Tipping in restaurants Tipping in restaurants - Page 27 - Talk of The Villages Florida

Tipping in restaurants

Reply
Thread Tools
  #391  
Old 07-28-2025, 08:10 PM
Bill14564 Bill14564 is offline
Sage
Join Date: Nov 2020
Location: Village of Hillsborough
Posts: 7,435
Thanks: 2,302
Thanked 7,778 Times in 3,059 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Bill14564 View Post
“Except for the servers…”. Okay then, out of whose pocket does the remainder of the money come from for paying the servers?
Quote:
Originally Posted by fdpaq0580 View Post
You probably skipped over it. The employer! Employer pays employee. It's what businesses do.
Quote:
Originally Posted by fdpaq0580 View Post
Really? Labor (or Labour, depending on where you live) is one of ongoing expenses that businesses have to figure in when deciding on how to price their product or service. Gross profit, if they figure properly, will cover all expenses and leave a reasonable net profit. In other words, the business is able to pay all its bills and the ownership makes money. All happy!
So where does the employer get the money that becomes gross profit and covers expenses if not from the customers? If it does come from the customers then we’re back to the customers paying 100% of the employees’ wages.
__________________
Why do people insist on making claims without looking them up first, do they really think no one will check? Proof by emphatic assertion rarely works.
Confirmation bias is real; I can find any number of articles that say so.


Victor, NY - Randallstown, MD - Yakima, WA - Stevensville, MD - Village of Hillsborough

Last edited by Bill14564; 07-28-2025 at 08:28 PM.
  #392  
Old 07-28-2025, 08:17 PM
fdpaq0580 fdpaq0580 is offline
Sage
Join Date: Sep 2012
Posts: 6,353
Thanks: 359
Thanked 5,266 Times in 2,282 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Velvet View Post
Actually, I happen to know that with my friends it is simply empathy, now very well off, there was a time when they served as waitresses etc during college and they still remember how they had to put together their pennies.
That was then, this is now. Their empathy is, imho, is misplaced.
I spent a lot of time with my maternal grandmother. Her husband died when my mother was a baby. She supported my mom as a waitress in a small diner. Later, I used to take her out for lunch or dinner on a regular basis in the mid 1970's. Even then, she scolded me for the "fortune" I left in tips. She reminded me often that I couldn't save the world or make someone else's choices all better by throwing my hard earned money at them. She was always thankful for any gratuity, but she never expected anything. When she was working, good manners was expected and rewarded with ... good manners in return. Not cash in excess of one's hourly pay.
  #393  
Old 07-28-2025, 08:32 PM
fdpaq0580 fdpaq0580 is offline
Sage
Join Date: Sep 2012
Posts: 6,353
Thanks: 359
Thanked 5,266 Times in 2,282 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Bill14564 View Post
So where does the employer get the money that becomes gross profit and covers expenses if not from the customers? Because if it does come from the customers then we’re back to the customers paying 109% of the employees’ wages.
Dear Bill,
It's near my bed time. And it's been fun playing "Who's on first" with you. Let's put Abbott and Costello to bed for the night and we can play again tomorrow. I am convinced you are not as thick as you pretend, and you understand the basics of business.
Nighty night. Sleep tight and don't let the bedbugs bite.
Sweet dreams, fdpaq. 😴😴
  #394  
Old 07-28-2025, 09:04 PM
Bill14564 Bill14564 is offline
Sage
Join Date: Nov 2020
Location: Village of Hillsborough
Posts: 7,435
Thanks: 2,302
Thanked 7,778 Times in 3,059 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by fdpaq0580 View Post
Dear Bill,
It's near my bed time. And it's been fun playing "Who's on first" with you. Let's put Abbott and Costello to bed for the night and we can play again tomorrow. I am convinced you are not as thick as you pretend, and you understand the basics of business.
Nighty night. Sleep tight and don't let the bedbugs bite.
Sweet dreams, fdpaq.
(Typed this three times but the page seems to be having problems)

Shortened version: I’m truly sorry you can’t understand simple, basic cash flow. No matter how you wish to frame it, the customer pays 100% of the employees’ wages.

Don’t like tips? Demand a 20% price increase to cover actual employee costs.

Personally, I like to have some say over the compensation of those who serve me - treat me well and get a good tip, treat me poorly and get what you get.
__________________
Why do people insist on making claims without looking them up first, do they really think no one will check? Proof by emphatic assertion rarely works.
Confirmation bias is real; I can find any number of articles that say so.


