[duffysmom]

Kitty my thoughts and prayers are with you. As ijusluvit so wisely said it reminds us how precious our lives are here and now.

[marianne237]

May you find peace and consolation and know many of us care about you.

[CFrance]

Oh boy,what sadness. My prayers are with you, Kitty, and you too, ijustlovit. You both sound like very strong people. Peace to you both.

[redwitch]

Hugs and prayers.

[Pturner]

Kittygilcrest,
Please feel my love and hug as you go through this difficult time. Hard as it seems to believe at first, time does ease the pain as the impact of sudden loss yields to the impact of wonderful memories gained over a lifetime.

Ijustluvit,
I just love your spirit and you too! Everyday is a beautiful day, and a gift. Thanks for reminding us of that.

[shalomuall]

so sorry. I hope you can take comfort that so many of us are thinking of you and sending prayers your way.
I hope you have a peaceful day tomorrow.

[Villageshooter]

Hang in there kitty our prayers are with you coming to a better place here! There is a lot of love here in the villages looking forward to your arrival my prayers go out for you

[tainsley]

Sending thoughts and prayers your way Kitty.

[nightstalkerths]

My prayers are with you.

[Golfingnut]

My Wife and I speed up our move here to TV due to trajaty in the Family. We are very happy with our dicision and I am confident you will be also. Welcome and If you need help getting settled, don't you hessitate to get on here as ask. The thousands of Proud member of TOTV and Residents of this wonderful place will be lined up to help.

[Scoops]

Comfort to you as you grieve your losses. Celebrate them home.

[SALYBOW]

With all the losses you have experienced you are appropriately in mourning.
Do NOT WALLOW IN YOUR GRIEF, BUT DO HONOR IT. Unrequited grief can be devastating. Try to spend time with people with whom you can discuss memories of the people who you are grieving. Remember the good times.

While you are grieving be sure to eat well, sleep as well as possible, exercise adequately and allow yourself to express your feelings. Weep, laugh, and sit quietly with your memories. If you feel like by all means let yourself

The old adage about time healing a broken heart is true, but it is often hard to wait. Look forward to the good things left in your life. Like moving to TV, but don't rush into any decisions while still mourning.

Think about how you got through the tough times you have mastered in your life. Draw on your belief in a higher power if that is you bent.
Know that many people will be praying for you.
Blessings!

[CFrance]

Originally Posted by SALYBOW

With all the losses you have experienced you are appropriately in mourning.
Do NOT WALLOW IN YOUR GRIEF, BUT DO HONOR IT. Unrequited grief can be devastating. Try to spend time with people with whom you can discuss memories of the people who you are grieving. Remember the good times.

While you are grieving be sure to eat well, sleep as well as possible, exercise adequately and allow yourself to express your feelings. Weep, laugh, and sit quietly with your memories. If you feel like by all means let yourself

The old adage about time healing a broken heart is true, but it is often hard to wait. Look forward to the good things left in your life. Like moving to TV, but don't rush into any decisions while still mourning.

Think about how you got through the tough times you have mastered in your life. Draw on your belief in a higher power if that is you bent.
Know that many people will be praying for you.
Blessings!

Wow, Sally. You sound like my beloved pastor in Muskegon, MI. Thanks for such good advice.... for us all.

[graciegirl]

Originally Posted by CFrance

Wow, Sally. You sound like my beloved pastor in Muskegon, MI. Thanks for such good advice.... for us all.

So many people can be counted on for their kind and caring reponses on this forum. If you read the above thread you will see a lot of them.

You would make your pastor proud, C.

Salybow has been so helpful on subjects like this so many times. I know the hospital greatly misses her as a Chaplain after she recently retired.

Thank goodness she still reads this forum and weighs in. I just wish she lived next door to me sometimes.

[asianthree]

You and I have similar lives my family dies the week of my birthday....first one was when I was 4. Then came great grand parents grandparents aunts, uncles and cousins...I am either at the funeral home or the cematary ... I have not celebrated my birthday for a long time...I hold my breath each year and wait for the next time...and I hate flowers...just another funeral bouquet