[chelsea24]

Much like the weight loss support group, this could be sort of like a daily journal. I actually started this in Illinois and carried it over on the phone here. A couple of friends and I check in every night and say what one good thing we did for ourselves today. It keeps up our spirits and actually helps us to be mindful of the fact that we should absolutely love ourselves first, because then we are open to love others in a much more meaningful way. OK, Today I spent an entire day with two really good and true friends. I allowed myself the luxury of giving all my time for this day to them. And it was wonderful.

*** As a starting point you must believe you deserve the best, only then will you receive it.

[nONIE]

hey, thats strange, I did the same thing today for myself. Coincidence,I dont think so!
Also ate a half a pound of fudge....cause I love me!!! LOL

[samhass]

I had lunch and spent the afternoon playing games (couples mah jong)with good friends. Then we went as a group to dinner. All in all it was a delightful day filled with laughter and camaraderie. By the time I got home, American Idol had been TIVO'd and I could watch commercial free. I thought David Cook rocked.

[pm10]

Thanks, Chelsea, for reminding us to do something for ourselves, every day. After I read your post, I was trying to think of what I had done for ME today............. And when it took me too long to think of anything - I decided that I'm going to work on taking time for me every day! For those of us who are still working - and have grandkids close by - "something for me" often gets lost in the shuffle. I did finally think of something though. It's been so cold/icky here lately (MN) - but it was warm and sunny yesterday. I walked out onto the patio, looked up at the sun, went in and got a chair, and decided to forget about work for a while - and sat there enjoying the warm sunshine.......... It was wonderful!
And, today, I made cookies - mostly for me! (Does it count if you feel guilty when you're done???????????
Marcia

[chelsea24]

Hi Marcia, we have to put guilt aside to do something good for ourselves. Guilt is a manmade emotion anyway. Good for you! It sounds like you've done a couple of great things for yourself today. Today, I've been running around picking out new flooring, so I'm going to take a well deserved nap. I love late afternoon naps and never seem to find time anymore. Hope others are doing good things for themselves and will continue to post.
;D I put this in the Feminine Forum because I think as women are so used to being caretakers, we forget to take care of ourselves.

[travelstiles]

Today I did several things for myself, therefore also for those I love. I took care of my health by going to the gym at Colony Cottage (a great facility), worked out while watching CNN, then went home and did some much dreaded but necessary paperwork. I hate paperwork!
But getting it done was good for me, and my reward was a nice afternoon nap, and having time to spend with some of my new friends from TOTV tonight at Whiskey Creek. Looking forward to that!
Thanks again, Chelsea, for starting this topic ~ let's keep it going!


Be satisfied with needs instead of wants

[Just Susan]

I love this new thread. Thanks Chelsea for starting it.
Today, I left work early, something I rarely do. I called a new friend long distance and got my TV fix. Now I am energized to work on things to get this house on the market. All of this has made me feel good and of course a quick visit here is making me feel even better. ;D

[chelsea24]

Today I took a quiet moment and read one of my favorite poems of Robert Frost.

C'mon sistahs, either you're not doing anything good for yourselves or you're not posting?

I hope it's not the first. You deserve something good. What is it?

[Just Susan]

I negotiated fewer hours at work for the same pay....I will be working 3 days and getting paid for 5. That feels good and just in time for summer.

[chelsea24]

Wow Susan, that's great! That's really a well deserved pat on the back. Will you be back this summer? Anyway, good for you!

[samhass]

Chels, Just waking up every morning in TV is a great start to doing something good for one's self!!
Anything more is icing on the cake!!

Originally Posted by chelsea24

Today I took a quiet moment and read one of my favorite poems of Robert Frost.

C'mon sistahs, either you're not doing anything good for yourselves or you're not posting?

I hope it's not the first. You deserve something good. What is it?

[renielarson]

Susan

Think I can convince the State of Michigan to hold school only 3 days a week? I need you to fill me in on your negotiating tactics!

[samhass]

Good Luck. I served my time on the school board and I don't think it will work that way!!
I would recommend to them that they should give you a golden parachute and full retirement early so you can get back to TV. Three days a week is just to much to be working!

[Just Susan]

Actually I figured it out it adds up to 18 hours...2- 3 hour days and 2- 6 hour days. I only live 12 minutes away from work so really no commute time and they give me free lunch and free parking. I done did good!! :hot: :hot: :hot:

[renielarson]

I agree Sam...want to come negotiate my early retirement for me?