Talk of The Villages Florida - Rentals, Entertainment & More
Talk of The Villages Florida - Rentals, Entertainment & More
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USMC vet. Thanks for your service. Consider checking out Band of Brothers in The Villages. We meet Tuesday’s at lunch, City Fire in Sumter. No politics and plenty of military brotherhood.
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My husband is a member of AL #347. We went there on Monday August 9th. We had to friends with us. Apparently we didn’t read the notice on the door (or the paper) so we went in. We were told about the notice. They were all VERY polite. We understood the situation and respected it. We simply went elsewhere - it was no big deal. We have never met a condescending or rude individual on any occasion. Since then our friend was sworn in and we plan on returning tonight.
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Just because a person has seen some horrific things doesn't give them the right to be a rude jerk. I would bet a few dollars that this person is well known in the club as being a rude jerk but no one has the guts to speak up about it to prohibit him from performing these duties. I'm quite sure the commander of this club is aware of this person's attitude. One thing a leader has to accept is they have to make hard decisions and do what is best for the organization. You aren't a leader if you can't do that.
First impressions are the ones that stick in a person's mind about an individual or an organization. This jerk has caused a number of people to decide not to join. This is how clubs die out after a while. Just how hard would it be to politely and in a friendly manner explain the new policy and to thank the person for their interest in the club. Trouble is that jerks have no idea about being friendly and treat other people with courtesy. I quit belonging to social clubs many years ago for the same attitude of club members displayed by the jerk in the Legion Club. Pretty disgusting when a new member is told that they have to wait patiently for acceptance by the regulars. The current membership are the ones that should welcome a new member and not wait for the newbee to beg for acceptance. |
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OP, under High Year of Tenure requirements, how does an E7 serve for 35 years?
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Earlier today I received a call from Joan Suelter, Post Commander of the American Legion Post 347. We had a very friendly conversation and she was gracious enough to explain the Post's recent decision to open the building only for Post members and their spouses. Though I do not necessarily agree with their policy, I understand and accept their decision. I explained to her that I did not feel my comments were directed to Post 347 as a whole but were actually a reference to how unwelcomed I was by the gatekeeper. I was born and raised in the hospitality industry and my parents owned a family restaurant in Iowa. My father once told me that he welcomed complaints because it was an opportunity to correct a problem. It was a lesson I carried through my entire life and whether you agree or disagree with my observation or complaint, there is a communication problem within this Post. Reading the threads of this discussion, I am not the only person who has experienced rude gatekeepers or employees. Now that the problem has been exposed, maybe it is time to fix it! Of course, I understand we all have bad days, but there is a trail of bad days that seems to contribute to a growing communication problem. I believe the Commander understands the situation and I can only hope for the Post, its members, and all veterans, she takes advantage of this negative publicity as an opportunity to find ways to improve communications and provide a more welcoming attitude for visiting American Legion Members.
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However, the High Year of Tenure was not fully implemented until after I retired. But for the record, because I have nothing to hide, I served three years, nine months, and twenty-one days on active duty. I received an honorable discharge (and a DD-214) after fighting a war in Southeast Asia. I returned to college and after graduation, I joined the Air Force Reserves where I had an opportunity to travel around the world for most of the other 32 years. I hope this clarifies any misconceptions you might have about my service record.
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When you are in someone else's house you have access as a guest, but you are not entitled to roam through their closets. If I did use the word "entitled", maybe you misunderstand what I was trying to explain! Yes, every Amerian Legion member is a guest outside of the own Post. However, that being said, if you are a member in good standing with the American Legion and visiting another Post, you are entitled to the respect courted the local members. That is call courtesy and incorporates common sense. |
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The further a society drifts from truth the more it will hate those who speak it. George Orwell. “Only truth and transparency can guarantee freedom”, John McCain |
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You can complain about rudeness. You can disagree with a policy. But the title of this thread is not about either. It is about "denying access". It sounds like the gatekeeper did their job by denying access to the OP. One thing I like about the military is that, unlike many others, they are usually very good at following and enforcing their own rules. Suppose the gatekeeper had allowed access to a non-member who spread the COVID virus inside the Post? That would defeat the purpose of the policy established by the Post, and the gatekeeper's function.
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