[duffysmom]

We said goodbye to our beloved Duffy yesterday and we are devastated. He was my shadow and best friend and the house is now a lonely place without him. He was tiny but had a big heart and he acted like his mission in life was to give love and joy to his people and boy he did he do that. He was in pain and now he's at peace.

[Skybo]

I'm so sorry. I know how you are feeling and my heart goes out to you.

[Augie]

Originally Posted by duffysmom

We said goodbye to our beloved Duffy yesterday and we are devastated. He was my shadow and best friend and the house is now a lonely place without him. He was tiny but had a big heart and he acted like his mission in life was to give love and joy to his people and boy he did he do that. He was in pain and now he's at peace.

God's blessings on Duffy and Duffy's Mom.

[graciegirl]

Originally Posted by duffysmom

We said goodbye to our beloved Duffy yesterday and we are devastated. He was my shadow and best friend and the house is now a lonely place without him. He was tiny but had a big heart and he acted like his mission in life was to give love and joy to his people and boy he did he do that. He was in pain and now he's at peace.

Oh my dear. I am so sorry. so very sorry. please feel this hug and these tears.

[bike42]

Every dog lover understands your grief. Deepest sympathy to you.

[zcaveman]

Sorry for your loss. You will never forget Duffy.

When my Bartholomew passed, I was given this poem.

Rainbow Bridge

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown...

[eweissenbach]

Originally Posted by duffysmom

We said goodbye to our beloved Duffy yesterday and we are devastated. He was my shadow and best friend and the house is now a lonely place without him. He was tiny but had a big heart and he acted like his mission in life was to give love and joy to his people and boy he did he do that. He was in pain and now he's at peace.

Some people who are not pet lovers may have a hard time understanding the pain of losing a beloved pet. I have had pets all my life and losing one is always very hearwrenching. Sorry for your loss, I feel your pain.

[schotzyb]

So very sad to read this. I know that day is coming for my beloved Ringo but I believe barring any major issues she has a few more years with us. I intend to make those years the best possible for her since she has always been there for me

[Taltarzac725]

Originally Posted by duffysmom

We said goodbye to our beloved Duffy yesterday and we are devastated. He was my shadow and best friend and the house is now a lonely place without him. He was tiny but had a big heart and he acted like his mission in life was to give love and joy to his people and boy he did he do that. He was in pain and now he's at peace.

So sorry to hear about Duffy. Been though the loss of 3 dogs, a cat, a few lizards, hamsters, turtles, and a school of fish myself.

[Mikeod]

Pat and I had the pleasure of meeting you and Duffy a few months ago. We want to express our condolences over your loss. We had to say goodbye to our Sydney shortly after moving here and it took a long time to get over it. But what helped the most was remembering her and the joy she gave us and hopefully the life we gave her after rescuing her from a shelter. That is her in my avatar.

[skyguy79]

OMG, we've had a few dogs and several cats over the years and I've been brought to tears more than once when losing them. It hurts for sure and can even tend to relive the pain every time you hear of it happening to others.

Now, I don't know you or Duffy, but in reading your post I had to had to hold back the tears and had trouble getting out the words to tell my wife about what happened.

Judging by your posts the I've read since I joined this forum in late 2010, I have to say that Duffy just had to have a very happy life, and that is good! I probably don't have to tell you this, but focus on the good time you had with Duffy. It'll help ease the pain! Best wishes!

[CraigAC]

I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. I know it’s a terrible feeling and hope that time will heal this wound to your heart.

I’ll bet there’s a puppy out there somewhere just waiting for a kind hearted person to give it a home. Hopefully after you’ve grieved for Duffy you’ll find your new friend.

[ceejay]

Awwww...Duffy's Mom....I am so sorry for your loss...my heart goes out to you....

[quirky3]

Oh, I am so very sorry for your loss. Here is a link to some comforting poems
Pet Loss - Poem List

This is one of my favorites:

A Parting Prayer

Dear Lord, please open your gates
and call St. Francis
to come escort this beloved companion
across the Rainbow Bridge.

Assign him to a place of honor,
for he has been a faithful servant
and has always done his best to please me.

Bless the hands that send him to you,
for they are doing so in love and compassion,
freeing him from pain and suffering.

Grant me the strength not to dwell on my loss.
Help me remember the details of his life
with the love he has shown me.
And grant me the courage to honor him
by sharing those memories with others.

Let him remember me as well
and let him know that I will always love him.
And when it's my time to pass over into your paradise,
please allow him to accompany those
who will bring me home.

Thank you, Lord,
for the gift of his companionship
and for the time we've had together.

And thank you, Lord,
for granting me the strength
to give him to you now.

Amen.

- © Brandy Duckworth, 1998

[mfp509]

So sorry about your loss of Duffy. Letting go is the ultimate expression of love you can give a pet. We are here to love and protect them and keep them from hurting. I lost my Missy in November and last night I completed an album online which will be printed in hardcover and I will cherish forever. My love for her and memories will be forever. I wish you peace and healing.