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Nick Kelly 07-08-2021 09:20 AM

LOL I live in PA and TV. In PA we have weekenders who come from NY and NJ. Full-timers dislike them. Then I go to FL and I'm a Snowbird and full-timers don't like me !!! Don't be too upset that full-timers don't like you too much! Everyone in every part of the country would like a full time neighbor for many reasons. There are grumpy people where ever you go. Don't let them get to you and enjoy the good people. There are many in TV !

cafw1 07-08-2021 09:23 AM

I can understand disliking people who rent their homes out because renters use everything and cause all owners to pay higher bills for maintenance. The people who own rental property make money and the non-rental property owners foot the bill. On the other hand the real snowbirds who own property pay the full bill and only use the facilities part time. Disliking seasonal owners makes absolutely no sense to me either.

DonnaNi4os 07-08-2021 09:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Becca9800 (Post 1969714)
I honestly don't get it, why are TV snowbirds so despised? Can you explain it to us and help us understand what the divide is all about? Thank you.

I think that is an over exaggeration. I have wonderful neighbors that happen to be snowbirds. The joke is that in autumn the license plates turn colors instead of the leaves. In general, snowbird season means an increase in traffic and difficulty finding parking spaces at the squares. Also, restaurants become more crowded. If that makes people despise snowbirds that’s pretty sad.

perrjojo 07-08-2021 09:33 AM

I don’t think snowbirds are despised. Our neighborhood loves our snowbirds;however, snow birds can make us grumpy when we can’t get our favorite tee time, have to arrive an hour early to get into classes, can’t get in our favorite restaurant without long waits, etc. Its not personal. Btw many snowbirds do not take good care of their property. I am thankful that most do.

perrjojo 07-08-2021 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by airstreamingypsy (Post 1970022)
Maybe it's just jealousy. Snowbirds can afford two homes, one in Florida, one where it's cool in the summer. Fulltimers are stuck here melting in the summer........ There's no logical reason besides jealousy.

I’m sorry to disappoint but I can “afford” two homes but choose to live in one place. Nice try.

Coley 07-08-2021 09:38 AM

Snowbirds are terrific--Help keep this place financially sound. So glad they can enjoy "The Villages".

Doro22 07-08-2021 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Becca9800 (Post 1969714)
I honestly don't get it, why are TV snowbirds so despised? Can you explain it to us and help us understand what the divide is all about? Thank you.

Most of the snowbirds I’ve met at various clubs are great people. They are kind and respectful. The only thing that is negative is that there are so many and facilities and roads become so overcrowded.

Nucky 07-08-2021 09:41 AM

Not despised at all by us. We miss our seasonal neighbors.

coconutmama 07-08-2021 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Becca9800 (Post 1969714)
I honestly don't get it, why are TV snowbirds so despised? Can you explain it to us and help us understand what the divide is all about? Thank you.

We don’t despise snowbirds. We miss our neighbors, but do like less crowds. Looking forward to seeing them again & catching up.

Taltarzac725 07-08-2021 09:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Nucky (Post 1970077)
Not despised at all by us. We miss our seasonal neighbors.

I know one retired doctor who keeps looking for a Canadian about something about a World Series and a lobster dinner bet on it.

One of my favorite Talk of the Villagers husband worked up in PA as a helicopter pilot for charters. At least, that was what I thought. He could have been in some other kind of work with helicopters. She came down for much of the year. He was here on-and-off. She also lived down the block from me.

BellaDonna 07-08-2021 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Becca9800 (Post 1969714)
I honestly don't get it, why are TV snowbirds so despised? Can you explain it to us and help us understand what the divide is all about? Thank you.

Although we are newer to TV we have lived in a Florida resort town (Key West) for over 30 years. "Snowbirds" pay amenity fees year round while only using the amenities part time. Can't very well complain about that. We like to frequent restaurants off season since they are quiet and the staff is able to be more attentive. I also like that we can support them during their slower times.

Spalumbos62 07-08-2021 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Bogie Shooter (Post 1969730)
Been here 16 years fill time. Have never despised, hated or any ill will towards “snowbirds”.
What good does the nasty talk really accomplish?
I could go on with a list of good things but………..it has all been hashed over & over on here before.
Have a good summer and welcome back in the fall


Yeah..... something nice said about snowbirds.
I think it's kind of silly that people would have any destain for any of their neighbors. We do pay the same in all fees, probably more bc we are not there to fix those little things that most handy men fix on their own place.
We currently have 2 or 3 little things going on at our place that really need addressing....can't ask a renter or neighbor to fix, yet can't/shouldn't wait til fall.....ie: sprinkler head, flickering light, intermittent running dishwasher. If we were there we know how to tackle...hence, a quick flight next week.

