark on your windshield from a pebble. They can ticket you for that. Hanging junk from your mirror is also illegal. So is driving barefoot. Sort of makes me wonder. If, you have a sunpass, can they claim it blocks your vision.

You can and should claim some of these things are an abuse of power.

DAVES 12-03-2021 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by DaleDivine (Post 2035774)
Soooo, there are nursing homes all over the world you can put your mother in. Yet you love living in this "miserable" place or you would have already left. I love it here. No better place comes close to TV...

:bigbow::bigbow:

That is very unfair of you. You do not know what the poster is dealing with. People in a nursing home probably will not accept moving to another place. Hopefully you have no idea what it is like to watch a parent turn into a ?????????

FloridaLady 12-03-2021 10:27 AM

I do not golf (did try it 2x) and I don’t like the heat however I hate the cold more. I moved from the NE. There is still a lot to do here and I am so glad to own and live here full time. In a few years when I retire I hope to do more and maybe that will include golf.

Bogie Shooter 12-03-2021 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by DAVES (Post 2036242)
I've never heard that one before. But, it is a good one. Rope used to be made from natural fiber. Usually hemp, same as marijuana. In any case when, new it is hard and scratchy.
A well used rope would be far softer. With either you would end up dead from a hanging but, at least a used rope would not irritate your neck as much. Do not antagonize the hangman is also sage advice. Perhaps, delivered before a good discussion before an application of a belt. We did not have cell phones or child protection services and there was far less crime.

Information overload.

HJBeck 12-03-2021 10:46 AM

Agree, don't move here.

joelfmi 12-03-2021 12:12 PM

Most retiree that are up in age need community transportation because they can know
 
longer to drive. Being a senior community why can they have free travel or paid community travel to different rec. center, shopping, doctor appointments The amenities fees that they charge can be included in their fees. This is a Hugh draw back for seniors over 75 years old. If they did this myself then housand of other seniors would consider buying there. This is my opinions please respect my opinion.

golfing eagles 12-03-2021 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by joelfmi (Post 2036303)
longer to drive. Being a senior community why can they have free travel or paid community travel to different rec. center, shopping, doctor appointments The amenities fees that they charge can be included in their fees. This is a Hugh draw back for seniors over 75 years old. If they did this myself then housand of other seniors would consider buying there. This is my opinions please respect my opinion.

OK, consider your opinion "respected".

However, just what kind of transportation is "free"---there are drivers, vehicles, maintenance and gas that all cost money. Include it in the amenity fee? Why should I pay for someone else's transportation? There are multiple transportation options inside the villages, and I don't see it as a huge? drawback, and I doubt "thousands" of other would either. Besides, where else can an over 75 senior live that includes "free" transportation other than an all inclusive facility, usually an apartment building with a concierge at a pretty high monthly rent.

manaboutown 12-03-2021 12:36 PM

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Originally Posted by joelfmi (Post 2036303)
longer to drive. Being a senior community why can they have free travel or paid community travel to different rec. center, shopping, doctor appointments The amenities fees that they charge can be included in their fees. This is a Hugh draw back for seniors over 75 years old. If they did this myself then housand of other seniors would consider buying there. This is my opinions please respect my opinion.

May you find your "happy place".

Bilyclub 12-03-2021 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by joelfmi (Post 2036303)
longer to drive. Being a senior community why can they have free travel or paid community travel to different rec. center, shopping, doctor appointments The amenities fees that they charge can be included in their fees. This is a Hugh draw back for seniors over 75 years old. If they did this myself then housand of other seniors would consider buying there. This is my opinions please respect my opinion.

It's called Uber or Lyft in most places and there is a per ride charge. There are persons here who will drive you places in TV but it's never going to be free.
I am curious about the following: Do you live in TV? If you don't, why do you post here and why are most of your posts critical of where we live?

Topspinmo 12-03-2021 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Papa_lecki (Post 2035623)
Not even going to address the other points (I am sure others will) BUT
If you don’t golf and can’t stand the heat, what made you think you would enjoy living in the largest golf course community in the world in a hot climate?


Not everyone golfs here and everyone not good golfers.

Topspinmo 12-03-2021 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Bjeanj (Post 2035622)
First of all, spellcheck is your friend. Secondly, you’re right. The Villages is not for everyone. Third, yes, it’s hot and humid. That’s what Florida weather is like.

