Talk of The Villages Florida - Rentals, Entertainment & More
Talk of The Villages Florida - Rentals, Entertainment & More
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The new apartments in Brownwood would be a great place to live and very reasonable considering of all the shops, restaurants and entertainment with in walking distance. The Villages is a very friendly place where most everyone minds their own business. If you hit the town squares once things fully reopen then you will get a much better idea what most people are like. |
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One thing is for sure. No need to be concerned regarding the temperament of the responses. I find them all heart felt. You have been here several times you said. You have family that lives here yet you seem to ha reservations. they are 130,000 people who presently live here. The sell 300 houses a month. So it will to grow and with that comes more diversity. Not being gay I have no info for you to ease your concerns. I never hear anything about his only lesbians. The villages have a very large presence her Republican I'm sure is by large the predominant political party. Those two demographic group that are 56 and over I wouldn't think that would represent the best potential groups for you to live in harmony. No judgement I suggest renting for a year. If TV comes up as a bad place for you, you will have time maybe to find your happy place.
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Thank you all for your thoughts & suggestions. I find it encouraging & very helpful. If circumstances permit, I’d like to make a lengthier visit in the fall & get a better feel for the community. My family has been supportive & have encouraged me to consider TV. Truthfully, after my visit last December, I began looking at properties remotely with their help. It quickly became apparent though, that relying on them to go to open houses, make appointments to view listings & reporting back to me, was putting an unnecessary burden on them (& stress on me). Added to that was my concern about it being the right place for me. All in all, it wasn’t the most ideal situation, so I put a purchase on hold. Given what’s happened this year it was probably the right decision.
My original plan was to work a few more years, and I didn’t feel the need to rush into anything. I’m working remotely & very fortunate to still be employed, however these last 6 months have made me reevaluate my original timeline. There’s so much to consider & plan for, that it’s good to know there’s a supportive community & it’s one less thing to worry about. Thank you again. |
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You may have more issues being from New York then being gay. Renting is always a good idea. Gives you time to spend your money wisely. Tampa and Orlando and Ocala have a verity of Gay groups. If you are looking for nightlife activities. If you are looking to live life and enjoy The Villages definitely has much to offer. Best wishes as you make life transitions.
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Well, I'm not single and not gay, so maybe my opinion is not as broad based as you would like. But, IMO it was a non issue for many many years. I hope it still is but, the whole atmosphere of kind, accepting, people from all walks of life (original slogan was: where any man can retire like a king) has changed, as things do of course. People have become much more judgmental, more like the stereo typical "retirement" community with too many people with nothing to do but tend to the business of others. On the other hand, that does not mean that everything has changed for the worst, chances are you would not experience any kind of, shall we call it "discrimination" ? Not that it could not happen, but then,
as long as you know how a few people are no matter where you go. We have people here who are very offended by Christians and do not want them to have any visible symbols of their belief, there are those offended by small animal statures in gardens ! But all in all, I think while possible that you could be hurt or offended at something, such as lack of an invitation or a seeming slight of some kind, I still think it would be rare and that most people would be much more concerned about you as a good and kind neighbor and a decent caring human being. It always goes both ways of course, again only in my observation over quite a few years now, but I have never heard or observed that the gay community here is exclusive or unwelcoming to non gay people either. If it is at all possible (I'd tell the very same thing to anyone, gay or straight) rent for at least 6 months and one year if at all financially possible. It is the only way you can personally get a feel for the whole community and detect (if any ?) unkind or unaccepting attitudes. The sister of one of my closest college friends moved here with her partner and they have a large circle of couples both gay and straight that all play golf, bocci, cruise, kayak and have a fair number of neighborhood parties with all the time. Rent, that's my best suggestion, get acquainted with people, join some groups, make sure, don't want to spend retirement in an unfriendly place or with narrow minded people ! Last edited by Ladygolfer93; 09-07-2020 at 12:31 AM. Reason: spelling |
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I love it here. I think anyone would but I am me. We all are who we are. I hope you find a wonderful rest of your life wherever you decide to live. (There are a lot of very conservative Christians who live here who believe homosexuality is a choice and is sinful) BUT the ones I know are kind and polite if that helps.
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In my opinion, your sexual preference or the opinions of others about your sexual preference should not be a major factor in deciding where you want to live. If your feel comfortable with living in TV then you make it happen, as simple as that. However, I do agree with those who say RENT before you buy, I am doing that myself, I am on month 2 of a year lease in TV.
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You seem like a lovely person.
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To be honest, most of are too 'experienced' to be judgmental. We just want to enjoy our life. |
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I would suggest you rent for several months to give you time to experience the community and give you a better idea of where you might want to live.
We are new ourselves and like it here but do find people friendly for the most part. I walk a lot and vast majority will say good morning or hello but some will stare straight ahead and ignore any one else. As they say takes all kinds |
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