[RickeyD]

While noshing at Panera in LSL we overhead a 70ish couple telling an acquaintance why they were moving from TV back to West Palm. Apparently it's the unfriendly neighborhood boomers that although may be personable are not neighborhood social. " they have ruined TV" he complained in not too low of a voice. The acquaintance turned to leave and gave us a somewhat understandable look. Well, I was a bit taken back but composed myself knowing it wasn't personal. But, it got me thinking ? Was his experience isolated to his neighborhood or is it widespread ? Being here only 4 times a year for a week at a time doesn't give me a true sense.

[aln]

To be known, 'boomers' are turning 70 this year. Most of my peers are boomers and all of them in my group of 16 golfers are over 65. I don't think were 'ruining' TV. In fact we all lover TV. We try to be courteous and help elders out when needed.

I think his problem is isolated.

[njbchbum]

I can understand their feelings. Just spend the time reading the disparaging posts here and on the on-line news source. So many comments advising folks NOT to move into the original/historic villages because the neighbors are so much older and friendships already established, yada, yada, yada. And then there are those posts whining about the driving ability or lack of same of 'old people'. Life is too short to live amongst whiners and complainers! Hope they are happy with their return - they have earned it.

[graciegirl]

Originally Posted by RickeyD

While noshing at Panera in LSL we overhead a 70ish couple telling an acquaintance why they were moving from TV back to West Palm. Apparently it's the unfriendly neighborhood boomers that although may be personable are not neighborhood social. " they have ruined TV" he complained in not too low of a voice. The acquaintance turned to leave and gave us a somewhat understandable look. Well, I was a bit taken back but composed myself knowing it wasn't personal. But, it got me thinking ? Was his experience isolated to his neighborhood or is it widespread ? Being here only 4 times a year for a week at a time doesn't give me a true sense.

OH for Heavens sake. I didn't know you were here only for four weeks outa the entire year! You are having separation anxiety and jealous longings for the Koolaid gang. I won't be mean to you any more. Why don't you get your self down here and giggle and smile and dance with all of us year 'round? Are you just finishing college because you are 22?

[RickeyD]

Originally Posted by graciegirl

OH for Heavens sake. I didn't know you were here only for four weeks outa the entire year! You are having separation anxiety and jealous longings for the Koolaid gang. I won't be mean to you any more. Why don't you get your self down here and giggle and smile and dance with all of us year 'round? Are you just finishing college because you are 22?

Getting tired of you paddling my rear GG. But, as the good Catholic boy I am I won't complain.

[Mikeod]

Seems isolated to certain neighborhoods, not just the historic side. We had a neighbor who moved across 466A to get a larger home. One of her new neighbors asked how old they were and was aghast when told, and the relationship went downhill from there. They felt very unwelcome in their new place and eventually moved to another home closer to Brownwood. There they have great rapport with their neighbors of various ages. We visited them in their new home during the holidays and they had invited several of their new neighbors over. We had a great time.

In our neighborhood, we have people ranging from their 90's to their 50's and we mix and mingle over golf, cards, and other activities without any concern about ages. It's just a number.

[Chi-Town]

Baby boomers are anywhere from 52 to 70. That is the major Villages demograpic now. There is a difference between boomers and those older, but chalk it up to having different perspectives growing up. But we all came here for the same reason, and that is the major unifying factor.

[justjim]

Baby Boomers are residents born during the post World War two baby boom between years 1946 and 1964. Their ages would be approximately between 52 and 70 years old. This age group generally would be very active in The Villages. Perhaps some might be too active to participate in some or all of the neighborhood activities.

We have owned homes in four different neighborhoods in The Villages. It's a fact not all neighbors are the same wheather you live in The Villages or another retirement community or the City you lived in prior to retirement. Its about people not age IMHO. In short, you can be 55, 65, 75 or 85 and be a friendly or unfriendly neighbor----age has little or nothing to do with it.

[2BNTV]

Just missed being in the baby boom age but I think this is an isolated case.

I think the baby boomers have lived long enough to be courteous and respectful.

Just thinking out loud but maybe some people don't like the fact that most baby boomers are more active and really enjoy TV. To me, age is just a number. If one is in decent shape and enjoys all of TV has to offer, I don't see a problem.

[RickeyD]

Originally Posted by Chi-Town

Baby boomers are anywhere from 52 to 70. That is the major Villages demograpic now. There is a difference between boomers and those older, but chalk it up to having different perspectives growing up. But we all came here for the same reason, and that is the major unifying factor.

I have always respected my elders and will continue to do so as I am now a young elder.

[billethkid]

I think the person that was over heard is just one of those who take an isloated incident, put a label on it and then spread it as though it were a general condition.

Not at all representative of TV residents regardless the age/label!

[RickeyD]

Originally Posted by billethkid

I think the person that was over heard is just one of those who take an isloated incident, put a label on it and then spread it as though it were a general condition.

Not at all representative of TV residents regardless the age/label!

So, West Palm should solve his issue.

[dewilson58]

Originally Posted by RickeyD

While noshing at Panera in LSL we overhead a 70ish couple telling an acquaintance why they were moving from TV back to West Palm. Apparently it's the unfriendly neighborhood boomers that although may be personable are not neighborhood social. " they have ruined TV" he complained in not too low of a voice. The acquaintance turned to leave and gave us a somewhat understandable look. Well, I was a bit taken back but composed myself knowing it wasn't personal. But, it got me thinking ? Was his experience isolated to his neighborhood or is it widespread ? Being here only 4 times a year for a week at a time doesn't give me a true sense.

So that is why the old people next door are moving.

[RickeyD]

Originally Posted by dewilson58

So that is why the old people next door are moving.

Are you Dennis or Mr. Wilson ?

[rubicon]

I don't mind living amongst the elderly. I just hate it when elderly people act old. What the OP's describes is not an elderly issue but people who moved into the wrong neighborhoods. Its one of the reasons I will not move. My neighbors are active caring human beings who go out of their way to help and often remain reticent to spare hurt feelings.