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graciegirl 03-08-2015 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by DougB (Post 1025370)
Much ado about nothing.

I'll say.

In the forties, somewhere I saw the pregnant girl statue with the words Kilroy was here. I didn't get it.

I am sure that Tracy Matthews when she ordered these pictures thought...someone is gonna get their knickers in a hitch.

It is very much what you would have seen in a poolroom in the forties.

I am tired of this whole discussion and I am glad I have my family and my friends.

AND that we can CHOOSE who we hang around with.

And I know many are thrilled they don't have to hang out with ME.

Cisco Kid 03-08-2015 01:29 PM

If you find this upsetting, I would not turn on the radio , TV or go to the movies.

Warren Kiefer 03-08-2015 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1025351)
My kids AND grandkids are used to honest and direct answers from me. We saw our two grandchildren every day of their lives until they left for college.

But I am a grandmother, not a papa. Sweetie wouldn't tell them where babies come from any sooner than he would fly. He may not KNOW.

IF MY ten year old would ask...what does that mean. I would say, When you are fly fishing you have to watch and keep your arm up and your rod up so your hook doesn't catch something or somebody.

And on the other one... I would say that in certain areas of the world bush is the heavy dense thick vegetation areas.


The plaques are funny because they has two meanings.

If they were older I would explain...the other meaning.

I can think of so many worse things I don't want them to see.

I would say to someone "are you kidding" if they told me the pictures actually had two meanings. I am not so naïve to believe the message was placed on the photo for the purpose of explaining how to fish or dense thick vegetation describing bush..

DonH57 03-08-2015 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by DougB (Post 1025370)
Much ado about nothing.

As it turns out. I was expecting something else.:icon_bored:

Bonny 03-08-2015 01:39 PM

If grandchildren are "visiting", there are many other rec centers they can go to. As an adult in an adult community, I think they're cool !

skip0358 03-08-2015 01:55 PM

Make sure you don't take your kids by the many cow pastures when the bulls are out, or Alice you might have some splainin to do. Give me a break I've seen worse on Dancing With The Stars and Super Bowl Half time shows. Those pictures are not offensive. JMO

rubicon 03-08-2015 01:59 PM

If the pictures (signs) are what was shown on post #17 then I believe whoever decorated Fish Hawk used poor judgment . I would not expect a sign like that anywhere in The Villages it does reflect what The villages represents

Villageswimmer 03-08-2015 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by skip0358 (Post 1025385)
Make sure you don't take your kids by the many cow pastures when the bulls are out, or Alice you might have some splainin to do. Give me a break I've seen worse on Dancing With The Stars and Super Bowl Half time shows. Those pictures are not offensive. JMO

:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:
Not Alice! It's Lucy who does the 'splainin' !

sunnyatlast 03-08-2015 02:04 PM

I changed my mind and deleted what I wrote here before. I don't like the posters, either. TV is a class act, and those aren't in good taste, even if it's a pool hall. I think our pool halls are classy ones.

Mleeja 03-08-2015 02:14 PM

Let's take em' down and paint the room bland. What will be next to come down or be removed. How about the bull statues in Brownwood. I am sure they are offensive to someone. We are living in an age of where if one person is offended we must bow to their wishes...

Heaven help us....

rubicon 03-08-2015 02:18 PM

One would expect to see signs like that in a bathroom of a honky tonk

bagboy 03-08-2015 02:20 PM

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graciegirl 03-08-2015 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Warren Kiefer (Post 1025376)
I would say to someone "are you kidding" if they told me the pictures actually had two meanings. I am not so naïve to believe the message was placed on the photo for the purpose of explaining how to fish or dense thick vegetation describing bush..

Did you see the part about IF MY TEN YEAR OLD CHILD OR GRANDCHILD WOULD ASK?

Warren and Rubicon, if this is the worst things kids ever see, in this day and age, with all the stuff on the internet and on TV and all around them, then they will be unscathed.

