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janmcn 12-15-2012 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by buggyone (Post 594975)
"It's not the gun laws that are to blame. It's the culture of violence in which we live. We need to stop exposing our children to violence on television, in the news, in video games, on the internet, at the movies. Children need to be taught AT HOME to love and respect others, and that violence isn't normal or permissable.

I would agree with parts of this post and disagree with other parts. First, when we were kids, we almost all had cap guns and played Cowboys and Indians with plenty of play shooting of each other and seeing each other clasp their hand over their heart and go down dying. There were all the cowboy movies and television shows with Roy, Gene, and Hoppy doing violence on the bad guys who did violence on good guys. None was graphic!!

It is the graphic violence of video games like Black Ops or World of Warcraft or Grand Theft Auto that is a problem (but not the whole problem). Who buys the games for the kids? Mom and Dad do and that is the problem.

The teaching of respect needs to be taught at home, school, and church.

There also is NO NEED for civilians to own high capacity magazines for their rifles or pistols. There is a need for more evaluation and treatment of people suspected of mental problems. I am sure Figmo and Ladydoc would agree with those two statements.

Will Congress do anything? Probably not - the NRA has too many Congressmen scared of not winning re-election if they vote in a reasonable (non-NRA approved) way.

That was then. This is now. What has changed, you ask? It's the ages of the victims in this case that makes it so horrific. After listening to the coroner explain how these little angels died, I am sick to my stomach.

What else has changed, you ask? The frequency that these events are happening -- one happened Tuesday, one happened Friday.

IMO, no law maker wants to have the blood of children on their hands.

Bucco 12-15-2012 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by janmcn (Post 595136)
That was then. This is now. What has changed, you ask? It's the ages of the victims in this case that makes it so horrific. After listening to the coroner explain how these little angels died, I am sick to my stomach.

What else has changed, you ask? The frequency that these events are happening -- one happened Tuesday, one happened Friday.

IMO, no law maker wants to have the blood of children on their hands.

While I probably would support laws restricting the type of guns allowed for purchase...I simply know so little about guns, etc that is how I think I feel.

Same day this happened someone in China went after school children with a knife.

I submit the problem is NOT with guns.....people today live in a false world...a world of virtual reality. Generally speaking we live in a world where people think that what they think is what every one should think. We have no...none...feelings for others, only ourselves. We cloak that and manifest caring publicly but we do not...and again, I am speaking in a general sense. We are in this country so self involved that we feel we deserve what we want and when we want it and there is no reason we should not do what we want.

NOT ONE PERSON who knew this dark hearted person had problems came forward to have him taken off the street, and we will find many signs he exhibited but still he was protected. And the children died. Make a political issue of this and ignore the real problems and more will die.

Whether it is the debt of the country or any particular issue as with guns, not dealing with it because it is unpopular never ever works. Those you expect to take guns off the street put people ON the street that should not be there so why would anyone expect any different results here.

Bottom line...I hear folks on tv ranting and ravin about gun laws but never ever mentioning the real bottom line !

janmcn 12-15-2012 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Bucco (Post 595152)
While I probably would support laws restricting the type of guns allowed for purchase...I simply know so little about guns, etc that is how I think I feel.

Same day this happened someone in China went after school children with a knife.

I submit the problem is NOT with guns.....people today live in a false world...a world of virtual reality. Generally speaking we live in a world where people think that what they think is what every one should think. We have no...none...feelings for others, only ourselves. We cloak that and manifest caring publicly but we do not...and again, I am speaking in a general sense. We are in this country so self involved that we feel we deserve what we want and when we want it and there is no reason we should not do what we want.

NOT ONE PERSON who knew this dark hearted person had problems came forward to have him taken off the street, and we will find many signs he exhibited but still he was protected. And the children died. Make a political issue of this and ignore the real problems and more will die.

Whether it is the debt of the country or any particular issue as with guns, not dealing with it because it is unpopular never ever works. Those you expect to take guns off the street put people ON the street that should not be there so why would anyone expect any different results here.

Bottom line...I hear folks on tv ranting and ravin about gun laws but never ever mentioning the real bottom line !

I totally agree that someone should have come forward about this young man's mental problems. According to TV reports, his mother told friends that she was very concerned about his mental health, but as far as I've heard, she never sought professional help.

Money was not as issue with these people as they seem to be very well-to-do. The investigation is only in the preliminary stages, so much more will be divulged.

