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graciegirl 10-15-2015 05:22 AM

Lamar Odom
 
Your thoughts?

rubicon 10-15-2015 05:30 AM

Hedi Lamar

graciegirl 10-15-2015 05:33 AM

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Originally Posted by rubicon (Post 1129463)
Hedi Lamar




I thought so too.

kittygilchrist 10-15-2015 05:33 AM

Who?

fred53 10-15-2015 05:37 AM

Worrying about a rich ex-superstar who lived the stupid life just doesn't play with me....while I prefer not to keep my head in the sand there are to many other more important issues than this...

tuccillo 10-15-2015 06:31 AM

Hedley Lamarr

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Originally Posted by rubicon (Post 1129463)
Hedi Lamar


rhood 10-15-2015 06:33 AM

Why is this newsworthy.

SKIMAN 10-15-2015 07:29 AM

I could care less......

RickeyD 10-15-2015 08:13 AM

Senator Geary might be interested.

Barefoot 10-15-2015 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1129460)
Your thoughts?

I think it is very sad that he has lost so much to his addictions ... his career, his marriage, and now he is fighting for his life. Sad.

2BNTV 10-15-2015 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Barefoot (Post 1129592)
I think it is very sad that he has lost so much to his addictions ... his career, his marriage, and now he is fighting for his life. Sad.

:agree:

I think it is sad that some athletes who have risen to great heights and made so much money, get lost in drugs and ruin their lives, or even die.

Even more tragic, is Len Bias who had just signed a hugh contract with the Boston Celtics many years ago and then OD on drugs partying. So much to live for and was lost before he even got started. Sometimes, too much money leads people, to a destructive lifestyle.

I understand he is on life support.

2BNTV 10-15-2015 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by rubicon (Post 1129463)
Hedi Lamar

Hedy Lamarr was a beautiful actress and inventor. A brilliant scientist.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedy_Lamarr

Jima64 10-15-2015 10:18 AM

My question is, did he start on cocaine or begin with "harmless" weed that seems so prevalent in society today? A shame this has happened to him but people know what drugs can do.

rubicon 10-15-2015 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by 2BNTV (Post 1129616)
Hedy Lamarr was a beautiful actress and inventor. A brilliant scientist.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedy_Lamarr

2BNTV "Yes I read that story both beauty and brains whether you spell it Hedi Lamar or Heady Lamarr:D. Thank you for not pointing out my misspelling. Apparently your right "it doesn't cost anything to be nice"

gerryann 10-15-2015 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by SKIMAN (Post 1129516)
I could care less......

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Originally Posted by rhood (Post 1129488)
Why is this newsworthy.

I think it is a very sad situation. I hope it gets a lot more news coverage so that the younger generation can see what drugs and risky life choices can do to you. This man had everything going for him but has lost it all....probably his life.

It's not all about what is affecting YOU directly. You may have people in your life that you are not even aware of who need to learn from this mans mistakes.

Jimturner 10-15-2015 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by tuccillo (Post 1129486)
Hedley Lamarr

He was the lead star in blazing saddles. He hee

tuccillo 10-15-2015 02:05 PM

I wasn't sure if anyone was going to catch that.

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Originally Posted by Jimturner (Post 1129714)
He was the lead star in blazing saddles. He hee


jimbo2012 10-15-2015 04:00 PM

Ok so he spent $75,000 for a few hookers to entertain non stop for three days.

To keep up with the pace he took cocaine and TEN Reload pills, guess he never understood drug interactions.

https://img.washingtonpost.com/wp-ap...FDA.jpg&w=1484


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Polar Bear 10-15-2015 04:06 PM

Lamar Odom
 
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golfing eagles 10-15-2015 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1129460)
Your thoughts?

I think he went on a multi-day alcohol and drug binge surrounded by "professional" women---I hope he at least had a smile on his face as they dragged him off to the ICU

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Originally Posted by RickeyD (Post 1129559)
Senator Geary might be interested.

Good one!. I doubt everyone got it though. So was the place they found Lamar owned by Fredo?

redwitch 10-15-2015 04:51 PM

Regardless of what he was doing, his family is hurting. This young man had lost a lot in his life in a short time. He and his family have my sympathies. And shame on those of you who felt this was a great opportunity to show how witty you are.

gerryann 10-15-2015 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by redwitch (Post 1129819)
Regardless of what he was doing, his family is hurting. This young man had lost a lot in his life in a short time. He and his family have my sympathies. And shame on those of you who felt this was a great opportunity to show how witty you are.

I agree. Age doesn't bring maturity. I hope you guys that find it so funny, never have to deal with these issues in your family.

jnieman 10-15-2015 06:17 PM

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billethkid 10-15-2015 06:20 PM

These kinds of actions by famous dignitaries of wealth and stature cannot be measured on our normal scale of right or wrong or sad or too bad....because they over time have degenerated to a state of they don't care about such things as we do.

What is missing are the success stories of others in similar positions who do love life and family and friends as we all do. These are the role models....unfortunately in our day and morality good news is not very news worthy.