I don't like vulgar people and I can't stand prudes either. We have to teach our children to live in THIS world.

bagboy 03-08-2015 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by kstew43 (Post 1025347)
just adds to the sexual interest the Villages seems to promote/portray......good or bad, I'm a prude....I say off with there heads......

The pictures are fine. They probably have them in Miami, Plantation, and other far off places people say they're from.

Madelaine Amee 03-08-2015 02:38 PM

I'm under the impression this is an adult community. If the pictures offend you don't play billiards there and certainly don't take your children to this room. Use commonsense.

Bonny 03-08-2015 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Madelaine Amee (Post 1025418)
I'm under the impression this is an adult community. If the pictures offend you don't play billiards there and certainly don't take your children to this room. Use commonsense.

I agree !! We are adults in an adult community.

TV-4-2 03-08-2015 03:09 PM

What an amazing amount of "hooey" raised by one person who appears to be very easily offended.
If we remove those posters, then we would have to remove the "(ate)" 8 ball, both the 6 & 9 balls, maybe "balls" in general, cue sticks with "butts" and "shafts," poolroom terminology like "breaking the balls" and "stroking" correctly," not even allowing mention of "screwing the shaft into the butt" of a 2-piece pool cue, and turn it into a Ping-Pong room (oops, that use "paddles" to hit the "balls."
I'm 71 years old and I still get amazed at many peoples' view of the world around them.

TheVillageChicken 03-08-2015 03:13 PM

If these signs prevent anyone from taking their grandchildren into the billiards room, I say they have met my requirements for both form and function.

skip0358 03-08-2015 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by naneiben (Post 1025393)
:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:
Not Alice! It's Lucy who does the 'splainin' !

Yea your right I was so shocked by the pictures I lost my train of thought. NOT lol

Bonny 03-08-2015 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by skip0358 (Post 1025439)
Yea your right I was so shocked by the pictures I lost my train of thought. NOT lol

OMG !! You'll never be the same after seeing those pictures !!!! :a20:

dirtbanker 03-08-2015 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Tiquer505 (Post 1025077)
There are 2 demeaning, sexually suggestive signs in the billiards room at Fish Hawk that should be removed. Requests to the Rec Dept. to this end have been made, accompanied by petition sheets with Villagers' signatures, but to no avail. The signs are "girlie posters" akin to those of a less politically correct era and use fishing terms to suggest a woman's "bush" and keeping a man's "rod" up.

Fish Hawk has a family pool and many young people AND women use the billiards room. These signs suggest that such a disrespectful and crass attitude is okay. It is not what anyone expects or should experience in The Villages.

Check out the signs and express your opinion to the Recreation Dept., the front desk, Fish Hawk's Manager or anywhere you think someone might take positive action. The signs are just in bad taste.

I am guessing the OP has a liquor license...
The others with grand children should consider taking those noisy kids to Disney!

Bosoxfan 03-08-2015 03:35 PM

:bigbow::bigbow::bigbow::bigbow::bigbow::bigbow::b igbow::bigbow::bigbow::bigbow:::
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Originally Posted by plrbr1120 (Post 1025316)
IF it bothers you, stay away from there. Simple as that !!


Cisco Kid 03-08-2015 03:36 PM

It's a joke.
Like a woman knows anything about fishing.

dillywho 03-08-2015 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted by graciegirl (Post 1025373)
I'll say.

In the forties, somewhere I saw the pregnant girl statue with the words Kilroy was here. I didn't get it.

I am sure that Tracy Matthews when she ordered these pictures thought...someone is gonna get their knickers in a hitch.

It is very much what you would have seen in a poolroom in the forties.

I am tired of this whole discussion and I am glad I have my family and my friends.

AND that we can CHOOSE who we hang around with.

And I know many are thrilled they don't have to hang out with ME.

You're already too late if they DO get it. I used to work with a couple of ladies, one of which said the she would not allow her kids to watch SNL because of the suggestive jokes. The other one told her, "If they laugh at them, you're already too late because they are way ahead of you. If they have to ask 'what's so funny', then they could care less".