I hope you find someplace that suits you.

So, you saying you can’t comprehend it? Or you just like feeling superior.

Topspinmo 12-03-2021 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Bilyclub (Post 2035682)
Drink much? That's one of the few things OP left off his post.

Not close, didn’t mention dogs, dog poop, single lane roundabouts, speeders, divot repair, developers to name few.

Rodneysblue 12-03-2021 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by joelfmi (Post 2035620)
Drive,or be on top of your neighbors home, very high monthly frees, don't play golf, cannot stand the heat, very far from malls, alot of traffic in season, renter, not gated communities, restrictions,. Otherwise go their. These are things that you will never here but are very impotant when you buy and home.

So I guess you are NOT an educated consumer. Most smart people do research on an area that they are looking to move to and get credible information on the area. I for one researched The Villages online for over a year. Then on a visit to relatives in Orlando we drove up to TV and did a quick tour for a couple of days to see if it was worth a Lifestyle Visit, and it was. We then scheduled a Lifestyle visit during the off season and then again during high season to gage different things like traffic. Then one more visit in a non Lifestyle Visit rental home and rented a golf cart also too. check out even more thing like what type of home and where. Went home and talked about it, decided yes this is it. Knowing what we wanted and having a good working relationship with our agent we watch online and purchased a home by phone/internet/agent. But we were prepared and extremely happy.Thanks to Gerry Andrews!

OrangeBlossomBaby 12-03-2021 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by joelfmi (Post 2036303)
longer to drive. Being a senior community why can they have free travel or paid community travel to different rec. center, shopping, doctor appointments The amenities fees that they charge can be included in their fees. This is a Hugh draw back for seniors over 75 years old. If they did this myself then housand of other seniors would consider buying there. This is my opinions please respect my opinion.

I agree with your idea, but not for that reason or with that methodology. I'm 100% in favor of some sort of community-based "public transportation" system. I've posted as such previously. Not amenity-fee (though perhaps a % of all amenity fees collected could go toward the initial purchase of an office, garage, and vehicles) based. More like a public tram system where trams will stop at rec centers to pick up and drop off passengers, and make a stop at one (or two) of the town squares, and one (or two, or three) shopping/medical centers.

Maybe with a paid monthly pass, paid unlimited day-pass, and paid 3-day passes for visitors. Could even have seasonal passes, or yearly passes. No "senior discount" because it'd be assumed the passenger is a senior.

The passes would be directly connected to your Villager ID or visitor's ID pass. Scan and board, easy peasy.

golfing eagles 12-03-2021 04:30 PM

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Originally Posted by OrangeBlossomBaby (Post 2036363)
I agree with your idea, but not for that reason or with that methodology. I'm 100% in favor of some sort of community-based "public transportation" system. I've posted as such previously. Not amenity-fee (though perhaps a % of all amenity fees collected could go toward the initial purchase of an office, garage, and vehicles) based. More like a public tram system where trams will stop at rec centers to pick up and drop off passengers, and make a stop at one (or two) of the town squares, and one (or two, or three) shopping/medical centers.

Maybe with a paid monthly pass, paid unlimited day-pass, and paid 3-day passes for visitors. Could even have seasonal passes, or yearly passes. No "senior discount" because it'd be assumed the passenger is a senior.

The passes would be directly connected to your Villager ID or visitor's ID pass. Scan and board, easy peasy.

That is a wonderful idea, but possibly a bit too Utopian at this time.

Pretty much anyone who is able to drive a car or a golf cart will generally want to do so, and that is easily 95+% of the population of TV.
So, this leaves people who can no longer drive a vehicle, but aren't ready for assisted living or a nursing facility, and don't live a short walk away from what they want, such as those in the Brownwood Lofts. So it is not a necessity for very many residents.
Meanwhile, given the size of TV, and the number of Rec Centers, pools, restaurants, stores, and medical offices, it would require quite a few "trolleys" at a substantial cost. And remember, those passengers still have to get to the trolley stop. Will the trollies be handicapped accessible? Will they accommodate scooters and electric wheelchairs? Will the driver assist these people? How long will a "circuit" be? How much will loading 2 or 3 mobility devices delay the route? Will people have to stand 1/2 an hour in the rain to catch these trollies.