But we are all lucky to be able to have this place to enjoy.

chris38wise 07-08-2021 10:04 AM

Lack of facility care
 
This does not apply to all seasonal residents, I appreciate so many.
However there is a general lack of care during season. There is an increase in the cigarette butts on the golf courses. The sand traps are not raked. There is garbage along side the road.
There is horns honking for pauses at the red lights, or in the round abouts.
There is a general rush and general disregard with some individuals seeming to feel entitled.
This is some of the reasons there is resentment.
I personally am happy you are paying amenities fees all year round, which helps to lower mine.

Kahuna32162 07-08-2021 10:07 AM

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Originally Posted by VApeople (Post 1969727)
Because it is human nature to despise anyone who is different from us.


That's not "human nature", that's called RACISM.

Al2014 07-08-2021 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by bandsdavis (Post 1969745)
So here's my 2 cents. I think 90% of all full-time Villagers do not resent or hate snowbirds. It's the other 10% who have nothing better to do than complain about a number of things that makes it seem that way. No, I can't "prove" the % I used. It's a gut feel after living here (fulltime) for 9 years. I occasionally will have a conversation with someone who disparages snowbirds, but those discussions are extremely rare. I have been the leader for 2 large groups (150 people plus each) that have included both fulltime and snowbird residents. I've never heard of anyone in those groups who have not been excited to welcome our snowbirds back. So take the complaints with a grain of salt, and remember if you are basing your thoughts on what you read here and on other social media, you are getting an extremely small sample size, and one that in my opinion tends overall to be slanted toward the negative about such topics.

As with all social media topics including how to fry bologna.

thelegges 07-08-2021 10:19 AM

I would love to see all the snowbirds stay for a whole year. Just think instead of everyone here 3 to 6 months a year, everyone FULL time.

What a happy place TV would be, everyone in their home taking care of lawns, driving the roundabouts, taking up golf tee times, restaurant reservations, run over gates, throwing out cigarettes from their cart (I have 3 neighbors that toss theirs on my lawn everyday, not a bird). Then one can enjoy all the aspects that only happen few months a year.

Would the conversation be any different? :popcorn: would one be less happy if everyone was here 12 months, or happier.

I need to go uncover my lanai furniture and enjoy the day

024engine 07-08-2021 10:22 AM

Many snowbirds lately are coming from parts of the country where they are always ****ed off and they bring that with them. Many are non-conformists and want the rules to be like where they came from. My suggestion woyld be, if you don't like it here and don't want to conform to our policies, go back where you came from. PERIOD

dewilson58 07-08-2021 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Becca9800 (Post 1969714)
I honestly don't get it, why are TV snowbirds so despised? Can you explain it to us and help us understand what the divide is all about? Thank you.

As with everything......................there is a minor, minor, minor group of people who are not happy in life and love to complain.

We are not divided..............just noisy individuals.

Ajiveson 07-08-2021 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Becca9800 (Post 1969714)
I honestly don't get it, why are TV snowbirds so despised? Can you explain it to us and help us understand what the divide is all about? Thank you.

In my neighborhood we love our snowbirds and can’t wait till they come back!

JMintzer 07-08-2021 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by perrjojo (Post 1970072)
I’m sorry to disappoint but I can “afford” two homes but choose to live in one place. Nice try.

"Maybe" means possibly... Not you specifically...

And if that's not the reason, what is?

kleeh 07-08-2021 10:33 AM

puzzled
 
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Originally Posted by Becca9800 (Post 1969714)
I honestly don't get it, why are TV snowbirds so despised? Can you explain it to us and help us understand what the divide is all about? Thank you.

I am puzzled. We have a number of winter people and they are as accepted as the year- rounders are unless they are unacceptable by behavior as some year-rounders are. In fact, we look forward to their return each Nov, Dec, or Jan and are sad to see them leave each April, May or June.

ThirdOfFive 07-08-2021 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Mortal1 (Post 1969736)
You've been either misinformed or have some nasty friends. I don't despise them any more than I despise the idiots that feel that way.

They arrive...not unlike the "love bugs"....then they leave...I have no animosity towards either. As a matter of fact I get to renew friendships...that part is not like the "love bugs".

Perhaps if the "snowbirds" had to wear a badge, tattoo, hat, colored shirt, etc. to let us(the non-"snowbirds")easily differentiate between us and them and could then direct my displeasure at some action they take(rolled through a stop sign, golfed slowly, made every place seem crowded...well you know). But I would not as I've lived lots of places from Japan to Scotland...they all have snowbirds only they are usually called " tourists". *GRIN*

Well, yeah...but aren't the snowbirds harder to scrape off your windshield?