In the incident in China that people keep referring to, no child was killed. The coroner today gave the most horrific account of the way the children in CT were killed. One child was shot 11 times at close range. There will be 28 funerals there before Christmas.

eweissenbach 12-15-2012 08:07 PM

There are many issues that contributed to this atrocity. The primary one is The perpetrater of the act, who was obviously troubled and demented. What, one might ask, keeps equally troubled people in other cultures from perpetrating similar acts? Well, part of it is likely the culture itself - where violence is not nearly as celebrated or available in the media. Another factor may be that guns are not as available or tolerated in other cultures. There are many things that need to be examined as we try to grasp this issue and deal with it. But it seems to me that a PART of the issue is gun safety. Gun CONTROL is a hot button issue with many that continue to cite the 2nd amendment and echo the talking points of the NRA. It is really a gun safety issue - most people don't believe that your guns should be taken away, but that safety of all requires some common sense regulation that minimize the firearm part of the equation that comes together to create these horrific incidents. Quit trying to imply that people who favor no additional regulation on firearms are portrayed as uncaring; I don't think anyone says or even infers that. Everyone is sickened by acts such as this, but we should all be willing to have a dialogue over how they can be prevented and that discussion should logically include, but not exclusively, gun safety regulation.

buggyone 12-15-2012 08:18 PM

Amazing that one a thread about 20 schoolkids being murdered by a psycho with high capacity magazine pistols that there are people defending high capacity magazines by saying "since criminals have them, law-abiding citizens need them to protect themselves from the criminals."

Another person said he "was not taken in by crocodile tears of Pres. Obama who was acting that way just to have gun control take place." Ridiculous as well as the cheapest political shot I have ever seen.

Others were saying the 2nd Amendment guarantees citizens to have the highest firepower they can find. WRONG! It does not say anything of the sort.

Just keep reminding yourselves when making these ridiculous statements - 20 funerals for children just at Christmas time. How can you look at yourself in the mirror? Shame.

Figmo Bohica 12-15-2012 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by gerryann (Post 595078)
Since Wisconsin recently approved the concealed gun law, I know of a whole lot of idiots out there with guns.....sitting in bars, getting drunk, with a gun in their pocket.

Just as many that are sitting around here in the Village Country Clubs. See it all the time. Next time I see one might just call the cops and teach them a lesson. Call it a wake up call to the rest of the idiots.

shcisamax 12-15-2012 08:19 PM

over 100 shots in less than two minutes. One child had 11 bullet holes. Who needs these sort of weapons to protect themselves or go hunt?

billethkid 12-15-2012 08:38 PM

[QUOTE=gerryann;595078]If this boy did not have access to a gun(guns), these children would be alive. Don't compare a gun to a knife....ridiculous.

I do not think the issue is comparing a gun to a knife. The issue is one does not need a gun to commit mass murfder.

You are entitled to your opinion whether the children would be alive if the perp did not have access to guns. You are making one very big assumption....that his desire or need or want to kill those young children was to do it with a gun.
There is absolutely no assurance he would not have carried out his task with or without a gun....just like the person did in China.

The Afghanistan rebels seem to be able to dispatch one hell of a lot of death and destruction to our troops without the use of guns.

Where there is a will there is a way.......for the nut jobs....they will not be deterred because they do not have a gun.

btk

lovesports 12-15-2012 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Bucco (Post 595152)
While I probably would support laws restricting the type of guns allowed for purchase...I simply know so little about guns, etc that is how I think I feel.

Same day this happened someone in China went after school children with a knife.

Zero children were killed in that knife attack in China. Zero children with the knife attack were killed.

Bucco 12-15-2012 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by lovesports (Post 595199)
Zero children were killed in that knife attack in China. Zero children with the knife attack were killed.


Thank you....I knew that. This thread began as an offering for prayers and condolances for the town and those lost, and quickly became an attack on GUNS as if they cause violence...they do not CAUSE violence was my only point !
This is not a defense of the NRA..I own no guns...never did...have no "dog in the fight"....I just KNOW that the sheer existence of any gun will not cause violence and feel we are just glossing once again over the real problems !

eweissenbach 12-15-2012 08:55 PM

[quote=billethkid;595193]
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Originally Posted by gerryann (Post 595078)
If this boy did not have access to a gun(guns), these children would be alive. Don't compare a gun to a knife....ridiculous.

I do not think the issue is comparing a gun to a knife. The issue is one does not need a gun to commit mass murfder.

