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debiss 01-18-2022 08:46 AM

Stay home, grow up
 
Obviously, you drank the cool-aid at a younger age. I would suggest you stay home, grow up and come visit up when your 55. This is not meant to be a negative attitude but rather some wisdom for you to go find yourself and enjoy your youth before you decide to relocate to what is meant to be a retirement community.

MidWestIA 01-18-2022 08:52 AM

backwards
 
You should want to live by people you have something in common with over time you would realize it was not a good idea.

asianthree 01-18-2022 09:09 AM

There are more under 40 Singles and DINKs, living here than many realize. Younger gens are choosing not to have children, and have no plans of changing their mind. Many work from home, and yes they easily can afford to live here. Remember they are not on a fixed income. $500,000 house can be bought anywhere, why not here.

Our oldest is a DINK (duel income no kids), and youngest is single, neither will change their minds about kids, EVER. Middle child has 3 human, and 5 furry kids.

Our children, have been coming to TV since their 20s, both buying a home in TV in their 30s. Not one moment have they regretted decisions. They have friends here in TV, but most of their friends live near Tampa, and Orlando.

It may confuse some as to why move to TV in your 30s, but it’s the amenities, weather, attractions, just like it was for you.

OhioBuckeye 01-18-2022 09:39 AM

Ohiobuckeye
 
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Originally Posted by youngvillagertobe (Post 2050598)
I am a 24 year old man, single, no kids, work from home and am looking to buy my first house. I would love to live in the Villages and know about the 80/20 rule when it comes to 55+ communities. I am quiet, and old soul, respectful of others and always maintain a clean living space/ yard. What would be the honest reaction to having a young person live next door?

Just my opinion & don’t want to sound mean but if TV start letting anybody in TV that’s under 55 TV will go downhill fast. Young people have little ones & things in TV will go down fast & you think amenities are high now, amenities could double within 2 yrs. Youngvillagertobe, I’m sure you’re a very mature 24 yr. old but that wood open up to many bad doors!

nn0wheremann 01-18-2022 10:33 AM

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Originally Posted by youngvillagertobe (Post 2050598)
I am a 24 year old man, single, no kids, work from home and am looking to buy my first house. I would love to live in the Villages and know about the 80/20 rule when it comes to 55+ communities. I am quiet, and old soul, respectful of others and always maintain a clean living space/ yard. What would be the honest reaction to having a young person live next door?

Can you change a light bulb in a ceiling fixture? Can you retrieve something stored on a top shelf? Can you help with a heavy piece of furniture? Then come on down!

Bilyclub 01-18-2022 10:56 AM

It's much cheaper to buy a van and move from pool to pool, square to square...

JSR22 01-18-2022 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by OhioBuckeye (Post 2051125)
Just my opinion & don’t want to sound mean but if TV start letting anybody in TV that’s under 55 TV will go downhill fast. Young people have little ones & things in TV will go down fast & you think amenities are high now, amenities could double within 2 yrs. Youngvillagertobe, I’m sure you’re a very mature 24 yr. old but that wood open up to many bad doors!

You can purchase a home here and live full time at 19. You do not need to be 55 to purchase a home. It would not open up any bad doors.

jimjamuser 01-18-2022 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Spalumbos62 (Post 2050892)
What the heck? I think someone else here might have that drug problem he, himself speaks of. The example of them speeding around a curve and not seeing 3 people walking is crazy....not that it couldn't happen, but don't you think that crazy driver is gonna be an old person, a regular old villager..mixing their many daily drugs with cocktails, speeding home from the square. I see them every night. At least the young one can react faster.
Riddle me this batman...why would you say that?

Basically, because it was my opinion........call me an outlier. My views on many, MANY issues are outlier views. Like US population. Incidentally, the birthrate in China is decreasing significantly. If I were China, I would just enjoy that fact and not try to make it go up. The US would just bring in more illegal and legal immigrants, which I oppose, therefore I am an outlier in that instance. But, thanks for your opinion on my opinion, sincerely!!!!!!!

newgirl 01-18-2022 12:06 PM

Your welcome to move by me! I miss having different generations close by. I am north of 466.

jimjamuser 01-18-2022 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by OrangeBlossomBaby (Post 2050907)
You wouldn't be allowed in any of the adult pools. They're restricted to 30 and over. Some of the sports clubs also require you to be at least 55 years old to participate in them.

If a 24-year-old single man bought the house next to mine I'd wonder why he'd want to live in a community of people mostly old enough to be his grandparents. I'd probably wonder if it's a creeper, or someone waiting to prey on the elderly. I'd absolutely positively be suspicious.

You asked for honest reactions - that's mine.

I agree.

newgirl 01-18-2022 12:09 PM

You are incorrect. He can buy here, and there are many young people that live here, without parents.

newgirl 01-18-2022 12:10 PM

You are incorrect. He can buy here, and there are many young people that live here, without parents.
There is even a 20 something club here, contact them via Facebook.

jimjamuser 01-18-2022 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by OrangeBlossomBaby (Post 2050914)
I'd also be concerned about the possibility that this 24-year-old might choose to not be single after a couple of years, and start raising their family - here in the Villages. With newborn babies who become toddlers, school children - in a community that has one very small playground isolated from pretty much everything.

You might all say "oh that never happens" - but it does. People will take custody of their childrens' children, and raise them in their homes. Most people moved here in part because it is a 55+ community and NOT a family community. Children should be absolutely welcome to visit. They should absolutely not welcome to live here. And in fact - there's an actual rule within the deed restrictions that state that you can't live here if you're under 19.

