Talk of The Villages Florida - Rentals, Entertainment & More
Talk of The Villages Florida - Rentals, Entertainment & More
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It all depends what they gave your children. It’s terrible but everyone keeps track. If you don’t have children, I would give $125.00 per person attending so that’s $250. That covers the dinner. $4,000 is a crazy amount to spend so just cover your dinners and that will be fine. People don’t “make money” on their weddings anymore because everything is so expensive.
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#62
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We give $500 to everyone. It’s what my wife wants to do so I don’t question the amount at all.
If it was costing 4K to get to the wedding then the $500 would be adjusted downward. That traveling cost would make me adjust the usual $500 gift without a doubt even if it ruffled some feathers. OP, excellent question and my advice to you is give what you feel is proper. Covering the cost of the meal would be more then generous considering the $4000 traveling cost. Have a good time. |
#63
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If it’s costing that much to attend I wouldn’t attend.
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#64
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One day's pay
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#65
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We give $100 to $200 which should offset the cost of the dinner.
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#66
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Wedding Gift
I gave my niece $500 when she married 13 years ago but the wedding was within driving distance so there were no other expenses.
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#67
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An interesting thread. We just got an invite to a wedding. I suppose they had to invite us.
Did they expect we would go? I doubt it. The groom is my mother's sister''s daughters son. My aunt treated my mother very badly. Her son and daughter, mother of the groom treated me badly. They sent us a gorgeous invite. I sent them a check for $100. Issue avoided. |
#68
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Four thousand in traveling cost? Assuming it is a couple, where could the wedding be? |
#69
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My niece remarried in 2019 and as I am still waiting for a thank you note for the generous gift she received for her first wedding, she is still awaiting a gift for the second one.
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Really?
In a world where you can be anything, be kind.
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#71
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Love it.
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#72
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Guess it depends on how well off you are and how well off the couple will be.
Maybe decline the invitation - if the travel does not include other activities - and send $1000. |
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#74
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Read the thread. He already explained that it was flights to NY, hotels, etc...
He also explained that it was $3000, and that the other number was a typo...
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The minimum of the plate was my mother's thinking many years ago. I agree somewhat. The bottom line is how close you are to the couple and what one can comfortably afford. The gift should come from the heart. Not sure how many families would really consider the amount of one's gift as too important.
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