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Old 09-04-2020, 08:14 AM
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I have a neighbor that keeps a flag on a large vertical pole in their front yard at half mast currently and has done so for many months. I find this very offensive. Is this acceptable in The Villages?
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Old 09-04-2020, 08:33 AM
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I have a neighbor that keeps a flag on a large vertical pole in their front yard at half mast currently and has done so for many months. I find this very offensive. Is this acceptable in The Villages?
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Personally, if I found this very offensive - I would stop by and ask them WHY? Perhaps they lost a relative in the military or LEO. Who knows? They do. Or perhaps they are making 'a statement'. Who knows? they do.

Rather than opening a potential or non issue here, IMO ask the neighbors. IF you don't agree with their answer, then-perhaps open it up here. Just my opinion.
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Old 09-04-2020, 08:38 AM
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I have a neighbor that keeps a flag on a large vertical pole in their front yard at half mast currently and has done so for many months. I find this very offensive. Is this acceptable in The Villages?
If it offends you have you asked him (nicely) about why? Maybe it is to honor a someone who died in the service and he didn't realize the "rules" regarding not doing that. While there is no "LAW" against doing that it is not proper flag protocol.
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Old 09-04-2020, 09:02 AM
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let it be

last thing we need is 'the flag police'...we already have the annoying 'little white cross police'
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Old 09-04-2020, 09:09 AM
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Why not ask?
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Old 09-04-2020, 10:40 AM
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Please approach your neighbor softly and humbly, we just never know what the person is going through if anything. I have stuck my foot in my mouth in the past and left being very humbled and wished I never said a word. For me lessons learned I hope for no repeats
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I have a neighbor that keeps a flag on a large vertical pole in their front yard at half mast currently and has done so for many months. I find this very offensive.
Very offensive, really??? You may be over-reacting just a tad.
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Old 09-04-2020, 11:46 AM
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Very offensive, really??? You may be over-reacting just a tad.
Perhaps but a friendly "just wondering about your flag at half mast" can get an answer.
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Isn't the proper term "half staff" on land and "half mast" aboard a ship?
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Isn't the proper term "half staff" on land and "half mast" aboard a ship?
any 'squid' that referred to the mast as a staff would have been hung from the yard-arm by the Chief back in the day....
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any 'squid' that referred to the mast as a staff would have been hung from the yard-arm by the Chief back in the day....
In my navy we would also keel haul him.
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I am so grateful to be so ignorant that a flag flying at half staff does not offend me.

Having someone be chastised for wearing a "blue lives matter" mask on an airplane offends me.
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Old 09-04-2020, 02:42 PM
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I am so grateful to be so ignorant that a flag flying at half staff does not offend me.

Having someone be chastised for wearing a "blue lives matter" mask on an airplane offends me.
Does not offend me at all but makes me wonder.

Besides asking about it is a great way to meet people.
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I have a neighbor that keeps a flag on a large vertical pole in their front yard at half mast currently and has done so for many months. I find this very offensive. Is this acceptable in The Villages?
I am more offended over those printed flags place along the street on various holidays. Many of them wind up laying on the ground
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Old 09-04-2020, 03:58 PM
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I am more offended over those printed flags place along the street on various holidays. Many of them wind up laying on the ground
Wind does blow them down. If I see one on the ground while walking will always stop and stick them back into the ground.
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