Talk of The Villages Florida - Rentals, Entertainment & More
Talk of The Villages Florida - Rentals, Entertainment & More
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You are the same as people that don't bring their family here or visit them very often.
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Childless here too, but my partner has a kid and 2 grandkids. They are his pride and joy. I've heard that grandchild to grandparent relationship is generally the best one of all and I believe it. I always enjoy hearing about other's visits with their kids or grandkids, but no one has ever asked me if I have kids in TV. Not a huge topic by any means.
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Looks like my wife and I are on the other side as we have five sons and fifteen grandchildren. It is so rewarding to see these young people grow up and take their place in society. One son once asked me about having children, I told him it was the most important thing in my life and no job or amount of money was worth more. A co worker who was single once asked me if I considered getting frozen so that in the future , when they had a cure for what killed me, I could be thawed and cured. I just listed the names of my five sons and she was dumbfounded about what I was talking about. Another person said he listed the names of his sons. I then told her I am going into the future with all my sons and grandchildren. We just love our get togethers and we also have a one week reunion where we rent a big house to fit everyone in. On the other hand my brother has no children and is a skier and hang glider in Jackson Hole. He tells people he didn’t have to have any because his brother did more than his share! He does have a framed picture of all of our family from our last reunion on his desk. He loves it when my sons take their families out there to visit him. This is America, people are free to do what they want, but having children is the greatest joy of many people.
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We have friends who choose not to have children due to devastating health issues that would have been passed to child.
Friends who tried to have children, but never carried to viable life Friends who’s child passed at a very young age, and choose not to try again And some including 2 of our own children who chose not to have children. Both dedicated their life to teaching gifted, and autistic children. One can choose happiness no matter what their life choice.
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No kids, by choice. Both parents were only children, so no aunts, uncles or cousins. One beloved brother who died last year. He had two kids, but one died by suicide 8 years ago. The other lives halfway across the country. We used to be close, but he has his own life now.
It's lonely having no blood family left. So, I've adopted my own chosen family, right down to four grandkids, who call me Grandma. And one loving woman who I've called "Mom" for many years. No regrets not having children, but I do wish I had more than one blood relative. |
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I would think there are more childless people in the villages than the general population of the U.S.
I would love to live in the villages but grown children keep me in the cold North! I don’t regret having kids. They are our pride and joy. When we told them we were selling our house and moving, they both begged us to stay. They are married, childless, but love their Mom and Dad. They come over often and love us. People who completely genuinely love you are hard to come by! I’ll wear sweaters for that! |
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I come from a fairly large family (7 siblings). My husband has 3 brothers. We don’t have any kids by choice. On my side we have around 60 nieces/nephews (including great/great-great). On his side only 4. MANY years ago we stopped most of the large gatherings and gift giving. Exceptions might be a 1st birthday or other milestone. I do wonder what we’ll do later in life when we may need extra help. Guess we’ll see how much my favorite nieces really love us lol.
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I'm sorry, but I have 2 children, 5 grandchildren and 6 great grandchildren and am PROUD OF IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Love our kids and grandkids and to us they make life so much better. Having our grandkids call us to talk to us is an awesome thing that people without kids will never understand. However this is your choice. |
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