You are entitled to your opinion whether the children would be alive if the perp did not have access to guns. You are making one very big assumption....that his desire or need or want to kill those young children was to do it with a gun.
There is absolutely no assurance he would not have carried out his task with or without a gun....just like the person did in China.

The Afghanistan rebels seem to be able to dispatch one hell of a lot of death and destruction to our troops without the use of guns.

Where there is a will there is a way.......for the nut jobs....they will not be deterred because they do not have a gun.

btk

Well, one could concievably commit mass murder by any number of means, including, but not exclusive to, knives, ropes, hammers, baseball bats, paperclips - you name it; any of them could be used under the right circumstances. However, bombs and guns are the most common and least problematic means of mass murder, and both should be difficult for disturbed people to acquire. Do you really think that this apparently skinny nutjob could have killed 27 people without a gun or a bomb? He may have had the will, but not likely, the way. A gun is a symbol of power to many people and if they are mentally unbalanced, it apparently is too often easy to take their frustrations and demons out on others using one. We can't protect everyone and make every situation perfectly safe, but we can be open to addressing the problems that bring about situations like this, and put all the options on the table.

ugotme 12-15-2012 09:02 PM

I can not imagine a more horrible event.

Yes, I am a gun owner. Politics aside, something needs to be done - but what?

As oldcoachED has stated (in another post) safety and mental competence are (obviously) important aspects when issuing a permit to a person
As a former instructor, safety ALWAYS came first. Don't mean to put Figmo on the spot but I do believe he will agree with me.

However, does anyone REALLY think that criminals - repeat - CRIMINALS are going to obey more gun laws?

Do you really think that ALL guns could be collected and
destroyed - IMPOSSIBLE!

BTW - Almost every handgun you buy is NOT an automatic weapon - this is a misnomer. They are semi-automatic - you have to pull the trigger each time to shoot.

I confess that I do not have the answer.

buggyone 12-15-2012 09:14 PM

[QUOTE=Figmo Bohica;595186]Just as many that are sitting around here in the Village Country Clubs. See it all the time. Next time I see one might just call the cops and teach them a lesson. Call it a wake up call to the rest of the idiots. Florida CWL Instructor
NRA Certified Law Enforcement Handgun/Shotgun Instructor
NRA Certified Civilian Handgun/Shotgun Instructor
NRA Chief Range Safety Officer
NRA Certified Home Protection Instructor
Retired Army Military Police Investigator - 20 years, 4 months, 13 days
Retired Deputy Sheriff/Corrections Officer
IDPA Safety Officer Instructor.

With all of your credentials, I would think it would be your duty (either moral or legal) to call the cops when you see someone breaking the law like that. Isn't it illegal to be carrying a concealed weapon just sitting in the bar area of a restaurant (do not have to be drinking) in Florida?

lovesports 12-15-2012 09:18 PM

One more thing that would help would be if the news media would put more attention on the victims and heroes and less on the killers.
Most can name the location and the killers name but nobody else.
These losers know this and it is one way for them to become famous. One news channel has the killer's picture, name, and background on every 5 minutes.

Justjac 12-15-2012 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by ugotme (Post 595209)
I can not imagine a more horrible event.

Yes, I am a gun owner. Politics aside, something needs to be done - but what?

As oldcoachED has stated (in another post) safety and mental competence are (obviously) important aspects when issuing a permit to a person
As a former instructor, safety ALWAYS came first. Don't mean to put Figmo on the spot but I do believe he will agree with me.

However, does anyone REALLY think that criminals - repeat - CRIMINALS are going to obey more gun laws?

Do you really think that ALL guns could be collected and
destroyed - IMPOSSIBLE!

BTW - Almost every handgun you buy is NOT an automatic weapon - this is a misnomer. They are semi-automatic - you have to pull the trigger each time to shoot.

I confess that I do not have the answer.

ugomet, I agree....safety and mental competence are important aspects when issuing gun permits. In California, if you have a gun, you are required to have a safe to lock up the weapon. Otherwise, you will be held responsible for any crime committed when your gun goes missing.

The sad part to all this is some solutions are so simple...start by raising the age that a person can obtain a gun permit; check the mental competence of applicants (not an easy process but we have to start somewhere); develop stricter penalties for the gun owners who do not safely store their weapons (remember that the Columbine shooter used his father's gun)...

Baby steps, I know...but if we as a nation started taking the above steps years ago, yesterday's babies may not have died.


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