It really bothers me when people come here and then want to start changing everything. What you don't like might be something that I do; and what I don't like might be what you do. That's why they say there is something for everyone.

Apparently, many of the people had not even paid any attention to these posters until the OP posed the idea that there might be a problem. Anything, and I mean anything, can be considered objectionable if one tries hard enough.

dillywho 03-08-2015 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by TheVillageChicken (Post 1025436)
If these signs prevent anyone from taking their grandchildren into the billiards room, I say they have met my requirements for both form and function.

You're right, and very young kids are not supposed to be in the billiards rooms, anyway. If they are not little, believe me, most of them have stuff on their phones that you absolutely would not want to see.

LndLocked 03-08-2015 03:44 PM

Is the OP entitled to their opinion? ...... YES

Do I find them personally objectionable? ..... no

Do I find it personally objectionable that the OP was invited to "leave" by the 9th post of the thread for the heinous crime of expressing their opinion? ....... YES!!

Would I have the signs in question in my home .... no (just not my style)

Is their a MAJOR difference in what is acceptable to display in your own home and a public (and yes the Rec Center is a public) facility? ....... YES!!

Their are sooooooooo many on this board that rush in to defend anything that is in any way connected to TV and "The Developer", it is kinda amazing to me. "The Developer" did an excellent job of conceptualizing and executing a business plan. HOWEVER, "The Developer" and those in charge of the VCCDD, CCD are NOT omnipotent! They have, are and will make mistakes and errors in judgement.

Was the placement of these double entree signs a mistake or error in judgement? Considering that this Rec Center has been open for about 10 years or so, you would probably have to say that has not offended enough people to be a problem. However, if would have been my decision to hang them .... I would have said no. Given the location.

dillywho 03-08-2015 04:13 PM

Sorry, but I was not, nor do I always defend the developer. Like you said, it's a funny thing that this is just now become objectionable. Is the OP entitled to an opinion....absolutely. Should they be invited to leave because of expressing an opinion....absolutely not!

I do have a problem with the ones who come here and immediately want to start changing things to their liking. Why can't we have fences, why can't the youngsters play pool, why can only people over 30 go to the neighborhood pools, why can't grandparents raise their grandchildren here in TV, why can't our friends from the outside come to the rec centers to play cards or other activities, why can't we have lawn ornaments, why can't we have all modern music; why do we have to listen to 40's - 50's - 60's, why do the "old" people have to drive and be in the way? And, the list goes on, and on, and on. This place is unique and there is no way to please everyone. Enjoy what you enjoy and let the others do the same....that's it. I don't enjoy Cody's or redsauce, but some do. Great! I have my favorite courses, rec centers, restaurants, activities; the others I leave to those who enjoy them. If not for all the rules, this place would become just like many other undesirable places. Even the retirement places around us that don't have as much to offer as here, have rules by which they must abide.

Something for EVERYONE. If not here, then maybe somewhere else; just don't try to change what many others like, have been accustomed to, and enjoy.

If anyone here is bored, it is not the fault of someone else.

billlaur 03-08-2015 04:45 PM

:crap2:SAy it aint so....lets get it 2gether...Are these people for real....:wave:

Loudoll 03-08-2015 04:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Tiquer505 (Post 1025077)
There are 2 demeaning, sexually suggestive signs in the billiards room at Fish Hawk that should be removed. Requests to the Rec Dept. to this end have been made, accompanied by petition sheets with Villagers' signatures, but to no avail. The signs are "girlie posters" akin to those of a less politically correct era and use fishing terms to suggest a woman's "bush" and keeping a man's "rod" up.

Fish Hawk has a family pool and many young people AND women use the billiards room. These signs suggest that such a disrespectful and crass attitude is okay. It is not what anyone expects or should experience in The Villages.

