[Velvet]

Originally Posted by Two Bills

Can you cook and clean good?

LOL. Can you?

My teenage daughter used to say to me, “If he can’t cook, no date. I like to eat.”

[manaboutown]

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[Velvet]

I’m sure you’re right, and of course it’s true with guys as well. But sometimes you meet the bus driver….

[manaboutown]

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[EdFNJ]

This thread should be titled: "Looking for love in all the wrong places" Johnny Lee - "Looking For Love in All the Wrong Places" - YouTube

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[Topspinmo]

You say the good ones seem to be taken. People in 60’s and onward usually have Been in forever relationship with their companion when they sudden lose them. Some aren’t looking for second love of their life. I myself couldn’t imagine trying to find another lady companion or try to date again at my age.

Now you got the other half that comes with lot baggage, divorced, separated, drinking problems, drug problems mental problems, lazy, and looking for free ride. Good luck in you’re search. Odds are stacked against you IMO.

[Penglobal]

I thank everyone for your suggestions and for clarity, I have found a lot of nice guys here in The Villages, but I am looking for that special one.

[Two Bills]

Originally Posted by Velvet

LOL. Can you?

My teenage daughter used to say to me, “If he can’t cook, no date. I like to eat.”

I was the ugly duckling who won the heart of, and married the swan.
Can't imagine life without her.

[camaguey48]

Originally Posted by Penglobal

I thank everyone for your suggestions and for clarity, I have found a lot of nice guys here in The Villages, but I am looking for that special one.

Enjoy every day and one of these days, that person will come along when you are least expecting it. You never know.

[dewilson58]

Originally Posted by manaboutown

In my experience women are like buses. You get off one, another comes along.

Lovely.

[DaleDivine]

Originally Posted by Penglobal

Although your statement is rather frivolous and silly, I have unfortunately met several gentlemen who she a relatively young educated and financially secure lady as an easy target and their primary intention is xxx and a meal card while all I'm looking for is companionship and conversation. All the good guys apparently have been taken.

I met a lovely and younger gentleman at the Bluefin restaurant and within 60 minutes of conversation several drinks and dinner, he was asking me about protection. I immediately picked-up the tab, paid and told him that my protection is leaving by myself.

Yep, sorrrry but we are all taken.

[Toymeister]

Wow.

Having read the lack of sincerity and maturity of most of the responses here, Im glad I am not in this lady's position. That is female, single, seeking a mature companion, who is not looking for a hook up or nurse with a purse.

[Bay Kid]

Head to one of our many churches and get involved. Better chance to find a good person rather than on this site or a bar.

[thevillages2013]

Originally Posted by Penglobal

As a newbie single lady, I'm just getting my feet wet here in The Villages and have been looking for male companionship. I have tried the normal avenues but the men that I have met appear immature, ALL looking for one thing and some men are viewing me as a "meal card", (male version of a gold-digger).

I'm seeking an unmarried gentlemen in his 60's for companionship, friendship and happy times. BTW - The gentlemen MOST be unmarried. Do you guys have any suggestions? Thanks !

Ok this is bothering me a little bit. Are you saying absolutely no hanky panky, just hanging out? Obviously these men you have met are attracted to you. How about next time you go out with a “gentleman “ don’t shower or wear makeup and dress shabbily and see what he’s after then. And don’t show up in your new Mercedes either

[SkBlogW]

Originally Posted by Penglobal

As a newbie single lady, I'm just getting my feet wet here in The Villages and have been looking for male companionship. I have tried the normal avenues but the men that I have met appear immature, ALL looking for one thing and some men are viewing me as a "meal card", (male version of a gold-digger).

I'm seeking an unmarried gentlemen in his 60's for companionship, friendship and happy times. BTW - The gentlemen MOST be unmarried. Do you guys have any suggestions? Thanks !

I'm curious, you say the men you meet are viewing you as a "meal card" Let's say you meet a nice guy and go out for dinner. Do you expect him to pay or do you split the tab?