Hi Bopper! I apologize that I didn't see your message until today (11/23)! I'm glad that TOTV has been helpful for you. You mention that you like dancing and there are unlimited opportunities for that in TV, especially for guys!
The following link contains the villages event calendar and the recreation calendar.
The Villages Vmail - November 2013 - Special Events
Here are a few other helpful links, including a list of the clubs at TV
http://www.virginiatrace.com/clubs/ClubsListing0713.pdf
Village Community Development Districts
*VIRGINIA TRACE,* THE VILLAGES,* FLORIDA
Welcome,and enjoy!