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Old 12-16-2020, 10:22 AM
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First time, give a stare down and shoulder shrug. Second time, hit the ball somewhere out of harms way. Third time, hit the ball back at them.
Another idea - pick the ball up and put it in your pocket.
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Old 12-16-2020, 10:24 AM
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Call the starter shack. Some people forget there are people waiting to tee off and they linger next to the green when they are finished. I live on an executive course, and the other day 4 guys sat and BSed next to the green for 5 min instead of waiting near the next tee, thus holding up the 4 some behind them. No ambassador in sight. Rude.
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Old 12-16-2020, 10:37 AM
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Setting a good example and gently talking about golf etiquette goes a long way.
Here us what We do
RAKE YOUR SAND FOOT PRINTS
CARRY AND USE DIVIT REPAIR TOOL ON THE GREENS
MAKE SURE YOUR FELLOW PLAYERS WATCH YOU REPAIR THEIR DIVITS AS WELL AS OTHERS YOU HAPPEN ON
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WALK THE PERIMETER, not across the green.
Then call the Bogart and Bacall ambassadors over and give them a lesson on politeness they sure as heck mussed that one.

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While playing at Sand Hill today we had group behind us hit a ball up near the green prior to us exiting the green. They did this on 3 separate holes. We went to starter shack to report this as twice the balls were within 2 and 3 feet of hitting us personally. The starter told us for any issues like that to call the starter shack using the phone number listed on bottom of score card. The starter can then radio the ambassador who can then handle the situation.
Our group was not slow in fact we were waiting for grp in front.
We were not aware starter shack address and phone number is on the bottom of all score cards.
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Old 12-16-2020, 10:46 AM
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That's why I would do. The second time pick the ball up or balls up and put them in your pocket. They will then ask you why you did that.
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Old 12-16-2020, 10:53 AM
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This is different than championship layouts where, if a ball comes in close, I place it on a tee to ensure they understand. That way no confrontation occurs. An apology usually happens. Unfortunately the Executive courses are largely par 3s frequently with players who are not long time golfers. 1, they may have no knowledge of the game and 2, are more likely to hit shots that have a large dispersion. Using my non golfer wife as an example, her hybrid can travel anywhere from 2 yards 😂 to 100.
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Old 12-16-2020, 10:59 AM
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First time, give a stare down and shoulder shrug. Second time, hit the ball somewhere out of harms way. Third time, hit the ball back at them.
I have used method #2 before. it got the point across. Of course, you better be prepared to defend yourself if required.
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Old 12-16-2020, 11:03 AM
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While playing at Sand Hill today we had group behind us hit a ball up near the green prior to us exiting the green. They did this on 3 separate holes. We went to starter shack to report this as twice the balls were within 2 and 3 feet of hitting us personally. The starter told us for any issues like that to call the starter shack using the phone number listed on bottom of score card. The starter can then radio the ambassador who can then handle the situation.
Our group was not slow in fact we were waiting for grp in front.
We were not aware starter shack address and phone number is on the bottom of all score cards.
Pick up the ball(s) place them in your pocket and drive off. They'll get the message and you don't have to bother either the starter or the ambassor who will do NOTHING for you as they're afraid of getting let go. You're
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Old 12-16-2020, 11:05 AM
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Hi Bob and Cheri. This kept happening to us during ladies’ golf one time. One of our gals quietly picked up the ball and pocketed it. We all giggled when the jerk spent quite a bit of time looking around and yelling that he knew his ball had hit close to the green. No more balls were hit into our group.
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Old 12-16-2020, 11:23 AM
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Well, if you ever get hit on the green or in front of the green you can sue them. Those of you who are hitting up have to understand this too. I sued a guy that hit me and settled for $35,000 only because he died the week before the trial, otherwise it would have been more. Just a word the wise on both sides.
Your post is more alarming than the original poster. Unless someone was maliciously trying to hit you this seems way over the top.
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Old 12-16-2020, 11:25 AM
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We had people hit the ball close to us when playing in Iowa. My friend just picked up the ball and walked away.
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Old 12-16-2020, 11:50 AM
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While playing at Sand Hill today we had group behind us hit a ball up near the green prior to us exiting the green. They did this on 3 separate holes. We went to starter shack to report this as twice the balls were within 2 and 3 feet of hitting us personally. The starter told us for any issues like that to call the starter shack using the phone number listed on bottom of score card. The starter can then radio the ambassador who can then handle the situation.
Our group was not slow in fact we were waiting for grp in front.
We were not aware starter shack address and phone number is on the bottom of all score cards.
Rather you were "slow" or not ("slow" is relative, The V's has many people who have never played golf in their lives, and others of us have played since we were youth, but this is a different situation), this is a retirement community with many novices. There is NO valid excuse, "slow" or not, for taking the opportunity to do serious injury to a fellow community member, who may, even live in the next block from you. How will these people feel should they hit someone in just the right spot of the temple to cause their death ? Worth it to "speed things up" ? Sure it's slow to be behind a novice, but this is a very different situation and environment with an all senior community. Way too much of this kind of thing happening anymore.... THINK about it !
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Old 12-16-2020, 12:07 PM
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Personaly, i believethat being manly is what works for me. Confront the group and try to resolve the issue. I disagree with the notion that when people buy a house in TV they also buy a baby sitter.
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Old 12-16-2020, 12:25 PM
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So many folks from other places that must play like that back home. They should really try to adapt to the play of The Villiges
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Old 12-16-2020, 12:42 PM
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Just pick up the ball and put in your pocket and wave back thank you..
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Old 12-16-2020, 12:52 PM
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The 1st time it happened I would pick the ball up and keep it. The 2nd time I would hit the ball back at them.
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