Talk of The Villages Florida - Rentals, Entertainment & More
Talk of The Villages Florida - Rentals, Entertainment & More
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I get that everyone has the choice to leave their estate to whoever they choose, relative or not. I have no children, only ‘not so close relatives.’ I absolutely will not be contributing my hard earned money to the medical professionals to keep me alive when my quality of life is gone. Believe me, it is a gift to the caregivers to not have to change my diapers, and put medicine on my bedsores that won’t heal, and having to listen to my constant complaining bc I can’t get comfortable.
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My plan is to "Pull a Thelma & Louise"....not interested in running the risk of a prolonged stay in a nursing home, plus I've never seen the Grand Canyon from the bottom looking up
It'll be a brand spanking new red convertible rented from Hertz....finally the shoe will be on the other foot when dealing with Hertz and I won't have to pay extra for 'dropping the car off at a different location' |
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I don’t want to veer off topic but this is related. I’ve read several stats wrt survivability after being placed on a ventilator.
Does anyone know for certain? One said 50% of those placed on a ventilator die and of those who survive 20% suffer brain damage or other serious complications. I’ve just about decided to specifically add “no ventilator” to my advanced directive. If the odds are better than above, I’ll reconsider. Please don’t provide a guess. I’m looking for real numbers/experiences. |
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MY wife (in her 60’s) was on a ventilator for a full week and had no side effects.
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Then in my 40s after coding twice ( that is an experience in its self) again no memory of intubation, nor the vent time. Both times had no issues from vent, although an emergency intubation Is difficult, and had a sore throat ,it was more about trying to keep me alive. There is no cut and dry about placing on a vent. Sometimes people are put on a vent because of family, shouldn’t have been but there anyway. Those are the numbers that should not be in the mix
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Only works when you are alert and awake, in this particular case, that will not be where you are.
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The medical community will tell you there are no statistical outcomes that are 100% accurate. The reason you go on a vent(diagnosis), your age, your overall health and the prognosis of the disease are factors for consideration. If you are 70, in good health and get this virus you might want to prolong your life, but if you were 70, ravaged with cancer in all organs and then get the virus your decision might be different. There is no black and white answer to the problem.
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Many directives specify the conditions for life pro longing intervention. More than one doctor, chance/probability of survival, etc.
When one reads the conditions that dictate no intervention it is pretty much a common sense (no less difficult) decision. |
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I agree with you. I happen to love my husband and my son and would not want to force them to make choices that might cause them pain and guilt. Directives done and discussed with them. Primary care physician and other doctors have a copy already. So I know I will be taken care of as I wish.
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Make wishes clear
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This particular situation is probably different but for future reference— |
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I have been a Florida Notary Public for 33 years. Sad, but I meet many seniors in TV who do not have advance directives. I have also seen the ramifications of same, and there are many. In my opinion, it is only wise of all seniors, to have either a
(1) Last Will & Testament or a Trust, a (2) Durable Power of Attorney with Health Care Surrogate & Gardianship, and a (3) Living Will. |
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An end of life directive makes for a smooth and easy transition for your survivors and may prevent the breakup of families. Why would anyone want to create havoc to their family at a time of sorrow? Axe to grind??? Or just plain Evil??? Rethink a DNR, think of your loved ones, NOT YOURSELF!
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Strong person....never knew anyone that was ok with pain and suffering at end of life.....now I do.
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Ok you have made your point !
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