I didn't mean to rain on your parade, because I agree it is a good idea. But it appears to be cost prohibitive as well as having a multitude of logistical problems.

Papa_lecki 12-03-2021 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Topspinmo (Post 2036335)
Not everyone golfs here and everyone not good golfers.

But they don’t complain about the golf.

OrangeBlossomBaby 12-03-2021 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by golfing eagles (Post 2036367)
That is a wonderful idea, but possibly a bit too Utopian at this time.

Pretty much anyone who is able to drive a car or a golf cart will generally want to do so, and that is easily 95+% of the population of TV.
So, this leaves people who can no longer drive a vehicle, but aren't ready for assisted living or a nursing facility, and don't live a short walk away from what they want, such as those in the Brownwood Lofts. So it is not a necessity for very many residents.
Meanwhile, given the size of TV, and the number of Rec Centers, pools, restaurants, stores, and medical offices, it would require quite a few "trolleys" at a substantial cost. And remember, those passengers still have to get to the trolley stop. Will the trollies be handicapped accessible? Will they accommodate scooters and electric wheelchairs? Will the driver assist these people? How long will a "circuit" be? How much will loading 2 or 3 mobility devices delay the route? Will people have to stand 1/2 an hour in the rain to catch these trollies.

I didn't mean to rain on your parade, because I agree it is a good idea. But it appears to be cost prohibitive as well as having a multitude of logistical problems.

It's not entirely utopian, this is already an option in some communities (albeit much smaller than ours). It's also not just for people who can't drive. It's also for people who want to let someone else do the driving for a change. It's a convenience. It reduces traffic, which is ALWAYS a good thing.

Some tram systems have elevating wheelchair ramps with space designated for wheelchairs. Scooters, no. Wheelchairs, yes. Some public transit systems have built their buses to carry bicycles on the front as well, so that's also a thing.

A tram isn't really a trolley (I had edited it, you probably responded to it pre-edit). A tram is more like a high-powered golf cart with 5-6 benches, each of which can accommodate 3-4 people. They're more or less open-air, with guard rails and a roof but no walls.

As for routing: you'd need "local" trams, a "central location," and regional commuter buses (those are the small ones like Workman has to get folks to the airport).

Local trams would be something like - a circuit that goes from Morse and 44 to points south - Monarch Grove, Citrus Grove, etc and up to Brownwood town square. Another one that would go 44 and Morse up to 466A and then around southwesterly to Brownwood town square. Another might go from somewhere on/near 466A and Morse northward, while another might go from 466A and Buena Vista Blvd northward. Each "local" tram would stop at the closest town square to them, and the closest shopping or medical center closest to them. One that connects up by Legacy and over Camino Real around the Savannah Center, and one that goes from the Savannah Center down Buena Vista to 466, stopping at the Polo grounds. There would be overlap, which is how it SHOULD work - so points south come north, points north go south, west and east meet in the middle as well.

Then - a "regional" would go from one town square to another, stopping only at strategic points (not going to rec centers). Brownwood would go to Sumter, Sumter would go to Spanish Springs. Maybe Brownwood would have another regional one going to the new Sawgrass (is that what it's called?)? Or perhaps it would be Sumter that does that.

There'd be 2-3 trams for each route so that there's always one coming back, one leaving, and one somewhere out in the distance furthest from the start and finish line.

Then there'd be the "direct route" buses that connect ONLY at the town squares. Great for folks who do monthly lunches in groups and don't want to take 10 golf carts or 5 cars, and want to make a day of it.

Imagine a bus taking you to your evening at the town square for dinner and dancing during market night or the antique car shows, and not having to worry about a parking space, or driving, or (because you know it happens) drinking and driving. Not having to pay a fortune for Uber, IF you can even find one available when you happen to want one.

Veiragirl 12-04-2021 05:42 AM

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Originally Posted by joelfmi (Post 2035620)
Drive,or be on top of your neighbors home, very high monthly frees, don't play golf, cannot stand the heat, very far from malls, alot of traffic in season, renter, not gated communities, restrictions,. Otherwise go their. These are things that you will never here but are very impotant when you buy and home.

Malls!! Who goes to malls anymore. As far as the heat, hey its Florida

Two Bills 12-04-2021 05:47 AM

What are these Malls and shop things that posters keep refering too?
Are they alternative sites to Amazon etc?:icon_wink:


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