Unfortunately - there's no way to enforce that. If a 24-year-old buys the house and moves in, and then has a baby, NO ONE will evict them. It won't happen.

It sets up a precedence for a trend. There is nothing stopping this 24-year-old from moving in. There's also nothing stopping him from starting a family a year from now. There's nothing stopping him from inviting his 24-year-old pals to buy and reside in the Villages and start their own families here.

I'd kind of prefer to not see that happen. It takes only one exception to change a rule.

I agree.

jimjamuser 01-18-2022 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by ex34449 (Post 2050921)
Those 2 posts were not only degrading but bordering on just plain sick. Do you honestly think/feel that way?

Yes, of course. Thanks for your opinion on my opinion.

Cobh521 01-18-2022 12:14 PM

There are some young single people living in The Villages and they are not living with their parents. There are also young people who buy a home as an investment and rent it out. If you are looking for a realtor to help you find a home, our daughter Katy Kelly works for RE/MAX Premier Realty. She can be reached at 352-355-7982

ShirleyDeCosta 01-18-2022 12:16 PM

Younger residents allowed to buy and live in The Villages
 
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Originally Posted by youngvillagertobe (Post 2050598)
I am a 24 year old man, single, no kids, work from home and am looking to buy my first house. I would love to live in the Villages and know about the 80/20 rule when it comes to 55+ communities. I am quiet, and old soul, respectful of others and always maintain a clean living space/ yard. What would be the honest reaction to having a young person live next door?

My husband and I bought a new home in the Villages of Chatham back in 2002. What a WONDERFUL EXPERIENCE it was back then. He was 60 and I was 51. To be honest I felt to young to live there. Although it was so nice and all our neighbors were wonderful I felt out of place. They were mostly in there 70’s and older. We were there 6 months out of the year and when we left for back home it felt like I was back where I should be. Truthfully it does age you because you skip over the years you should be enjoying your youth with people your own age. Now that we are older we have considered rebuying another home there but because it seems like it is changing from an elderly community to something else we’d rather just come visit for a few months and leave. If we choose to buy a condo in a place where all the other owners were in their twenties it would not be good for us nor the younger folks. The Villages had it’s draw BECAUSE it was a place where retiree’s of 55 and older could buy. Things are now very different. We think that allowing 20something year olds in is going to eventually ruin what Mr Swartz had intended it to be. It sure WAS a pleasant place to live when we were there.

dewilson58 01-18-2022 12:24 PM

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Originally Posted by ShirleyDeCosta (Post 2051207)
My .

This is the thread that drew you out for your first post after over 10 years???

:ohdear::ohdear::ohdear:

ThirdOfFive 01-18-2022 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by daspiva (Post 2051046)
Quite honestly, I moved here as a younger person, still working, etc. You might find your social/ love life to be lacking because you are not in the same place in life as so many seniors are over here in TV. You may feel like a square peg trying to live in a round hole. I wouldn't recommend moving here. Try an outside community, you'll get more home for the money anyway. As to how the neighbors might feel about you? You'll just be the "kid" on the block. But I'm sure that being that there are many more woman than men, you will have MANY cougars hitting on you. LOL!

Interesting discussion, for sure.

Never thought I'd be saying this, but my thoughts seem to align with what is apparently the majority opinion here. Now don't get me wrong: at 73 I still appreciate the sight of young(er) women and appreciate the energy level of the 40'ish crowd, though I detest kids (not really, just the obnoxious ones). But in all honesty the pace of life for us geezers is pretty slow compared to that of our kids and grandkids. Wholesale mixing of the two just doesn't seem beneficial to either group.

JMintzer 01-18-2022 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Cranford61 (Post 2050745)
That’s a real shame that you have not successfully launched your 26 yo.

That's a real shame that you judge how others choose to live...

Multigenerational living used to be the norm, not the exception...

JMintzer 01-18-2022 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by jimjamuser (Post 2050833)
The "young" thread-starting gentleman may (?) be the most wonderful, polite person in the Americas, for all I or we know. But, the converse is also true - he could be the most DISPICKABLE person in America, for all I or we know. He might (?) be a drug dealer and gang leader looking to start a NEW territory to exploit because of the increased wealth factor of our OLDER community. He could be a "sleeper agent" tied to Russia or China put here to influence cultural acceptance of either of those 2 countries.
.......Yes, it is VERY unlikely that this ONE person is, for example, a drug dealer. I and we can NOT say that he ISN'T. But, "riddle me this" BAT-VILLAGERS........what if statistically 60 to 100 of these "NICE" 25 year-olds moves here. THEN, it is LIKELY that one IS a drug dealer or has some other bad habit. Yes, you might say that, "the samething APPLIES to any group of 55-year-olds. But, no it is NOT the same. For example, a 25 year-old drug dealer or gang member may have been identified as such and put into prison and the FBI would be watching them closely because of their record and why are they keen to be in an OLDER community. By age 55 many criminals may have moderated their behavior and noticed that drug members have a short life-span. Prison may have changed them for the better. To be continued.....

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JMintzer 01-18-2022 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Woodbear (Post 2051005)
She wants to be with her mother as she struggles with the repercussions of brain cancer, but thanks for your concern.........Bless Your Heart

Sounds like a wonderful daughter... :BigApplause:

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