Villagesgal 07-08-2021 10:39 AM

Been here 20 years. Lots, not all snowbirds do nothing but party, party, party when they're here with little to no regard for others be they other snowbirds or full timers, this gives them a bad reputation. Some are also pushy and aggressive wanting what they want "right now", because they are "on vacation".

kleeh 07-08-2021 10:44 AM

It's all in one's viewpoint
 
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Originally Posted by Velvet (Post 1969715)
One guess would be congestion, on the roads, in the pools, on the golf courses, in the restaurants…. During the summer months around my place it is so quiet, full timers have gone traveling or visiting. All you hear most of the time is the sound of nature. And you have all these well looked after properties all around. It is like being at a high end resort.

Wouldn't you think that a place as built up as The villages would have a lot of people and traffic? So, why would anyone buy in here who isn't prepared to deal with hard-to-get tee times, wait times at restaurants, traffic on the main roads? As for me, I have never been unable to get a tee time on one course or another...NEVER. I have always been seated within a reasonable time at any restaurant I've chosen...ALWAYS. I might not choose the restaurant with a line wrapped around the building. I have always been able to get from one place to another within the time I ALLOW for doing so. As far as traffic goes...why would I be in a hurry...I have left business meetings behind. I am retired.

JMintzer 07-08-2021 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by chris38wise (Post 1970095)
This does not apply to all seasonal residents, I appreciate so many.
However there is a general lack of care during season. There is an increase in the cigarette butts on the golf courses. The sand traps are not raked. There is garbage along side the road.
There is horns honking for pauses at the red lights, or in the round abouts.
There is a general rush and general disregard with some individuals seeming to feel entitled.
This is some of the reasons there is resentment.
I personally am happy you are paying amenities fees all year round, which helps to lower mine.

The very same things occur off season.

More people means more of the same...

JMintzer 07-08-2021 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Villagesgal (Post 1970128)
B even here 20 years. Lots, not all snowbirds do nothing but party, party, party when they're here with little to no regard for others be they other snowbirds or full timers, this gives them a bad reputation. Some are also pushy and aggressive wanting what they want "right now", because they are "on vacation".

That's just New Yorkers... (ducks for cover)

I keeed, I keeed!

captboxcar 07-08-2021 10:49 AM

People that complain about congestion from snowbirds would you rather they were full timers so you could complain about congestion all year. I come from a congested crowded area with lots of traffic.The so called congestion at TV is a piece of cake. Snowbirds pay full time taxes and fees which is a benefit to permanent residents.

JMintzer 07-08-2021 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Kahuna32162 (Post 1970099)
That's not "human nature", that's called RACISM.

Yeah, that's a no from me, Dog...

"Different" does not have to have anything to do with "race"...

Spalumbos62 07-08-2021 10:55 AM

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Originally Posted by 024engine (Post 1970112)
Many snowbirds lately are coming from parts of the country where they are always ****ed off and they bring that with them. Many are non-conformists and want the rules to be like where they came from. My suggestion woyld be, if you don't like it here and don't want to conform to our policies, go back where you came from. PERIOD


Please explain...

ThirdOfFive 07-08-2021 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by stargirl (Post 1969986)
You are not despised by most. My advice? Stay off this forum! This is where people go who don’t have anything to do but bitch, I read it strictly for the entertainment value, and because I honestly can’t believe how miserable some people can be. When you get here stay off this forum and go out and have fun, that’s where the nice normal people are, living their lives.

Some of my best friends are people...

worahm 07-08-2021 10:58 AM

I really did not have a problem with snow birds until I found one golf cart, owned by a snow bird parked 6 inches from my front bumper and a second golf cart, owned by a snow bird parked 6 inchs from my rear bumper in front of Two Jays. Then, I had a problem.

aliquo 07-08-2021 10:59 AM

Love snowbirds. My
Snowbird neighbors are great. Always look forward to their return.

JMintzer 07-08-2021 11:01 AM

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Originally Posted by 024engine (Post 1970112)
Many snowbirds lately are coming from parts of the country where they are always ****ed off and they bring that with them. Many are non-conformists and want the rules to be like where they came from. My suggestion woyld be, if you don't like it here and don't want to conform to our policies, go back where you came from. PERIOD

What about all of the FROGS who don't want to "conform" and are "****ed off"?

JMintzer 07-08-2021 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by worahm (Post 1970143)
I really did not have a problem with snow birds until I found one golf cart, owned by a snow bird parked 6 inches from my front bumper and a second golf cart, owned by a snow bird parked 6 inchs from my rear bumper in front of Two Jays. Then, I had a problem.

