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Equal rights are NOT special rights!!! Make no mistake about that... You all are on silent nor in the majority.....
Your freedom of religion stops at other people's civil rights.
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Just because the court said gays can get married doesn't make them married in God's eyes. Sorry if that makes God a bigot in your eyes, but I don't have the power to change that, even if I wished. If you are suggesting that Gays have a civil right to get married, then you are opening a big debate. They have always had that right, as long as they married according to the definition of marriage. One man and one woman. Personally, I think the government should leave their hands off of marriage as that should be a religious practice. And then that open a whole different aspect of the term marriage that the court can't dispute. The church says one man and one woman. Unless you are Mormon and then it's one man and several woman.
NC voters made the decision in that state to put a state constitutional amendment in that said marriage was defined as one man and one woman. That was the not so silent majority. Other states feel the same way. The court does not speak for the majority.
But, before calling someone out as being a bigot, learn the definition. A requirement for the term "bigot" is INTOLERANT. Just because most of America TOLERATES the gay lifestyle does not necessitate that they CONDONE the deviant/abnormal behavior. In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with loving another person of the same gender. Where I draw the line of what I condone or not, is that I feel that having sex with the same gender is abnormal or deviant behavior and not accepted as the norm. You can love someone else and cohabitate with them, but many of us feel that marriage is a religious experience that is defined as between one man and one woman.
Actually, I do NOT see marriage as a CIVIL right. You do not have a right to marry if you do not have anyone that wishes to marry you. You do not have the right to drive if you can't pass the test. There are stipulations on every privilege. Marriage has a stipulation (at least it did) that it is between a man and a woman. And that supposed civil right was always available to gays.
To call it discrimination is like saying it is discrimination if two cousins are refused a marriage license, or a brother and sister, or a man and two women, etc. If we start knocking down stipulations every time a small group of malcontents want a change, under the guise of discrimination, then we will have no set of laws, moral or statutory.
To summarize, I don't condone the gay lifestyle, but I tolerate it because I also have close relatives with that affliction. By definition, I am NOT a bigot.
So, if you call me an undeserved name, then be prepared for a long dissertation.