Check out the signs and express your opinion to the Recreation Dept., the front desk, Fish Hawk's Manager or anywhere you think someone might take positive action. The signs are just in bad taste.

I wouldn't have thought these signs would be up to TV standards. I agree with you, but I guess we're wrong about TV's standards. Too bad.

Indydealmaker 03-08-2015 04:52 PM

The moment anyone mentioned that it is politically correct to be offended by these posters, I cast my vote. . . to keep them. Political correctness is should be properly re-labeled: Political Dumbness.:spoken:

kstew43 03-08-2015 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Mleeja (Post 1025495)
So you choose to suggest people who play pool are not as good as you?!!? How rude! That is not very classy. Would you have found these objectionable in the era of the 40's or 50's?

I never said that.......I just think those sort of photos would not be hung in the entrance hall of any rec center....

But they are what some people like to look at in a pool room.....or so says the decorating staff.

although I did not live in the 40's I do think the pictures were available,

but the verbage I do believe was not the same, in regards to bush and rod.....I think legs were called gams and that was looked upon as derogatory

but then again I grew up in connecticut in a all girls catholic school right thru highschool. So again...what do I know

Bonny 03-08-2015 05:04 PM

:popcorn: :wine: :p

Mleeja 03-08-2015 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Bonny (Post 1025499)
:popcorn: :wine: :p

:beer3:

Cisco Kid 03-08-2015 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by mleeja (Post 1025508)
:beer3:

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🌀⚡️⛄️

rubicon 03-08-2015 05:29 PM

a number of posters defense of these signs is that "we are adults for godsake". so its no big deal. But if that's true why would someone be so juvenile as to hang signs like this especially in a rec center they know attracts many people for many reasons .


For me its not about being politically correct or even being offended. For me its a small reminder, a trigger, of the state of mind in this sex obsessed society. It seems you can't go anywhere or watch anything or listen to any music that doesn't exploit this issue and often very pervertedly. Lucky for me remotes have fast forward so I can at least minimize these mindless displays

So it would be nice to be able to escape it some of the time. and yes I will avoid the billard room at Fish Hawk

Bogie Shooter 03-08-2015 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by bagboy (Post 1025521)
I question if you actually live in the Villages. Many your comments and opinions like in this thread berate the developer, district operations, and Villagers themselves. You have made numerous statements detrimental to the quality of our lifestyle, quality of our homes, and how we are governed. And even how some people shop.
I then have seen you post that you live in Miami, and live in the Plantation neighborhood. And now you pipe in on recreation center posters which have absolutely zero to do with you. I just wonder why people pretend once they get past 5 years old.

Can this be true?
I guess it is...................
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Originally Posted by kstew43 (Post 1022426)
I dont know about the other commentor, but for me

we live so close that we are able to enjoy the opportunities that are available to The Villagers residents, except fee golf. I don't play anyway.


kstew43 03-08-2015 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by bagboy (Post 1025521)
I question if you actually live in the Villages. Many your comments and opinions like in this thread berate the developer, district operations, and Villagers themselves. You have made numerous statements detrimental to the quality of our lifestyle, quality of our homes, and how we are governed. And even how some people shop.
I then have seen you post that you live in Miami, and live in the Plantation neighborhood. And now you pipe in on recreation center posters which have absolutely zero to do with you. I just wonder why people pretend once they get past 5 years old.

just so you know, i have a cyv we turned it into a rental because we wanted a little slower pace, and a lot less stress. we pay our $145 just like you do, but give our renters the cards. we also have a main home in Miami and another in the plantations and are currently looking for a village cottage to overnight and store some toys.

I have financial freedom and I have an opinion, get over it....

birdawg 03-08-2015 05:39 PM

Has anyone noticed the full moon.

dbussone 03-08-2015 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by birdawg (Post 1025539)
Has anyone noticed the full moon.

Yes. And the inmates of the asylum are howling.

red tail 03-08-2015 05:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Warren Kiefer (Post 1025369)
The nasty message is pretty clear to me.

whats nasty about it???


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