How did you know they were owned by snowbirds?

gcollings@live.com 07-08-2021 11:09 AM

Winter Floridians
 
Becca, I share your concern and even offered a suggestion in the Daily Sun a couple of years ago. What if TV management and business owners modeled a welcoming attitude as is displayed in the southern valley of Texas with banners "Welcome Winter Texans". Our parents looked forward to returning to Texas each year to renew acquaintances and experience the gratitude of the community.

What if the Daily Sun, business owners on the town squares, and recreational centers displayed "Welcome Floridians" banners as an opportunity to celebrate a reunion of all our residents? The TV community has a well deserved history of displaying celebrations for multiple occasions throughout the year.

Laker14 07-08-2021 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by 024engine (Post 1970112)
Many snowbirds lately are coming from parts of the country where they are always ****ed off and they bring that with them. Many are non-conformists and want the rules to be like where they came from. My suggestion woyld be, if you don't like it here and don't want to conform to our policies, go back where you came from. PERIOD

and you sound so happy.

Tbrazie 07-08-2021 11:22 AM

Don’t hate anyone. Snowbirds are great. So are us full-timers. I think we just have some grumpy people who need something to complain about

Blueblaze 07-08-2021 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Becca9800 (Post 1969714)
Why are TV snowbirds so despised?

Great question, right up there with "When did you quit beating your wife".

Seriously, the closest thing I've seen to anybody despising snowbirds is this stupid thread. Like most of these complainer threads, it bears absolutely no relationship to the reality of living in the Villages. In fact, most of the full timers I've met since we moved here seem to have previously spent years as snowbirds before going full-monty.

Hey, I have a great question!

What do Villagers get out of stirring up their neighbors on Talk of the Villages?

MaxCat 07-08-2021 11:43 AM

not despised
 
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Originally Posted by Becca9800 (Post 1969714)
I honestly don't get it, why are TV snowbirds so despised? Can you explain it to us and help us understand what the divide is all about? Thank you.

I wouldn't say despised. Fact is, snowbirds do very much to contribute to a healthy economy all over Florida, including TV, and many of my friends and family are snowbirds and I love to see them again when it's "in season" time and they are back in Florida.

On the flip side, here are a few reasons some might groan over snowbirds:

1. Definitely more crowded "in season" -- can't get a table in a restaurant when you want -- definitely can't just be an in-the-moment walk-in, the tee time you wanted is harder to come by, stand in line for a lot of things "in season" that you don't have to stand in line for when the snowbirds are back north.

2. Sometimes it's the few who spoil it for the many. Every season I always run into at least one snow bird who decides to "show off" their entitled side . . . "WE don't do it like that in NY" . . . "step aside I'm coming through" . . . "it's my first day back and I'm going to run you over in Publix buying up EVERYTHING I can get my hands on even if it means shoving past you to grab that last loaf of multi-grain on the bakery shelf" . . . "I'm cutting you off in the round-about because I am in a hurry (license plate: Ohio, Pennsylvania, New York, etc. . . )" . . . receive the one-finger salute for going to slow at 20 mph as I'm cut you off in my golf cart because they have GOT to get that seat in the square . . . you get the picture. DEFINITELY not everyone . . . but does happen with greater frequency "in season" . . .

3. Have a visiting guest who can't join me in my weekly yoga/aerobics/water exercise class because it's full with seasonal residents . . . sigh

4. Having my backside rammed with a cart in Fresh Market because it's busier ahead of Christmas . . . when if I tried to move myself I'd have to ram the person in front of me because it's just that busy . . . and then when I look back to see who rammed me . . . I get glared out. Hmmm.

Mainly, it's just more crowded and that makes people grouchier. Plus there are a preponderance of "old, angries" in TV . . . and they are perpetually cranky.

Snowbirds are not despised . . . but it does give those who are prone to complaining something to complain about.

PugMom 07-08-2021 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by bandsdavis (Post 1969745)
So here's my 2 cents. I think 90% of all full-time Villagers do not resent or hate snowbirds. It's the other 10% who have nothing better to do than complain about a number of things that makes it seem that way. No, I can't "prove" the % I used. It's a gut feel after living here (fulltime) for 9 years. I occasionally will have a conversation with someone who disparages snowbirds, but those discussions are extremely rare. I have been the leader for 2 large groups (150 people plus each) that have included both fulltime and snowbird residents. I've never heard of anyone in those groups who have not been excited to welcome our snowbirds back. So take the complaints with a grain of salt, and remember if you are basing your thoughts on what you read here and on other social media, you are getting an extremely small sample size, and one that in my opinion tends overall to be slanted toward the negative about such topics.

:clap2: thank you! i think the anti-snowbird thing is blown way out of proportion by a handful of malcontents


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