Victor, NY - Randallstown, MD - Yakima, WA - Stevensville, MD - Village of Hillsborough

Last edited by Bill14564; 07-28-2025 at 09:28 PM.
  #395  
Old 07-28-2025, 09:47 PM
Aces4 Aces4 is offline
Soaring Eagle member
Join Date: Dec 2015
Posts: 2,432
Thanks: 1,143
Thanked 2,480 Times in 1,061 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Bill14564 View Post
(Typed this three times but the page seems to be having problems)

Shortened version: I’m truly sorry you can’t understand simple, basic cash flow. No matter how you wish to frame it, the customer pays 100% of the employees’ wages.

Don’t like tips? Demand a 20% price increase to cover actual employee costs.

Personally, I like to have some say over the compensation of those who serve me - treat me well and get a good tip, treat me poorly and get what you get.
Well, then there's one of you...
  #396  
Old 07-29-2025, 09:20 AM
fdpaq0580 fdpaq0580 is offline
Sage
Join Date: Sep 2012
Posts: 6,353
Thanks: 359
Thanked 5,266 Times in 2,282 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Bill14564 View Post
(Typed this three times but the page seems to be having problems)

Shortened version: I’m truly sorry you can’t understand simple, basic cash flow. No matter how you wish to frame it, the customer pays 100% of the employees’ wages.

Don’t like tips? Demand a 20% price increase to cover actual employee costs.

Personally, I like to have some say over the compensation of those who serve me - treat me well and get a good tip, treat me poorly and get what you get.
Good day to you.
I get what you are saying. In any business, when the customer pays for a product or service, the customer pays 100% of the cost to provide the product or service, plus provide a profit for the company.
My position is that tipping 15 or 20 percent only give you an unreal sense of control. It's unnecessary and/or fake, and can even foster resentment on the part of the employee forced to faun over customers to get what the employer holds back as inducement to be civil to the customers. If the customer tips, the employer adds that "withheld amount to their profit. Keeps the corporate thumbscrew in place.
Don't have to demand a 20% increase to cover the actual cost of labor because it is already built into the business model. Any difference you think you receive in service is only imagined. Any employee that abused a customer would be removed, tipped or not.
Just my opinion.
  #397  
Old 08-10-2025, 07:21 AM
Jjt274 Jjt274 is offline
Junior Member
Join Date: Oct 2017
Posts: 3
Thanks: 1
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Default We’re still tipping

$13 an hour, if the wait staff are indeed making that much, is so little. Amounts to about $25,000 a year.

When we are in the Villages, and when the service is good, we tip generously.

Quote:
Originally Posted by stratmax View Post
Have you noticed the food prices in restaurants have gone up dramatically. I'm not sure everybody knows this but last fall, 2024. Florida enacted a law mandating restaurants pay a base wage of $9.98 to their wait staff and a guarantee of $13/hour when combined with the tips.The law gave restaurants time to change their menu prices so they could pay the base wage.
So, why are we continuing to pay 20% tip when there is already a built in tip in the menu prices?
NOTE: the base wage is also going to go up to $10.98 this fall
  #398  
Old 08-10-2025, 08:26 AM
fdpaq0580 fdpaq0580 is offline
Sage
Join Date: Sep 2012
Posts: 6,353
Thanks: 359
Thanked 5,266 Times in 2,282 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Jjt274 View Post
$13 an hour, if the wait staff are indeed making that much, is so little. Amounts to about $25,000 a year.

When we are in the Villages, and when the service is good, we tip generously.
What about when you are not in TV? Just curious.
  #399  
Old 08-10-2025, 09:27 AM
OrangeBlossomBaby OrangeBlossomBaby is offline
Sage
Join Date: Feb 2015
Posts: 10,441
Thanks: 8,374
Thanked 11,594 Times in 3,912 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Jjt274 View Post
$13 an hour, if the wait staff are indeed making that much, is so little. Amounts to about $25,000 a year.

When we are in the Villages, and when the service is good, we tip generously.
It doesn't amount to about $25,000/year. Wait staff jobs are typically PART TIME JOBS, with no benefits other than discounts on their meal (or free meal allowance during work shift), and some of them allow short breaks during their shift. No life insurance, no health insurance, not even if they pay their own premiums. They get maybe $13,000/year, assuming they work an average 20 hours every week for 50 weeks out of the year. That's IF they get the state non-tipped minimum wage.