What is sad is the impact on the family. He made his choice for himself. But also for his family. Let us hope there is some worthy role model to show the the right way.

Nucky 10-15-2015 06:41 PM

From Park Ave To Park Bench
 
Don't know this poor soul at all. Feel terrible for him and for all who cared about him. I know zero about drugs first hand but I know that before you know it something you think is enjoyable has a hold of you sometimes that thing does you in, booze, drugs, gambling, food, even sex. Anything when it makes your life unmanageable is a bad deal. I'm gonna pray for this man...maybe he was a good guy going thru a rough time. It's a damn shame.

golfing eagles 10-15-2015 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by redwitch (Post 1129819)
Regardless of what he was doing, his family is hurting. This young man had lost a lot in his life in a short time. He and his family have my sympathies. And shame on those of you who felt this was a great opportunity to show how witty you are.

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Originally Posted by gerryann (Post 1129830)
I agree. Age doesn't bring maturity. I hope you guys that find it so funny, never have to deal with these issues in your family.

Do either of you think for 1 second that I, or any of the other "witty" posters, view this as anything other than a tragedy for Lamar or his family?
Don't you think I pray for a recovery and for his family to have the strength to deal with this? I'm a bit surprised, both have you have read enough of my posts to hopefully know that I care deeply for anyone who is unfortunate enough to have to deal with these tragedies.
I will again quote John Donne:

"No man is an Island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the Continent, a part of the main; if a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as well as if a manor of thy friends or of thine own were; any man's death diminishes me, because I am involved in Mankind; And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; It tolls for thee."


I'm sure you are aware that humor is one defense mechanism against dealing with tragedy. I've had 35 years of dealing with tragedy up close and personal. If I didn't develop various defense mechanisms years ago they would have hauled me off to the loony bin.

This is a TOTV web forum, my posts are directed to, and generally for the information and entertainment of the rest of the forum, it is nothing that I would ever direct at Lamar or his family. I'm pretty sure you know that as well

I'm an avid golfer, I bought a house in TV on a golf course, and before I could move here I lost use of my left arm. Is this a Greek tragedy? Is this irony? Is this just how life goes sometimes. But anyone out there is free to make a joke or post a witticism (Tomwed, I look forward to it). I will laugh with you. I could use it.

So, if anyone found my "witticisms" offensive, I truly apologize. I didn't realize that the subject was off limits.

graciegirl 10-15-2015 07:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by redwitch (Post 1129819)
Regardless of what he was doing, his family is hurting. This young man had lost a lot in his life in a short time. He and his family have my sympathies. And shame on those of you who felt this was a great opportunity to show how witty you are.




I dunno. It doesn't seem like a good thing to spend your last waking moments, drugged up in a house of ill repute when you had so many wonderful gifts and opportunities headed your way.


Where I am from, all the people I know wouldn't think about how or why, they would just shake their heads and think...he ended in shame.


I know a lot of people who had ample reason to escape the grim reality of their lives with drugs or other mind numbing substances, but instead they planned for the future and saved and worked hard and made everyone who knew them proud by making the tough choices and forebearing a big thrill.

redwitch 10-15-2015 07:45 PM

Gracie, I agree he made some horrific choices but that doesn't alter the tragedy of a talented young man throwing his life away nor the pain those who know and love him are feeling. Some of us are stronger than others. We have our tragedies, but they make us strive to succeed in spite of them. Some are not that lucky. Their tragedies destroy them.

And golfing eagle, I agree that humor is a wonderful defense mechanism but is there need for a defense mechanism when tragedy befalls someone rich and famous? It is rare that these events truly affect us on such a level that we need to defend against our pain. Sorry, but I found many of the comments just mean-spirited. And please accept my sincere sympathies on your arm. As Robert Heinlein said, "TANJIT!" (There ain't no justice in this world.)

golfing eagles 10-15-2015 08:04 PM

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Originally Posted by redwitch (Post 1129879)
Gracie, I agree he made some horrific choices but that doesn't alter the tragedy of a talented young man throwing his life away nor the pain those who know and love him are feeling. Some of us are stronger than others. We have our tragedies, but they make us strive to succeed in spite of them. Some are not that lucky. Their tragedies destroy them.

And golfing eagle, I agree that humor is a wonderful defense mechanism but is there need for a defense mechanism when tragedy befalls someone rich and famous? It is rare that these events truly affect us on such a level that we need to defend against our pain. Sorry, but I found many of the comments just mean-spirited. And please accept my sincere sympathies on your arm. As Robert Heinlein said, "TANJIT!" (There ain't no justice in this world.)

