Conversation Between Bch76 and thetruth

I read your post about people looking down on adult children living with retired parents, life choices etc.
Wow. My opinion-if you care what others think you give up important power that should be yours. As to choices. There are always choices
besides the one that you or I have made. As to our path to the villages. Not to go too deep into it but, one of my friends used to describe himself as an overnight success-it only took him 50 years. There is opportunity everywhere. Often we do not see it. For me, nothing came easy. FAILURE WAS SIMPLY AN OPTION THAT I COULD NOT AFFORD. When I got married my new worth was NEGATIVE NUMBERS. I owed 13,000 in college loans and had spent years of money I had earned WORKING. My degree was in unemployment. Aside if you say well 13,000 is less than I owe, in today's dollars it is about 6x so 78,000.

FORGIVE ME BUT........................