If they get the tipped minimum wage, their minimum wage is $9.98/hour. So their employer would have to pay them at least $9,980/YEAR - and as long as those servers get tips equaling more than $3.02/hour, that's all their employer has to pay them. If their tips are under $3.02/hour, then the employer has to make up the difference, up to the total of $13/hour.
  #400  
Old 08-10-2025, 10:14 AM
retiredguy123 retiredguy123 is offline
Sage
Join Date: Feb 2016
Posts: 17,581
Thanks: 3,082
Thanked 16,737 Times in 6,625 Posts
Default

Most people don't care how much money others are making. The problem with tipping is that it is intimidating, which most people don't like. They also don't like being asked to donate to a charity at the grocery store.
  #401  
Old 08-10-2025, 10:47 AM
Velvet's Avatar
Velvet Velvet is offline
Sage
Join Date: Mar 2019
Posts: 5,919
Thanks: 1,321
Thanked 4,511 Times in 1,997 Posts
Default

That is right. I chose the charity I want to donate to, and my wealthy friends have family foundations for charities. At most what grocery and other stores could do is bring your attention to charities in need. Then one decides if and how much to support them.
  #402  
Old 08-10-2025, 12:41 PM
fdpaq0580 fdpaq0580 is offline
Sage
Join Date: Sep 2012
Posts: 6,353
Thanks: 359
Thanked 5,266 Times in 2,282 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by retiredguy123 View Post
Most people don't care how much money others are making. The problem with tipping is that it is intimidating, which most people don't like. They also don't like being asked to donate to a charity at the grocery store.
True!
  #403  
Old 08-10-2025, 02:21 PM
Marathon Man Marathon Man is offline
Sage
Join Date: Feb 2015
Posts: 2,847
Thanks: 4
Thanked 3,115 Times in 1,117 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by retiredguy123 View Post
Most people don't care how much money others are making. The problem with tipping is that it is intimidating, which most people don't like. They also don't like being asked to donate to a charity at the grocery store.
Most people that I know don't mind tipping and don't find it intimidating.
  #404  
Old 08-10-2025, 02:33 PM
Aces4 Aces4 is offline
Soaring Eagle member
Join Date: Dec 2015
Posts: 2,432
Thanks: 1,143
Thanked 2,480 Times in 1,061 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by OrangeBlossomBaby View Post
It doesn't amount to about $25,000/year. Wait staff jobs are typically PART TIME JOBS, with no benefits other than discounts on their meal (or free meal allowance during work shift), and some of them allow short breaks during their shift. No life insurance, no health insurance, not even if they pay their own premiums. They get maybe $13,000/year, assuming they work an average 20 hours every week for 50 weeks out of the year. That's IF they get the state non-tipped minimum wage.

If they get the tipped minimum wage, their minimum wage is $9.98/hour. So their employer would have to pay them at least $9,980/YEAR - and as long as those servers get tips equaling more than $3.02/hour, that's all their employer has to pay them. If their tips are under $3.02/hour, then the employer has to make up the difference, up to the total of $13/hour.
If they are working a low end job, it should be a filler for spending in high school. Anyone working in the range above a fast food level, should be doing quite well for themselves for a part time job if they are any kind of server at all. Some make $700. in tips working Mother's Day brunch. This would be top-notch servers who celebrate Mother's Day for themselves one day early or one day later. Why not for that type of reward? The Villages may be a different animal but along with the cheap tippers there are those who are very generous when tipping. I'd like the whole thing wrapped up in the price and firm. Servers are no different than nurses, Drs., customer service at your local store who are paid an appropriate wage. We don't worry about the level of service from them, why should food servers be any different?
  #405  
Old 08-10-2025, 02:53 PM
retiredguy123 retiredguy123 is offline
Sage
Join Date: Feb 2016
Posts: 17,581
Thanks: 3,082
Thanked 16,737 Times in 6,625 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Marathon Man View Post
Most people that I know don't mind tipping and don't find it intimidating.
I don't think the 400 plus posters on this thread or the Pew Research Center findings would agree.

How Americans feel about tipping for service | Pew Research Center
Reply

Tags
restaurants, prices, wage, base, pay


You are viewing a new design of the TOTV site. Click here to revert to the old version.

All times are GMT -5. The time now is 12:11 AM.