Didn't view him as rich and famous, just as a fellow human being. Heck, I really didn't know who he was anyway. No, I wasn't personally all broken up over this event, but that doesn't mean I can't lighten the mood.
Again, you know my posts and I know yours. I challenge you to find 1% of them that you consider "mean spirited". I won't find 1% of yours in that category either.
When I see a post that may seem mean or subject to interpretation or just unclear, I look at who posted it. If it's you, I pretty much know how to take it. Which is why I was somewhat taken aback by the two comments I posted above. But it's OK, no hard feelings at all, that is what an opinion page is all about. But maybe you owe me a beer when I get down there:beer3:
And thank you for your concern about my arm---I had more bad news about it yesterday, but with time and luck it still may improve.

redwitch 10-15-2015 08:10 PM

You're on re the beer. and I do believe that you wouldn't make a mean remark to another here unless they truly angered you (and I think I'd duck if it was ever me).

dbussone 10-15-2015 08:17 PM

Lamar Odom
 
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Originally Posted by billethkid (Post 1129846)
These kinds of actions by famous dignitaries of wealth and stature cannot be measured on our normal scale of right or wrong or sad or too bad....because they over time have degenerated to a state of they don't care about such things as we do.



What is missing are the success stories of others in similar positions who do love life and family and friends as we all do. These are the role models....unfortunately in our day and morality good news is not very news worthy.



What is sad is the impact on the family. He made his choice for himself. But also for his family. Let us hope there is some worthy role model to show the the right way.


Such an accurate assessment. Thanks BTK

golfing eagles 10-15-2015 08:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by redwitch (Post 1129890)
You're on re the beer. and I do believe that you wouldn't make a mean remark to another here unless they truly angered you (and I think I'd duck if it was ever me).

Domestic or imported?:1rotfl: (I'm back at it)

Callaway Guy 10-15-2015 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Barefoot (Post 1129592)
I think it is very sad that he has lost so much to his addictions ... his career, his marriage, and now he is fighting for his life. Sad.

His main problem can be summed up in two words - the Kardashians. That is one f/u family there.

gerryann 10-15-2015 09:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Callaway Guy (Post 1129899)
His main problem can be summed up in two words - the Kardashians. That is one f/u family there.

No, his problem is bad choices. Nobody put him there but himself.

Allegiance 10-15-2015 09:52 PM

I feel nothing for lamar, I do feel for Robert even though he has long passed, I hope he cant see how his family has disgraced his name.


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gerryann 10-15-2015 09:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Allegiance (Post 1129914)
I feel nothing for lamar, I do feel for Robert even though he has long passed, I hope he cant see how his family has disgraced his name.


How have they disgraced his name?

Barefoot 10-16-2015 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by MUHLBACH1@HOTMAIL.COM (Post 1129851)
Don't know this poor soul at all. Feel terrible for him and for all who cared about him. I know zero about drugs first hand but I know that before you know it something you think is enjoyable has a hold of you sometimes that thing does you in, booze, drugs, gambling, food, even sex. Anything when it makes your life unmanageable is a bad deal. I'm gonna pray for this man...maybe he was a good guy going thru a rough time. It's a damn shame.

You're right, anything that makes life unmanageable is a bad deal. Addiction is a terrible burden. Some people with an addictive personality just don't seem to have the strength or motivation to conquer their addictions. Sad.

rubicon 10-16-2015 05:04 AM

Call me heartless but
 


Call me heartless but once I found out who this guy is and what he did I just did a blink and deflate.

How many times must this scenario be repeated until people finally figure out that illegal drugs or misused legal drugs are very dangerous.

I personally do not think it helps society to elevate people like Lamar to sainthood . Its no different to me then making a celerity out of a Columbine mass killer.

Perhaps as a society we ought to tell it like it is. Tragedies like this out to be instructive. You want to play with fire then you will eventually get burned.

Too many Americans today seem to have forgotten about the hard facts of life. They cannot make a connection between their irresponsible behavior and consequences

GaryW 10-16-2015 06:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rubicon (Post 1129948)

Call me heartless but once I found out who this guy is and what he did I just did a blink and deflate.

How many times must this scenario be repeated until people finally figure out that illegal drugs or misused legal drugs are very dangerous.

I personally do not think it helps society to elevate people like Lamar to sainthood . Its no different to me then making a celerity out of a Columbine mass killer.

Perhaps as a society we ought to tell it like it is. Tragedies like this out to be instructive. You want to play with fire then you will eventually get burned.

Too many Americans today seem to have forgotten about the hard facts of life. They cannot make a connection between their irresponsible behavior and consequences

:agree::BigApplause:

I agree,,

what is so wrong with his situation, is now khloe wants to act like how he was her life, and loves him so much. GIVE ME A BREAK,,,, Now that this has happened,, she jumps to limelight..

This situation is SAD in the way that a life has gone this way,, For anyone to end up like that, Crazy how many people go this route but you do not hear of it till they are a celebrity or pro athlete.

I agree with the other poster, I hope Robert is not turning in his grave. he was a great person, would think he would not have wanted his name all over TV and the media the way those girls and exwife have put it. JUST MHO. :bigbow::eek::spoken:

SoccerCoach 10-16-2015 07:57 AM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1129460)
Your thoughts?

Really folks ?? An ex superstar, married into a celebrity circle, found in a brothel, overdosed on illegal substance(s). Sorry I wasted my time. . . . .


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